zoba88: I know he will speak out at the right time when the Holy Spirit directs him. He is fearless. Not hiding and be criticizing Buhari.He said Buhari is running demoncracy. He also blamed him for leaving our health system in shamble and go to abroad for treatment. Also listen to what he said about Hope Uzodimma. He also said that he has not met Nnamdi Kanu before but may God bless him. According to him, it is not wrong for someone to have courage, rise up and say that his people are maltreated
rotimioluwamuyi: I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her..... How can I handle this matter?
DSC7: I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...
TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....
Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...
As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....
She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...
Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...
My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....
1. Make time for her consistently.A woman feels loved when you make time for and prioritize her in your life. I’ve seen a lot of men who tend to create lots of time for women during the dating process, but not once we’re in a relationship with them.
2. Appreciate her.Most women go out of their way to nurture, care for and serve the people they care most about. So much of their work and giving is ignored. Simple appreciation for what she means to you can make a world of difference to her.
3. Acknowledge her.Notice what she did and let her know that you appreciate it. A thoughtful gesture, kind word or small gift will help her feel appreciated.
4. Accept her for who she is.Appreciate her for the best version of herself instead of reminding her of her flaws. The simplest way to love a woman is to accept her for who she is – no need to change her or wish she were different. No need to tell her that she doesn’t measure up or is insufficient in some way.
5. Let go of trying to change her.Along the same lines of accepting her is learning to let go of trying to change her in the relationship. You can’t expect or demand that a woman be a certain way in your relationship.
6. Cultivate compassion.Part of accepting her involves compassion and understanding for what she’s going through.Compassion means understanding her challenges, her upbringing, and the difficulties she’s experiencing in daily life. Compassion means being present, being empathetic, and being forgiving – it’s seeing where she’s coming from.
7. Offer a listening ear.Women, more so than most men, love to talk as a way of expressing themselves, as a way of sharing and even as a way of loving.One easy way for us to love them is to listen to them without trying to fix them, help them, or troubleshoot for them. Listening without judgment or advice helps people feel heard and seen.
8. Show openness and honesty.When you do converse, nothing can make a woman feel more loved than honesty.Women, I’ve found, value this quality more than almost any other one. Being able to have an honest conversation, share deep and intimate thoughts and have an open conversation allows women to feel safe.
9. Be vulnerable with her.Women feel loved when you share your feelings and your experiences – positive and negative – with them. They don’t want to hear your every fear and worry, but they do want to hear what you’re struggling with and your challenges.
10. Commit to being a better partner.The best thing you can do for her – and for you – is to become the best version of yourself. Grow, learn and work on improving yourself. Work on eliminating bad habits and becoming emotionally stronger and more vulnerable.
11. Show small acts of thoughtfulness.It doesn’t seem like fancy trips or heroic declarations of love impress most women. More than heroism and grand gestures, it’s the small, everyday acts of thoughtfulness and care that seem to matter most.
Thekanowarrior: Dear ladies, Let me teach you how to show love to your guy. Some of you ladies do not know how to show love to the guy you are dating. some ladies think that the only way to show a guy love is by having sex with him; that is why some ladies do not have anything to offer a guy except sex. Sex is not a prove of love. Don't use sex to prove that you love a guy. As a lady, you can prove that you love a guy in the following ways:
RESPECT HIM!!! (very important) . 1. Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-shirts, shoes, undies, singlets or even a phone if you have the money. 2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills at least once in 2 months. It is not bad at all. 3. Send him some love text messages occasionally. 4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily, ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him. 5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a week or once in two weeks, but not everyday like a housewife. 6. You can also help him financially when he is broke. 7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a year, you will not die. 8. Pray for him 9. Advise him 10. Help him to build a bright future. 11. Do not go through his phone. (a man's phone is like onion. once u start cutting, u must cry) 12. Do not Nag 13. Learn to give him space when he needs it 14. Give him time to hang out with the boys, everything is not about you SIS.
I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for your guy, not sex, sex sex. . Guys, Did I make sense?
Well said! but its better for the guy above to go and hang himself instead of breaking the heart of such lady that can do all the 14 point listed because when such kind of woman decides to seek revenge for breaking her heart, even the devil sits down and begin to learn EVILNESS from her.
Haha haha... I don't do yahoo guy. I Dont do rituals. I met her wen I earn like 30k monthly. I wan hungry die.. But I got dreams and plans.. So came in. Encourage me, I sat up. Source for funds to fulfill dreams ah supported even financially well. I met bigness risk dat pulled me down. So lost believe.. I still believed. Sh want ready for a restart. I continued to find a way.. Cuz it's about my own life.. So quitted and said "am working in circles".
I beefed and tried to talk sense to her. So no gree.. Now d same biz now earns me 150k monthly. And still growing.. I go buy car soonest. Honestly wish she still dry. But I guess sh still no send. Life goes in with another girl
..... With this kind of English, i understand why she left!
Must everybody hammer? people like you push people to crime. na wetin dey make guys do yahoo yahoo and other crimes. just work hard and pray hard, u will make it.
Zorr: All these stress for some senseless men? especially when it's a Nairaland guy, you never start. Babe just break his heart and move on, no time to explain to him about anything.
Mine sent a text ND blocked me, stopped picking calls and stopped replying chats.... On top nothing ooo
No cheating, beating, bad mouthing, insulting......... Only crime, I never hammer.
Well, God dey
so sorry about the experience you had. keep trying. the write person will come but one thing you should also know is that " not hammering is also a crime" lol
Nancy and Nelson love affair was a talk of the town, as everyone thought they will be leading to an alter until trouble began; Nelson stabbed Nancy on the neck. Today Nancy is no more while Nelson is in jail. How come such a sweet relationship ends so badly?
Here are 3 ways on how to end an affairs without bitterness,
First and foremost, once an affair is over, don't broadcast your relationship with your Ex with anyone be it good or bad experience , as it will not create a good image about the parties involved.
Secondly, don't say NO with your MOUTH and YES with your BODY: Most of us ( especially the male folks) make this kind of mistake, as we tend to be carried away with feelings and the memory of the past. usually, because of this erotic feelings, we find our selves saying YES again whenever situation like - konji appear out of blue from either of the parties, therefore , we tend to forget our initial word and before we knew it , we find our selves in the arms of the same person we rejected or said NO to. So to prevent this from happening, create a reasonable distance with your EX once an affair is over.
Thirdly, call your EX on phone if you can't confront the person physically whenever you feel like you are no longer comfortable but you don't know how to let the cat out of the bag, all you need to do is just to pick up your phone and get the person informed about your decision but mind you, your excuse shouldn't be on the basis of a new relationship you are entering even if that is the reason for the break up because we way normal for this world we no reach 5. Therefore, you have to be careful how to let this cat out of the bag.
conclusively, once an affair is over, the both parties should treat each other with fairness and respect, and please endeavor to stay far from your ex to avoid story that touches.
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