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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by TOMSY(f): 8:12pm On Jan 08, 2020
Markab:
There is no age limit or discrimination in any province of Canada. As long as you're qualified for the role you're applying for, you stand a chance.
Wow thanks a lot
Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by TOMSY(f): 3:40pm On Jan 08, 2020
Auroralights:

Perhaps you should ask the landed seniors in the other thread but it's unlikely that there will be such because a lot of immigrants regardless of age and experience start all over in Canada.
Okay. Thank you
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by TOMSY(f): 3:36pm On Jan 08, 2020
Hello everyone. Please I have a question.

I know in Nigeria, there is usually an age restriction of 24-26 years, for entry level position.

Is there age discrimination in Canada for a 30 year old who has done her PhD and no work experience?

Thanks in advance.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by TOMSY(f): 2:41pm On Jan 08, 2020
Hello everyone. Please I have a question.

I know in Nigeria, there is usually an age restriction of 24-26 years, for entry level position.

Is there age discrimination in Canada for a 30 year old who has done her PhD and no work experience?

Thanks in advance.
Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 7 by TOMSY(f): 2:36pm On Jan 08, 2020
Good day everyone,

Please how true is it, that if one does a PhD in Germany, he is not likely to get a post graduate work permit or blue card (since he or she has been living there for more than 3 years)?

Thank you

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Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by TOMSY(f): 1:22am On Oct 28, 2019
leechicomsoln:
Any one who needs documents sent to any part of the world through DHL should contact me. Its take 3 - 5 working days your documents we arrive safely
How much to Germany?
Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by TOMSY(f): 3:44pm On Oct 27, 2019
Good day everyone. I recently found out that someone who has worked with lecturers as a research assistant can also use it for express entry.

Please has anyone successfully done something like that? Also, what documents did you use? Can I get a reference letter from the Professor or must it be from the university?

Note that i was not paid a monthly salary. (Is a payslip compulsory?)

Thank you for your help.
Romance / Re: Does She Like Me Already? I'm Perplexed by TOMSY(f): 9:02pm On Oct 17, 2019
Anotii:

U might put her in a situation she doesn't wanna be in...just kiss her straight away in the moment, avoid talks and if it doesn't work out,you are still in the safer side
Economist. ''less cost more benefit'' O.P follow this advice.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by TOMSY(f): 9:18am On May 30, 2019
Good morning guys. Please I completed my NYSC last year November, and I've not been employed since then.

On the Imm1294e form, where i'm supposed to fill my current and previous employment /activities for the past 10 years, should I leave the first part (current employment) blank (type N/A) or add that i'm helping out in my father's small scale agro-business, even though the business isn't registered?

Thanks in advance.
Romance / Re: Someone Did You Hard-to-get In The Past, Wants You So Much Now. Will You Accept? by TOMSY(f): 8:18pm On May 06, 2019
GiantParrot:


Do not take this as an attack. I just find this line of reasoning to be quite strange. Why do you think she refused your advances because she felt the guy was better than you? Don't you think it's possible she refused because she has a classy quality called loyalty? If things didn't work out with the guy in the end, why should she be punished for being loyal? Or do you expect her to be a diviner who can see the future and tell that a stable relationship wouldn't work out? Imagine sometime in future your daughter is in a stable relationship and she begins to get offers from other guys then runs to daddy for mature advice because she is getting confused. What would you tell her?
Brother, your line of reasoning is really good, but you're deviating from the context of this topic, which is why you might be wrong. The key phrase here is 'PLAYING HARD TO GET'. A girl in a stable relationship like you said doesn't have to play hard to get with another guy.( She could just consistently rejecting his advances outrightly. )That would mean she's leading him on. And such a girl shouldn't be taken seriously if she comes back begging. My 2 cents.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by TOMSY(f): 2:04pm On May 04, 2019
yemilasko:
hello house..here i am in canada.����...i will like to share my poe cuz i was abit concernd abt that before leavg nigeria..and cuz my cousin was once denied at d POE..my journey was smooth.the distance frm casablanca to montreal was jst tiring cuz i went with my daughtr...but thank God,i Got to montreal airport lately ,was asked to go to immigratn 1...and our conversatiom goes thus.....

cbsa........hi
me...........hello
cbsa........passport pls
me...........i handed it over
cbsa.........can u gv me 5min to print ur study permit pls
me...........yea..and i dropped my passport and decided to v a seat
Aftr 5min he called me bck and handed it over to me,he asked if my daughtr was on studnt visa too ,i answerd No and he said welcome to canada ,you can go fr ur baggage pls...
i was surprised nothg was asked,no questn..nothg
meanwile i saw other pple with thorough checking ,some were directed to immigration 2,i met some sitting down and left them still sitting ...
I return all the glory to the Almighty God and i want us to alwys put evrythg befr God...my prayer point was alwys (GOD I DNT WANT ANY DELAY AT THE POE ,DEY SHLD JUST HAND OVER MY STUDY PERMIT AND SAY WELCOME TO CANADA) i actually got it d way i wanted...atyms wen im prayg i usually say is it possible but now i knw my God is awesome....i pray fr every1 waitg for response fr visa shall have a positive response IJN.
Amen in Jesus' name. Congrats bro. To God alone be ALL the glory.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by TOMSY(f): 5:49pm On Apr 19, 2019
chibertha:
Yes you can finish in 2 years on purpose
But get the Visa first when you get to that bridge ......
Wow that's a relief. Thanks for the reply.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by TOMSY(f): 2:58pm On Apr 19, 2019
chibertha:
That means the duration of the course is 1 year but you can finish in 2 years except for any reason which subject to approval by the school eg medical and childbirth.
Please for a course like this, is it possible to finish in two years on purpose, so as to get 3 years work permit after the program?, because i heard he's going to be given a 1-year work permit if he studies for 1 year.

Thank you.
Romance / Re: Some Ladies Find It Difficult To Fulfill Their Promise Of 'i'll CALL U BACK '? by TOMSY(f): 10:23pm On Mar 10, 2019
SPOLO:

Probably 18-19
A teenager. Most girls at that age range are not emotionally mature enough for a relationship. Just go for mature ladies and thank me later.
Romance / Re: Some Ladies Find It Difficult To Fulfill Their Promise Of 'i'll CALL U BACK '? by TOMSY(f): 12:12pm On Mar 10, 2019
Some ladies are rude tho. Instead of just saying 'NO'or 'i'm not interested'. OP how old is the girl in question?
Education / Re: University Of Saskatchewan, Canada, Fall 2019 Admission. by TOMSY(f): 3:37pm On Feb 18, 2019
Ayodeji787:
Hello,

I applied for Masters program for the Fall 2019 in the university of Saskatchewan, I graduated with a CGPA of 4.74 of 5.0 in my last two years and overall CGPA of 4.47 of 5.0. I have also gotten a potential supervisor with the department and I also mentioned his name in my application. And my potential supervisor is the graduate chair for the department I applied to.


Please, how certain is my admission for the Fall term and when likely will decision be made also.
what's your discipline?
Romance / Re: Guys, Change Your Mentality Towards Women (true Life Story) by TOMSY(f): 2:33pm On Feb 17, 2019
bukatyne:


The girl doesn't love the man neither does she love herself.

If she lived herself, she would know that the man is not good for her and she deserves better.

If she loved the man, she would encourage him to be the best he can be.

So no love here sis.

She probably saw her mother endure same and wonder why we are shouting. grin
True. She doesn't see it as anything wrong. She doesn't love or respect herself, so she is not even qualified to love the boyfriend. Those ubunja red pill stuff works on such ladies easily.

If GreatResearcher were to approach this same girl with the mentality of 'you're a golden girl...bla bla bla', she would look down on him, take him for granted and come back to her friends, and we would ridicle d OP together, but once she meets a man like the OP's tenant, even her best friend will not know about any tangible thing happening in the relationship. She could even cut her friends off for the guy. I hate to be friends with such people. They cut people off whenever they feel like, but when someone who can manipulate them comes, they become puppets.

Many ladies have 'daddy issues' (google it). Emotionally, you tend to attract someone like yourself, while physically, opposites attract.
Romance / Re: Guys, Change Your Mentality Towards Women (true Life Story) by TOMSY(f): 1:51pm On Feb 17, 2019
zexy2030:

isn't she seeing the guy playing her? except is this kind of ladies that do he disvirgined me, I must marry him..except this too. some girls have this mindset too...while some still believe that if u don't maltreat them u don't love them..different strokes for different folks..if u dare go close and entice her and she says only that guy no one else..guy na jaz o..from true life experience..
for instance collect snail water and rub it on ur dick before sex..the woman will be glued to u.
things won't work her own way if she does otherwise.
while some claim that the guy helped when he was working but for her maybe not.
self esteem is the root of sticking to one guy for years.
Bros. It's not jaz at all. funmisticqueen is right here. The girl has a very low self esteem. She has issues.
GreatResearcher, if you want to prove me wrong, do your research about her family background, she's likely from a broken home or has some childhood issues still affecting her. You said you wanted to ask her out? If the table were reversed, these kind of ladies would turn the tables on you and treat you like trash instead. I can assure you that such lady will NEVER appreciate you treating her nicely. They're wired that way. I have some of them as friends. They have a really poor taste in men.
Our problem in Nigeria is we don't take visiting therapists and psychologists seriously.

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Romance / Re: Should I Continue To Sponsor My Boyfriend Financially?? by TOMSY(f): 12:03am On Dec 09, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
I know this might not be the right thing to do, coming out here to wash the dirty linen of myself and my guy but I am left with no choice cos i'm confused and need people's opinion.
I am a final year student of a prestigious Nigerian university, my said guy is currently serving. We have been together for close to 5years now(started dating him from pre degree days). My bf is into music and so all the little change he makes is invested in music, he doesnt even buy new stuff for himself no more! Na now i know say bfr a below average Nigerian artist can be recognised eh go don tey embarassed
He is so passionate about this, as for me i have learned a skill because this present day Nigeria need not only certificate but what you can also give back to the society, in view of this i started saving some money from my pocket money. I was able to save a bit over 150K
This will not be the first or third time i will be assisting him with the little i have, what happened recently was that he told me about his new project and stuff, to cut story short he needed 50k shocked but there was no where to get it, his typical african parents are not that interested in sponsoring him, his sibling decided to follow same path, the only person he could look up to was me, after so many nights of hope and helplessness i told him i have 60k in my acct and would be able to give him the 50k he needs since i am not in need of the money till by Gods grace when i am done with service and wanna start up a business. His dream came through and the project was done tho the outcome was not as positive as he thought. Many of his fans are now particular about one of his tracks and he has decided to push the song, but as usual no money cry he has been lamenting and sad cos of that, he needs 15k this time around and i have told him i dont have. I am so confused right now, i dont think its my fault that i encouraged him into doing music. I am not scared that he'd leave me by the rime the money comes because we are serious about each other. Is it advisable to keep helping him since i know i wont be needing the money till like two years time?( i would have saved more over that period of time also) and i am sure he would have gotten a job before i need the money so returning it would not be a problem. Pls what would you do if you were me? Tnk u all
Please i dont immature response on my thread,
Mods pls help push this to front page.
OAU Great Ife
Romance / Re: Am I Wrong? by TOMSY(f): 11:36pm On Dec 08, 2018
SilentWisper:
Owk
Bobo
Romance / Re: Have U Experienced Heartbreak Bf ? Pls How Did U Feel And Move On ? by TOMSY(f): 1:34pm On Sep 19, 2018
Donpenny:
With time u will get heal. When I was in 200L I have a gf in 100L we dated throughout my undergraduate days even after my graduation we still continue our relationship. I went to service I was so faithful to her becux I believed in her and want to marry her. Despite that my parent kicked against me marry another tribe I insisted and made them believed my reasons. I can remember that very evening my parent called me and asked do you love yetunde and I answered in affirmative because they don't want to hurt my feeling they compromise and accepted her . all these sacrifices I made cux I loved her and am willing to make the relationship work. I called often like four to thrice daily even when I was in service my parent called her often too but one day just two before rounding off my service year she called me on Skype I saw her crying profusely i asked her what happened she now told me her parent was against our marriage base on tribal difference ground I try and calm her down so I told her to try and explain things to them and if they truly love her they won't hurt her feeling not knowing to me that she has made up her mind to go back to her ex bf just within an interval of one year when I even came to check her at home despite the far northeast state i was posted to with frequent call. She broke up with me , when she left me for her ex I was depressed for two weeks after then started see other girls that I don't even find attractive b4 we one of them became my very close friend so she help me get over her within two week. She even more beautiful and mature than her I became happy again. Just two month ago she started calling asking if I have gotten another gf I said yes even immediately she left she started crying and I asked why d cry she said her ex told her she is too cheap for her liking and he broke up with her now she is sorry she missed me, my call and bla bla bla. I diplomatically turn down her request and she felt even more hurt later I called her back and encouraged her but we can't date again cux I can't love her again never I can't even have her for a night stand . up till now she still call often sometime at odd hours when am even with my heart rub . so bros shake it off look for someone more beautiful and talented than her and give your heart a chance to love again. Cheer
Of course, her ex is very right. She is too cheap, for her to leave a promising relationship for one that didn't work out in the first place. She now wants to give you the leftover. All that crying na deceit. Bros abeg if you see girl wey dey cry before explaining something to you, just know she's trying to manipulate you. Na their way. Enjoy your new relationship.

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Romance / Re: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by TOMSY(f): 9:58am On Sep 11, 2018
Itzurboi:
Heart break is what some of you guys experienced, Mine was HEART BURN, I just cant start explaining but always thank God for your own and dont wish for mine... it's just the Grace of God that brought me back. And now that i'm back, i will maintain good relationship with all my ex(es) cos they will be in for serious TORMENT, just that my good brothers out there would have a lil share... hahahahakikikiki LOL
bro gist us how it happened and let us learn from it now. abeg.

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Romance / Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by TOMSY(f): 8:27pm On Sep 09, 2018
Timekeeper:



Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?
You can NEVER get over her if you keep on making effort to get close to her by going to her hostel or something. If she wants to see you, let her make all the effort. The key is to just treat her like you would a male acquaintance. Just drop it. Think about it. Will this girl matter in the next two years? I doubt it. Even if it works out, you'll go for your service, and it will become a long distance relationship, which is difficult to maintain. Me personally I discovered that when I get a bad vibe from something at the very beginning, then it's not likely worth it.
So, in conclusion just MOVE on.
Romance / Re: I Like Her So Much But She Is Not Emotionally Ready. Help Me Out Ladies by TOMSY(f): 8:07pm On Sep 07, 2018
sacramento1212:


I thought as much because many girls within that age are usually not consistent emotionally. Focus more on graduating from school and allow her explore because there's absolutely nothing you can do to tame her now.
OP. Please follow this man's advice, and you'll win in two ways. One, when you don't have time for her anymore, shell be the one fighting for your attention. Two, your grades will not suffer. Remember you have a primary objective in school, and it must ALWAYS come first in any decision you make. God bless you.
Romance / Re: Please Why Are Fine Guys Hated Here In Nigeria? by TOMSY(f): 3:49pm On Sep 05, 2018
Chuknovski:
the truth is some girls can't stand handsome guys, its same for fine girls, they are insecure and uncomfortable dating fine guys so they won't be fighting with other girls, my advice is just go for ugly girls they will love tirelessly and the beautiful ones comes as bonus, then you choose your choice
Lol. what if he's not attracted to them? It would even hurt more if someone he's not totally attracted to breaks his heart.

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Romance / Re: Please Why Are Fine Guys Hated Here In Nigeria? by TOMSY(f): 1:08pm On Sep 05, 2018
Op nobody hates fine boys jare. Once you have a good personality, people will be attracted to you. Na dem dey rush us o. wink
Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by TOMSY(f): 10:05pm On Sep 01, 2018
Eglobalma:


Don’t mind the fool, saying I have bad character cuz I don’t like a girl that constantly tells me how I should behave in a house I spent thousands to rent? I suffered for months saving to get my own place, I have no family support..only hardwork and God and you think I will tolerate one skinny bitchh telling me when I should or shouldn’t stay inside my own fuckinggg house ? I’m not a learner , I have seen suffer and trust me nobody can take advantage of me. Bad character untop forced friendships? Wow
Of course, you really had to say 'FOOL' again. A bad character does not mean a bad personality or one is a bad person. Your character is just a very tiny part of your personality. Anyone that is worth improving on should be improved on ASAP. You know I've been following your posts before, though i like some them, but i noticed you don't like taking to corrections. You'll rather delete the topic. Try and see the good in everything and never the bad. God bless you bro.
Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by TOMSY(f): 8:40pm On Sep 01, 2018
Mcy56:

Exactly. Why must someone force himself or herself on him all in the name of friendship? Someone like me, I like my privacy and will not just accept any person as a friend.
Besides, they live together, he might have seen some attitudes or moves he doesn't like, thus try to keep his distance.

Did you see this?

''To answer ur question even tho I didn’t want to, I’m inside hustling looking for clients cuz I’m a yahoo yahoo , we yahoo yahoo are always indoors ! So no bitch is allowed , excepts she’s getting fuckedd ..now tell ur bitch to back offf !!!!!'

I replied because of this actually.
Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by TOMSY(f): 8:35pm On Sep 01, 2018
Prognose:


He has not said anything that indicates he has bad character. He wants to be left alone, no be by force to make friends.
What I'm trying to tell you is that you can't tell someone to remain rigid such that nobody would be able to HELP him adjust any part of his character that needs adjustment. Of course people have different personalities, but it's not a good thing when you're not open to corrections. Cheers...
Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Experience This, Please Advice by TOMSY(f): 8:30pm On Sep 01, 2018
Mcy56:

You are actually looking at this from one angle. We are all different and have different personality.
Some introverts likes to be alone and not disturbed at all; they want to associate only if they feel like not when someone is pressurizing them for friendship. Some don't know how to make friends 'cos it becomes boring to them along the way.
If you read what he said well, that the lady's bf hardly greets him again. So what do you want him to do?
To keep romancing the lady all in the name of friendship till one jealous bf waylay him somewhere?
I read where someone says ladies were supporting him. I think it's for both of them's good anyway but you can enlighten me the more sha.
I understand you perfectly, but do you think he didn't have to include this...'' Is it now bad to be charming, that’s if I’m even charming cuz I keep attracting PSYCOPATHS.'' to make his point?
My own opinion tho.

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