AskProf:

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Thanks Prof.

Are there more people who know them?

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Thanks

Nice one.

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Fraternize: Well, have you discussed this with your guy? Do you even know if what he wants is an extrovert lady? Instead of asking for advice here, i believe the best advice will be to table this before him. Believe me, if he loves you, forget any fear.....no matter what third parties say or think about you, he will always stand besides you. My point here again is....talk to your guy

When a guy truly loves his woman, he will want to stand by her. But the pressure of having most of your loved once not getting along with your woman is not an easy one. It can lead to frustration. Not everyone can handle it. It is wise to make some adjustments (those that are possible) in a relationship. At least try your best. If it doesn't work, well, you can't kill yourself about it. Sometime the reason for divorce after a few years of marriage to someone that is truly loved is frustration stemming from unwillingness to adjust or even of the other party forcing an adjustment that is not feasible. Your partner can be frustrated by your unwillingness to adjust and you can be frustrated by forcing an adjustment that is not realistic. In this case, one can make some reasonable adjustment. But it may not be possible to completely turn an extrovert. But most people would appreciate the op for her efforts if she becomes more forth coming. I think what she needs is the encouragement to take the step. And in my opinion, if you guys are thinking of getting married soon, it would be wise to delay a bit and see if you can overcome this challenge. If you guys get married with this challenge lingering, you may have a lot to face in your marriage, especially as his family are also uncomfortable. He may change friends, but won't change family. You may be in for an ordeal for the rest of your life, that is if the parents even agrees to him marrying you. It's not always easy to deal with in-laws that dislike you, unless your man is ready to disconnect from them (not oft feasible).

For relationships to work, both parties often have to adjust to accommodate the other person. The adjustment may be in changing or learning to accept the other person the way he/she is. You have to consider if you can bear the adjustment comfortably, if not consider the possibility of your partner doing the adjustment. If you can't have a common ground on something that is considered important by the other party. Hmm. Beware.

Chicolee: @uken73. thanks, I really appreciate.

You are welcome.

I'm just seeing this thread. I may understand your challenge better, because I used to be an extreme introvert, but I've changed a lot after secondary school. It is good that you have realized it's a challenge and have decided to change. I had realized that long time ago and made deliberate efforts to change. Today I'm a much different person. Most of my secondary school colleagues who knew me then are oft shocked when they meet me today. I'm still an introvert, but I get along a lot better today. I still make efforts and hope to be better. You may not be able to change into an extrovert, but you can seriously improve how you get along with people.

The 1st thing is to recognize the problem. You have already passed that stage.

2nd thing is to be ready to adjust. I don't know if you have come to that point of deciding to make efforts to adjust. Initially I was proud of who I was and even saw it as a rare gift. Lol. Along the line, I realized that I was missing out. I even had regrets. They helped me come to the decision and determination.

3rd this is to assess yourself very well and determine what exactly is the challenge you have about relating with people. This is very critical. You have to confront the reason behind it. If you have not really considered it, I bet you, there is a reason. Mine had to do with a lot of things. Each played had it's own small contribution to the whole problem. I won't really like to go into them because each will need explaining but they include;
a. Events in my Nursery/Primary education,
b. Doctrines of a certain church where we worshiping from my early childhood to my teens
c. Complex.

4rd thing is to work out your salvation (Lol). It took determination and practice for me to be able to adjust. I'm not yet as good as I would love to be, but I'm a much better person today. What I simply did was to take bold steps to do the kind of things that I wouldn't typically do. It is a good idea to share your idea and determination with someone whom you belief can be supportive. In my case, my late Mum was that person. I belief your fiancé could be a good choice. He wants you to change. If you make up your mind and discuss it with him, tell him your determination and the role you want him to play in assisting you. He will be the one to share your daily experiences/efforts with. He should advice, criticise and encourage you.

5th thing is to evaluate your progress and improve on it. Make sure you consider the regrets you had (if any) and the new things you are now able to enjoy. It will be a great deal of encouragement.

Maybe I should even create a thread to share my experience in more details, but let me give a summary.

I had very complex/complicated personality issue that I was able to work on and correct to a great extent during my University days. Can't bore you with the details of how bad it was, but some of the experiences were some comments like "Does he ever laugh?". Then even the most funny comedian can't make me laugh. I practically had to learn how to laugh. My system could not even recognize a funny line. Such that when I began to learn to laugh, sometimes I would laugh, then realize I was the only person who laughed. Lol.

Someone once told me, "Oh boy, I never see you talk to anybody 4 here. You dey too serious, abi you be undertaker?" And many others. They used to amuse me. But today I'm a different person. Much better. Some years ago female colleagues in the office argue in the office about me. Most said I would be a good father (as in discipline), but not a good husband (as in not fun to be with). That was when I had just finished school but before NYSC. That told me I had not yet arrived. So I worked on it more.

I still don't have too many friends and still can't attend so much events and I actually belief too many friends would be a distraction. My major career (software development) needs much of my time. It may be part of the reason my progress is not as rapid. But I'm a lot more happy with who I am today. The old me would have been so frustrated if he was to do what I'm doing today for a living, because what I do has to do a lot with people. My success has a lot to do with meeting and interacting with more and more people (clients).

So Op, if I could adjust this much, I think you can too and you will find that life can be more fun. Your fiancé's people and friends will get to like you better. I hope this helps.

Not bad. Considering the price, there may be a mad rush for this when it becomes available.

irewolepeter:
irewolepeter@gmail.com

I've just sent you a mail. Thank you for your interest.

But op, these are 2010 pics of the said car which you had in your previous posts. Why don't you post current pics of the car.

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This mistake to announce their planned stop of BIS is a curse for Airtel. The'll ever regret it.

ayeseadewale: @ kambo, Na who no like better thing? Please my brother, i need the software for an effective management of my School, How can get started? Here is my email ayeseadewale@yahoo.com.
Feed me with more information about it.

Were you at the last concluded NAPPS (National Association of Proprietors of Private Schools) 2013 National Conference in Uyo? You would have seen me presenting a paper on Applying ICT in School Administration. I made a brief introduction of the software while delivering the paper. I will send you a mail with attached brief on the software. Thanks for the interest.

Hey did they get him to the court premises but could not get him into the court? Doesn't make sense.

Computer based exams are the most interesting.

Today, guests arrive Uyo for the 2013 Annual National Conference of the National Association of Proprietors of Private Schools (NAPPS). The main event starts tomorrow.

Sabotage. Are the management not part of ASUU?

https://www.nairaland.com/1472155/napps-akwa-ibom-host-national#19681875

Necessary to enlighten Nairalanders who have any business to do with schools to avail themselves of this oppurtunity. The event is comming up next week.

You can contact the State NAPPS President on 08084691782 for adverts on the conference booklet or to book a stan for presentation of your educational wares.

This time they named those going with him so that nobody would count a thousand for them. The've learned.

The countdown to the event.

7 days to go.

Why sack only key members. Does key members here includent the G7? They should sack all.

Hmm.

Guys how is it going? Hope no issues!

Interesting. But I'm not sure if this can actually apply to all skills.

elektra80:

that can only be possible if u use ur computer to post the link. If u use mobile phone to post the link, then it can't be viewed directly here

I'm posting the link through my laptop and I've even tried using the youtube embed code. It just printed the code.

Crime is being promoted and awarded. Then we complain when kids and adults practice what the've learnt.

How can I embed the YouTube video to be viewed here directly?

The First Flying Car Is Finally Here, Goes On Sale 2015 – Can Take Off Vertically In Traffic Jam!

The first flying cars are set to go on sale to the public as early as 2015. Terrafugia has announced its Transition design, which is part sedan, part private jet with two seats, four wheels and wings that fold up so it can be driven like a car, will be on sale in less than two years. The Massachusetts-based firm has also unveiled plans for a TF-X model that will be small enough to fit in a garage, and won’t need a runway to take off. Would you buy one?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=SqmILVE7nPQ

Source: http://www.shockmansion.com/2013/05/25/video-the-first-flying-car-is-finally-here-goes-on-sale-2015-can-take-off-vertically-in-traffic-jam/

Why don't they just sue the FG?

Now what next? Where do they now stand? Can they bear the shame to get back to the fold? Or will they keep fighting?

Lovely. I wonder why this hasn't reached the front page.