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Romance / Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by vicksbaba(m): 7:37pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: "If I've seen further it's because I stood on the shoulders of giants - Isaac Newton" John Does tweets are based on real time experiences from several people who are in the institute of marriage but are suffering in silence because of the societal pressure to "Man up" in the face of affliction. I vehemently disagree with the words you stringed; they carry a subtle distaste to the fact that Joe Doe exposes the silent cries of Men. It takes a man to learn from his own experience, but an even wise man to learn from the experience of others. That being said, notice how I tailored my reply and answered your quote without using vile words? I think it'll be wise if you incorporate a similar fashion in your reply. Cheers to a wonderful day ahead My 2cents 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by vicksbaba(m): 10:51am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Hello OP, how do you do? I have read the entire thread and I totally understand the angle you're coming. You're in love, you have made the decision to get married, you're about to pop the question. First ,I'll start by answering your question; You can- 1) Ask her directly 2) Tell her female friend or sister your intention; they'll come up with a very good plan independently, and they'll get you her ring size 3) Take her out on shopping to the place where you want to purchase the ring; let her select the one she likes.. then propose to her Next; when different anonymous people are saying things that are gearing towards a similar conclusion, it means the universe is trying to tell you something... Take a pause, re-evaluate, and try to see sense in what they're saying without being blinded by emotions. Also, follow John doe on twitter... He talks about things most men wish they knew before entering into marriage based on real life experiences My 2 cents 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: My Son's Behavior Is Getting Out Of Hand by vicksbaba(m): 4:31pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
klassyguy: Hi, good day. Your son needs a pediatric neurologist to assess him. Thks looks like ADHD, but the history tilts towards High functioning autism. Please get a pediatric neurologist to evaluate him. Confirming this diagnosis will enable you to be able to utilize his narrow but above normal interests and skills |
Romance / Re: She Can't Marry A Barber by vicksbaba(m): 5:28pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Zee0007: The frontal lobe of the human brain fully develop in the third decade; meaning most choices we make in our twenties are irrational; choices made without a deep and full understanding of consequences. She'll learn with time that she has made a very costly mistake. I wish her well, and hopefully the universe has something much more beautiful for her in the end. Please update us when she's 32 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Jehovah's Witness Wife Rejected Blood Transfusion For Her Husband & He Died by vicksbaba(m): 7:31pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Pecoleee345: I stand to disagree. I really hope this story is true, because I see discrepancies in this story. First, before you get a surgery done at LUTH, medical students clerk the patient. The very first rule of clerking is NASAROM. Name, Age, Sex, address, religion, occupation, marital status After the medical students take the history, the junior resident takes a history using NASAROM as a format. After which,the senior registra takes a history. This means that the Religion of a patient can never be missed .. especially a patient undergoing surgery. Once you're scheduled for surgery, the anesthetic will also clerk using similar format It's note worthy that the anesthetics can estimate whether or not a patient will require transfusion and before the surgery, the anesthetic, the senior registra and the consultant talks to the patient especially during the ward round about the need for a possible transfusion... This story is not adding up.. something is gravely wrong with this story: the decision to transfuse would have been discussed with the patient himself for any major operation that will require loss of blood no matter how minimum... if this happened in a private hospital, I'll understand; but not in LUTH 4 Likes |
Health / Re: Dr. Onyekachi Nwabuko Arrested For Slapping Patient Repeatedly In US by vicksbaba(m): 7:11pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican: Yh, true he over stepped his authority. Going a third time to reconfirm a diagnosis he had already made using noxious stimuli was uncalled for. Yh, his arraignment will be very interesting. 3rd of March it is� |
Health / Re: Dr. Onyekachi Nwabuko Arrested For Slapping Patient Repeatedly In US by vicksbaba(m): 5:42pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican: Hi, @1stGenAmerican Good day. Please read the report again and note the following lines; The staffer said that despite seeing the patient clearly attempting to stop her hand from hitting her face. So yes, I dare say that she was faking it. This is most likely a case of Munchausen's syndrome. The patient attempted to stop her hand from hitting her face. All reflexes are lost in unconsciousness If she was unconscious, she wouldn't know that the doctor did a sternal rub. Please read the line below (the victim's own statement); The victim told police that she was “semi-unconscious” during the interactions but that she clearly remembered Nwabuko striking her and telling her that she was “faking the seizure,” per the affidavit. A patient who presents with generalized seizures with associated alteration of conciousness of any kind cannot remember events that occurred during the course of being unconscious. Her statements betrays her; she was clearly faking it. Yes, the doctor was wrong to have gone as far as inflicting injuries to her. He's most likely eccentric, and seeing the patient faking a seizure gave him a good laugh. Wrong, I know, but in the end, he was right. Yes, a hand drop test can be repeated severally; this is not just because reflexes are easy to miss but also, ones observation of a reflex can be biased. Like I said earlier, he breached the physician oath of "doing no harm". And that's why he got nailed. Protocol is a very vague word @A doctor of his caliber follows protocol; We don't know the full story so I can't really tell whether he followed protocol.. but from the statements made, I can make the following assumptions; 1) attempts at resuscitation had already being made 2) IV fluid was already in place (most likely had dextrose saline to correct hypoglycemia if she was hypoglycemic).. her blood sugar was fine 3) she failed the sternal rub test, and the doctor knew something was wrong. He then proceeded to do a hand drop test I want you to know that painful stimulus is normal protocol for accessing an unconscious patient. Squeezing the lunar area of her thumb with a pen would have been a better option than a hand drop test. P.S; Patients with munchausen syndrome often already know the handdrop test; most times, they have had this done for them in the past.. he was wrong repeating the same painful stimulus over and over when he knew he was dealing with psychogenic coma. I strongly doubt that those injuries were sustained by the hand drop test,.. the force from your own hand will not cause the lesions described... but that's story for another day... I want you to know that patients with munchausen can fake symptoms and injuries 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Dr. Onyekachi Nwabuko Arrested For Slapping Patient Repeatedly In US by vicksbaba(m): 12:13pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
gypsey: You realize that you were most likely reported to the social service by the dentist yh? When a medical professional sees a case of suspected child abuse (by acts performed by the parent or guardian at the consultation room or physical signs such as bruising), the medic is bound by law to call the social service; with or without prove or validation from the child 1 Like |
Health / Re: Dr. Onyekachi Nwabuko Arrested For Slapping Patient Repeatedly In US by vicksbaba(m): 9:01am On Feb 21, 2022 |
This is called the "Hand drop test" and it's used in the emergency room to determine whether or not a patient is faking unconsciousness. The idea is that when a patients hand is about to hit his or her face, a reflex will prevent the hand from hitting the face in a patient who is faking. This will save a patient from unnecessary interventions. The sternal rub too is also a test used to know the degree of unconsciousness in a patient. The patient was clearly conscious because an unconscious patient will not remember the details of events that happened while in an unconscious state. Clearly, this said patient has an underlying psychiatry condition. The doctor shouldn't have gone to the extent of inflicting injury because the oath says " do no harm". That's probably why he was arrested... But that aside, his medicine is sound.. he was right. She was faking 5 Likes |
Religion / Re: What To Do During Calls For Multiple Offerings? by vicksbaba(m): 9:58am On Dec 26, 2021 |
Learn to give a Bleep about the little things that matters; learn not to give a Bleep about the many things designed to make you feel less than yourself. Do this and you'll know peace. |
Food / Re: What is The Process Of Turning Raw Garri To Eba Called? by vicksbaba(m): 7:40am On Nov 26, 2021 |
adioolayi: Thank you. I just learnt something new |
Pets / Re: Help My Dog Is Going Blind by vicksbaba(m): 10:33am On Nov 15, 2021 |
blackmamber: Brother, don't waste your Money on vets..most of them are just out there to collect your money! In as much as they have the right to charge you, I'm a strong believer that they should charge you only when they know exactly what's going on... I'll tell you what's going on with your pet and you're going to pay me because no consultation is free. First, it's really simple; 1) there's a family history of similar condition (happened to its mother) ; this is why it's extremely important to know the pedigree of your dog; Know the family history of diseases before purchasing 2) you own a Boston terrier. Your pet has a condition called corneal dystrophy; it's an inherited disease common to this breed of dogs. I don't want to go into the details, but the summary is that there's no cure. Your dog is genetically predisposed to having materials getting deposited within the outer layer of his eyes. This can cause reduction of visual acuity and subsequently early loss of vision. Ulceration due to the changes in the corneal can cause superimposed bacteria infection which can accelerate blindness. The discharge is a sign of an ongoing bacteria infection. You can do the following; 1) get chloramphenicol eye drops apply twice in eyes three times daily for 5 days 2) saline drops; apply twice in eyes three times daily before each chloramphenicol drops .. then continue PRN even after the 5days of chloramphenicol eye drops The above will reduce the progression of the disease Treatment is replacement of the corneal. I don't think any vet in Nigeria does that. Corneal transplant in human medicine self isn't something you see done in Nigeria. I wish you and your pet goodluck Remember next time you're purchasing a pet; ASK FOR THE FAMILY HISTORY OF DISEASES Disclaimer; I'm Dr Victor; I'm a medical doctor, not a veterinarian.. I deal with human diseases. 4 Likes |
Religion / Re: Oshoffa In The Sky: Celestial Church Members Claim To See Their Founder (Video) by vicksbaba(m): 8:35am On Oct 25, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: The fact that I also saw this before reading your comment is scary |
Health / Re: What Is Meaning Of This Test Comment. by vicksbaba(m): 11:57am On Oct 24, 2021 |
atorioke: It means your red blood cells ( the cells that carries Oxygen throughout your body) is normal in size (normocytic) and has enough hemoglobin (the pigment that helps the Red-blood cells to carry Oxygen. Thus normochromic) Please visit your doctor with your tests results, as a good PCV or Hb or peripheral blood smear does not exclude the absence of a disease. We treat based on clinical symptoms.. the tests just aids diagnosis. Thank you 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Experience Badluck Anytime I Have Sex With Her by vicksbaba(m): 10:48am On Oct 23, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: I really enjoy reading your posts!!!! They're very foolish but extremely hilarious.. how you come up with these gibberish still amazes me 2 Likes |
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Arts Lovers Come Rate A Newbie Like Me! by vicksbaba(m): 11:10am On Oct 20, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro: This is lovely! No filters on it next time please 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 10:44pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
MMotimo: John 11 Vs 35 |
Family / Re: Bored In Marriage by vicksbaba(m): 11:15am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Pinch yourself, you're only dreaming.. I can assure you that when you wake up, you'll be an unmarried man! |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 10:56am On Oct 16, 2021 |
iamL: They're not obligated to do such. This discussion really should come to a close. I've done my own research and I'm sorry, nothing can beat the DNA evidence. DNA doesn't lie. It's either you did it or you did not. There's no Inbetween. I was thinking of a contamination or a secondary transfer of DNA. But trueallele is the peak of DNA evidence; it's gold standard... Even a contamination will be detected. He didn't even file a motion of contamination or secondary transfer! His filling was to contest the validity and accuracy of DNA testing; questioning the source code of trueallele! Guys, please close this thread. It's an embarrassment to our intelligence. I appreciate the efforts of chatinent and daintyprincess. It's good to give one the benefits of the doubt. but in all honesty, he has abused that benefit by not being honest with us. Please, let's stop being a rape apologist!!! Especially when it comes to child rape. This could be your daughter! Your sister! Your wife! Imagine this man doing those dirty and Vile things to her! It's painful, it's horrible, it's a nightmare! Put yourself in that little girls shoes; she has been traumatized for life! Imagine her coming to nairaland, rereading this thread, seeing some idiot questioning her virginity! She'll experience that trauma over and over again by mere reading these. Every comment that supports Mr Bah encourages pedophiles out there! Mr Bah walking down the street as a free man endangers every 13 years old female! Bah remains in Bars and that's period! 17 Likes 7 Shares |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 10:56pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
1stGenAmerican: so much energy in those words... Omo 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 10:47pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
MMotimo: Easyyyyy .. Ahn Ahn... I'm cryingggggggg in here 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 7:42am On Oct 14, 2021 |
mysticwarrior: Sighs. They're both different individuals who understand how the US justice system works. They don't make conclusions based on sentiments. They work based on evidence, and honestly, all evidence points towards the defendant being guilty. I'm sure that 1stgenamerican has no ties with GeorgeChidi as Georges attention to this thread was as a result of David Hundeyi who said he should look into this case. Personally, I'm still searching for light in this case.. like I said before, something isn't adding up.. the story isn't complete 13 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 4:16am On Oct 14, 2021 |
GeorgeChidi: George, thank you for the time taken to look into this case. Truly appreciated. David said you've done your research and that Mr Bah isn't completely honest. But my question is that in view of this evidence, is it possible that he was framed? Is it possible that his DNA was implanted on the crime scene by someone behind the scene? Yes, arguing that the test is flawed is a very dumb move because it's Gold standard. But I'm just looking for a possibility of this being an innocent man. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Investment / Re: Plan For 2021- Make #100k Monthly From Affiliate Business Starting With #15k by vicksbaba(m): 3:54pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 3:18pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Powerhouse, please contact David Hundeyin. I've reached him on Twitter and he's now aware of your case, but I need you to personally reach out to him. 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 9:03pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
achillesfoot: You lifted these words directly from my thoughts... I ask again Mr Olaniyi, what was the nature of your Job in Japan? You said "business" what kind of business? something is not just right 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 12:07pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by vicksbaba(m): 11:44am On Oct 11, 2021 |
This is a lengthy read. I've been following this thread as a silent observer. To be very honest, all evidence screams that Mr Olaniyi is guilty. In as much as I want to move on from this story, something is off.. something is not right. @1stGenAmerican; can you try looking outside current evidence? Mr Olaniyi had 6 SUVs; he was obviously very wealthy. My question is "what was the source of his wealth?" Was he a member of a crime syndicate? Things didn't go well with his dealings? Did he mess up with the wrong people in high places who Framed him with evidence that are irrefutable? The act was committed, but by who? A black person who's part of this crime syndicate? Mr Olaniyi, let's start with the basics. What was your means of livelihood in Georgia? Before Georgia, where were you, and what were you doing? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Is Broken Marriages And Divorce High In This Generation by vicksbaba(m): 2:58pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Idamond: I'm no professional, so I'm sorry to disappoint you but you're going to hear from me @ let's hear from the pros So here's the thing, there's a wide variety of reasons why a marriage ends down the divorce lane, but I'm going to be brief you on the most common causes; 1) Ignored Red flags; I often tell people that earlier in a relationship, the feeling of Love in ones heart clouds the logical reasoning in ones brain. In other words, the reason love is said to be blind is because it tends to make us to overlook the flaws in our partners. These flaws can be that very nimbus that tilts a long term relationship/marriage down the divorce lane, because when the mirage of love fades away, the main question is "can you live with your partners flaws?". Trust me, those flaws are often present earlier in the relationship, they're often glaring; most people choose to deliberately ignore them, some vehemently believe that their partner will change in time as the love waxes stronger, but let me tell you the truth; Any flaw you see in your partner today in your partner will be amplified by a 100 during the course of marriage; be it an anger management issue, a religious inclination (an atheist, agnostic, a fanatic), a spendthrift, a womaniser, a firth, and so on. So the answer is simply a question; if these obvious/ not so obvious flaws are amplified in my partner by a 100, will I be able to stay or will I walk out? This question alone during courtship can make or break a long term relationship 2) Postpartum/Postpregnancy changes; pregnancy is a journey towards motherhood, and childbirth brings about the joy of parenthood, but sometimes, the pregnancy brings about changes in women that Men do not understand. Some adapt to these changes, others can't just cope. A typical example is something will call Postpartum depression in women after child birth. Men should be educated about these things, and that's why I'm a strong advocate of men attending antenatal clinics with their wife especially during the third trimester of pregnancy. 3) The rush to put a ring to it; "my friends are getting married, I have to get married". Marriage is now a competitive sport that everyone's jumping into simply because everyone is doing it. This applies to both the male and female gender. Every weekend, there's a least two of your guys getting married; this puts a subconscious pressure on you, that you rush into it without adequate planning; if you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Like all commitments, you should have short term goals, medium term goals, long term goals; a timetable for how you want the ship to sail. Rushing blindly into the river of marriage without having a map to guide you through the navigation of the storm will wreck you in little to no time 4) Modernization of our generation with a tilt towards gender equality and equity; I'll start this on a weird note; Sex. Sex is a primary instinct, and like other social animals, we use sex to bond and procreate. The male social animal has females and their children that flock around him, depending on food, shelter and protection. If a male social animal conquers another male in a fight, that defeated male gives up his territory including his females to the victorious male. This was true in ancient times for the human race too until modernization came into place; the daughters of Eve ate yet from another tree of knowledge of good and evil; a knowledge that's punishes the institution of marriage. The primary instinct of men is to be polygamous in nature (hell no, this is not an excuse for "cheating".. it's just a reality) and the earlier this is recognised by our woke generation, the better this modern contract called marriage will survive. Yes, you heard me right, contract. During the relationship, Always discuss these things; it may sound weird, but in reality, it'll go a long way. If you decide to leave your polygamous nature as a Man, and through self discipline, you want to stick to one partner, then you must discuss this with your partner. If in the long run, you betray your words, then the onus is on you. However, if you as a Man decide to lay with another woman, please do it with caution as the modern generation of women are unforgiving. I repeat, unforgiving. Men have sex to dominate, to release the tension, as sports. Women on the other hand have sex to be dominated, controlled, taken or won over. A man who's having carnal knowledge of another woman will be so furious seeing his wife under another man because his subconscious tells him he has lost A woman who sees her husband on another woman however feels that that woman has something better to offer than her. Her brain tells her ; what do I lose if I leave this marriage? Will I lose my security if I exit? If she's still dependent on the man, she'll have no reason to leave. So kings, please remember, she has to have the feeling of security from you, and only you. You've to monopolize it. There's no equality in this. The rib will dessicate without the main body, and that's how it's supposed to be. The moment you let her assume a position of equality or its resemblance, it's over. 5) allowing external influences to affect homely decisions can destroy your home. Fights happen, and when internal conflicts are resolved among conflicting couple, bonds gets stronger. External influences tends to weaken marital bonds in the long run 6) lastly, shit happens, people fall out, life happens. At times, don't overthink it. Just take your L in peace I've a whole lot more to say, but I gatu run. Cheers. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by vicksbaba(m): 8:43pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: That's why I think Op should do a DNA test on those kids.. they're probably his bachelor friend's offspring 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by vicksbaba(m): 8:41pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Oblongata: Oblongata: Op, I don't mean to be disrespectful or anything, but just do DNA test on your children, and if possible, run the test against your bachelor friend's blood sample. This may sound absurd, but you see that fatherly love your bachelor friend is radiating? It's a reason to be curious.. ever heard of "alpha seeds, beta grows?"; Alpha impregnate, beta fathers? Anyways, True happiness is the ability to find peace and satisfaction in ones own company. Once you start depending on other people's presence to become happy, then you're truly lonely. The test of happiness is a very simple question; "when I'm all alone, do I really feel happy?" If yes, then you're truly happy 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Business / Re: How Do I Prevent Loan Apps Like Sokoloan From Calling My Contacts by vicksbaba(m): 7:32pm On May 09, 2021 |
Capitawap: How much are we talking about here? I can assist you, but you'll have to pay me back in a month time.. with interest of course. If you're ready, I'm a DM away 6 Likes |
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