aaah IB------bad breath is a big no-no-no in any sex.

eeven if one is not blessed with good looks, abeg make dem improve personal hygiene now

okaaay ooooo

mo ti gbo

Creamish:

Babe--i see uve joined d 2 top sites, NC and Nairaland---your welcome---have fun!

Thanks Creamish--------I joined Nairaland last week and NC 2 days ago----------------dammn, these things addictive oooo

PS - what is your 'name' on NC

welcome to you newbie.

have fun and do your thang


ekaaaaaaaaaabooooo

Tranquil:

Hah!You guys about girl features and look at yourselves , You men stink like hell,have ugly hair on body,bulging ponch belly and tanned skin and you talk about women stretch marks, which are mostly after bearing your babies and flab , I don't think you should talk about woman because they're and will always be better than you!

You know what the greatest irony of life is? Believe me, i have witnessed this 1st hand---- man who is no poster-boy himself declaring that he MUST marry a beautiful woman. Now this man is short, fat, potbellied, bad skin, bad teeth, bad breath-----you name it, he's got it---yet he wants to marry beautiful woman---are these women blind??!!

To make things worse, he saw a woman on TV (she wasn't that bad looking) and he goes, "Dammn, this bithc is ugly!!". And I am looking at him like, "Look who's talking. You nko? Abeg, no talk o jare e"

star01:

so u think girls re that cheap, DIAMOND KOOOO GOLD NI

Am NOT saying girls are cheap.  At the end of the day-------women like to be given gifts----that is how they know that the man is interested in them.

when a man is really intersted in you and wants to marry you, he'll give you jewellry, not sporty or practical gifts like toaster or books.  It is not how expensive the gift is, it is the type of gift it is.  Practical gifts come from the head and not the heart---any gift that does not come from the heart is not a sign of love at all.  It not alwasy what a person says, but how they act to you. 

For women, if you are dating a guy and he gets no gift on important days like your birthday, Vlaentine's day, anniversary  or any other significant occasion---you might as well call it quits as the chances are you will not get the most important gift of all---an engagement ring!.

Men in love give love objects, regardless of their income.  They'll give flowers (even if they have to pick it themselves), jewellry, poetry, weekend trips away.
Practical gifts like books, toaster and so on are gven by men who like you and care about you, but not enough to want to marry you,

Moreoevr, a man who is crazy about you will give youall kinds of things all the time because it shows he is thinking about you

Trust me, i KNOW because i have been there.  I met a guy who seemed really keen on me.  On our 1st date, he took me to a restaurant-------and ordered only drinks!!   Normally, i would have dithced him there and then because that was a sign he was not inot me, but decided to give him the benfit of the doubt.  Valentine day came around and i got no gift, no card, not even a single birthday wish, even though he soke to me several times that day----that was wehn i knew he was wasting my time and i kicked him to the curb.
Thank god, i have now found a wonderful person who treats me the way i should be treated-------like a princess because he IS really into me.  The other one------only wanted one thing from me!!!

she we dey ryhme in yoruba now

at the end of the day, a play will always be a playa.

It can be a good thing, if you discover your man dey ogle every piece of skirt when he dey with you--------------if him dey capable of that kind behaviour wen he dey with you, he go definitely dey toast girls wen he no dey with you. At least, the fact you dey pick up the behaviour go give you chance to check out of the relationship fast!!

adeboo:

Cause he was married and he 'casually' forgot to mention it.

And he is very secretive - am a very opne person and i don't like dealing with people that are not open with me.

Married??!!! Didn't you pick the signs form him? How long were you together? If you were together for more than 1 month, surely you would have picked up the signs

What about east london? Does anyone know of any cool places in east london/essex where other cool naijas hang out

bol:

You are welcome to Nigeria's no. 1 chatting site where you connect with loved ones and meet Nigerians first hand. With this site you have a feeling that you are at home while in U.K.

Thank you--------bol--------can't believ you are in Essex

I also live in essex (near chogwell)-------never thought thre woudl be an essex nairalander here!

cute-ass:

i'm happy i could cheer you up, think its sad when someone i like is in a bad mood. So now i'm happy too
i think i'll sit now, my ooty is huting from the dance lol

and i know what you mean, i've always been lovey lovey with girls, but some people tend to misundrerstand, soi like excusing mysel before hand

For all the dem misunderstanding peoples, make dem do siddown ojare e.

I don get nickname for you-----------------cutie-tushie

@jaybaby

Welcome JayB to the threadin
But come girl, make with the rhymin

ade.f:

I'm Liking

This threading

The postings, The stressing

Is causing these stirrings

In writing, In replyings

For tega, In teasing

All making

This threading

Much more appealing!!

Ade.f return, don't be leavin

This threadin is now getting borin

Seems u and i keep it stirring

Come show them newbies how to  make the rhymin

Stupid people

Slow drivers

Liars

2old4that:

hmm. . .




Fav channels?

OBE, Living TV (Sky)




1st crush

Kateflow - beauty and brains

Muki - beauty and wit

Cute-ass - beauty, brains and killer dance moves, LOL

Me - all of the above!!!

Kateflow, she is real cool

Muki, she is nuts!! But we love her anyway

Ditch


Julian Macmahon (aka Cole - Charmed)

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PM me at naija_inlondon@yahoo.co.uk

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monshege:

my kind of talk . yeah! we are friends

Yaaaaay-------------

Trust was broken------and even though we tried to make it work, it just couldn't work.

Trust takes a while to build and can be broken down in a few short minutes

Trust, like an egg, once broken can never be regained


Oh----plus, he was a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR!!

Dealing with a break-up is like dealing with bereavement. You will go through all sorts of emotions---------shock, disbelief, anger, pain and finally acceptance.

Don't suppress the emotions as they come----as you will only be storing up problems for later

After the shock and disbelief stage, you will feel angry----allow yourself to get angry byall menas, but try not to vent it at him. When you are tempted------simply get an inanimate object and imagine it is him/her. tell it everything you want to say to him/her; shout, yell scream----go crazy, if you will; punch it, slap it, whatever. Pour out all those emotions into it----and not on to your ex.

When the pain comes, allow yourself to cry----it is healthy and it releases pent-up feelings. When you drained, try to get some sleep

Go out, get busy---even if you don't feel like going out-----try exercise------dance till you're exhausted (evn if it is only in your living room); do some housework; get busy.

Don't rush into dating again just yet-----trust me, you'd only feel empty and will miss him/her.

Come onto a forum like this and read the threads-----have a laugh; watch, read or listen to something that makes you smile.

Repeat above steps as required-------in time, you will find you are over him.


Oh yeah----onemore thing----delete and remove everything that reminds you of him/her from your life; including pictures, letters, emails; remove his name from your address book and phone book. I tend to return all gifts given to me----it's my way of severing links.

If you don't, you will not be able to move on and will foever keep thinking "What if, What if we made a mistake, wahta if we get back together?" trust me, you will find yourself 20 years down the line, alone and without love, because while other people may have wanted to get closer to you, you were still busy thinking "What if?" and hanging on to the ghost of the past relationship

((((()))))))

monshege:

for some reason, you seem to love sitting on the judgement desk and dishing out your judgement on me as well as  picking a quarrel with me. when and how and where did i demonize them?, and for your info, i have had loved ones with the disease, some have passed away and some i believe are kicking fine and probably waiting for tomorrow. i will be sure to ask them if i showed empathy and sympathy towards them or if i was harrassing them, oh! but wait! i can't get that answer because some of them have passed on

I am soooooo sorryy to hear about your loss----------------------trust me, i can relate!

I just happen to feel quite strongly about people who condemn other people for a disability or disadvantage-------obviously, I can see that you are clearly not one of those people.

There is no one way to settle this.

The reality is HIV is a serious affliction and a progressive-------and at the end of the day, if a person foud out their spouse/partner contracted the disease, --------it is their own personal choice whether to stay or to leave.

Anyways---------------------monshege, truce??

monshege:


you know with all the research work, i was expecting you to give a definite answer afterall "it is possible to date and even have sex with a HIV positive person without catching the virus"

at the end of the day, it is a question of choice, isn't it?

All am saying is that we shouldn't demonise people who are suffering from this deadly disease, which is what you seem to be doing.

HIV is a terrible disease---but it is not the end of the world; sufferers are living longer, healthier and more productive lives, whilst keeping the virus under control in their bodies.

It is important we have facts and information before passing judgement-----what will you do if it happened to you---or a loved one.
It can be spread in a lot of ways, not just through sex: there are people that contracted the virus through blood transfuions during an operation or even childbirth (wot would you do if your wife was given tainted blood during the birth of your child and thus contracted it----or even if YOU contracted it from tainted blood, unsterilised medical equipment that may have been used in case you had an accident and had to go into hospital for whatever reason). Other people contract it through tiny needle stick injuries: stepping on a needle on the ground or hospital, used shaving sticks, and of course, the popular mode of transmission via unprotected sex. Your partner may not even know they have it, remember, that when you sleep with someone, you sleep with everyone else they had slept with and everyone those ones slept.

Just pray it never happens to you or a loved one, stop demonising and judging harshly helpless people suffering with it (like they don't have enough to deal with), stop harassing ME for telling the human side of the story, and FOR ONCE, show some empathy and sympathy towards your fellow human beings----------------they are, after all, flesh and blood------just like you!!

My schools was Lagos African Church Grammar School (LAFROGRAMS)

Our anthem was in Yoruba

I be Urhobo pikin, so pardon my Yoruba if it is not accurate


Sise sise sise, huwa huwa huwa rere o - 2x
Omo ifako, e mura sise, omo lafrograms, e huwa rereo
imo pelu olorun lo dun o -4x

Lafrograms, ile eko rere
Lafrograms ile eko atata
Omo to ba fe oun yo she rere -3x

Emi fe o maa se rere
Emi fe o ma d'eniola
Emi fe o ma d'eniola
Emi fe o ma d'eni atata oo
Lafrograms temi, omo to ba fe oun you se rere

Ngo f'okon me fe o
Ngo f'aya mi fun o
Ngo gbuyonju, ani ngo gbuyonju se
Lati gbe'oruko o re ga

Ngo sise mi lakoko
Ngo si se mi tokan tokam
Ngo si se mi tara tara
Nko ni fasiko mi shofo

K'emi b'ale d'eni giga
K'emi ba le d'eni atata
Lafrograms t'emi, ile eko rere

Lagos African Church Grammar School, Ifako Agege (LAFROGRAMS)

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no worries, no stressing

Only jokin, in the postin

Bwoi, you flipping

If you think i ain't taken

A bit of teasin don't mean it's flirting

Don't turn a bit of stirring

Into something that is nothing

You, kiddo, i ain't hatin

You clearly need some growin

cute-ass:

_{*doing a victory dance on my desk shaking my booty like a three(3) year old lol*}


something nice to cheer you up?? darling you look absouletly gorgeous tonight, and you know what? i think i like you _{i'm no lesbo ooh before mouths will start wagging lol}

I like you too, you rock!

I think you wuill find it's only men that would tend to think that way.  What is it with guys sometimes, they cannot understand female friendships, some of them starting getting pervy thought.

Abeg!!

Actually the mental thought of you shaking your thang on the desk has cheered me up, shake on, sis

cute-ass:

well dear, its ok. i thought so too

and yes my day is good, i'm less busy today so its a good one

How about you dearie, are you at work right now??

yeah just got in.

You might as well do your victory dance now - - - - - - - british weather has been dull and grey all day. Even the forum itself seems quieter than usual.

Someone please say something nice to cheer me up