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Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Where To Download Novels by Vivauche(f): 9:08pm On Dec 27, 2013
Hello luvlies! Pls can someone send me links where I can download books lik dat of chimamanda Adichie, Nora Roberts.. My email kokovinchi@gmail.com. Thnksss
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie's 'Americanah' Tops BBC's Top 10 Books Of 2013 by Vivauche(f): 9:04pm On Dec 27, 2013
Hello luvlies! Pls can someone send me links where I can download books lik dat of chimamanda Adichie, Nora Roberts.. My email kokovinchi@gmail.com. Thnksss
Technology Market / Re: Port-Harcourt City Phone Sale/Swap Centre by Vivauche(f): 11:38pm On Dec 12, 2013
iPhone 4 for swap with S4
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Where To Download Novels by Vivauche(f): 4:48pm On Nov 14, 2013
Hey Guys!! Pls I do need books too.. I use an iPhone and I love books by Nora Roberts, Daniel steel.. Thnkkks
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Vivauche(f): 6:16am On Oct 25, 2013
tm-tech:

Urw, ios5 doesn't support bbm....u nid os6 or os7 buh d issue is , apple only support a signed os version at a time....and d ios 7 is the latest available ios....although there is a way to downgrade to ios6 buh its tricky and risky too...(U nid a tecky to do it for u)....so if u really nid dis bbm stuff, u av to update to ios 7....if u do, I will give u tips on aw to fix some bugs dat av bin discovered..............av a plesant i-day...
I really nid bbm on my device so I'll try update to ios 7 today.
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 1:04pm On Oct 24, 2013
In most cases, verbally abused spouse can't easily walk away easily becos dey feel xtremely guilty for d problems in their relationship. because their spouse always blame dem and dey hav d tendency to take d hit for anytin dat goes wrong or feel guilty for having opinions contrary to or upset their spouse.most cases verbally abused spouses Dnt fully realize d oppression and control dey are pinned beneath. It is as though dey hav a sense dat somtin isnt right bt dey cant put their finger on it.out of frustration dey often try to reason with their abusive mates hav misunderstood but attempts to clarify are mostly useless. Abusive spouses Dnt want to be reasonable. I am a victim

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Phones / Re: IOS 5/IOS 6/IOS 7 Update: Warning To All IPhone/IPad Users! by Vivauche(f): 12:08pm On Oct 24, 2013
tumababa:

where are u located?
portharcourt
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Vivauche(f): 12:02pm On Oct 24, 2013
tm-tech:

U might want to check dis out b4 considering updating ur iphone 4 to ios 7....if after, u still want to go ahead wif it, then I will show u how.
Apple
iOS 7 for the iPhone is much more colorful.
Q: Ever since I downloaded iOS 7 onto my iPhone 4,
typing has become very slow. Any solutions coming out
for that?
A: First off, you'll have to forget about reinstalling iOS 6.
Whatever you might think of iOS 7, reverting to its
predecessor vanished as an option days after 7's debut
last month, when Apple stopped digitally signing older
versions.
What you can do, however, is try to ease an older
iPhone's burden in the new operating system. Apple
already turns off most of iOS 7's visual effects on the
iPhone 4 to compensate for its reduced graphics power,
but you can also try another frequently suggested
remedy, stopping iOS 7 from checking for new data on
behalf of third-party apps.
To do that, open the Settings app, select "General", tap
"Background App Refresh" in the right-hand pane, and
touch the switch atop that category.
Leaving enough storage space free is also a good idea.
The Settings app will show which apps have eaten up
the most space: Open it, select General and tap Usage.
But with a slowdown as severe as the one this reader
reports, those intermediate steps might not be enough.
Instead, try the traditional computing remedy of
reinstalling everything from scratch. Connect the iPhone t
to a computer running iTunes, do an encrypted backup
there, then restore the phone to factory settings; when
that completes, you can restore your apps and data from
the backup.
Adam Engst, editor of the long-running Mac newsletter
TidBITS, suggested a last resort: a clean install of the
core system software without any of your add-ons. To do
that, you'd do a system restore but hold off on bringing
back any old data.
If reading all this has you leery about going ahead with
an iOS 7 upgrade on an iPhone 4 — well, maybe you
should be. The iPhone 4, which debuted in the summer
of 2010 and runs on a relatively slow A4 processor, is
the oldest device iOS 7 supports.
Ars Technica's Andrew Cunningham went to the trouble
of timing a variety of common tasks on an iPhone 4
before and after upgrading to iOS 7
. The results: "Everything is slower in iOS 7, usually by
one to one-half second or so but sometimes by more."
Such iOS 7 additions as Control Center, which lets you
change such common settings as airplane mode by
swiping up from the bottom of the screen, make this a
useful upgrade overall. But if I had an iPhone 4, I would
hold off on installing 7 and watch to see whether
upcoming iOS releases improve 7's responsiveness on
older hardware.
The iPad 2, the next-oldest device to get iOS 7 support,
is a good nine months newer than the iPhone 4 and
runs on the faster A5 chip that later landed in the iPhone
4S and the fifth-generation iPod touch. You should be
fine putting iOS 7 on that.
Thnks a lot for taking ur time to asist me... My iPhone 4 is currently running iOS 5.1 and I tried to download bbm bt culdnt...is there anyway I can upgrade to ios 6
Phones / Re: BBM on iPhone and related issues by Vivauche(f): 11:25am On Oct 24, 2013
nani.666:
any of them will do
lik whic is faster I tried using wifi from a cyber cafe it was too slow..shuld I try subscribing dataplan from Airtel or Etisalat? Lik how long will it take?
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 11:20am On Oct 24, 2013
chineloSA:


It doesn't buy you love but it gives you power and freedom. Money can make me run from my abuser. grin grin grin grin grin

Some people stay in ( verbally, emotionally, and physically ) abusive relationships because they don't have financial power to stand on their own.

That's why I hate financial abuse. ROOT OF ALL ABUSE.

U do hav a point here.. One of d major reasons why pple stay in abusive relationships or marriage is lack of money. But no matter how much ur spouse gives u( financial cash /material benefit) and still abuse u, u can't manage for too long cuz d mental, emotional,physical effect will definitely tell on you
Phones / Re: IOS 5/IOS 6/IOS 7 Update: Warning To All IPhone/IPad Users! by Vivauche(f): 11:10am On Oct 24, 2013
tumababa: and bigger on itunes. wifi is still d best and it will take time. except u use swift lte
Thnks a lot again pls wats swift ite?
Phones / Re: IOS 5/IOS 6/IOS 7 Update: Warning To All IPhone/IPad Users! by Vivauche(f): 10:26am On Oct 24, 2013
tumababa:

depends on d update size
iOS 7 is about 1gig. It's large
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 10:23am On Oct 24, 2013
caseless: hmmm..i no go mind dat nyash o.
@topic. Say whatever u wanna about me, but the only 'verbal scar' that might not heal quickly is when u involve my parents. I can't think of any better way to manage this kind of v-abuse than to poach. My babe can't escape 'unlynched' with this.
hahaha am laughing out loud! punching makes it worst not d best solution at all as u know it is also physical abuse and is as bad as verbal abuse. Abeg no lynche person pikin o..
Phones / Re: IOS 5/IOS 6/IOS 7 Update: Warning To All IPhone/IPad Users! by Vivauche(f): 10:11am On Oct 24, 2013
tumababa:

use wifi
Thnks tumababa i tried using wifi it was really slow. How long do u tink it takes via wifi?
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 10:08am On Oct 24, 2013
chineloSA:
OUT OF ALL THE ABUSES THERE ARE ON EARTH , I THINK I HATE FINANCIAL ABUSE grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
hahaha funny lol. But haven't heard dat money can't buy happiness?
Phones / Re: IOS 5/IOS 6/IOS 7 Update: Warning To All IPhone/IPad Users! by Vivauche(f): 10:06am On Oct 24, 2013
Folajay22: Well..goodmorning ladies and gents..i'm back again..i finally went thru with the ios7 update like i said..and bloody hell!..it took 7hours to download..from the time of my last post till now..its just completed...and...YES!!!!..it worked fine!!..with my chip..i will need Tumababa to help me with the exact name of my chip(iphone4S i bought from u..brand new..Port Harcourt)..remember me?..anyway..it worked..and i'm rocking my os 7 now!
pls Dear whic network did u use to upgrade? Is it thru iTunes or if u subscribed whic network did u use? Thnksss
Phones / Re: IOS 5/IOS 6/IOS 7 Update: Warning To All IPhone/IPad Users! by Vivauche(f): 10:03am On Oct 24, 2013
Pls guys wats d best and fastest way to update my iPhone 4? Is it faster thru iTunes or thru settings? Is it faster to use wifi from a cyber cafe or Internet subscription from Mtn,Airtel, Etisalat ? Whic network is better ? Pls if u've done urs share with me how u did urs. Thnks
Health / Re: Best Hospital In Nigeria For Surgery by Vivauche(f): 9:54am On Oct 24, 2013
ameenahz: On which part of the body is he supposed to have the surgery done? And where was the diagnosis of his problem made?
ameenahz: On which part of the body is he supposed to have the surgery done? And where was the diagnosis of his problem made?
Thnk u very much he was diagnosed with fistula ini anum( it has to do with a tear he got from his anus cuz of hard stool) he was diagnosed in 2 good private hospitals in portharcourt
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 9:51am On Oct 24, 2013
Wen a spouse begins using words to attack and control, a critical line has been crossed. D relationship becomes oppressive, one spouse doesn't hav d freedom to say no or to express his or her views and opinions. Oppression is a terrible experience especially in marriage. Verbally abusive spouse are intimidating and demanding dey use threats,invalidating of feelings,hurtful words, even d bible doesn't take selfish domination lightly. Eccl.4:1-2 it can be seen better to be dead than to be alive and oppressed. So verbally abused spouse should do something and stop being oppressed in silence

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Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 9:40am On Oct 24, 2013
Teespice: There's nothing more hurtful than verbal abuse. It strips one of his/her self esteem and confidence. No matter how much you apologise and try to make up for all you said, it still can't be forgotten.

Words get to me very easily. Things my ex said to me years ago are still very fresh in my mind like it was said minutes ago. As it stands, to save myself from not getting depressed, I decided that the moment my partner decides to abuse me verbally, that's the day I will begin to re evaluate the relationship. Harsh as it seems, that's the way to go.
me too words get to me easily... I don't seem to ever forget. Maybe becus I hav a calm spirit, I hate confrontation so much and when am so hurts I tend to lock it up inside recoil back to my shell and try to nurse my pain...often times I quietly carry dis pain inside for a very long time.
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 9:33am On Oct 24, 2013
eduson33: i regret ever saying those words but at the same time,i dont over blame myself.

others should learn from this.

you rather beat her than call her names.

especially,

**i regret meeting you**
**i dont even value you**
**ugly thing**
**flat assss** lipsrsealed

she will never forgive you oo
pls Dnt beat her o..beating is also physical abuse which is as bad..I tink d best is to try talking to ur partner in a language he or she will understand, if it continues u're as free as air to walk out of d relationship.
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 9:29am On Oct 24, 2013
Dubemkelly: Nagging by girls/women is a form of verbal abuse n I can't stand it either
yea Dumbemkelly u're so correct even women verbally abuse their husbands thru nagging, u can imagine a woman u provide for crossing her leg in ur sitting room and saying stuffs like 'it's not ur fault it's my fault for marrying u" 0r 'I shuld hav known marrying is not worth it common blackberry u cannot buy lazy man" such words can kill a mans spirit and innitiate hatred.

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Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 9:19am On Oct 24, 2013
Wu Zetian: It amuses me when people try to "manage" any form of abuse..

Can you wake up tomorrow morning and decide to fly a plane without having any skill or training??

I wonder why some ppl think themselves qualified psychologists?

Roughly speaking, 75% of verbally abusive men are also physically abusive too and this is one of the things the woman should be worried about.

*No offence to the male folks for making the man the abuser in my post*
I tink it depends on the situation on ground, I Dnt believe in giving up on love easily especially if such abusive partner is good in other aspects. Or wat if u're married wit a child and realize u are in an abusive marriage wat do u do? U cant easily walk away but instead u can try correct your marriage.
Romance / Re: Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 6:25am On Oct 24, 2013
:-@eduson yea u cant take bck d words after its bin said. The victim kips pondering on these words. It hurts more wen its from a luved one
eduson33: Am still battling that with my gf...
:-@eduson yea u cant take bck d words after its bin said. The victim kips pondering on these words. It hurts more wen its from a luved one
Romance / Verbal Abuse In Mariage Or A Relationship by Vivauche(f): 1:43am On Oct 24, 2013
Often times physical abuse in mariages are being hammered on with verbal abuse being neglected but belive me the effect is jus as much especially becos unlik d physical abuse u cant see d scar outside even wen badly injured.the effect are huge ranging from low self exteem to constant unhappiness to depression to mention but a few. Most victims leave in fear of being abused and there by loosing their freedom. Feel free to share ur experience and opinion on d best way to manage such abusive partners.
Phones / Update Iphone to download bbm by Vivauche(f): 12:40am On Oct 24, 2013
hey guys! pls can iphone user kindly give me some advice on d best way to update iphone 4 from ios 5 to ios 7. is it better and faster with wifi or better to subscribe a data plan....which internet network is faster...airtel or mtn or etisalat. Thnks
Health / Best Hospital In Nigeria For Surgery by Vivauche(f): 12:28am On Oct 24, 2013
pls guys wats d best hospital in Nigeria to go in for surgery. my hubby is suppose to undergo surgery and really worried and trying to find out the best i can. Thnks
Phones / Re: BBM on iPhone and related issues by Vivauche(f): 12:21am On Oct 24, 2013
hey guys. pls wats d best way to update my iphone, is it thru wifi or i shuld subscribe to a data plan. whic is better
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Vivauche(f): 2:06pm On Oct 23, 2013
pls guys,wats d best way to update my iphone 4 to ios 7.....can i update online via itunes or from iphone? if so which network is faster and how long will it take? Thnks

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