Yinabim:
Hello Everyone,

I am writing here for the first time, i don't know how to feel about this because i a very private person but since the death of my husband i had to wake up everyday to sadness. I never knew the extent of pain people feel when they lose their loved ones until now. I cant even concentrate on anything else and his family are making things difficult for themselves already.

I'm so young and with a 2 year old daughter, i just hope God help me scale through this storm. I'll come here to update this page as things unfold.

The story
My husband is a very kind man, he is way older than I am because he was a divorcee , ultimately he loved God and was very prayerful, I’ve known him for over seven years but we got married 4years ago and legalized the marriage in 2022.
He has 5 children plus my two years old makes 6, tbh my husband is a very wonderful man and I doubt if men like him still exist. He holds my hands in middle of the night praying for me and my baby, he loved me sincerely. He met me in 100level and waited till I finished school. Anyways after I had a baby he said he wanted me to go to Canada to further my studies. I didn’t want to go because I was thinking of how he would cope without me, he promised to come every quarter and assured me it was for the best.

I left Nigeria in 2023 (April) , his last visit was January 2024, he was preparing to come again in September, however, I got the news of his death July 17th 2024. My whole world came crashing. I didn’t believe it, why did God give me such a wonderful man only to take him away from me suddenly.

For clarity purpose, it’s important to state that he has six children including mine

First child (female) married and resides in Australia
My husband told me that her mother (woman A) had walked out of the marriage because he was poor, saying “she wouldn’t sit down with him in poverty” . They never had a legal marriage. So Woman A left to marry another man.


Woman B, legally married him had four children (two males and two females), I didn’t hear her side of the story and out of respect for her, I’ll just say irreconcilable differences, he decided he couldn’t move on with her and he divorced her. He however left her in their matrimonial house and left her with the water factory which she was running, although he didn’t hand over the documents


I am woman C.

I came home for the funeral, but before I could make it home , Woman A’s daughter has gotten home, gone to my matrimonial home and cleared all documents.

Please note that , no one ever lived with my husband and I in the house apart from my younger brother, Woman A daughter has also never visited the house.

My husband was into properties and he has two schools also (primary and secondary in different locations) .
Durning my stay in Nigeria, Woman A’s daughter (lady A) has conducted herself like a kind person , although I saw red flags but in my state of grief I didn’t think much about them, from Fighting for my husband’s phones , to taking away his SUV, changing security guards at the gate etc. I honestly didn’t see her as a greedy person.

I came back to Canada that same week, she already brought in some lawyers who will handle letter of Administration and help oversee estate matters. Myself and all the children were on the same page till lady A said she wanted to be the sole signatory to the schools account.

I disagreed and suggested that three of us (myself, Lady A and one of woman B children) should sign concurrently alongside on all transactions.

Lady A was so adamant about the signatory issue that she started to throw shades and subtle insults , I stood my ground and it took her lawyer’s intervention before she agreed. Since then I have become lady As enemy.

Guess what?
Lady A in recent development had instructed the security that no one should enter into my matrimonial home without her permission, I sent my brother there on two occasions and he was denied access, I can’t imagine seeking the permission of lady A who is in Australia in her husbands house before entering my own husbands house, a place she has never lived in or visited!! I don’t want this to lead to legal suits here and there, but these people are not so gentle and peaceful, I paid my dues in that house it was uncompleted when I married my husband and I contributed in my own way.
I am not greedy and I’m willing to meet everyone in middle but Nigerians are so terrible, she is in Australia and she knows no one can do these nonsense abroad but they take advantage of gentility.

Obafisenco:
do you do deed of assignment ?

Treash:
We are still in the business of:

Verification of titles and due diligence.
Administration & management of Properties.
Registration of title documents.
Legal Documentation.
Facilitation of Probate & Letters of Administration.
Acquisition and disposal of properties.

Barr Ayo Aderinto,
08068088866.

Righteousness2:
What we are witnessing in the weather are the signs of imminent return of the KING of kings.

In Matthew 16 JESUS Christ was angry with the Pharisee and saduces because they could not discern the signs of the first coming of JESUS CHRIST despite all the signs and prophecies given.

The same thing is happening on Earth right now.
So many on earth are totally unaware of the signs of the times despite the fact that they are Everywhere around the world.

They are busy blaming this or that, others are gathering money to fight the climate and so on.

Listen ladies and gentlemen! The changes in the weather are the signs of the imminent coming of JESUS CHRIST. Nobody can do anything about it.

If we are complaining about the Heat then imagine what those in Hell Fire right now are going through.

If you are a student of the bible, you know it is going to get worse leading into the great tribulations after the bride of Christ is taken away.

Read the book of Revelations to have some knowledge of what is coming on this Earth.

Set your priority right!
Be ready! LIVE ready!
This ship is sinking!!
JESUS CHRIST will appear in the skies at any moment.

Treash:
When it comes to real estate, the adage "location" holds a profound truth. The choice of location plays a pivotal role. Let's delve into why location is a critical factor influencing the decision to buy a property.

1. Property Value and proximities: The neighborhood and surrounding amenities significantly impact property values. Proximity to schools, parks, shopping centers, and public transportation can enhance property appreciation. Also, proximity to workplaces, schools, medical facilities, and entertainment options affects the overall appeal of a property.

2. Safety and Security: Safety is a top priority for homeowners. The crime rate and overall security of a neighborhood significantly impact the desirability of a property.

3. Quality of Life: The overall quality of life in a particular location is crucial. Factors such as clean and green surroundings, recreational spaces, and a sense of community contribute to a higher quality of life.

4. Future Development Plans: Researching the development plans for an area is essential. Upcoming infrastructure projects, zoning changes, and commercial developments can positively impact property values.

5. Resale Potential: Considering the potential resale value is prudent when buying a property. A well-chosen location can attract a broader pool of buyers when it comes time to sell.

Treash:


Literally, “Excision” is the act of removing something. Under the Land Use Act, all land in the State is vested in the State Governor and held in trust for the benefit of Nigerians. However, as a means of recognising ancestral/indigenous owners, the Lagos State Government introduced a policy of giving back some portions of land to them.

Risks in procuring lands under Excision in progress:
Many real estate developing firms in Lagos State buy a vast area of land from indigenous communities or families and then apply to the State Governor for the said portion of Land be excised to them. While their application is still pending, they begin to advertise and sell the land to unsuspecting purchasers who have no idea of what excision means.

It should be noted, that Excision of land in Lagos has hitherto been prohibited.

Barr. Adeolu Ayo Aderinto

owolabi5:
Thanks Boss

Treash:
The position of the law is that an illegal property acquisition CANNOT be cured by obtaining a Certificate of Occupancy (CofO) on the property. If you acquire a CofO on an improperly or illegally acquired land, the exercise is fruitless and the CofO is worthless.

This was what the Supreme Court said in a recent case that there must have been an entitlement to a statutory right of occupancy before a certificate can be given as evidence of such right. The court further held that when there is no initial right and a certificate is issued, such certificate is not worth even the paper it is written on.

Therefore, it is pertinent to do your due diligence before acquiring a property in the first place. After proper acquisition, you can then proceed to obtain your Certificate of Occupancy or Governor's Consent as the case may be.