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Romance / Re: Advice!! What Her Husband Insisted On Calling Her. by wenson(m): 9:18am On Jun 05, 2015
Delilah nawa
Romance / Re: Where Did You Meet Your Partner? by wenson(m): 9:16am On Jun 05, 2015
DEIFIED:
I met mine at no where.
Lolz no where
Romance / Re: Nigerian Women Most Unfaithful Wives In The World?-vangaurd by wenson(m): 9:14am On Jun 05, 2015
It's ok

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Romance / Re: Please Guys Is This Fair?(+pics) by wenson(m): 9:12am On Jun 05, 2015
Na nature sha
Romance / Re: Photos: See Cossy Orjiakor's Bo*obs All Over The Place At Yaw’s Commedy Show by wenson(m): 9:11am On Jun 05, 2015
Y dis girl no fit jst cover dis yeye tin sef

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Romance / Re: Ladies, This Is Just The Truth by wenson(m): 9:09am On Jun 05, 2015
Most Ladies are nothing buh liabilities
Romance / Re: 8 Signs She Enjoys Having $ex With You by wenson(m): 9:08am On Jun 05, 2015
It's all nonsense
Romance / Re: Is It Normal To Be Attracted To Single Mothers by wenson(m): 9:04am On Jun 05, 2015
Op retrace ur origin o. maybe na 4rm d village
Romance / Re: How true by wenson(m): 9:02am On Jun 05, 2015
Davland:
Why is it that when a guy is over-pampering his Gf,being soft and showering her with "excess" love,Most times she takes him for a fool & not Man enough. undecided
I guess they need someone that will always handle them like an hired killer
Dats y everybody wan form badt guy

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Romance / Re: When Is It Ok To First Say "I Love You." by wenson(m): 9:00am On Jun 05, 2015
When did Saying I Love You became a crime? .
Romance / Re: How To Tell Difference Between Love And Infatuation by wenson(m): 8:58am On Jun 05, 2015
Infatuation!
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:47am On Jun 05, 2015
Who is gonna vote 4 me?
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:56pm On Jun 04, 2015
XBLadez:
Ok, from which state?
Delta
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:41pm On Jun 04, 2015
RapLawd:
Bros I need you nobi tintini
Ah dnt undstnd!
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:41pm On Jun 04, 2015
RapLawd:
Bros I need you nobi tintini
Ah dnt undstnd!
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:39pm On Jun 04, 2015
Caseless:
you ma dey my list
May?
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:38pm On Jun 04, 2015
XBLadez:
How old are you?
Am 18
Romance / Re: When You Miss Him But Your Trying To Stay Strong by wenson(m): 8:34pm On Jun 04, 2015
adorablevic:
Lol grin,i know the feeling
Hw d feeling b like.?
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:32pm On Jun 04, 2015
Caseless:
Afuye Scentmarlc Jarizod Agarawu Tomfrench Iamkingzlee
Wah abt me?
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:28pm On Jun 04, 2015
Vote Wenson 4 Mr. NL 2015

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Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland Contest 2015 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by wenson(m): 8:25pm On Jun 04, 2015
Vote 4 me guys,.am really nervous abt dis contest av nt done dis kind of tin b4 hope ah can count on u guys

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Romance / Re: 8 Hottest Tips To Make Her Fall In Love With You by wenson(m): 2:45pm On Jun 04, 2015
Same old stories
Romance / Re: 5 Reasons Why NOT Having Sex Every Day Is GREAT For Your Marriage by wenson(m): 11:35pm On Jun 03, 2015
From wer?
Romance / 5 Reasons Why NOT Having Sex Every Day Is GREAT For Your Marriage by wenson(m): 11:24pm On Jun 03, 2015
Give it a rest, already.
I enjoy s*x, a lot — the act alone, encompasses so
many
options and opportunities for pleasure, connection
and
even exercise. I also talk about s*x in marriage a
lot,
usually with people who aren’t getting it right or
simply
aren’t getting it.
Most of the time, I work with couples to move them
toward “daily intimacy.”
But I find that most people assume that daily
intimacy
means s*xual intercourse daily. It doesn’t!
I define “intimacy” as loving experiences that bring
you
closer together (mentally, emotionally, and
physically) —
experiences that you couldn’t have in front of others
without making them uncomfortable, nor would you
brag
about paying someone to do them for you. (For
example br /> If you get regular massages from a
professional and might
consider Grandma accompanying you to a session,
then
that massage is not an act of intimacy for you.)
Having s*x every day certainly fits well within this
description of intimacy, and it’s a great way to kick
start a
new or a floundering s*x life. However, having s*x
every
day in marriage (or other long term relationships)
can
easily start to feel expected, mechanical,
monotonous, …
even lifeless.
s*x then begins to rank right up there with brushing
our
teeth or taking a shower; it feels good, but we don’t
do it
for enjoyment or deeper connection with each other,
we do
it out of routine or need.
Some couples get stuck in this monotony, while
others go
overboard trying to avoid boring, mechanical s*x.
They
turn s*x into a contact sport with assigned
positions and
sometimes even a team of players, all in a
desperate
attempt to keep things exciting.
As a woman, using s*x as a means to an end leaves
you
feeling as though YOU were the one used as a
means to
an end.
If the focus becomes checking off items on a
checklist or
successfully implementing the plays in a “how to
have hot
s*x” playbook, you’d feel like the ball in a soccer
game
being kicked around, until you reach the goal.
I don’t know about you but I need to feel like we’re
the
goal — like loving and building a stronger bond is
the
goal.
If intimacy is contingent on daily s*x acts (and
resulting
goal-oriented orgasmic explosions), a potentially
beautiful
experience then turns into an Olympic event. And I
must
say, there is a reason the summer games only
happen
once every four years!
s*x is NOT sport, it’s not even an outlet. No five-
point
spread, no pat on the bottom for a “good game.”
When we associate extreme s*x, or s*x in general,
as the
way to have a meaningful experience with one
another, all
other forms of connecting pale by comparison. As a
result,
we stop seeking the simpler moments … radiant
appreciation and quiet presence fall away. We need
endless drama and thrills. If we’re not having
Olympic
style s*x, we’re having stadium-sized arguments,
which
only disconnect us further.
Remember, I did say earlier that I love s*x (a lot).
My husband and I share a long-standing, star-
spangled-
banner s*x life, you know, with the rocket’s red
glare and
bombs bursting in air.
We also practice daily intimacy … but not always
daily
intercourse.
It feels good to reconnect with ourselves and each
other in
new ways as whole people, not just the sum of our
s*xual
parts. We come back together stronger, even more
aware
of each other and our needs. Our love grows ever
more
resilient and unbreakable. Win-win!
There are rules and recommendations across many
religious and spiritual traditions, such as Judaism,
Catholicism, and Hinduism that encourage
abstinence
periodically in marriage, either based on the
woman’s
menstrual cycle or the phases of the moon.
Here are five powerful, intimacy-building reasons
you
should not have s*x daily in your marriage br />
1. You remove the pressure to perform and reduce
the
focus on quantity (vs. quality)
2. You create space for more quality experiences
with
each other, across the full spectrum of intimacy
3. You find opportunities to re-discover and re-
awaken
YOU, as an individual.
4. Your partner gets to notice and be reminded why
they
love YOU, not just s*x with you.
5. You cement your bond in more than one way.
Even in baseball, we can’t win the game based on
the bat
connecting with the ball alone. The players need to
run,
catch, be aware of the other players’ positions,
communicate, and support one another. Not having
s*x
every day, doesn’t mean you disconnect from each
other.
On those no-s*x days here are some suggestions on
how
to still “play a good game” as partners br /> Flirt
with your spouse
Tease each other sensually and get comfortable
with
uncomfortable arousal
Talk about what’s important to you while lovingly
stroking
each other
Kiss
Sleep unclad together
Really look at each other, see into each other
Be playful and have fun
s*x is most enjoyable when it’s approached with a
sense
of discovery, exploration and appreciating every
moment.
After taking a timeout from having s*x, come back
to it
and let s*x be about what feels truly good and right
to
both of you and build on that; uncovering the buried
pleasure.
Turn “the game” into a loving, sensual adventure.
Romance / Re: How Did You Meet Your Husband/wife? by wenson(m): 11:03pm On Jun 03, 2015
#TeamSingle
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice: 9 Worst Ways To Say'i Love You' For The First Time. by wenson(m): 11:01pm On Jun 03, 2015
Couldn't tell my girlfriend I love u 2 her face, ah was afraid 2 c her reaction so I told her via watsapp
Romance / Re: What A Lady Really Wants! by wenson(m): 7:59pm On Jun 03, 2015
Lolz
Romance / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 - NOMINATION & VERIFICATION THREAD. by wenson(m): 11:17am On Jun 03, 2015
This 1 dah am nt campaigning hope u guys will vote 4 me?
Romance / 7 Things Men Do In Private That Women Will Never Know by wenson(m): 9:59am On Jun 03, 2015
Just like women, we men do certain things privately
that are exclusively known to us only. Before I go on
further, I want to issue a disclaimer that the things
inherent in this article is not performed or done by every
man. Some men might do one or two of these things
while others might have a combination of more than a
few. Moreover, the ones that actually do them will
hardly admit they do anyways, or will they?
1. Get Naked
Women are known for enjoying walking around naked
when they are home alone. Well, men also enjoy this.
The reason for this isn’t far fetched given the fact that
being unclad gives an air of freedom.
Spend Quite Sometime In The Toilet
The reason we do this is majorly because we take our
phones, tablets and sometimes laptop along with us to
the toilet. This form of distraction makes time pass by
and we barely even notice. That’s because we become
enthralled with games, instant messaging and other
social applications. Some of us use that time to scan
dating sites in the hope that we can meet our life
partners.
2. Watch Porn
We’d never admit this but we watch quite a bit of porn
in private. At times, the porn is strange to us giving the
fact that we stumble on it through the numerous
internet pages we surf. We find ourselves in a logjam in
the adult entertainment hole and we emerge later from
it with a sort of unsettled and disturbed mind based on
the weird things we saw. The thoughts disturb us as we
wonder if we can live up to the acting we witnessed.
3. Talk To Our Moms
Almost every man does this! We mostly talk about the
women in our lives with our mothers in the hope that
they will tell us when we are in the right or wrong.
Mothers will still mostly question our stories of being
right when we put our women in the wrong. In all, they
make us feel better no matter how terrible the situation
may appear to be.
4. Regularly Check Up On Ex-girlfriends
We actually obsess over this up to a point. Guys do this
to monitor the progress of their exes. We want to know
how they are doing, if they are more successful than
when they were with us or if they are now dating a guy
worse off than us. In a way, we hope our exes are no
longer as beautiful as when they were with us, so we
can laugh and smile about the fact.
5. Sulk and Cry
For whatever reason it is, the society believes that men
should keep the emotional outbursts to a minimum. This
has put some sort of pressure on men to always appear
strong no matter what the situation calls for. That is
the way it is and in order not to appear weak, we would
rather cry in private most of the time. Be it an
emotional scene from a movie, a heart break or the loss
of a loved one, we will show the world our strong side
and secretly shed tears in private.
6. Sing At The Top Of Our Voices
The crazy part about this is that we sing out loud in
croaky voice to absurd music. We do this in private in
order to shield ourselves from criticisms. We do this
while carrying out a variety of activities including taking
our bath, cooking, cleaning or while engaging in any
form of idle activity. Funny enough, we sing to music
you have no idea we actually like. The songs coupled
with the singing activity actually has a way of improving
our moods and general outlook to life.
7. Miss You
We privately miss the ones we love, especially our
girlfriends. We get to only truly have fabulous private
moments because we know our partners understand
and are always there for us.
Romance / Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by wenson(m): 9:54am On Jun 03, 2015
......
Romance / Re: What A Lady Really Wants! by wenson(m): 9:53am On Jun 03, 2015
Annypie:
lol....more like am speaking on behalf of all sane ladies, like minded if I may include. So...WE still stands
Oya..I want love, in all its fullness.
Buh u know u can't jst possibly c a perfect love!

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