@IB with your way of thinking no wonder you are lonely, and not just or a nigerian man but just for friends period " I.B. believes it's the other way around, non-nigerian females are in high demand by nigerian men in America. And these non nigerian females are the ugly fat ghetto non educated females nigerian men run after because they {nigerian men} feels inferior in America; maybe because of their accents. They {nigerian men} wants to match up with the American way! You should give your country men more credit than to say such awful things . I don't know any nigerian men who date fat,ugly,ghetto and non educated american women .the saying goes birds of a feather flock together ,so if there are some dating those groups of people that means they did it at home in nigeria .you sound like a bitter,sad lonely woman not to mention a racist.

I think love is possible in 4 days maybe he has watching you from afar who knows ,but return his gifts and gently explain to him how you feel .

@ I B are you angry with aa women for dating nigerian men or are you angry for nigerian men dating aa women ? and aa women can and do cook ,most people call it soul food when I asked my nigerian man why he was not dating a nigerian woman his reply was ,most here in the us have changed so he might as well date who he wants .so don't put all the blame on one group of people. and I know alot of nigerian women who are not lonly as a matter of fact i was at my friends wedding and she did not have a hard time finding a nigerian man to marry and yes she is nigerian. so sometimes we have to take alook at ourselves. As a woman I wish you nothing but luck and happiness.

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easy I have finaly found a man as bossy as myself and who knows how to handel me with finess.not to mention finnnnnnnnne as he wannna be

thanx

ooop I mean not give up

not that it is so important to marry nigerian,cause im not nigerian ,but that is who has captured my heart and soul thank god we beleive in alot of the same things .And i love the fact that he is willing to just give up (on anything)his strength is like no other . I can go on but i won't

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sometimes there are hidden meanings in things that people say to you. as far as the teacher goes I would keep my social life social and not have a drink with him so there would not be any problem what so ever .pick and choose your friends very carefully and your teacher is not your friend but your teacher. my friends i drink with not my teacher ut the decision is yours.you will find that people say one thing and mean another.

I would leave that means the relationship is over I don't beleive in physcial violence . A real man can always get his point across with out abuse. and a real woman knows her place as a woman and would not stoop to low levels . Ounce respect is lost the relationship is headed for pure hell.

thanx madam and best of luck to you too

@ nice i agree with you

the child belongs to both parents . a child is not a pieces of furniture or clothing they are human beings just like you

you are so right, if you marry a white woman all your problems will be solved!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   yeah right your problems will be solved but your bank account will be empty  white women are no different than black women thats why so many of them are dating black men

The state of maryland and washington dc area are very populated by nigerians

thanks mil @ acidrop at 40ish it's even better like a fine wine.

@ moondust, I don't know about anyone else i speak from experince Im 43 and my guy is 49 and I can say he's not really romantic but he is loving and caring . we are both from the old school so it works well for us.

nigerian men are not really romantic but you know when they care for you.

a real man does not have to put his hands on a woman to control them.

@ luish , I can tell you he will never forgive you cheating regardless of the reasons why you did it . That is one of the very first things my naija man said to me was if you cheat it's over and so far he's kept to everything he's said to me so i have no doubt that if i cheat it's over . If he has not divorced you yet it could be cause he wants his papers.