ivorybabe88:
Exactly wat it says here^^^^, thats just me, every one is different

this does not make a person bad.

any man could have these features. this is not the definition of a bad boy.

thank you all for your advice. you can't imagine how grateful I'm. you're very welcomed to give more of it.

OYINBOGOJU: Your sister no get brain et all....
You too poster no get brain for being angry with the boy instead of your sister.

Who else? The boy eeeeeemmmm

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read again and tell me if you can spot your mistake?

Thank you so much for your answers. I am doing what I can but nothing seems to help. And it is driving me nuts slowly.

299: Is she depressed becaused she was duped by the boy? Or is it because she was jilted by him?

Both.

She is depressed because the man she "loves" betrayed her twice. She feels depressed because she lost her self-confidence. She believes she is all wrong because if she was ok he would not have treated her like that.

2mch:

Well you are the closest to her, talk to her and be there for her. If she wants to talk, just listen. Yes, it will have changed her perception on life and relationships. but that is life, we all learn. And let her learn from her mistakes. It is all part of being an adult. Its better learnt now in a broken relationship, than being married or being pregnant for such.

that is true. I pity all women who get pregnant by this kind of men.
few things are worse than people without a conscience.

2mch: Give her time, she will get over it. It is all a part of life. Trust she has learnt her lessons and is wiser. Never give what you cant afford to lose. No need playing wifey until you are really married.

I am worried that he has done a long-lasting harm to her psyche. Things like that happen. Some people hardly recover from harsh experiences. My sister is the sensistive kind.

Thank you all for your advice. Hope to hear more. I have sleepless nights because of her.

I am so desperate because of my sister. I have tried so hard to help her. She is such a good person but she is so crazy overthis boy.
Well, my sister who is two years younger than I am had a relationship with this boy or shall I say beast?

They were together for 2 yrs when she discovered that he was having another girl next to her. The second girl let her know as she wanted to get rid of her. She succeeded. My sister, very much to my happiness, broke up with this boy. She was so devastated. I tried very hard to sooth her pain. Though pretty, well educated and successful, she would question herself constantly as to what she did wrong. She was so depressed. In her relationship with the boy, she would travel to visit him every weekend. She would take her of everything he wanted her to take care of. Clean and cook for him. She didn't even demand anything financial as she had her own. She would even share the bills with him.

However, all that was not enough and the boy cheated. I don't want to say much about the other girl. She was good looking, yes. Bt not more than my sister. and apart from that she lacks proper home schooling, is not educated, loud, lacks proper manners etc. Anyway. The boy kept calling my sister but continued the relationship with the other girl.

Finally, he gave up. Still, my sister's heart was so broken that she could not even see any other boy.

A year passed and the boy started calling again. Her anger passed but her heart was still broken. They were talking on the phone every now and then. And she forgave but refused to meet him. He was trying and trying. Almost six months passed and he finally succeeded to meet her. I told her not to d it but she said that she never stopped loving him. In the meantime he quit the relationship with the other girl.

They met and spent a really good time together. After some time, he got himself in some sort of financial trouble and my sister used her savings to help him out. He promised to return the money a month later. When the month was over, he disappeared. He even changed his number.

Now she is devastated again. I am so angry with her but even more with him. How can a person be so wicked?

And what can I do? My sister is so depressed. She doesn't eat much. She refuses to go out or meet friends. She has no self-esteem anymore. Not at all.

I am so desperate because of my sister. I have tried so hard to help her. She is such a good person but she is so crazy overthis boy.
Well, my sister who is two years younger than I am had a relationship with this boy or shall I say beast?

They were together for 2 yrs when she discovered that he was having another girl next to her. The second girl let her know as she wanted to get rid of her. She succeeded. My sister, very much to my happiness, broke up with this boy. She was so devastated. I tried very hard to sooth her pain. Though pretty, well educated and successful, she would question herself constantly as to what she did wrong. She was so depressed. In her relationship with the boy, she would travel to visit him every weekend. She would take her of everything he wanted her to take care of. Clean and cook for him. She didn't even demand anything financial as she had her own. She would even share the bills with him.

However, all that was not enough and the boy cheated. I don't want to say much about the other girl. She was good looking, yes. Bt not more than my sister. and apart from that she lacks proper home schooling, is not educated, loud, lacks proper manners etc. Anyway. The boy kept calling my sister but continued the relationship with the other girl.

Finally, he gave up. Still, my sister's heart was so broken that she could not even see any other boy.

A year passed and the boy started calling again. Her anger passed but her heart was still broken. They were talking on the phone every now and then. And she forgave but refused to meet him. He was trying and trying. Almost six months passed and he finally succeeded to meet her. I told her not to d it but she said that she never stopped loving him. In the meantime he quit the relationship with the other girl.

They met and spent a really good time together. After some time, he got himself in some sort of financial trouble and my sister used her savings to help him out. He promised to return the money a month later. When the month was over, he disappeared. He even changed his number.

Now she is devastated again. I am so angry with her but even more with him. How can a person be so wicked?

And what can I do? My sister is so depressed. She doesn't eat much. She refuses to go out or meet friends. She has no self-esteem anymore. Not at all.