Hi Cutty
Sure been reaaly a long time.
Much been happening too but here this time just like the unsatisfied oliver asking for more.
well u;ll not believe i got along with that silly girl again even tho it lassted this time just for a week. notr revenge but just trying to avoid future wahala.
well the thing this time is abt to move to a new area abroad to begin laying the foundations of my own life as everyman does. already succedded in getting the job i wanrted there and good accomodation. The real matter is met this new girl, actually i friend whjich i've known for the past 2yrs, from the same roots, and fits into 91.1% of whjat i desire as wife. we got to spent so much time togetha until the neighbors think she is my new catch. Didn;t want to quickly express my developing feelings to her esp. as i knew her thru her elder sister whom i almost dated. Thank God it didn;t get far. And That she doesn't know. been treating her like a queen spoiling her with goodies of which she began suspectin i was hidden someting from her. what made me develop so much care was b/c she did to and andsometimes made me call her everyday of the week.
she began telling me i was hiding something and recently made me call her late at nite demanding to know what i was hiding from her. And was very serious abt it saying it would eventually still find its way out. could this mean she has feeligns to or just being scared i'm tryig to take advantage of the friendship. something i won't love 2loose.
Again, i kept on beating abt about the bush not wanting to come out clear untill i managed to postpond the conversation. sthg she won't be silent abt.
worst, if she feels the same, how do i now breakup with my current girlfriend of which she doesn't know abt and hoping she neva knows for i promised her i broke up with 2months ago. Need 2breaking with her coz she'z been cheating on me even tho i don't have yet the hardprove, but from her stories she tells which any reasonable man won't believe. Plus she is just 32% of what i would want in a home. She only became serious when she learnt i got a job abraod and neva around when she knows my wallet is dry. A typical university girl.
Cute-ass,
what can u then tell me abt this new girl. Would just love to get ur point of view as i go abt my own day to day chapters.
Waitin and hpe ur still available.
Hope u won't charge a fee too and thanks for ur time

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ay, there is an error in the fisrt line of what i just wrote, i meant to show the type of thinfs women love,
B4 u guys start going crazy

Common guys,
Its was all just a joke, i mean to sure the types of things women men and how they all start with the letter M.
O.k. my user name starts with W, i'll say coz i love women too, not being being a wacko as ull u wacko's think.

Make Up

sparta
let be frank, no hard feelings and i hope this wont get more women involved but judging from what u just said, don¨t u think ur really stupid.That¨s if u;ve got the brain to do so.
O.k, let me just conclude that u cant control ur sentiments. .

MORE M¨s,
=Mirrows, Matrass(yeah, W¨s love the really soft ones), Massa, Maltaguiness,Mambo chucolate,g.s.M, Messages(gossip), Meddling, o.K, thats,s enuf for today since the guys are too scared to help me with the list.

o.k.
i get the message.
But pls always keep this in mind,
women neva love the truth.
Worst, , when its thrown to their face.

See u already gat one cursing and saying how much u can keep a secret. Pray ur girl doesn;t see this too, for she would do the same.so as , i hope i am not buying somebody;s trouble O.

Hey girls,
i said M¨s, not W¨s. I understand my name begines with W but i,m not a woman. I believe the Men could rather tell me more on what i¨m lookin for. i,ll go to the dictionary too.

How far is this true.

W W W=Mone, Man,manpikin,motor,mansion, mobilefone, meat, Mm,mm,mm*, etc etc ect.

Guys, you could hepl me with your own M word so i could include it in me vocabulary.

I need such words to completre a project i,m writing.

Thanks,

.

Thanks a lot Cutty.
I guez i did the right movv this tome.
Faced her this time really in a wild her putting her exactly where she belongs. as well as all her pride. i guez she,ll now go running her mouth tellin all sort of trash about me but o give a damn. the important thing now is shez forgotten history. I guez she didn,t expect it. so have i done with all the rest. now takin a new start.
Thanks for ur help once again.
Take care of more niaraland fans on this site

heh dude, whats ur prop? is it a crime to ask for some help from some cool butt

Girl, are u a Romance Specialist Consultant or what?
I,ve read many of ur views concerning relationships and they are really cool. Just as the one u posted to me but tell me something more,


as concerns my post, i still really miss my first date even tho she already got a (my future life partner) and isn,t around for the moment(abroad) but i,m more stable than him in every way apart from that he is older and doesn,t even know about me. The truth is she feels the same way for me but wants me to go down on my knees to have her back. something a guy of my status won,t do. is true our relationship has no future so i do my best to forget her but she won,t stop at doing just the things that would get me pissed. Ever since our very sudden break up, we haven,t really sat down to talk but the actionns between us continue to give us sleepless nites. The few times we,ve tried to talk, the other party is neva ready and becomes too proud. But with all the third parties gotten envolved and the so much pain caused, things have gotten to a climax where i believe i should either face the bull by its horns and like a man or i give her up for good no matter what new game she comes up with.

For Heaven sake, Oga Suen, I AM NOT A MUSLIM, so i do not know how i keep getting replies in my mail box from this topic. Pls do something about it.

blesses

For me, its to be ready to face alln it takes to be a FOOL.

Ok Davi, i,m not as confused as u think.just need a third part,s veiw. A is the first girl who dichted me but won,t allow me breathe like any other free man, B is my next girl whom wants a second chance after i left her for she wanted some space, C is the third girl i used to make A explode with jealousy as she starts drawing closer to all my tight pips and lookin for everymeans to give me trouble or spoil my day as if i was the one who dichted her. B know something about A and A is aware of C whom i,m presently dating to make a mockery of her but A also knows nothing about B neither thus C know anything about A or B. But the real prop is A who is already fianced and is doing her best to constandly keep my head aching no matter how i try to avoid her. Worst , we all see each other nearly on a daily base. As from my story above and with this explanation, how do I face A.   But i reaaly love what Cute_ass said.

Sorry, i mean there is NO lesbianism in my story.

there is lesbianism in my story, the first girl only got really to close to my cousin after the breakup that she even started sleeping in her room and having her spare key of which my cousin is one of the closest persons to me in the area where i live. I;m a guy Sisimore.

My story goes thus, there was this very good friend of mine whom till date, i still do not know how our friendship commenced but it grew too deep. Little did i know that her intentions were deep untill she got me into a relationship with her of which i accepted with litttle resistanc. everything went perfectly well and smooth until one morning she suddenly told me we couldn,t continue because before we meet she there was already somebody else whom was the first guy she dated and abroad and thzey had gon so far that they had made plans for marriage when he,s back. Plus from his letters she showed me, the guy was damn serious.
 I was so shocked that for the first week apart, i avoided her at all cost even though i spent everynite dreaming of here. Even though she was the one who asked for the break up, she still did her best to control me as if we were still dating. She was very possesive in the relationship and always made me swore i,ll neva betray her, plus was the jealous type of lover but despite all this, turned out to be the one to end the relationship.
  When she didn,t succeed in controlling me after the breakup, she then starting cursing and raising trouble whenever i was with the guys we both were used to. at times, i felt really defeated but it got to a level where i decided to seek for a reconcillation with her as many adviced me even though she was the problem. This made her feel like a queen and i a slave, something which if many of my old friends ever heard of, both the boys and girls, would have disowned me for good.So i then decided to fit her to where she belongs before the situation got out of hand.  I then decided to ignore her in everyway, means, measure and in anyway. this was a great tactic for her to leave me alone but not until she started buildin g up tuff relationships with my closest guys, first my cousin who has my sparekeys and even startd sleeping in her room, then a very very close friend of mind. When ever we were togetha and she stepped in, she did all possible to make me jealous. I do not really kn ow if that was her plan or that she was starting a new relationship with him. She always used to praise me be4 him and say all sorts of genlte things about us but denied the deep parts like sex. She now started telling him how much she loved him and the two would play all sorts of puppyluv stuff be4 me. I know he was merely using this as an advantage to fulfil his desirers for i know him very well as far as women are concern. I neva really cared if he ended sleeping with her for at the end she would be the fool and my life would  continue peacefully. But being a very secretive and manipulative girl, i know she,ll make him swear to keep all their secrets if there were any of which he won,t hesistate. It wasn,t long be4 their own relationship started be4 sour for he started avoiding her and wasn,t himself whenever i spoke about her in his presence. I was to smart to noticze everything and also knowing them both very well.
 I was having a new date at the time and all was moving smooth not until she started asking for some space and i decided to end the new relationship and to let it end as the first but the new girl now started demending forseriously for a second chance claiming it was just a test. But i was already on a third relationship and purpôsely to make the first girl now explode with jealousy. I mean it was really great and that so called friend of mine did all his best to encourage me challange her for she was nothing but a normal street girl as he said as opposed to the praises he used to sing to her at first. Could it be his plans failed or it was just anothzer game.
 The first girl now was friendly with a new strange guy whom i guess was her new love but only for an old friend of mine to call me and say she got his number and wants to know more about me/my activities.
 The new strange guy later dissappeared and she was all alone this time but the last time i tried greeting her, i tried greeting her but the thing snopped us(my new girl and i) and walked off sconfully. I barely see her with the so called friend of mine who used to keep her campany. anotha thing i discoverd later was that she had known me 2yrs before we eva got to meet each other and knew so much about my past then. but how do i tell this knew girl that i merely got her to make someother person jealous, even though she,s great  and fit and i,ll love to continue with her if she wants it.
 Secondly what do i do with the second who knows about the first and is like would spark up fire oneday for the third is better than her.
 Lastly and most importantly who do i completely get rid of the first who is now acting like i used her and dumped her for the third. For she doesn,t even know about the second and she is fainced already impleing no matter how much we love each other, it would go no where especailly with the bitter memories we,ve recently built for each other and i do not know what would be her next plan of action against me as her mind is neva at rest/
 
  BOYS AND GIRLS? ELDERS PLEASE TELL ME WHAT U THINK I SHOULD DO FOR THE WHOLE THING IS CRUSHING ME DOWN and so many innocent ones are getting envolved and getting hurt. What should i really do to stop all these nonsense for avoidance and mockeries have proven to be an inappropraite solution. Pls share ur veiws with me even though my story might be a little bit silly.    
                                     

                                                                                      Thanks

do my best to cover them quick and get her out of there for about fifteen minutes before bringing her back. but u ladies should really watch what u wear

thats for real but how many people can be like that these days

U should even be glad the lies he told u weren;t scandalous. Plus u,ve got to show him much love and confort since it can be seen from his lies that he suffers frfom the fact that his mom had him while in secondary schul. Got a friend too who suffers a lot from the same issue. But tell me, u girls are experts and pro,s and this game of lies telling, where do u girls get ur inspiration from? Movies, Friends, ur Mothers or Money?
Would really like to know for it would mean a lot to many guys

Keep up man,
you have just one life to leave so do ur best to get the best out of it.
If u find her calls bothering, damn them and tell the gaddamn bitch to stop disturbing as u plan on moving on with ur new life wsithout her. She doesn;t deserve it anymore more u know, except she is ready to truely prove she is ready for it and wants to repent. There many out there who searching for someone to care for, not that golddigger, give love another try and u find it great, God Helpin

Mine gets broken evrytime i promised to take my relationships more serious and leave my daily activities behind.