i have experienced what it is like. in a situation when u know he was once there and u know aw much he want to do so and all his effort and the fact that anytime he has a little he shares, there is no how u will not respect him and even pity him.my dad experienced this before he died and till tomorrow i still cry when i remember him.he was always there to welcome us home cos mum was at work he will give u the latest family gist when u av been away for some time wants to talk to u and all that. he is loving to his wife, no smoking, no drinking and he will rather use his little money for the family's necessity than buy clothes.he does allot of things in the house that we didn't take notice of until he died and we started feeling him.if i start telling u all he does u will not believe it .despite the fact that he was not employed he took kia of so many things and never gets angry with my mother even when he has reasons to. he calls me "small" and sincerely i love him. he is tall and huge and u cant help but miss his presence at home and it is worse now that he is no more. sincerely i believe now that he was more employed than my mum cos what he did cannot be quantified. sleep on dad till we meet to part no more. we all miss u.

i am very surprised at the response of some people here. beating a baby is wrong no doubt about that, but the moment a child starts growing there is this natural "naughtiness" that needs to be corrected and if after warning the child verbally he or she didn't yield then the scolding comes in and in as much as it is necessary u dnt av to overdo it. in a home where there is love, verbal correction and flogging ones in a while, the home will be peaceful and the children grow to be good children. i dont agree that one should not scold children but u must make sure u show more of love and verbal correction. for those that says otherwise pls. have a rethink, it is not a crime

i call mine daddy during his life time, my elder sister calls him Mr. "O" meaning Mr olaiya. but when discussing we use popsy

am a Nigerian but presently in Gambia with my husband. used to think Nigeria is expensive only for me to get here and find out that retouching is D150 = N750 and above. u have to pay for retouching separately, washing and setting separately. at the end of the day u will be spending alike D300 = N1500/2000 on retouching and setting.found out that most Nigerian women here do their retouching themselves at home and if u have to go to the salon maybe once or twice in a year. u don't know aw much i wish am at home.u never know the value of what u have until u loose it. prices are OK in Nigeria believe me

definitely one's natural look is the real standard for qualifying a person as being beautiful, the addition of make ups and other accessories make u pretty, attractive and so on. to know how beautiful a lady is get to see her without make ups and very early in the morning, or see her while sleeping without makeup.

i met mine at ibadan nine years ago, (the polythecnic ibadan, apete) i was 18yrs old. he came to visit his friend whom we stayed in thesame hostel together. he came from ijebu- ogun state university. i noticed him but thot i was not interested in rugged guys not knowing he was on a mission to get me - guy's runs. but i proved him wrong gave him a tough time and made him see more to my outside beauty, the inner one. i later found out that am crazy about this rugged and handsome guy.we started dating on the 29th of may 1999 and dated for 8 years. it was a beautiful, memorable and adventurous relationship. just got married this june. the love keeps growing stronger every day and am glad he came on that mission. by God'sgrace we will be aving a large family soon. love is truely beautiful.

for all the prayers above, i pray the lord that answereth by fire will answer them speedily in jesus name amen.
i pray the lord to pls provide a good job for me
i pray the lord to bless my husband and increase him financially
i pray the lord to grant me the fruit of the womb and celebrate my 1st wedding anniversary with my baby in jesus name
i pray the lord to bless my marriage and increase the love and bond between me and my husband and for his everlasting protection on our family
i pray the lord to bless my sister with the fruit of the womb too b4 this year runs out
i pray for my immediate senior sister that next year will be her year for marriage in jesus name
i pray the lord to be with my mum, brothers and sisters, provide for them, bless and protect them from all evils and trials and financially surprise them