When it comes to relationships, be careful, be very careful not to get consumed in it.

Love, lust, obsession can kill if it's too much to handle and managed.

What a waste of life.

Op, let your mom live in peace. You think to get married again to a man is child's play? It's lots of work. And at 56? Trust me, she's not ready to go down that lane again.
My dad died before my mum at age 90 years, my mum was 55years back then. She was always alone, either cooking my meals and gisting with me as my chat buddy whenever I got back from work. Sometimes I get to see her reading her Bible. One day I asked her mummy, are u not lonely? Don't u want a man to keep you company? She smiled. She shook her head and said no. She is not ready for man wahala and she happy and peaceful seeing me working and getting myself together. That I'm the one who's suppose to marry, she has lived her life and no man can replace my dad. She's not just ready for any man issues. That I should marry and give her grandchildren.
I sighed, I said OK mom.

She looks peaceful living alone without a man and she died peacefully,5years later.

Op just leave your mom Abeg. Let her live her remaining life in peace.

Then your gf? Let her know mom is not getting married, end of discussion.

Sniper101:

You mean you actually believe the BS that lying piece of shit posted

Well he typed it with all form of confidence and joy.

And I wonder. I truly wonder.

What a pity.

tightpussy156:
I don't need ur stupid advice.you prostitute.read the topic very well @victorian(prostitute). you that jump from one bed to another for money want to give advice.The topic is fear women.

I'm not advicing you.

Advice you? You must be hallucinating.

And pls rant and wail prostitute from now till eternity on nairaland and everywhere u go , I'm less concerned.. You honestly think I care? Ekpa!

I'm simply saying facts of what u will experience too later in life.

U will learn bitterly by experience And remember Victorian said so some years back.

I'm done with your case file.

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tightpussy156:
@victorian don't quote me remember.you claim u have one boyfriend.u liar.ur wide hole has been dug by many dick so mind ur business.if another rich guy come ur way u will dumb that ur sisi boyfriend for the rich guy.ur love money is somehow.That is the truth if u like take or leave it.

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Ode!

Betraying your fellow man and you are there typing trash.

Shame on you! Other men too Will take turns and Bleep your wife on your matrimonial bed and laugh behind your back as u welcome, hug, entertain them and greet them heartily with great joy as your wife's family members amen!

Mumu!

Karma always represent wherever it's needed in full force.

Nonsense!

tightpussy156:
A pretty babe I met last month took me to her boyfriend house an introduce me as her cousin.so the foolish guy welcome me properly an told the girl to cook a nice meal for meal,I hate the sweet jollof rice, chicken,an chilled wine.the guy gave us space he told his girlfriend he want to check on somebody in town.immediately the guy left the babe have to woo me to the bed.i gave her the best an greatest Bleep in her life.she release twice.which she even confess about.fear women.who quotes me hug transformer.

Can you imagine? You are even worse than the gf.


Saying it with so much pride and joy in stabbing another guy who's kind and courteous to u. A main bf who fed u well, u still went round to Bleep his babe in his own house! If person no fear u? Make fear, fear the person!

Why are guys like this?

What do u derive in pretending and sharing another man's babe right under his nose?

Who do u like this?

Fear men more!

Men! Recently men have been bombarding my inbox on I love you. They re hurt cos I'm not reciprocating the love back. Omo, come and see emoji tears on my matter.

And ask me why?

Because I made a broadcast online that I'm dating a well known guy.

They saw my broadcast and now claiming useless love wey I no even understand, Awon morafuckas!

If they think they can ruin my relationship, they better think again!

Honestly I wonder how most guys reason?

Always lurking around to ruin someone happiness!

No single conscience towards the main bf, they want to share his babe with.

Fear men!

Any man who comes as a friend and want to make me start liking him more than my boo? I cut u off straight! Mo Raye oshi!

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One4me:


Going by your arguement now, your Dad did Great!
He married five wives and successfully trained 17children, unlike husband of nowadays.

Let me just pray for you: In the name of Jesus, you WILL be the 4th wife, in a marriage of five wives by your Husband.
Can l hear a BIG AMEN from you?, ..................shiroboboshimanaga (speaks in tongues to seal the prayer).

I am still waiting for your Amen, otherwise l 'wont' call you a Hypocrite!

"The Mad Man is easy and pleasurable to admire in the Market Square, but No one wants to be his Parent" - Nigerian Proverb

Lol



Keep dreaming



You are so naive! Do u think that's how prayer works with achieving the result u have in mind? U have eyes but u can't see.

Keep displaying your foolishness. No be only shiborogomanga

Na shiboroaiye! Smhhhhh.

Chai! So naive!

Money is good.

Liposure:
your father is da real G. He deserves an accolade

Thanks man!

I even envy my dad too.

Even in old age, he was still slaying with white hairs, and women still tripping on his matter. My mom just gave up complaining on his case.

Kemimarch16:
my sis not only you the thing tire o lol

And later they will say no wife material. All they see is gfs.

In my father's days, back in the olden days my dad single handedly took care of the house rents for all his 5 wives and 17 Children. Trained all the 17 children in schools to university level, sent some abroad while my mom had to stay back Cos he felt insecure taking her abroad as the others due to his extra possessiveness.
He opened a thriving business for any of his wives who wants to work while the others who prefer to stay home, stayed back to train and take care of her kids.

But these days, most men are wailing to be the wives At home than taking the lead role to be the man. And one wonders why divorce rate is very high.

Sighs May God help the men in this category to become real men again.

Kemimarch16:
So you expect her to be paying house rent because? I don't know why u have to tell us that, please try to be a responsible man and that will change her character towards you

U are asking again?

That's what most men expect from their wives, to pay house rent and school fees and also feeding.

So they ask those their silly questions : What are u bringing to the table?

I ask : Really?

Guys of these days ehn? Even the devil himself fears them and their liability mentality..

Thank God I don't need to deal with such mentality anymore.


Then encash , you are not serious! Only u said her spiritual husband is chasing u in dreams and also biting your dick!
And only u is still complaining she doesn't like sex. What exactly is your problem? The spirit husband chasing u in dreams after having sex with her or she not wanting sex anymore?

Sighs some men sef! Una case study Taya me.

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alexistaiwo:
This life no balance at all.


The hours-old kid is already richer than 80% of the Nigerian population and pikin never even recognise his mama



This life no balance!

This life no balance if and only if u listen to people's different views and advice.


Follow your mind and heart as Regina and her mother did, disregarding everyone.

Is she not legally married already With a brand new bouncing baby boy. Before everyone was almost crucifying her daily for getting married to an older man, now they are praising her. Sighs human beings! May God help Una.

And our dear Linda the billionaire mogul is a baby mama what an irony of life.

So For own sake and sanity don't follow people mouth. Just do what makes u happy!

When u start singing like a canary that u are a virgin, for all dick and Harry to hear, then sorry is your name.

Her virginity Don land her in trouble. Ritual things.

Eeyah

lefulefu:
am fine good afternoon

Goodevening

Happy weekend.

I say make I hail u!

I'm loyal o

lefulefu:
lol i dont think it has anything to do with age cos some older ladies still make fun of men who look after them financially and tag them as mumu behind their back .i remember one incident then in naija i was in a barbing saloon and one girl nearby came to change her phone in the saloon cos there was no light.the girl started sounding off and boasting to the guy was barbing my hair on how her guy takes care of her..that the guy is the one who rented the place where she is staying and it was the guy who bought this phone for her.that the guy is an ND2 student and also doing yahoo but the guy is not her type and he's ugly and when she has eaten his money she is going to dump him.i had to look at her through the mirror to get a good view of the girl who was sounding all this rubbish.She was kinder chubby, looked matured,not beautiful and had quite a dark complexion.In my mind i was now thinking why will a guy be spending money on this one but then i had another thought that some guys tend to be foolish .When she left the barber just shook his head and said he felt for the guy who was dating the girl .

Wow!
She has not seen life that's why.

Everything has always been rosy for and shes the type without conscience.

It's rather unfortunate Or fortunate I have seen life inside out, I know the value of money. I know what it takes to earn every little cent. It's not easy, it's not a walk in the park even na yahoo. It's not easy. So ladies who tend to label their helpers as mugu. Their own dey wait for them for front.
It's simply karma.
I thank God for my life anyways. Let them keep mocking their helpers for helping them, until there will be none to help them when they are in dire need of money to solve life threatening situations.

Na dem sabi. They over try o.

I have my own life to live I can't thank God enough Biko.
And I can't thank my destiny helper enough. He's a great man in this life and many many years to come. God will keep blessing him forever in Jesus name Amen o. And by Gods grace our story will end in great praise. I thank God. Upon all my wailing on my failed relationships with demons in male clothing all these past years. Mehn I thank God for this one.

So
Na the girls sabi o.

whytediamond:


@bolded: she didn't say the man is a bad man, she only said he's self-imposing. If she cuts off from her man because of this singular failing, have you bothered to ask yourself. Na woman dey find man? Do you know if she's 35? Ok if she sees the "good man", is she a good woman to the good man? Or you think she's perfect?

You've not heard from the brother and your verdict is dissolution. I can bet my balls you're not married.

Why do you now think you qualify to ask a lady to quit her relationship? Ladies are enemies of their kind, masquerading as friends.

Think about it.

It took me 7years to get over the horrors of dating over bearing men, all in the name of I want to marry. God forbid I go down such lane again. Heavens forbid such men cross my path again.

And yes I'm 35! I don't see anything wrong in it. But Marrying a mismatch cos of age? That's a red flag to me. If I have my way I won't every marry sef ,or stick with any man. You think I care so much about being in a suffocating relationship cos of what people will say?

Lol then u don't really know me.

Getting married is the least of my problems.. It's not even a problem cos I'm the one placing a halt on it on several occasions when I couldn't cope with smiling and suffering kind of relationship. Cos majority of men out there are like grenades ready to blow off. I don't need such man stress! What I look for in relationship is peace of mind. Which I now have with my Boo. He's the only man, I'm comfortable with.

He's not perfect but at least he's not overbearing. He doesn't control, very easy going guy with a heart of gold. He's a breathe of fresh air. And such guys like him are rare. One can't help but love him. He was even the one who seek me out sef, cos i don't even have time for men and their wahala. And so far it's been peaceful all the way


For me o! I can't live with an overbearing man oreslse we will both break our heads one day. I hate stress of any kind. I have had my fair share of it in the past. But never again at this level of my life. Never again! But an easy going guy who loves peace does it for me. Or else lemme remain single for life!

Who overbearing man help? Smhhhhh.

It's not about how far but how well. At this stage of my life, after all the upheavals and trauma have passed through dating controlling and overbearing men? Abeg I don't need such men anymore. Let them go and marry other women and stress up their lives. I no come this life because of man.

I can only settle and be with an easygoing man. No two ways about it. My peace of mind is topmost. I don't joke with it

jornwhite:



Considering the fact that you're yet to marry, i concern your advice "da bii mo se da" in english "be as i be" ..
the only foul she sees in this guy is overbearing, humans are never to be perfect, the may concern is it LIFE THREATREN, if its not she can stand her ground and let the man umderstand what she wants, what a mature lady will do is place the man in a position he either change 4 good or exit.
Gud men with one foul are rare, victorian for how long were you single, was it easy finding the man you now claim 2 have .. how as it been so far is he 100% or perfect

Well thank God I'm not yet married.

Cos my whole existence is not screaming I want to marry any morafucka!

If marrying anyhow man is cool, why are people divorcing? Why are married couples killing and stabbing themselves? U think marriage is just wedding day? I laughed at your foolishness

Mind u, I have taste, very good taste in men. I don't date anyhow. I take my time on relationships.

So don't let my not been married give u headaches.

I believe in enjoyingy my man and our relationship.. Not just putting up with an overbearing asshole. God knows such kind of men. I won't give near how much more date.

relationships and marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured and die in silence like some women do. I wish una luck but count me out!

ebuka10box:
thanks a lot

You are welcome

Better free yourself. You guys are not married yet and you are getting all. Worked up over a bf who is overbearing.

Newsflash, there are good guys out there who are easygoing about life and their relationship.

Cut off from him and give yourself Correct breathing space.

He's not the end of the world.

Just free yourself jare.

lefulefu:
the boyfriend has money and spends on her and places her under girlfriend allowance and yet he"s still being called a mumu by the same girl
this life ehn

Lefu Lefu, not all girls think like her.

There are ladies who appreciate their bfs who spends. Don't mind her.

She will regret her words later in life. I can bet she's either 19years or early 20s.

She never see life with that her unfortunate bestie. The bestie should be in his 20s while her bf in his 30s.

It's not hard to figure.

Anyways how u dey jare

ebuka10box:
Can I get peace within reading my Bible, if u got Bible verses please help me

Read the Bible from Old Testament to psalms and proverbs. Read and understand every word in it.
Pray, pour out your heart to God.
Pray for forgiveness of sins.
Stop having sex with anybody, it delays breakthrough.
Also listen to Worship and praise songs . They are soul lifting .

Always decree and prophesy good thing onto your self, by placing your right hand on your head while blessing yourself, for there is power in our tongue only if we believe.

When my life collapsed some years back, I cut off from sex for 5years! I focused completely on God and gave my mind and all to God while I look out for opportunities to rise again.
It's not an easy ride. It was very tough cos im an orphan. And my extended families where just there for decoration. All man for himself.

It was just me and God himself. And I was determined to surpass and rise again.

It was war but thank God, I have overcome that period. God has lifted me up again and even expand my biz even in this lockdown. I can only say it's God .

If you hold. Firmly to God. Helpers will come your way. Job offers will come your way and u will be amazed how just one destiny helper will locate u and lead u out of the tunnel.

Don't despair. Just free your mind, and believe God will change things.
He has done it before and he can still do it again.

Only if u believe.

Extended Family members are now calling, singing my praises and all. Forgeting how they all left me when my parents died, my only Brothr died and I was left alone to my fate when things went so bad and terrible for me . But it's all good. God dey.
I still give God the glory for everything. God knows best. I've forgiven all of them and moved on with my life.

So leave sex alone and cling to God.

Correct!

sunshineV:
it's about time I patronise this lady

If only men will stop cheating. There will be total Bliss in relationships and marriages.

Men, the ball is in ya court.

Queenmark:


Only letting you know she is divorced cause you called her a married woman.

OK o.