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Kurupt01: Thanks. |
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JayBasic: Thanks JAY. But i am sorry i cannot really answer any question regarding Gbenga and i. You can see the number of insults i got just telling a patch of my problem. i dont have the heart to take anymore. |
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I think i have seen enough. i knew this was a bad idea. Thank you all. |
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funmisticqueen: He has a more fulfilling career for someone in his age. Designing stuffs he calls blueprint for business process and enterprise archit... see i dont know what else to say. Thank you |
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dukeprince50: Thanks again. i dont want to loose him. i will try this Advice. i pray it works even though Gbenga is like an predator that can smell prey or danger from a thousand miles away. |
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dukeprince50: He will hate me forever. 1 Like |
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dukeprince50: Thank you. for your honesty. |
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Ishilove: I really wish i could give full details but cant. If that is your resolve- to leave him, How will i do that? After everything i have done. to the man that made me who i am today, ready to defy all odds to marry a girl of another tribe. How can i do that without breaking his heart? |
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Kingdollar28: Nothing you would say can be compared to the amount sadness i am feeling. 1 Like |
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adamsoghene: Thanks, But i have tried that.. He said he tired of hearing sorry he want me to prove it to him. Thats the problem. i am trying to prove and prove but he is not seeing it. i am beginning feel like he is managing me pending the time he finds another girl. i dont know what else to think. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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bukkyemotions: It feels like a lifes work. like a long term punishment. Please how do you think i can make it right. i am loosing it already. 1 Like |
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I should not be doing this but i dont know if what i am doing is right telling the world about my problems. i dont want to make another mistake i will regret for the rest of my life. 1 Like 1 Share |
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• Yes I made a mistake by cheating on him but I am changed. • Yes he knows me, maybe a little be more than I know myself • I tell him everything, he is always there for me when I am down • Yes he is changing my life for better • He treats me like a child that needs to be taught how to walk, eat and play even though HE IS 2 YEARS OLDER THAN I AM • He knows how to touch a woman • He helped me start a small business by teaching me how to make extra income. But I am tired of all the questioning thoughts he expresses. I don’t think he trust me and I am trying my best to show him but its just never enough. If I marry him I feel this will never stop. I don’t know what else to do to make him trust me again. He planned to go see my parent next month but I have not heard anything since the beginning of this year. This problem is affecting my work and everything around me. Please I need help. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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So there is this man in my neighborhood I respect alot, I know his family very well, they were my patient in the hospital I used to work with. About 4 weeks ago he called my line requesting that I meet his junior brother (olumide). Was a bit intrigued, I asked him why bust he was beating around the bush. i told him that I am in a serious relationship but he pleaded that there is no harm that I should just meet with him. Out of respect I agreed. I fixed a date (Christmas eve).A couple of hours before I went to see olumide,I sent gbenga a text that was going to see someone(I later knew that my boyfriend was about to buy me n my elder sis Christmas chicken when he got the text… we ended up eating frozen chicken for Christmas). I went to meet olumide and we had a chat, I told him I am in a serious relationship and he said OK. Immediately I transferred him to my friends zone. Later I spoke with Gbenga and explained everything to him. He was not mad except for the chicken part. Since then, Olumide calls me to check on me, he was even the first person to call and wish me Happy new year, He made mention in the 1st date that he is into business which caught my interest. So about 2 weeks ago after work right after my shift my boyfriend called and I told him that I was going to see Olumide. He said OKAY NO PROBLEM. I met with Olumide and realized that the business I thought I was interested in never held any water and he was not really into it, he used the meeting as an opportunity to see me again. After wards, I had a conversation with Gbenga regarding the meeting and how pissed I was to find out that the guy just wanted to see me again. TO MY SURPRISE Gbenga calmly and passionately injected insults into my blood stream in form of an advice. It was so painful it pierced my heart real time as I was reacting with rivers of tears on my face. I don’t think I can do this anymore. 1 Like |
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So I have been dating Gbenga for about 3 years now, A serious relationship intending to become a married life very very soon but I am at the point where I am not sure if he is the right person for me to marry. I have been given it some thought lately and I am very confused. Please Nairalanders I need your help, I believe that the point of view from someone tht don’t know me is very important because he/she will speak plainly without the fear of hurting my feelings. Gbenga and I started off like the classics, He came to seek my elder sister’s approval before I could say yes. And my pastor’s too. He is very honest and caring,he can spend his last kobo on me and go home broke. I can remember when I asked him what his intention was before I brought him to my sister. He said will not promise me all the money in the world but he would make sure I never regret any moment with him. ..Fast forward to the beginning of the whole wahala…[b][/b] I must confess I did hurt Gbenga and I have learnt from my mistake and I am changed. During the first year of our relationship cheated on him more than once for reasons I later realized to be stupid and ashamed of. Gbenga forgave me and made me promise never to do it again. Ever since, Things never remained the same again. Initially, Gbenga like my best friend, my mentor advising and guiding me through in every aspect of my life. But after the issue we had, My boyfriend became over protective, always trying to make sure I don’t repeat the same mistake again. He move from being a mentor to being my obsessed and wicked secondary school counsellor. That’s is not even a problem for me, I can deal with that. But what I can’t deal with is: • He claimed that I don’t love him, that if I really do, it will be written all over me. OKAY I started showing that I really love him. • He came back again saying that I am trying to please him, he doesn’t want to be pleased that I should show him how much I love him in my own way. I WAS CONFUSED AT HEARING THIS, I still am and I am trying but I think too much intelligence is worrying this guy. But I am trying. I don’t really have friends or time to make one because of the nature of my job. Majority of my friends are guys who mostly started off from toasting me then ended up in my friends’ zone and all this I tell Gbenga. Sometimes he act normal and we joke about it and he advices me to stay clear of their cunny strategies and other time is a different story entirely, He gives me this attitude especially when I make new ones. ..Something happened recently that stroked a cord in my nerve... Gbenga is always telling my how dumb I can be around guys, saying that I can be easily manipulated and guys can easily bed with me because I lack the etiquette and sense to counter them or even detecting they are scammers. I swear I usually boil when he starts preaching this sermon on my head. |
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