Family / Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Tukor1759: 1:10pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14: My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.
Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.
The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding. Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning. Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket. And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.
For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder. I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian. she should go and stay in the village for now, what do i know sef 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Federal Government Evacuates 542 Stranded Nigerians From UAE (Photos) by Tukor1759: 11:26am On Oct 24, 2022 |
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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Visits Datti Baba-Ahmed's Baze University Hospital, Abuja (Photos) by Tukor1759: 3:17pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
siofra: Kai!
I wish this man is my sugar daddy. ![kiss](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/kiss.gif) which of them? � |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russian Man Lights Himself On Fire To Protest Putin’s Draft (photos) by Tukor1759: 12:44pm On Sep 28, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: Jealous Girlfriend Destroys Boyfriend’s TV, Others For Cheating In Edo (Video) by Tukor1759: 3:53pm On Sep 26, 2022 |
Kollins11: First of all, I don't do love and relationship so no vagina person will think she owns me. Truth is men that do love and relationship are foolish people, Typical & Chronic SIMPs. Just fvck her and move on to the next available kpekus.
Secondly, if you as a jobless liability nigerian girl try this shit with me. The way I go panel beat you eh! If you no develop internal and external bleeding call me bastard.
Infact, dem never born her papa & mama well make she try this rubbish with me. U wan make Ogun kee you? friction ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Romance / Re: Lady Rejects Boyfriend's Proposal On Their Graduation Day, Throws Ring Away by Tukor1759: 3:33pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
virginprincess: Men if you know you want to propose in public,pls o, make sure like be very sure like be very very sure she will accept your proposal to avoid this is kind of public embrassment. at least he would be remembered as that" guy her girlfriend throws away his engagement ring" |
Romance / Re: Should I Still Accept Him After Dumping Me For Another Lady? by Tukor1759: 2:30pm On Sep 04, 2022 |
Karen2024: My boyfriend ditched me for another lady few days ago. Now he discovered she's a chronic cheat and he came begging me to forgive and accept him back.
Should I accept him back? I still love him. ![embarassed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/embarassed.png) go back to him dear, cause he loves you too ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) |
Music/Radio / Re: The Lyrics Of This Popular Song From The 90s Will Melt Your Heart (Video) by Tukor1759: 3:50pm On Sep 03, 2022 |
etrange: Nice one, OP! I loved this and another one from them called "taper dos".
A little correction, he said "morning, afternoon and evening, it's me singing on the radio" (not TV). tv or radio we are good |
Politics / Re: NAVMC Mass Production Of The ATV (Pictures) by Tukor1759: 3:02pm On Sep 03, 2022 |
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Crime / Re: I Almost Rape My Girlfriend, Now She Thinks She's Not Safe With Me. by Tukor1759: 2:40pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Perez99: Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.
Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.
There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.
After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.
As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place
She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.
The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.
Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.
I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"
Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.
She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"
This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her. she understands, no cause for alarm |
Health / Re: Nurse Locks Doctor Up At Obafemi Awolowo University Teaching Hospital (vid) by Tukor1759: 1:07pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
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Travel / Re: Residents Scoop Fuel From Tanker In Onitsha After Accident (Video, Pics) by Tukor1759: 12:23pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
LeoDeKing: I still don't get it, is it that the word "billionaire" has a meaning different from what we know generally?
Because last time I checked, yesterday to be precise, everybody in the east was still a billionaire with at least one mansion in either Ikoyi, Banana Island or VGC. ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Or is it that these ones scooping the oil are not Easterners? ![](/faces/huh.png) tribalistic beast |
Car Talk / Re: Bouncer Laments After His Car Was Disfigured By Boys He Bounced In Edo (Video) by Tukor1759: 3:48pm On Jun 11, 2022 |
Zonefree: One of the hazards of the job. Na so dey shoot one bouncer that year for Orange room. 042 orange room? |
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Politics / Re: The Moment Tinubu Arrived Eagles Square For APC Primary (Video) by Tukor1759: 9:49pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
GuyWise101: Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
See the useless youths we are fighting for. in every 12....... |
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Tukor1759: 6:00pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
julie90: I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.
Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.
Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.
I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.
I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.
This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.
Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious? my advice for you is ...... give me your number |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Am I Spending Lavishly ? by Tukor1759: 5:50pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
BItt: I must say this year has been better and much brighter compared to the previous year. But one thing i have been worried about is my saving culture or is it that what i earn isn't high/sufficient enough to cater for bills like transportation, feeding, housing, electricity and other miscellaneous bills.
My salary is a little above 50k and before you know it, by the 3rd week of the month, everything would have finished. I cant say i am spending lavishly on anything because i an introvet. I hardly get to save anything at the end of the month and it pains me alot. I wonder if i am the only one facing this experience or there are other people earning lower or higher facing this.
Could it be that my saving culture is poor? How do you solve this challenge or how are you coping with it. make it a habit to write down every dime you spend on daily basis and see for yourself |
Fashion / Re: Woman With Protruding Belly Button Goes Viral As She Proudly Shows It Off by Tukor1759: 1:47pm On Jun 02, 2022 |
ExAngel007: A Nigerian TikToker has been praised for proudly showing off her belly button.
TikTok user Chi, who posts under @iam_amakae, regularly shares dance videos wearing crop tops that reveal her protruding navel.
Captions to her video usually encourage body positivity.na prick? ![](/faces/huh.png)
In one clip, she wrote: "Body perfect. Love yourself."
In another, she wrote: "Self confidence, the real me."
Her navel has set her apart from other TikTok dancers and helped her rack up over 3 million likes on the platform, with many users praising her.
One said: "Ur beautiful in every way and that navel is the finishing touch of ur beauty."
One said: “the doctor probably didn’t cut her umbilical cord properly when she was first born so it grew like that, the same happened to my cousin.”
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/6/nigerian-woman-with-protruding-belly-button-goes-viral-as-she-proudly-shows-it-off.html |
Family / Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Tukor1759: 8:50pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1: My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. oga fine your way,man no be God 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Tukor1759: 2:23pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022: I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! stop living a life of what people will say, thanks 1 Like |
Autos / Re: Our Keke Is Not ₦300k - Innoson by Tukor1759: 2:10pm On May 26, 2022 |
MITCHELL96: It's how much then ? Lesser than that or higher than that ? you want some, come and get some 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Police Nab Two POS Robbers In Umuahia, Recover English Made Pistol by Tukor1759: 2:02pm On May 23, 2022 |
LeoDeKing: I thought all igbos are billionaires. ![](/faces/huh.png)
Abi no be be igbos dey bear Onuoha Chukwuyere Raymond Chukwuemeka Azubuike ? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) see Igbo and get disabled |
Health / Re: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth by Tukor1759: 1:08pm On May 23, 2022 |
Stevenson20: The Mod that banned me for a week you no go see better. Because I criticized your fucking Islamic religion for killing Deborah, you come ban me. Na you go ban tire. Nairaland is part of the problem Nigeria is facing. How can we swear to Allah and Muhammad before commenting on any Muslim topic, whereas Christain topics are free for anyone to comment? Make God dey watch all of una.
Back to the topic, Which one come be virginal cut abi tear? Doctors in the house make una throw more light abeg my brother so you dey see wetin I dey see? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Tukor1759: 4:35pm On May 18, 2022 |
Nikrose: At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it
I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!
Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me he likes/loves you, but to tell you na wahala 1 Like |
Properties / Re: Notorious Ota Land-Grabber Elijah Adeogun aka Killer Arrested In Ogun State by Tukor1759: 12:57pm On May 17, 2022 |
Skyview01: Wetin concern DSS for the mata! him sins don pass police 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Slapped Me & I Beat Her But She Refused To Go To Father's House by Tukor1759: 5:04pm On May 14, 2022 |
APC2: I created this new account to hide my identity.
We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.
Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.
I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.
Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.
So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.
When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.
I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect. we the good amiable good listener of nairaland will all due respect like to hear your wife side of the story.... |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Left My House To Go Have Sex With Another Man by Tukor1759: 5:45pm On May 09, 2022 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=112641146][/quote] the pussy was never yours, just your time |
Politics / Re: Kidnappers' Hideout Bursted By Imo State Police (Pictures) by Tukor1759: 10:58am On May 09, 2022 |
[quote author=Malory post=112639054]OP your motive is now very clear like daylight. This is the same news that was earlier reported about kidnapping syndicate bursted by the police but in your usual propaganda have decided to blame it on IPOB. I will stop opening your threads since you are a merchant of fake news. Who in his right senses will go and commit a crime wearing his insignia? That's all he is good in doing |
Family / Re: My 2-Year-Old Daughter Is Using Foul Words by Tukor1759: 8:23pm On May 08, 2022 |
princeemmma: Recently I heard my daughter saying "Zazoo zeh" she is not up to 2years though. Am that kind of person that always caution myself and watch the kind of music I listen at home, but she did not learn the word at home, am sure she might have heard it somewhere in her mom shop, because my wife shop is located somewhere very rough, a lot of children in the environment. But my wife does not see this as a big deal. She always told me that she can't stop the little girl from playing with other children in the hood and that's true. That day when I heard her say that word, I called her to myself and told her not to say the word again that it's not good saying such word, she nodded in approval.
Two days ago I heard her saying this common words "Eni pe". I felt really bad, because I don't want my daughter to learn those bad words, but my wife feel am overreacting.
Am I overreacting truly? How do I stop my daughter from saying such words?
Please help a friend lock her up inside your mansion |
Romance / Re: What Advice Can You Give to Somebody About To Get Married? by Tukor1759: 11:04am On May 04, 2022 |
AishaDant: Communication in relationships is very important. Talk to your partner about everything and carry her along always.
Be honest, be kind and be sensitive to your partner. Also, be faithful!
Feel free to share these with your partner. It must be 50:50 to work well.
Best of luck! what if she don't like to share 50:50 ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Celebrates Her Father, Caleb Mayowa's 80th Birthday by Tukor1759: 10:14am On May 04, 2022 |
Illuminatiship: A girl I normally buy food for and sub for,because of the little arguments we just had she’s telling me she’s not in my level and mind you she is using iPhone6 and I am using iPhone11 is she not an idiot? she is!she was!!she will surely be!!! 1 Like |
Health / Re: Premature Ejaculation Is Severe Dealing With My Relationship by Tukor1759: 5:21pm On May 01, 2022 |
606thearena: Good morning Nairalanders. Please I’m really begging you guys for solutions. I’m currently in 300 level in unilag . I’m currently In my 4th relationship Because of this issue of premature ejaculation. You lease if you been in my shoes before what did you do to get out of it . I don’t want to be on drugs to have sex all the time I’m just 24 years . I used to masturbate when I was young but I was not a chronic masturbator could that be the reason . Pls guys help with any remedy that will work , my currently relationship is currently shaking because of this issue every other thing I’m blessed with, just this premature ejaculation that is ruining my life and relationship.
Pls Nairalander do not view and pass by any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.
I will be waiting for your response Keenly na gym one brother take solve em own 1 Like |