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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 2:56pm On Nov 14, 2021
psycoanalyst:


Good day , can you put me through the LinkedIn gig, please.

Ok what do you do
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 2:06pm On Nov 06, 2021
gorgeousnogo:


Please, how do I get gigs on Linkedln. I have been there for years and still nothing

I won't lie to you I use VPN so it helps me connect with people outside Nigeria.

Aside using VPN I wrote a very good bio, put my skills there on LinkedIn.
If you just learnt what you are doing don't tell people on LinkedIn you just learnt, you put 2-5 years experience.
Because people only give out gigs to people who they fill are expert's.

Connect with people in your niche, post about and engage post related to your niche.

In general write up a very good profile, do some white labelling to your LinkedIn profile
Make people comfortable to message you by reading your bio.

Let give you a scenario of what I mean by white labelling.
Two contractor's where to bid for a contract one wanted to be modest and came to the bidding with just ordinary shorts and shirts with a normal salon car.
While is counterpart came in flowing agbada and big Hilux jeep. Despite the first contractor's well detailed presentation, the company still chose the second man. Even though he didn't say much, like the first.

Do you understand now? What they saw made them believe the second guy is more capable than first guy. Because of his extravagance.

Appeal to people's self interest, people want to believe they are dealing with a professional. Always remember people are moved by what they see, I'm not saying you should lie though

Well that's all I have to say. But when you get a gig make sure you deliver it well, another tip is always charge high, don't charge lower.

I have lost a client before because I charged him $1000 but he was looking for a job of $20,000. So he told me straight up that I can't deliver I was just after his money grin grin

Well about charging a client follow your instincts, you can't use my personal experience to bill your clients.

And also utilize your Facebook

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 1:41pm On Nov 06, 2021
Istan2020:
I sent you a mail bro.

Why don't you drop your mail so I'll message you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 1:38pm On Nov 06, 2021
Missionaire:


To add, learn How To drive oooo.
It is very necessary oooo.

In this our present economy, you fit become part time bolt driver.
I think google is doing one skill Up something called Side Hustle. Pick a digital skill and skill Up.

Yes driving is okay, but Omo the stress no be here. With the bad roads omob undecided
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 4:54pm On Nov 04, 2021
yongg:
YouAreNotAlonE

I would love to learn from you. I need to improve my situation.

I'm also learning myself, but if you have a system why don't you learn development. Website, machine learning etc.
There was one thread I saw on romance section, the guy said he was giving out a 6hrs python video, I don't know how authentic that is
But if it is true, that's generous of him. Why don't you benefit from that kind gestures of his.

Just learn development. If not for the nature of my work I would have learnt how to code
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 4:40pm On Nov 04, 2021
DaddyGngeess:




Continue, the sky is ur limit, talking from experience

Thank chairman
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 4:39pm On Nov 04, 2021
Elsueno:


U are very disciplined, as for me, I enjoy my life to DA Fullest! , if I can afford a bigger TV, I buy a bigger one. If I see better car I get am Instead of struggling with Keke. of course I invest, but not to d extent dat I will be stingy with ma sef, With the current super inflation in Nigeria & extreme greediness of traders..Saving is just loosing money

cheesy cheesy na suffer make disciplined omo, I don see shege before grin . I'm not stingy to myself I still go out on weekends
I'm accumulating and doing research, to build for myself a sustainable system which gives me steady income.
I don't think I want to be doing only SEO, the SEO market is somehow getting saturated. So, it's advisable to accumulate the money now and build a sustainable system for myself.

We will all make it cheesy

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:17am On Nov 03, 2021
Mercychen:


So person go come dey invest till e die, e no go come enjoy life? Ator!

I know it's good to invest but at least make some little lifestyle changes for a little comfort. I'm talking about owning a car ( that's a liability) but getting a decent apartment, tripping yourself out to cool places to relax once in a while and stepping up your diet to a more healthy one is still ok.

I no come life come suffer abeg.

cheesy grin don't get me wrong madame.
I'm not saying you should invest your whole life, but it's advisable to gather up first.
I still flex on weekends, sometimes I visit this nice eatery named Kilimanjaro in IB. I also visit other nice places, but not all the time.

I spend wisely, I want to gather to invest. To attain financial freedom, hope you get me now.

You only attain financial freedom by how much you have invested for your self. My believe though.

I'll keep working hard smart, investing, building connections and having fun. On my way to attaining financial freedom.
See you at the top wink

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:38am On Nov 02, 2021
Mercychen:
No amount of money is ever is ever enough because the more the income, the more your expenses and the more you'll want to improve your standard of living. All these end up gulping your finances, making your income insufficient at the end of the day. hence the need for a higher income. That is why the rich still hustle despite all they have.

Money is never enough at any level you find yourself.


grin grin you are the one that feels that way since I started gigs via my LinkedIn, I didn't change my lifestyle.
I still live in my one room apartment no living room, shared kitchen oh. So you see it depends on you. As I mentioned earlier I'm accumulating money to invest in cryptocurrency.

See the way you live your life depends on you, I feel when you are just accumulating wealth. You shouldn't start spending anyhow, that's what makes some people broke
I have the money to rent a more decent apartment, but I still chose to leave in that face me I slap you. I have the money to get a decent second hand car, but I still fly keke, bike and bus. So it ultimately depends on you.

When you are accumulating wealth, save first to invest in more wealth, in order to attain financial freedom.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:28am On Nov 02, 2021
Xavin:
This are the types of topics meant to be in FP. Not all this useless and nonsense posts. Looking at the amount of views in this post shows how people prefer stupid things to important ones

Seriously people just detest what will gain them knowledge. People prefer to be receiving, instead of them to give to receive. That is strive to acquire knowledge. To make money

Late last year I started learning python development. And I know how much I bought those videos, I used in learning.


Op see just leave them, they will understand better by next year. Don't dull yourself, learn something.

cheesy bro calm down, why you con dey vex like this. Actually it ain't easy to learn something that would serve as an effective side hustle and besides there are a lot of con men posing as online expert in certain field, conning people of their hard earned money.

Those guys who then enrolled for those courses, end being frustrated at the end of the day, because they didn't get anything at all or got rubbish content. Which does not impact at all.

But seriously if you are privileged to have time, please do learn something.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Salary Earners- What Is The Highest Amount A Salary Job Has Paid You. by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:20am On Nov 02, 2021
wunmi590:


The least I have earned was 15k naira when i finished secondary school....

I have earned stupid salaries with alot of work load, before God grant me this one ooo

The highest now is 200k which should be shoot up to 250k this month or next...

Though this is not what some of my mate are earning, but I bless the name of God...

I pray that those who are looking for jobs, God will be there for them and give them job....

Why does it feel, like you are a doctor
Romance / Re: My Journey to Becoming Street Smart (Personal Experience) by YouAreNotAlonE: 12:58am On Nov 01, 2021
NLHoodlum:

Learn to keep a calm face, only an idiot acts too happy or too sad when the occasion doesn't call for it.

My face hard like stone, neither smiling nor frowning. Hope it's not bad sha
Romance / Re: My Journey to Becoming Street Smart (Personal Experience) by YouAreNotAlonE: 12:54am On Nov 01, 2021
BiggyB242:


I smile and laugh a lot, you know people with dimples our smile non they end.

I know some people, would have labelled you gay for smiling. Human beings ehn
Romance / Re: My Journey to Becoming Street Smart (Personal Experience) by YouAreNotAlonE: 12:50am On Nov 01, 2021
BiggyB242:
Most people wants to be friends with you because of what they can get. At my present workplace I normally hail the guys and chitchat but not close enough. I love my own space, I said I should come little closer all I do now is favours. Talking about smiling, it's makes people take you for granted. , e dey cause see finish abeg. That's a habit I want to stop.

You described me at work, aside the favours I no send anybody. For the smiling part. I started smoking weed small small. Now my face don hard like stone, people tend to see you finish when you smile
Family / Re: Cost Of Traveling Abroad To Deliver My Baby by YouAreNotAlonE: 12:42am On Nov 01, 2021
Rotron:
I am new here, a friend introduced nairaland to. Please I need help on the process as well as the cost of giving birth abroad especially United States of America. How do I go about it? Cost implication, are they currently issuing visa for such purpose at the moment? It doesn't necessarily have to be US, I would like to compare the cost with Canada and UK. Those who have done this before, can you share your experience and the processes involved? If a similar link had been opened before for this kinda thing, could you share here. Thank.

You gats hold bar, no cap. Travelling no hard at all, visa Na if consular like you. Ticket at least 300k or more depending on your airline.

. I'll advise you pick Canada instead of UK, has their currency exchange rate no too high as UK Dem. At least 2-3m Na still money wey make sense, for that side unlike it other counterpart.

But hope you don settle where you go stay, when you reach and where you wan born your pikin.
Jobs/Vacancies / Is Your Salary Enough In This Economy?, Get In Here Let's Discuss by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:13pm On Oct 31, 2021
Honestly family men, women, stay at home moms how are you guys coping in these current harsh economy? The other day a particular woman that in my neighbourhood met me, that she and her children haven't had anything to eat after her husband payed house rent undecided . I had to shell out 7k to give her, you needed to see how she was praying for me. Honestly how do you cope?

The key to surviving this brutal economy is to have an extra stream of income, please if you are a stay at home mom. Think of something doing please the economic situation now doesn't permit sitting at home, look at how gas is on the high side. If you also have a job, please get something to do that would give you an extra income. It ain't easy and I know it, but please if you are privileged to have extra time unlike some of us who only have Saturday and Sunday to ourselves. Please do not abuse it.

Honestly Covid taught me a lesson I will never forget in a long time, that was when I told myself that I must get something doing that will give me an extra stream of income.

Please learn something I know there are a lot of scammers out there posing as online tutors, but if you see something you feel it's legit. Don't dull yourself jump on it, but please avoid all these investment scheme if you don't have the mind for it.


Let me conclude my write-up thus, please learn a skill. It could be coding, mini-importation, marketing, SEO, freelancing skills, anything that is of value. It's Important because the way our country is heading only God and what you know can help you.

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Romance / Common Mistakes Made On This Platform by YouAreNotAlonE: 6:19pm On Oct 25, 2021
I have noticed this issue amongst several so called acclaimed redpillers. You should understand there is more to life than shouting up and down that you are redpilled. Redpill is a lifestyle, it's not until you are aggressive towards women that you are redpilled.

We have deviated from the actual reason of redpill. Redpill is much more than being aggressive towards the feminine gender, it's purpose is to make you see the world for what it truly is. And know how to live your life in it.

Honestly most of you need to clam down, stop all this unnecessary ranting and anger towards women.
Just few redpill coaches online teach self-development and all that, what most teach is about women.

Kings, fellow pillers what most of you need is to break-free from that hatred towards women, now you are aware of the feminine nature. All you need is to always be on guard not to be conned by them.

Self development is not as preached as redpill, you guys need to take break. Life is not all about being bossy or nasty to women, but can you stand up to those people that bully you or try too.
Redpill is not all about being a woman's lord, but can you stand up, to your fellow man that wants to take advantage of you.

Some of you lack confidence and you know it.
Embrace that weakness and build confidence, change your perspective about life, women are not your enemy brother. Trust me on that, locate your weakness and work on it to build it to strength.

Most of you lack self-esteem and you see being rude to women as being bold, no you are wrong. See I was once like you, but what I did was I recognized my weakness and built it to strength. Just few amongst us are really confident enough offline

Trust me change your perspective be free with women, have a good sense humor and always watch out to avoid being conned by this beings. Self development is the only key brother.

Just Develop yourself and change your perspective today. Please we need to create more threads on Self development


SELF DEVELOPMENT IS KEY

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Romance / Are You Suffering From Std's Get In Here Let Me Help by YouAreNotAlonE: 2:09pm On Oct 03, 2021
Good day and Happy Sunday to you all

As we all know this dreaded disease called HIV/Aids has claimed lots of life in time past, and still in the business of claiming lives. This disease as been said to have no cure, yes I agree with that.

But the good news is I'm here to proffer solution, what if I told you this virus could be suppressed and be reduced to a very low amount. Whereby the virus is rendered useless with it no longer having effect on you, and without you passing it to your loved ones.

To those that need this therapy, or have loved ones and friends who needs this therapy feel free to message me. It's totally free no extra charge or cost.

I'm more than ready to help you.
Family / Re: Discusssion: Which Generation Started The Baby Mama/baby Daddy Syndrome And Norm by YouAreNotAlonE: 2:07pm On Oct 03, 2021
neonbash0:
Which generation started the Baby Mama/Baby Daddy syndrome and normalizing broken homes.


Silent Generation (1920's-1940s)
Baby Boomers (1940's-1960's)
Generation X (1960's-1970's)
Millenials (1980's-1990s)


It has been since time immemorial in my own opinion, because how do you explain that my own grandfather that died at over 100yrs old. Had a baby mama while he was younger(she later got married), it was actually funny because that child my grandfather had came for the burial
Family / Are You Suffering From Std's Get In Here Let Me Help by YouAreNotAlonE: 2:00pm On Oct 03, 2021
Happy Sunday To Everyone

As we all know this dreaded disease called HIV/Aids has claimed lots of life in time past, and still in the business of claiming lives. This disease as been said to have no cure, yes I agree with that.

But the good news is I'm here to proffer solution, what if I told you this virus could be suppressed and be reduced to a very low amount. Whereby the virus is rendered useless with it no longer having effect on you, and without you passing it to your loved ones.

To those that need this therapy, or have loved ones and friends who needs this therapy feel free to message me. It's totally free no extra charge or cost.

I'm more than ready to help you.
Family / Re: Why I Refuse To Help A Pregnant Woman, What Can You Say On This? by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:18am On Sep 30, 2021
Lostchild:
Romanoff.

This has nothing to do with being a christian, it has to do with my mental health.

I have always done what is right, by not allowing my past to influence my present. I tried continue in virtue but I know what I saw and I know what I have seen.

Women you see has done me more evil for many years. For many years I focus my attention in solving the problems of people while I neglect myself. The most painful thing is that, the same people will becomes the devils weapon against me.

In my own life experience, it has become a crime for a man to help another's man wife.

It has become an evil thing for a man to help an encourage a teenage girl

It has become an evil thing to show love to another's man children

It has become an evil thing to care for peoples children even though their parents is still alive.

I always do things and make too many sacrifices out of genuine selfless love towards women

I have decide; let them carry their own cross

When a person keep labouring for many, many years with no benefit, he will need to rest.

I am a tired person:
I have tried. I think I need rest.

Chairman do not mind those critics coming after you. Wetin my eye don see sef ehn I don wise, If begin to tell stories here ehn.

I'll never forget when I was in 100 lvl when some guys almost cut my manhood because they taught I was sleeping with their boss girlfriend. All just because I was playing nice neighbor, that experience still give me chills. If not for God and that guy babes friend maybe I would have been a Eunuch by now.

I still render the little help I can give but I'm wiser now
Family / Re: Why I Refuse To Help A Pregnant Woman, What Can You Say On This? by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:14am On Sep 30, 2021
Lostchild:
Romanoff.

This has nothing to do with being a christian, it has to do with my mental health.

I have always done what is right, by not allowing my past to influence my present. I tried continue in virtue but I know what I saw and I know what I have seen.

Women you see has done me more evil for many years. For many years I focus my attention in solving the problems of people while I neglect myself. The most painful thing is that, the same people will becomes the devils weapon against me.

In my own life experience, it has become a crime for a man to help another's man wife.

It has become an evil thing for a man to help an encourage a teenage girl

It has become an evil thing to show love to another's man children

It has become an evil thing to care for peoples children even though their parents is still alive.

I always do things and make too many sacrifices out of genuine selfless love towards women

I have decide; let them carry their own cross

When a person keep labouring for many, many years with no benefit, he will need to rest.

I am a tired person:
I have tried. I think I need rest.
Family / Re: Why I Refuse To Help A Pregnant Woman, What Can You Say On This? by YouAreNotAlonE: 9:58am On Sep 30, 2021
buhariPLEASEdie:



Bro.........

Forget bout Samaritans this is Nigeria.......
Help only when it comes to your mind........
Do not help girls/women often.........they will take u for granted/ingrates.......that will get u hurt once more...........


This is from experience I can tell. Boss I know you sef for don see shege from helping people. Sometimes when I remember some things e dey pain me
Health / Are You Suffering From HIV/Aids Get In Here Let Me Help by YouAreNotAlonE: 9:27am On Sep 30, 2021
As we all know this dreaded disease called HIV/Aids has claimed lots of life in time past, and still in the business of claiming lives. This disease as been said to have no cure, yes I agree with that.

But the good news is I'm here to proffer solution, what if I told you this virus could be suppressed and be reduced to a very low amount. Whereby the virus is rendered useless with it no longer having effect on you, and without you passing it to your loved ones.

To those that need this therapy, or have loved ones and friends who needs this therapy feel free to message me. It's totally free no extra charge or cost.

I'm more than ready to help you.
Romance / Re: Hilarious things you did while younger by YouAreNotAlonE: 4:38pm On Sep 20, 2021
CALEB1590:
Me i always walk round our street with robb or balm and applying it on people's face from their back knowing that you will not recognize me if i applied it on your face.


cheesy cheesy bobo yi if na me i go chase you catch beat you grin grin
Romance / Re: Hilarious things you did while younger by YouAreNotAlonE: 10:38am On Sep 20, 2021
Ehmmah588:
I recall the night momsi rub us native chalk and calamine lotion cos heat rash wan kill us grin..naso we go outside come see Samson and him siblings dey collect better breeze outside...we come near den dey shout like witches and wizards....see run..cos we were white as shit....oga Samson enter house lock him younger ones outside....come see cryyy grin grin

grin grin I remember doing this stuff too. I was js 1 back then sha cheesy

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