oh, and remember no matter how deep your relationship with him is, hes still going to be a part of the baby momma life , because truthfully he is the father of her child,and there is no way they can block each other out for the rest of thier lifes.

He might no play an active role, so to speak, but there will be some communication and other things involved for the sake of thier child.
But keep your head up and be strong about it,
And make sure you know the kind of guy you are dealing with, dont get played about with like a fool,

From my experience with baby fathers i say find where you stand with your boyfriend and make sure hes telling you the absolute truth concerning the relationship he has with the mother of his child.
My ex, has a baby, and i didnt find out from him, but a friend of mine, and what made things worse was that we were already together for 3 months when i was told.
Thats when the problems started,
the girl didnt gree for me and him to be together, infact none of her people did, i would recieve random phone calls telling me that him and the baby mother have been together for over 3 years and that hs been begging her for another child.
Upon all the baby mother now stated calling me saying the same thing. Telling me all kinds of nonsence the he does or should i say 'doesnt do' for her and the child.
After 2 good years of all this, it came to a stage where when i would ask him to tell the baby mother to stop calling me, it would cause an arguement, which proved to me that he wasnt worth it!!
It was even alot worse than what ive narrated here,

I hope it goes well, for anyone in that position, but like the saying goes you learn from your mistakes and expeience is the best teacher.
From my experience i shall never go down that route again.It works for some and it fails for others, good luck!!!

I am currently in a long distance relationship, i dont mean, in a different city, i mean hes in another continent! I have found over the years that it has it ups and downs, like any other relationship. But mine is mostly on its ups, Maybe thats because of the way i percieve things or the way i feel for him, or maybe im just lucky! I am happy with with my boyfriend and cant wait for the years ahead.

What are your views on long distance loves?
Either the same country but different city, different continent, or even down the road, but still too far for you lazy ones! lol
i'ld like to know your views and ideas,

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