A popular blogger called amanda chisom has always talked on her page on how much she loves don jazzy and today which happens to be her birthday, don jazzy wished her a happy birthday. It seems something is about to start up between this two.
Amanda chisom on seeing the shout out by don jazzy has been extremely elated that her dream perhaps may come through. Screen shots after the cut.

MAKABBEY:

go and break a leg babe

Seriously

okoliexpress:
bros you are obviously a child and you are certainly not married, d day you afford the money to, pls come back and talk to me.

This comment is not good.

camaraderi:
Ignore all those ignoramus telling you to pray. Do whatever makes you happy. Do the wedding, invite your mom and if she decides not to come, then she will be the one to live with regrets all her life. And the moment, you do her bidding by backing out of the r/ship, you've simply given her your remote control. She go press you how she likes. Be happy and always think about you first. My mother chose to travel abroad 9 days to my wedding, i felt bad but i have no regrets. My life my burden.

Thank you.

Homeboiy:
Na very simple problem to solve

so far u won commit ur life to him

Carry belle for him

go meet ur mama tell am say u no won comot am

u go c as she go rush cordinate well to avoid shame

ur mama sef, i for say y ur papa run leave am

Material woman (no offense)

I will do that.

krispycash:
Its funny how some parents try to make decisions for their kids... My dear my own advice is sit both of ur folks down and tell them ur thoughts and make dem u understand that they do not have a say as to who u marry... If u don't stand for something u will fall for anything... So what if the guy limps?? Does that make him less of a man?? Does that mean he can't be an awesome husband... Until you stand up for ur man your parents will continue to choose for u... Make dem understand that is who u need... Not want... NEED!! And it is ur decision ... If they still refuse proceed to get preggers for him... But i strongly advice u sit them down.

Thank you.

PenisCaP:


Omg u are a very good woman..
I pray God bles me with a kind hearted and reasonable girl like u.
But please dont marry without ur parents consent its very very important.
Im not saying u should dump him.
But burrow more time to talk to ur mum even if it took u months to accomplish.

Becox they are still d one dat would take u back eventually if things go wrong tommorrow.
Ihave seen occasions where parents abandoned their daughter in her marriage problems when her marriage gone sour becoz she stubbornly married without their blessin.
Im not saying anythin will go wrong.. but no one knows tommorrow.
GOD will bless ur marriage with everlastin love and understanding..

Ok, thank you.

Edipee:
This is serious. I have a suggestion, it may sound funny but it might work. Go to Facebook, threaten to commit suicide if your mom doesn't allow you marry your man. Make some suicidal post including pictures of rope or knife.
Drop your mom's phone number there for people to call and caution her. By the time 20 people calls, she'll be begging you to forgive her and marry your man.

Lol

MissCuppy:
You never can tell.

I am settling for him not because I am desperate. I still have men asking me out but He fits into my description of how I want my man to be and i decided to look beyond the limping.

Please MOD help me forward to front page.
Hello people. I put up something sometime ago about a guy I met who limps while he walks because of an accident he had when he was a child. And how my mum said i counldnt marry the guy because of that. well things started going well and i thought my mum approved of it but when marriage plans got close, she went and discussed with one or two friends who told her that if it were their daughter, they will never allow her marry a man that limps. Just because of that, she changed, cancelled my introduction date that she can't stand me marrying a man that limps. About 60 percent of my colleague and friends knew that our marriage was close. This man loves me so much and i love him too. He has been so good to me, I don't care that he limps, I love him just the way he is because he has proven to me that he is different from other men and i will be happy if I marry him. He is very hard-working and God fearing. Treats me with so much respect. With all the divorce here and there, one should be more concern about someone's character that the physical appearance. I want to go ahead and do a court wedding with him because a limps is not an enough reason for me to leave a good man. I put myself in his shoes, if I was to be limping, I will never want to be treated that way. I am 30 and he is 37
Please matured people here help me, what should I do Because my mum is adamant and my dad has no say since it was my mum that brought me up.

Escabado:
My sister , go ahead and marry him ,don't listen to.your mom. Because those handsome men and we'll presentable men are the ones that cheat alot.as for me I'm a man .I have BSc and masters but to be sincere with you I don't want to marry a graduate. I want to marry a girl with ssce certificate that will truly love me.don't ever listen to what people are saying.husband is very scarce not to talk of a genuine man

wow! thank you.

Greenbullet:

Even if he has passed the state of post polio syndrome, he will surely have residual polio in him,I am not tryiy to discourage her,just being plain truthful, any virus that dosent have a cure can never be fully expelled from the body .why do you think HIV doesn't have a cure ,it's because previous cures could not expel the viro fully thus the virus regenerates itself.

please just make whatever you are saying, you have researched on it properly.

darbeelicous:
And you are worried for this common thing, mothers must complain, they would complain about money, tribe, looks, religion, decency even respect! I recall a mother complain that she would not allow her daughter marry a guy because she was his teacher is primary school and the guy used to fail math's! Lolz........ Just imagine. So op, leave ur mom, she z just concern and a bit over exaggerating, aside from that, that's what they do! that's y they are mothers. Very soon, when she begin receive alert she go begin claim "inlaw" lolz...... #ilovenaijamoms.

Lol

DeLioncourt:


never let anybody's advise determine your future. If you make a wrong decision be ready to face the consequences like a person with inner strength and character. Following other people's decisions will only allow you assign blame when shiit hits the fan.

you need to know whether you really love the guy or whether you love his character...or his career. Marriage is not dabbled into by considering only one factor. Nobody is perfect, so ask yourself if you can tolerate his imperfections and if he can tolerate yours. (you have to think for your partner too)
I'm quite sure that his leg isn't the only thing wrong with him. Nobody is that close to perfection.
So, consider all you've learned about him deeply. And if you can't find anything else you don't especially like, I sorry to say that you don't know him well enough for marriage.

Ok,thank you.

KealDrogo:
I think him being disabled has made him a very humble person, if you ever decide to be with him he will treat you with kindness and will often support you. He will realize how lucky he is to have you, he wouldn't go messing around with them other girls, he knows probably they wouldn't look at him twice because of his crippled leg. Considering all this, I think it's to your advantage to be with him. He will respect yoU wholeheartedly, he has limited options you know.

I hope so oo

Greenbullet:
I did not state that its hereditary,I only stated that the possibility of her children having is as high as their father's.

IS this true?

YesNo:
you found Love.
you are convinced that he is the one.
you even had the love and courage to bring him home.

now ur mama would rather have u marry someone who is not really good to you but as long as he can use a skipping rope and do spilts like Van Damme, she's alright with it.

People are asking WHAT IF.

okay why don't you ask your mother..
Mama what if I was born blind and I grew up to find a man who loves me enough to take me to his parents and big family, and they reject me for being blind, what would you say.?

if ur mama had noticed and complained about his bad habits or some other traits, it would have been different.

Honestly, this is not a fair situation for one to make a decision so easily as the truth is, you might never find Love and happiness as you have found in your present bf.

Talk to your father.
Talk to some respected uncles and aunts.
Talk to God.

thank you

DeLioncourt:


never let anybody's advise determine your future. If you make a wrong decision be ready to face the consequences like a person with inner strength and character. Following other people's decisions will only allow you assign blame when shiit hits the fan.

you need to know whether you really love the guy or whether you love his character...or his career. Marriage is not dabbled into by considering only one factor. Nobody is perfect, so ask yourself if you can tolerate his imperfections and if he can tolerate yours. (you have to think for your partner too)
I'm quite sure that his leg isn't the only thing wrong with him. Nobody is that close to perfection.
So, consider all you've learned about him deeply. And if you can't find anything else you don't especially like, I sorry to say that you don't know him well enough for marriage.

okay

Talltom:


What about your father? your siblings, what are their concerns, especially your father, this is a long term decision and it would help mentally if at least one of them was on board. He could also try to talk her in.

Your mom raised a fairly reasonable point and that is to say that he MAY get aprehensive or suspicious later when you settle( disabilities for lack of a better word doesn't cause this, however self esteem does and disabled people often times suffer esteem loss. Should you decide to go ahead with this, in future, keep your activities in plain site, so he doesn't raise flags.)

Clearly your moms opinion holds water to you(and rightly so) so don't sweep it under the rug, else your marriage might seem to be based on a sacrifice you made( choosing your man over your mom) and you may hold him on great account in different ways( knowingly or otherwise) to make that sacrifice worth it, to which he may not be able to step up to.

okay. thank you.

BluntMadmoiselle:
Singing** "love no be seresere oo...marriage no be beans ee"

Before you take any decision, think about what you have for him. You want him to be your everlasting companion abi?? U wanna marry him, think of it deeply. Are you ready to face the criticism you might likely to face wen you guys get married?? (I'm not trying to discourage you but I like it when people think beyond the present). I hope his love in your heart won't vanish after you guys are in(married) after about few years. My dear, give yourself enough time to think and make the right decision. Ask yourself questions and think deeply before you answer. May the Lord help you.

Modified

Sometimes, you have another reason for loving him but you hide under the umbrella of "I feel true love for him" whereas, his possession of something made you stay. If you fall under this category, you should ask yourself " what if the thing is no more, will your love remain unchanging and undying for him??"

well, am not with him for anything. i have a very well paying job, and he is not wealthy, he just have enough for himself and his family. i believe that people should be loved inspite of their disability. they are human beings too and they didnt choose their fate. i love him for who he is.

BluntMadmoiselle:
Singing** "love no be seresere oo...marriage no be beans ee"

Before you take any decision, think about what you have for him. You want him to be your everlasting companion abi?? U wanna marry him, think of it deeply. Are you ready to face the criticism you might likely to face wen you guys get married?? (I'm not trying to discourage you but I like it when people think beyond the present). I hope his love in your heart won't vanish after you guys are in(married) after about few years. My dear, give yourself enough time to think and make the right decision. Ask yourself questions and think deeply before you answer. May the Lord help you.

I'll modify later

ok thanks.

makydee:
You can talk to daddy, let him make mum understand


Lalasticlala

ok

Harbosede02:
Mtchewww

why na?

thorpido:
It might be tough but I'll advise you stand your ground.I'll only disqualify the guy based on character.
You seem to know him well enough about his character.Don't worry about your mum and her opinion of her friends.She'll learn to deal with it.
How long have you known this guy?

I have not known him for so long but i have met lots of people and i think he is different. down to earth and genuine.

makydee:
I saw you viewing and I knew I had to take it

lol

makydee:
My dear, your mum doesn't want you to marry the guy because she'll become a laughing stock?
Its her marriage not yours. Let her understand your feelings because your mum's blessing is very vital. Maybe you should talk to someone your mum respects very much probably her brother or friend. Uhmm op is it only your mum that is complaining or your dad too?

okay. thank you. just mum is worried.

hello nairalanders. let me go straight to the point.

i met a guy online and we started talking for about a month before we finally saw. i feel in love with him even before we met. i had this strong connection with him. he told me somethings about his life including the fact that he limbs while walking but i dint really think it was bad because the pictures of him i saw didn't reflect the real leg. one leg is shorter than the other as a result of polio he had when he was a kid. anyway his good personality made me overlook the leg. He is such a gentleman, he treats me like a queen.after sometime he visited my parents and when my parents saw him, my mum called me into the room and started crying that why do i want to make her a laughing stock among her friends that out of all the men in this world,i brought someone with a deformed leg. that do i know the shame i will go through if i marry him. I told her i love the guy and that the accident that affected his leg would have happened to anyone and that i cant disqualify him just because of something that he had no power over when he has every other quality i look out for in a man. she answered me that if i was the one with such a leg, he wouldnt have wanted to marry me. that it is better he married someone with a disability too so that both of them can understand each other because according to her, those with physical deformities always have esteem issues and that will affect the relationship. well, i feel very bad right now. he is such a perfect guy except for the leg deformity, he walks around well and even drives a car. has a good career and good character. should i accept my mothers advise and break up with him or should i continue his relationship. please i need advise from people who have had similar concerns.

MOD, front page pleaseeeeeeeee. i need the right people to see this.

2dice01:
typical nigerian woman is it her friends that want to marry him i bet if he was dangote she might snatch him from you sef

lol

kingsouthie:
What if u were the one limping?

exactly! if i was the one, i wouldnt want to be rejected based on that alone because i didnt cause it to myself.

olac21:
Well,i'd say you follow your mind but why is your mother concerned about her friends and not hersef?

my thought too. well, she is a very social person and feels people will look down on her if her son in law is not a perfect guy in their eyes.

hello nairalanders. let me go straight to the point.

i met a guy online and we started talking for about a month before we finally saw. i feel in love with him even before we met. i had this strong connection with him. he told me somethings about his life including the fact that he limbs while walking but i dint really think it was bad because the pictures of him i saw didn't reflect the real leg. one leg is shorter than the other as a result of polio he had when he was a kid. anyway his good personality made me overlook the leg though i use to feel ashamed before but over time, i have gotten use to it. after sometime he visited my parents and when my parents saw him, my mum called me into the room and started crying that why do i want to make her a laughing stock among her friends that out of all the men in this world,i brought someone with a deformed leg. that do i know the shame i will go through if i marry him. i told her i love the guy and that the accident that affected his leg would have happened to anyone. and that i cant disqualify him just because of something that he had no power over when he has every other quality i look out for in a man. she answered me that if i was the one with such a leg, he wouldnt have wanted to marry me. that it is better he married someone with a disability too so that both of them can understand each other because according to her, those with physical deformities always have esteem issues and that will affect the relationship. my sibling are divided on the issue. some said it looks shameful and if i was te one deformed, nobody would have marry me while others say if i love him,i should go ahead that the deformity is not his fault and he is a good guy from observation. well, i feel very bad right now. he is such a perfect guy except for the leg deformity, he walks around well and even drives a car. has a good career and good character. should i accept my mothers advise and break up with him or should i continue his relationship. please i need advise from people who have had similar concerns.

MOD, front page pleaseeeeeeeee. i need the right people to see this.