SocialJustice:
Do which needful, person is on her way to become executive director, you're speaking English.

At times I just think one can never be good enough. These people make it seem like you'd have to always bend all the laws in order to make it in this life. Its tiring.

This one has mental challenges. Created a huge enormous thread to talk down women. Tueh!!!

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princessConfy:
seeing this post frightens me more. my relationship of 5 months is giving me headache. he said he can't give me money except I ask. I've tried to explain to him that I'm not good in asking and I don't ask because he said his ex gf used to be too demanding. now I don't know if I ask small he may think I'm pretending if I ask big he may think I'm too demanding. He will ask me to visit and when I want to leave he'll wait till we are almost at the junction before he will ask if I have T.p. anytime we have an argument he will threatened our relationship...
I don tire... cos I don't know if I should continue or quit.. relationship wahala

You're seeing the signs, instead of you to run faster than Usain Bolt, maybe question you dey ask. Be like say you still be jjc for ikpu and ibongi matters. Tear eye o babe. Tear eye well well.

I'm happy for both of you. Enjoy your fantasy world with your fantasy wife and her equally fantasy boyfriend. I bet you live next to Bill Gates and Elon Musk in lala land.

Stop all these lies abeg

I can see this happened last night? Hope you have not had your bath yet? Quietly go to the nearest police station, write down a statement. Then go the nearest government hospital the A&E section, explain to the doctor what happened to you. They will do a swab test for you while the police arrests him and asks for his semen analysis. You where raped by someone who is supposed to be your friend. No is No. Nothing like I thought she wanted it. I'm sorry you passed through all these. Warm hugs from me to you.

henryhemon:


From what was gathered, she was at the wrong place at the wrong time probably dating one of those boys. It is a Yahoo deal gone wrong.

Ahn. It is well with her family.

Ishilove:
Your husband sounds like my ex. If not that he is married to you, I would have sworn that he is the same person. Nasty creature.

I dealt with the situation by simply exing him, but your case is not so simple. My advice will be to endure until you can endure no more. When you get pushed to the wall, you will fight back. The outcome of that fight is what I don't know.

Ewo. I didn't know you married twice o. I go like hear this jist.

Oh God.
I remember seeing a missing person poster of this fine girl on twitter. Her neighbors even came online to say how reserved and unproblematic she was. Someone can be minding their business and evil will still knocked on your door. She was last seen in her house.

Oh God.... Father protect us from evil. May their souls rest in peace. Amen

Hian.

Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%.

Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills.
No this kain thing make me say I no go marry "brother" when I dey small. Most of them are lazy and are dreamers. They expect manner to fall from heaven after their praying and fasting forgetting Paul had a handiwork that sustained him all through his life hence he didn't have to beg and depend on anyone. I no dey like this kind jist. He's not even appreciative of his supportive wife. I know women who use all their money to buy shoes, clothes and the latest asoebi, their husbands dare not say pim because they'd even take his own and join.

covid2019:







How did you reach this conclusion?

Don't tar everyone with the same brush. IT IS WAY CHEAPER TO STAY ALONE THAN STAY WITH THIS FRIEND.

Without sounding immodest, I am the one helping. And it's not upto 3 years I started staying there.


Maybe I should have said living not squatting, Its 4 rooms and parlour family house.

Only 2 siblings at home.
There is an empty room I use. In fact, I have access to everywhere.
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.I spend money there too.

I foot many bills there. In fact the last small renovation cost me circa 200k. It's a family house . No rent is paid.
The friend is a post grad student and rarely stays at home.

.It would have been cheaper for me to stay alone. He drives my car. In fact, I taught him how to drive.

I buy gas, foodstuff etc.

Only if you knew how much I hate to beg, let alone letting people feed me

I started this hustle in school.

It took me 6 years.

I was able to save due to frugal nature. I don't show off, I don't brag. I even stated that my car is rickety valued at 350k.

If I was proud person, maybe I would have bought Camry to chase girls.

I suffered so much growing up. I left those details to reduce length of post.


You may not understand.

I feel like crying typing this.

Stop doing copy and paste to justify anything. I believe you have gotten the advice you already need. Why not quote them to say "thank you".


I went through the thread and you contradicting yourself several places I. Trying to explain what not but that's not the agenda of the day. What you want and how you choose to spend your money is your business. Don't come here saying its cheaper to live on your own. If you're not benefiting anything from there you wouldn't still be there. And also stop using the I suffered too much growing up line you don't know our individual stories here.



BTW, I hope you always send something back home to your parents for their upkeep Abi you're still doing them uncle Ijebu style.

This one is not just a miser but also a user. You mean you have over 10m in your account but still choose to squat with your friend? That way you're barely responsible for anything. Ehen!!!??!!!!!!

Nothing I will not hear on nairaland.

Na wah o. See as my mouth hang.

JasonJidenna:
Even after leaving office, Peter Obi is still saving lives of "Anambarians"

A leader with vision,

A proven Technocrat.

Unlike the "SHY" president who will be remembered for appointing dead people into office, Peter Obi will be remembered for good governance and saving the state some cash.

God bless Peter Obi.

God bless the PDP

God bless Delta State

God bless Chief James Onanefe Ibori.

Please show me where to drop your hug darling

You mumu sha. What a fantasy you have uncle OP. you for tell us say na wetin you want your slave to d for you na. I Don see wetin dey hungry you. While the woman does all these things, the only work the husband needs to do in that house is transfer 250k to side chick. I dey feel you Sir.

Tueh!!!

icon02:
You are an ungrateful soul and you don't deserve forgiveness.

If they accept you again, youll do the same thing.

Life is a matter of choice. The circumstances around us is a consequence of our choices.

Enjoy the life you have chosen.

I don't like to sound this way but I just have to tell you the truth.

Stop abeg. She was a kid. What does a teenager know at 17? At least she has realized her mistake.


@op go with her church pastor and beg her. Tell her you are genuinely sorry and mean it. Cry very well even if she chases you away lie in front of her door at night and refuse to go.
Don't forget to cry well well and hit yourself on the floor. You know that bleble crying style in nollywod.

Those saying okada and keke will not tell you that the risk of them running away with your automobile is 95.5%. If you get someone to trust, give it a try. Okay?

I'm on natural dreadlocks so it's party after party for baby girl.

1. Design a food timetable for your wife.
2. Help with the kids everyday before you run off (dress up for school, homework, evening bath, feed the younger ones)
3. Machines don't drop clothes in hampers, humans do - pick up after yourself and every other person.
4. Dedicate one night every week specifically for you and your wife only this day and time is for both of you to do or go anywhere or anything she likes, thank God you have a maid.








For someone who hasn't had a job for 2years and their still calling to ask what you would like to eat... Hmmmm, advice your self.

Nice one. Keep it up. Happy Ramadan to all our Muslim friends

Time has made them evolve. Everyone is looking more beautiful than they used to be. By the way, I miss yuzedo and his undying love for Rita Dominic. Those where the days.

May all the 'awwwn' squad click like.

Wow. Time for all men to be patriotic. Cut your odiviagba and stay alive

If with the price of pampers and cerelac your wife still wants 4kids who am I to advise both of you? Ehn?

Mouth dey scratch you abi? After saying you don't know her you still went to tell your wife asper nta news wey you be. You don forget say that kind story na wetin women dey use score cheap points when they do roforofo fight... No mind your business you hear?

If you have a female boss. Will you come here with same questions?

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I wanted to advise you but I have a feeling you'd not take any of the good advises giving to you up there so bye. Enjoy your relationship.

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Lay everything out on the table just as you did here and let her decide if she wants to stay or not. If she decides to stay then you need to let her know that there's be no need for all the drama

That's real good. Some people don't even have half a this in their house

People should stop peddling rumors about other people. Not nice at all. Does more harm than good