chidonweb:
Every body want to Japa.

Stay and fight for your country.
The country you are running to, people fought for it to be what it is today

Nigeria has an estimated population of at least 250 million. Thats more than enough to fight.

Mercychen:
No amount of money is ever enough because the more the income, the higher your expenses and the more you'll want to improve your standard of living. All these end up gulping your finances, making your income insufficient at the end of the day. hence the need for a higher income. That is why the rich still hustle despite all they have.

Money is never enough at any level you find yourself.

This is not entirely true. objectively speaking, obce your income is enough that you start buying things that you don't need, it is enough.

Of course you would still continue to hustle, whether actively or passively. Else what is live!

Someone said no value for lives, no sense of urgency.

Welcome to Nigeria.

Mrbenny001:
Honestly.. he talks too much...he doesn't even talk about the major challenges destroying Nigeria..he goes bushing around

He is in power but cannot do shit about those major challenges. However, he wants more power. His boss is quite useless, so he is cautious of the topics he talks about ( but still fails)

Chai. she is using the "i was raped line".

Oboi...if abroad no gree you, na to join one of the trending victim groups.

englishmart:
Education isn't for employment, it's basically for human enhancement.
Everybody has what it takes to be rich and successful. All these you can achieve without formal education.

Btw, Muslims pray 5-times a day yet no result. It's either they pray amiss or they are praying to the wrong allah

You can say what you want. as much as you may not need formal education to get "rich", it does improve your chances.

And also, not everyone has what it takes to be rich and successful. that's just cap.

lusid:
Zzor, jumping from one thread to the other, what do you do for a living?

nairaland resident nuisance

Biglittlelois:



So in other words, you're saying all married men are SIMPS?

no. not necessarily. However, to deal with a woman in a marriage comes with a lot of compromises (aka man hands are tired). This can be costly for men with no red pill awareness (women nature, hypergamy and shiii)

Heck, even my people say na one eye dem dey take marry woman.

With sexual revolution and social media (especially), to sleep with different women is a lot easier. So committment is dwindling.

Biglittlelois:



If it favours women most of the time, how come men and women keep getting married every weekend?

nobody said SIMPs dont exist. They simp until they get badly burnt...then leave or stay because they have simped way beyond return.

As it stands, men have no reason to marry. bedroom fun cheap and easily accessible. #Baby mama industry

Iyaebe:
Don't waste your time dear ,this thread is a Haven for men who are eternally heartbroken except you just want to play with them.

niggaa. use the door or the window. but get the Bleep out.

longetivity:
Why will you register ur properties with the name of a woman that is not even ur mother

even your mother. if you dont want to use your name directly, register a company and use that.

well deserved.

as they just started dating, her birthday just show up. e no easy.

Dliquidmetal:
I think years ago I do feel ashamed when a woman offers to pay our Bill's but as I'm now I would be the one to suggest she pays.....you cant shame the shameless

all these independent women

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Please, do you live in Nigeria or Canada?? Beacuse what you wrote there does not reflect anywhere in my country.

no mind all these third world country wanna be feminists. They are online, offline and everywhere begging for money and slutting...by codedly forming to be chef, fashion designer, masseuse etc

nigga forming ally to get laid.

nijaomegacode:
All the conditions won't help you because STD is the least of the problem. Fear curse.
For you to have peace in you marriage, listen to this-
Never marry a woman you did not disvirgin. She's a curse to her children: born and unborn.

mumu. shey na your papa disflower your mama.

TMTR:

No be lie, e really long oo ,I no even know say e long reach like that until I post am

no modify anything jare. i enjoyed the read. Just laughing all through

Lightway:
No woman's life will be destroyed because she's not hinged to a man in any way - whether through kids, marriage or a family. undecided

Men are going their own way, yet they are the one shooting up women and stalking and raping them because of sexual rejection and rejection to relationships. For all of the bitterness y'all claim feminists have, how many of us are going out to shoot men because we can't find a date?

So, no. The lack of suitable partners for marriage will not both affect us, or affect us the same way and our responses to such will definitely not be the same.

Even here on Nairaland, call it pretentiousness, but you'll never know if some lady likes a guy, even back when the 'toasting threads' were a thing, you'll find women declaring their feelings for a guy. Let it be a man that likes a girl, he'll troll her to heaven and hell and back, shame the living daylight out of her and do all manners of despicable thing to her because he wants her attention.

The men that ask women out normally are the outliers. The women that shoot up men because of rejection are also outliers. So it is a big fat lie when y'all come up with the 'women don't take rejection well' line. No matter how hurt or pained she is, a rejected lady is hardly thinking of ways to meet a man on the road and rape him in revenge.

Women and men are different and thus behave differently... no matter what anybody says.

Majority of crimes are committed by men and in most cases against other men. Women are generally less violent (thus use laws to punish men), so of course a woman would not look to rape a man because of rejection because:

1. She cannot unless the man allows her.
2. She has many other guys hitting on her

Men with options dont look to shoot up or rape a woman because of rejection. he would just call one of his girls to come over.

In addition, there are more instances of men going haywire following a rejection because in general, men go after women and therefore are rejected more.

I usually don't like to talk about feminists in third world countries because, feminism only exists after a country has been developed by men.

BlackFlamefromP:
You are still confirming my theory of PROJECTION. You and your kind keep on projecting sick, dark and poor aspect of your psyche onto Nigeria thereby creating false reality for yourself.

A wise man once said: CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS AND THE THINGS YOU LOOK AT WILL CHANGE. A word is enough for the wise!

your ignorance and foolishness are legendary. You havent lived outside of your bubble...your darling Nigeria. and somehow you talk shit about it being cheap....I have lived in and outside of Nigeria.

I forgive you for not knowing any better. Enjoy your survival.

Samson0303:


But why all these bad stuffs you guys keep saying about women

white knight

DieRich5:
I swr, money won't kill him, mk he leave dat bitch
First she slept wit una son friend
Second, married woman talking abt another man (a dead man self)
Now, she's talking abt bad sex with his hubby something like dat

Will need to be free ND alots of girls re dying to be with him..........bro u fvckin gat options

Hasn't Jada had enough dick...she has been fücking even before 2pac? this bitches eh.

BlackFlamefromP:
Your foolish comment reminds me of a principle called 'projection' in some branch of psychology:

UNEVOLVED people tend to project sick and dark aspect of their nature unto people they do not like or agree with and that is precisely with you just do here: projecting your 'cerebral' poverty unto somebody who likes a country you hate with passion!

Listen to me young man, this same country that mentally and spiritually poor people like you think is the worse place on earth we still have people who are creating paradise in this same country. So you have a choice to make.

You can shove your useless psychology up you ass. Mumu, go get a passport and travel out before glorifying the super-corrupt, nothing-works, killing field, hell-hole called Nigeria.

Travel and live in at least one developed country. Come back to Nigeria lets see if you would continue to delude yourself.

Again, you are cerebrally handicapped.

Dumb ass nigga

BlackFlamefromP:
Welcome back to your fatherland.

At least you can now understand through real life experience that Nigeria - THE GIANT OF AFRICA remains the best place to live on earth and make it in life.

Enemies of Nigeria are in severe pain as a result of this your decision. You can see it from their bitter and angry comments!

Chai... see cerebral poverty.

Newboss:
Some people will never appreciate how cheap life is in Nigeria until they leave Nigeria and start working 3 jobs to keep the lights on.

life in Nigeria is cheap? How kwanu oga?

thats almost 4k/month. I know say canny cost but bros na you wan flex.

How you go de pay 2.3k/month and na only you de live inside?

Go Naija go pick money

- enjoy nepa
- enjoy better security
- enjoy daily craziness
- enjoy etc

murphyibiam15:
In as much as the guy is corrupt, he's still invaluable in fighting crime. I wish he has learnt to be clean and be stainless from now henceforth

lol.,you can't make this shit up.

SmartPolician:

Will stingy Nigerian girls with a sense of entitlement finance the wedding?

Good question.

Angelfrost:
...Or move on to the next available and serious man! Abi men dey scarce??!

financially stable men who would like to propose are scarce.

Sonnobax15:

Feminists no go take am easy with you

How? are they not 'fighting for equality'? This is equality gaddammed it! Equality to propose if not proposed to.

erico2k2:

Ok those who aint in the Tech industry nah weetin dem 4 do nah?

you can work without German. but more opportunities are available if you can speak the language. Many tech positions still require German and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.