Madam I think is a general problem. Most at times I do press phone at midnights like your husband and my wife used to complain about it not until I bought for her a choice phone. Now we both compete and no one is complaining. Again, don't seek too much of his attention, one day he will come begging. Shift your mind and attention to other things that are of interest to you.

Pls insist on condom. Find a job or biz. Live as a biz partner, not as a wife with him for now. Dont pretend as if u are cheating as well else he will use it against u tomorrow. This is Africa!! I cant tell to do what worked for mrs A, bcs destiny differs. Find out what u know that can work for u.

Are you sure is lack of love?

During wedding in different churches that i have attended, time comes when the priest or pastor will ask the man and the woman if they know any lawful impediment that will make them not to be joined togather as husband and wife

Now the question is what are these "lawful impediment".

During wedding in different churches that i have attended, time comes when the priest or pastor will the man and the woman if they know any lawful impediment that will make them not to be joined togather as husband and wife

Now the question is what are these "lawful impediment".

she is my kind of woman. The major concearn both of us is age. She is even willing and ready to go with me. Very humble person i must say

Youngr and disrespectful is worst

INTROVERT, what are the " disadvantages"?

Base on your write-up, your wife is not a sincere and faithful wife. If she can go the length of cooking for a man in his house without informing you, she can do any other terrible things as well.

My advice: Take a step further, let your priest or Rev or someone in her family she fear/respect most know about her actios and call her to order.

My brother you have to act fast before your wife go to far if she has not do so.

Good morning Nlanders. please i have an issue that is bothering me for some time now. There is a lady i mate recently, she is currently serving around my place. l have being observing her and she seems to be a good lady and i'm thinking of taking a step further; like knowing her more and eventually propose to her God's will, but the issue now is she is older than me. In fact she is 32 and i'm 30. Please is it right and advisable for me to marry her?

learn from this write up and the mistake of othrrs

At OP tell her you did not to her sister.

this is rubbish

Wike should stop this rubbish. Election is not do or die affair.

Rochas we know

Good