Talking abt making and saving money , katsina is o.k , but on religious extremist / crises,
you are going to the wrong town.What is the used of money ,if you can spend it with peace of mind.
Those people there(especially the illiterate ) will never have regard for you along as religion is concern and you will always be a target for attack if there happen to be a crises.
Ask your self , why was that vacancy created ? people are moving away from the north ,and for there you are looking good reason to go to the north.
He that refuse to hear will not refuse to see !!! welcome to katsina STATE ,home of Buhari of the CPC

kokoye:

it has nothing to do with Nigerians only . . it is a global thing with irresponsible people.

U have say it all;. irresponsible people , think it made them belongs, nonsense !!!!!

The true is that proper investigation will reveal that the girl family are involve or have the knowledge of what will happen to their daugther ,but they will not do anything because they are also brainwashed.
I am a convert from islam to anther religious so I understand the consequence of such action,The girl should have waited !!

Is it religion of peace?

“Kill the unbelievers wherever you find them.” Koran 2:191
“Make war on the infidels living in your neighborhood.” Koran 9:123
“When opportunity arises, kill the infidels wherever you catch them.” Koran 9:5
“Any religion other than Islam is not acceptable.” Koran 3:85
“The Jews and the Christians are perverts; fight them”. Koran 9:30
“Maim and crucify the infidels if they criticize Islam” Koran 5:33
“Punish the unbelievers with garments of fire, hooked iron rods, boiling water;

the is just like the brain wash almajiri in the northern part of 9ja,so I am not surprise, The little gal should have waited until she is out  of their country b4 venturing into such, May her soul rest in peace.

@ poster
sorry ,I mean cant get a job

zayzee:

The story below was written to me for publication in Business Hallmark Newspaper. She is seeking advice from readers and I thought I could also post it here and get more advice to publish in the newspaper for the troubled lady. Please read.


In a month, I will marry my fiancé of five years. I have always looked forward to marrying him but now that it is going to happen, I am really scared. Somewhere deep down, I feel I am making a big mistake because the reason why we finally have a marriage date isn’t because we sat down and planned our future but because I got pregnant.

I admit my fault in all that has happened to me. The pregnancy isn’t the only mistake I have made with Jide but I feel I have no options left and no one to help me. My family can hardly help themselves.

The beginning of our relationship was good and it was impossible not to fall in love with Jide. He was kind, loving, caring and everything I wanted in a man. He was interested in my future and helped with me get admitted into the Lagos State University to do a part time programme. Because my family lived in Badagry, I moved in with Jide as his place was closer to my school. Occasionally in the beginning, I noticed some traits I didn’t like. Jide would stay out late, girls would call him at odd hours, and when I confront him, he would get angry and pick fights with me. Later he would appease me with gifts and for a while, such incidents wouldn’t repeat themselves. At a point, I think I might have decided to turn a blind eye to the things I didn’t like, knowing that he loves me and he takes good care of me.

My relationship with other members of his family wasn’t exactly excellent, but okay. While his mother never exactly received me coldly any day, she wasn’t exactly warm. My not being Yoruba wasn’t an issue because two of her other sons where seriously involved with non Yoruba girls.

Jide, like his three brothers, do business with their mother and she gives them money. But business soon went bad and I suggested he got a job since he studied engineering but Jide refused and said his mother would not like it. I had to remind him he wasn’t getting any younger at 33 to wait for his mum to give him money before he could feed. He pushed the discussion aside and left for Abuja where he said he had a business to execute. In the eighteen months Jide stayed in Abuja, I only saw him twice when he came down for weekends to meet with his mother. In those months he was away he found little excuses to fight. Then he returned to Lagos late last year with no money and told me he was duped. We weren’t at peace because of fights and his late nights and calls from girls. What’s more, I would find huge sums of cash once in a while in his pockets and when I ask where from, he would get angry because I wasn’t supposed to find out. And in the wink of an eye, the money is all spent and he is asking me for money. I got a job that pays N20, 000 and Jide believes our future is stable on this lean salary. He visits prophets for solutions and never wants to talk about marriage because his mother asked us to hold on till she has enough money to throw a big party.
I should have ended this relationship when he was in Abuja, when it was very obvious he had side activities going on, and when my friends were telling me the writing on the wall was clear, but I didn’t because I thought of the years we have been together and how he was in the beginning. In hoping he would change, I endured the misery until I discovered I was pregnant. During the first weeks, I nursed a deep anger and resentment towards him. Now, I’m five months pregnant and we are getting married in a month time but I am scared things will only get worse. He has no job, and no intention of getting one. His mother does not talk to me and my soon to be groom plays lottery with whatever money he gets from where I don’t know. I am 30, what other options do I have?

Please, advice me.
Ese

don't marry him,he will never settle,hope he is not into yahoo-yahoo.
How can you dated a guy that can get a job but relies on him mother

guys are wicked, dont call him , allow the idiot to be deal with,next time he will ask a girl her age b4 sleeping with her

@ poster

I know that all those Guy that acts silly around you finally had the cork inside you !
How can you called a Guy silly while is still Ba-nging you, No guy is silly as far as a girl is concern.

The earlier you girls remove that thought from your head ,the better for you

2sexy:

At the moment he has stopped picking my calls because I asked him to refund my money,

in january he claimed to have sent me the details for my sites but when I checked my email nothing was found, He did this up to 4 times and I found nothing,


Please refund the money abayomi aje,

are you insinuating that some people here are scamstars ?