I have two bad behaviours:
The first one: whenever I wake up in the morning especially when I wake up in a bad mood I just pick someone around the house to fight with... I fight with that person and by the end of the day I always regret it..I remember my cousin that stays with us..I woke up as usual and i remembered something bad she did to me a year ago and I got into a fight with her..the next thing I didn't cook her food with the rest since I an in charge of cooking
the girl just kept her cool...by evening my anger was gone and I started talking to her again..
It can be either my mum,sister, dad or brother..
Once I wake up frowning ...don't just near me...
I wonder if this is a mood swing or devil at work...

Second behavior::
I don't behave ladylike, not like I behave like a boy o ..i manage a poultry with my mum and whenever am working and my mum sent me on errand I don't even get to change, I just zoom off With that dirty working cloth unlike my younger sister who clean up even if she is going the next house..
I remembered my mum sent me fuel one day and I went without bra then I saw a guy staring at my chest,I gave him a bad stare that day..again I remembered going out with my friends and I ordered amala instead , I didn't pity the food at all, I was biting into the hard meat like I was at home...it was when I got up to wash my hands I discovered some people there giving me disgusting looks even , I didn't care anyways but my friends said I was shameless... Whenever I go to parties I tend to eat a lot without caring...my mom would have to caution me... My mom and dad are serious Christians and take no nonsense since am the first born and 21 years ...I had a bf once and when my parents found out ,my dad took belt and my mum turning stick and dealt with me...the next day I took out the anger on the guy and gave him a resounding slap..he broke up with me afterwards...my mom took me to all the pastors cuz of this bf issue .....all this made me view myself as a weirdo and its bothering me...
Someone pls advice...
Thanks