that is heavy stuff. i believe as a woman you know your man, if you have the crazy type want to cheat on you type you will know unless you choose to overlook the warning bells. she should move on for sure. i have a friend who lost her man to another friend, she cried her eyes out and moved on, today the relationship is over and my friend is getting married in may. so its not fair but hey God will bring her a better man.

nice one

just make a fresh application, the home office likes money so they simply want you to make a fresh one. forget appeals you will not get it. make a fresh one with all the documents. best of luck

the people who write such surveys are americans and untill majek fashek showed us dirt in new york i am sure they would want africans to believe their nation is clean.

lagos isnt the worse place to work.

my partner sister controls their family, she suffers from sickle cell as such she has been spoilt silly. she is around 27 -30 as is currently leaving with us. i suspect she has some sort of brain problem because she does weird things. for example she would never close doors other than her room door and wash her hands each time she is forced to touch the door handle (wen she meets the door closed) also she is extremely selfish interms of not caring about anyone but herself, for example her younger brother has recently been suffering mental issues as a result he is in a mental ward. she has neva visited him. (been there 4 a month now) if she needs something she would call nigeria and ask the parents to call my partner when  its not like they do not both live in the same house. i thought it was just me, finding faults in this girl but i found out every house she has lived in before ours she has caused serious problems one way or another. she is a particularly horrible person because she is constantly lying about everything. she would take something like a movie for example and if u ask her to return it wen she is done she will deny taking it and return it a couple of days later. is it normal for such an old person to act this crazy even if they are spoilt.

she is extra anti social, she has lived with us for 2yrs now (refusing to go to school unless its an extra expense school) no friend has ever come to look for her. she doesnt go out and she wears the same clothe every day (green Islamic cover body clothe)

the parents appear to be afraid of her, since she would switch off her phone and not speak to them.

i have been with my partner for over five years (we are not married) there was a time (in the first 2 years) i was earning more, he seemed worried as would most men but we had a long chat about it and he was perfectly fine. i simply told him i cared about him loads and i wont love him less if he didnt have a bigger cheque. i think it doesnt matter as long as you both understand each other and you are one. who brings home the fatest cheque shouldnt be a problem.

dear poster

i think you should leave your husband for sure. if you guys are seeing other people its not a marriage. if the story is infact true. leave your husband at least for sometime to clear your head and decide what you really want to do. i dont think you should stay in a marriage wen a man treats you like crap thats why you shouldnt even marry a man who shows such behaviours after all, ladies know their men, surely you would have known he was the cheating type.

its up to you, however dont turn into him. cheating on him and making up reasons donsent make ur crime lesser.

P. S
dont take the insults from replies hard, some people are over sensitive and the funny thing is they are no better