what are the key formula to make a relationship long term

My girlfriend is shy..she always try to avoid romantic topic first...but after she involves in it....she really loves me....she is having very high self esteem...small friend circle...is it true that shy girls are trusty and committed more in relationship??help

hi i am male 24 in love with a 16 yr old girl..i know i love her so much and she also... but i dont think she is mature enough for romance..sometimes she behaveS like a child ALTHOUGH she is attracted to me and loves me....i know this adolescence age is very critical as they can not make a equation between desire and feelings... i love her so much..and want to marry her....but i afraid -when she will become mature , her mind may change...she may not feel the same as she is feeling now...i am ready for waiting for some more time till she ll mature....but i afraid also....DID I DO ANY MISTAKE TO LOVE A GIRL WHO IS NOT MATURE ENOUGHPLZ HELP

masterpiecer:

wat is the age difference d both of u?

6 yrs ...she is 17..even if we talk about the marriage....but when i force her to say those words ..she always says...is it necessary to say those words.....but shakes head every time i say i luv u....

Nayah: Poster, whay don't you ask her ? are you afraid of the answer? better knowing now brother, even though it hurts it won't kill you

i ve asked ,,,but she says..is it necessary to say those words....but she never shows hate signal..always attracted..

she is 17 only...

Wunmiola: I agree wt u...d girl is a small girl!

our relation is 1 yr old. she is 6 yr younger than me...she is attracted to me...but when i say i luv u...she only shakes head ...but till now i ve not heard i luv u from her??what may be reasonplz help