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Reeberry:So you don't understand what faithfulness means. Smh ![]() |
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I got this message yesterday but didn't have the chance to read it. I just acknowledged it by giving the sender a thumbs up sign. It was this morning that I read it. Ana eme !! To the poster, thank you so much. Cynthia, Nne Oma,good evening. I enjoy all you do in here. I just want to drop this advise to my fellow men! My marriage is 36 years. I am 65 years old. My wife 56 years, and I am still married to the same woman. We have been through ups and downs and we are still together. Not that we are perfect, but we chose to keep our marriage, forgive each other, keep loving one another and stay together to train our kids. 2 of my sons are married , same as 2 of my daughters remaining one. I have 5 kids. Everybody deserves attention be it man or woman. In marriage women are the people that need the most attention from their husbands. when a man neglects his wife, he ruins his marriage. A lonely woman is a big prey. A lot of marriages these days crash because of this. It happened in my marriage and I drove my wife to have an affair outside. I was very young then, told her all sorts of hurtful things, that I can marry as many as I want, thou was using those to scare her and I was very domineering back then. Before I could get back to my senses, she was deep in it and I had to fight to get back my jewel, I apologized to her and forgave myself as well. A lot of women who are cheating today never planned to cheat in their respective marriages, but their husbands life style and negligence drove them to it. All a woman wants is your attention, care and see her jumping mountains to keep you in check. The reason God made marriage is for a man and woman to be each other companion and shelter, for a man and woman to be there for each other, not for one person to be outside by 10pm and one inside waiting endlessly for the other to return. There should be no secret in marriage at all. Lay all cards on the table. When one person starts hiding stuff, the loop holes in marriages are gradually pilling up and it's hitting a rock. A man who is outside by 11pm, how does he want his wife to feel? At that Time for couples are cuddling times not torch lighting time waiting for car horns and the rest. Some men who complain their woman nags, did she nag during courtship? if she was a nagger during that time, you won't have married her. You pushed her to nagging with your promiscuous behavior. You call what she does nagging, but no she is not nagging, she is trying to pass an information across to you. Women are not our slaves . Stop treating them like you purchased them. No they are not. They are human being, same with you. Treat them with respect . The moment a woman who you are married to doesn't care what you do and where you go, that is the minute you marriage is dead gone and you don't know it. Sometimes when I see young able bodied men,newly wedded seated at the bar, say they will replace their wives as if she is some piece of rag, I ponder and ask, the one you will replace her with, is she better than the one you got married to ? . You never treated the one you first got married to right, and want to let in another ? A responsible woman can be pushed to have an affair, yes that is very possible. Let's not hide under the notion of a virtuous woman doesn't cheat no matter the storm she faces in her marriage, that is double faced lies. When a woman demand for attention and care and she doesn't get, when she gets to her saturation point, the heavens too won't judge her. Every human being on earth has a saturation point. Let's not beat women to a box, asking them to remain faithful when we men are not doing anything possible to keep them sane in our marriages. The rate of cheating amongst women is alarming these days . We men is our turn to fight to keep our wives whole and give them the attention they crave for. If you know you are not doing what you are supposed to do as a man,go back to the drawing board. This message is not to justify women cheating but to correct impressions of some men who think it's just the role of a woman who lacks attention to remain faithful in her marriage. If you don't water your plants and weed your farm, another farmer(man) will weed them in a way you won't like, some negative farmers will not only weed but they will collect the entire land, re construct it for their own benefit and even build on it, there by giving you children that aren't yours. So, men should learn to be a good farmers in their marriage. If you offend your wife, don't wait for her to apologize on your behalf, a lot of men will offend their wives and still expect the woman to apologize, making her a fool. That is so wrong. When you are wrong admit it and apologize immediately. Don't do a lip service, let her see you are truly sorry, women are no fools, they know when a man is apologizing from his heart of hearts. God bless us all. 2 Likes |
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4 ways a Pastor can create an income: 1) Take your mind away from tithes, seeds etc. That mindset limits your ideas. It gives you a sense of entitlement instead of service. 2) Start an online Store like Konga. 3) Source and sell African costumes on your online store. 4) Target the Western World with your African products. They buy a lot of African products daily. You can tap into the multi million market. It gives you space to also do ministry since it is 100% online. If you don't make over $1000 in a month, I will send you a free book on Marketing. Let me shock you... I own a web hosting platform with over 5000 users. If they only pay $1 pet month for hosting, how much do I make in a month? Calculate quickly. And that's just one of the few platforms we own online. See, own a shop online and mean business. While your mates will be defending tithes and mammon on facebook, you will be holidaying with your bae and teaching the finished work of Christ with boldness. Please use Google. Don't ask Charles Awuzie. He's with bae. � Written by Charles Awuzie If you like to read more articles like this, please CLICK the link below to join the Kingdom Champions Group: https://www./KingdomFocus1 |
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omobaby101:please how did you register? Where exactly did you put the verification code sent to your email the first time? |
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And some men won't still be able to do this. I wonder what their strength is for. Lazy asses. Yet they want to make money,fools reasoning. |
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YOUR MUMU DON DO; KNOW GOD FOR YOURSELF - (Eye Opener, Episode 038) I read a book written by a renowned man of God, who testified in that book that a brother who was a contractor had not been paying his tithes even when things were rosy for him. But there came a time when down turn set in, and he went to seek God’s face through the man of God. The man of God said, the lord asked him to tell the man that he was not faithful in his tithes but if he should repent and adhere to it, every thing will turn out for good. And true to his words, it actually proved so. My question here is, could it be that the man of God lied or the scripture interpretation by some of us is out of context or there is a contradiction in between somewhere?? What needs to be clear here? I actually wanted to qoute the book and the author, whom I presume to be kenneth Hagin but it was long ago i read it. The above was a question asked by a beloved brother. And I could understand him well. I had been there before. When I would feel confused about God telling some great men of God that the covenant of tithing is the secret of prosperity. And God told me something completely different or opposite. I thank God I know God personally. And I knew that these great men of God too could not have been lying. If God did not tell them, they would not have said it and even be teaching millions of people. “How come God?” “What is going on here that I do not understand?” Those were my questions to God. Over time, I was able to understand to a large extent where the contradictions were coming from. I will endeavor to share some of them here by answering the brother’s question above. God is a merciful God. He tells people the source of their problems if they sincerely ask Him. And because He is not a talkative, He only speaks details and relate in details with those who are interested in hearing Him and spending enough and quality time with Him. And He likes those who are curious, those who love knowledge, those who are never tired of asking Him questions. Not those who have to go and meet another man of God to know what God is saying, not spiritually deaf people. And the truth is TRULY HUNGRY PEOPLE ARE NEVER DEAF. He said you shall seek ME and find ME when you search for ME with ALL of your heart. This same God told me to stop paying tithes, and that He was not blessing me because of my tithes. I simply obeyed and I began to get money such that I was even scared. If you have read many of my posts, you should have seen the story somewhere. Now, why would that same God tell someone that his business was not doing well because he missed payment of tithes? I wish I can make it very clear but I will try my best. I will tell you one possible reason here and may be in another post, I will share the other one. As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he... If you do not have a solid relationship with God and may be you do not spend enough time with God to hear God in details, and probably your heart has been condemning you for not paying tithes from all kinds of preachings you have been feeding on, then the devil can use it to rob you of your blessings... Take note that many of us are not paying tithes and we are super blessed by God. The ones who are affected by not paying tithes are the ones who believe in the curse of tithes.. Their subconscious has swallowed the curse and it is activated in their lives. So, God in His mercies can tell them that is the reason for their problem. Take note that people who do not spend enough time having communion with God usually get short answers (NOT detailed response) from God whenever they get to hear by chance or hear it from another man. Such people are the easiest captives of religion. They do not have a Father-Son relationship with God so that they know how to ask God “Why”. Many people paying tithes cannot answer the question WHY 10 percent? What is the significant of the number 10? They are just doing it religiously, priding themselves in the self-righteousness of obeying God. Let me give you another analogy. For instance, God speaks to some ministers that a witch or a wizard is the person responsible for someone’s problem. That is true BUT not complete truth... If the person affected were to be a good friend of God, the person will eventually realize that the cause of his problem is actually is lack of knowledge of who he is IN CHRIST. My people perish for lack of knowledge, NOT because of witches or wizards. If you know who you are in Christ, witches cannot harass, molest or oppress you. I hope you are getting me. Yet, people rather stay at the level of praying against witches for many years instead of developing a personal relationship with God to the point that witches will now be afraid of them without having to pray against them. A similar thing is what is happening to those who are celebrating tithes. They are stuck at the religious level. They have not yet understood the freedom of the Spirit. This is why it is dangerous to hear what God told someone and that is what you are running with your whole life. Many people only know the things that God told Daddy GO or that God told Bishop or senior prophet. It is a proof of lack of personal relationship with God. This is why some people are not wearing earrings and jeweleries till today. Because God told their leader that he should not do it. And they formed doctrines for everyone around it. The fact that God told someone to pay 10 percent of his money does not make it applicable to everyone. Religious people like to generalize personal instructions given to them. They would say what God says to one, He says to all. Yet there are many specific things Jesus said to other people in the Bible that they are not doing. For example, Jesus told a man “go sell all you have and give to the poor”. They will not tell you that kind of word goes to all. Many people do not know God for themselves and they just follow what the founder of their “church” says like Mumu... This is why the concept of tithes is strongly rooted in a lot of people. It is because their founders are passionate advocates of it. In conclusion bro, OUR MUMU DON DO... It is time for everyone to know God for himself or herself. When your pastor or leader teaches you, you should know how to hear in the spirit whether what he or she is saying is true or not. You should know how to ask the right questions, you should know how to do your own diligent research and study, as a workman that needs not be ashamed... You should learn how to hear God in details. When you can only hear God through someone, you are limited. When you can hear God by yourself, you are unlimited. KNOW GOD FOR YOURSELF! Blessings!!! 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First and foremost, there is nowhere in the Bible that says marriage is compulsory, I don't know about other religions. As an African,our tradition is always the problem. It has to be changed because change is constant. Whose business is it if a woman or man chooses to marry or not? Did they beg their parents to give birth to them? NO. So why force them to enter a union they are scared of?? Not everyone would get married because not everyone wants to be in a forced union with the opposite sex. Some just want kids especially women. Hence the high rate of divorce. So which is better,not marrying at all and being a baby dad or mum or marrying and still end up a divorcee?? To me it is better not to waste your time and just do what suits you. 6 Likes |
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anthonyuncle:You are the bastard of a stinking LovePeddler who nobody knows and is hating on someone way better than you. So why not just end your frustration and die? I can help with the tools like guns and ropes. Pathetic oaf of a trillion fools. |
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BECAUSE OF TITHES & SEED SOWING, CHRISTIANS ARE NO LONGER POOR "CHURCH RATS" - IT IS A BIG LIE ---->> (Eye Opener, Episode 033) Mr. N. Dan wrote: Sir, you will agree with me that there was no such wealth as we have today in the church compared to the 80's..in fact Christians were called "church rats" . I am not alluding it's just tithes,but teaching on prosperity which hangs on tithes, seed sowing and hardworking are contributory factors. MY RESPONSE: I wish God opens you up to what is going on in the church... I will add you to the Kingdom Champions Group, and tag you to let you read some eye-opening posts... Most of the wealth you are seeing in the church today is not about tithes... IT IS ABOUT CHANGE OF MINDSET... People are no longer thinking poverty. People's minds are now trained to think blessing and prosperity. And as a man thinks in his heart, so is he... That is why you do not need to be a christian to be rich JUSTLY... It has nothing to do with seed sowing or paying tithes... YOUR GIVING SHOULD ONLY BE AN ACT OF LOVE... it should NEVER be a method of getting richer or making money... and you should NEVER be under the law of paying 10 percent... give as you are inspired by God... Sometimes God can use your seeds to bring about a miracle for you. BUT IT MUST BE GOD's VOICE telling you to do that (NOT a Pastor's voice). And that is usually 1 in a million times. It is NEVER the norm. And such miracles are for survival; they do not bring consistent surplus or enduring abundance... they are to help you in times of famine. Because if you know how to create abundance, most likely, you will NOT need a miracle... Imagine Joseph was trying to pay tithes or sow seeds to bring Egypt out of famine... NO!!! He had the secrets of wealth creation and wealth preservation. THAT IS ALL YOU NEED... Aliko Dangote has some of those principles... That is why he is growing richer and richer... That is why God is releasing more and more inspirations to him. But Pastors are getting rich and keeping several people poor by attaching people's prosperity to the tithes or the seeds they sow to the pastor or the "church"... Whereas, what is actually working is the MIND SHIFT of believers... Unbelievers call it THE LAW OF ATTRACTION... Go and read the book called THINK AND GROW RICH by Napoleon Hill.. and observe the principles some people who do not even know God use to create wealth and get rich. III John 2 states, I wish above all things that thou may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers. If your soul prospers, you will prosper too. SOUL PROSPERITY is the ONLY thing you need for PHYSICAL PROSPERITY... It is NOT tithes or seed sowing... The real poverty lives in the mentality of people. Wealth is all around people; but they cannot see it... That is why they easily believe people who tell them that they will get rich by tithes and "seeds"... There are so many of us not paying tithes... and we are not poor... If it is by paying tithes, unbelievers should not even have a chance of being rich... Which pastor is Mark Zuckerberg paying his tithes to for Facebook not to collapse?? Which pastor is Bill Gates paying his tithes to that is making the whole world pay money for his Microsoft softwares? Which pastor are the richest men paying their tithes to... and their wealth is NOT unjust but useful to us all?? Are you saying that God hates the Christians so much that HE is only going to bless unbelievers... But for Christians, they have to pay their tithes ![]() JUST UNDERSTAND THE PRINCIPLES OF WEALTH CREATION. and you will never need to ignorantly depend on tithes... I NEVER PAID TITHES to become a millionaire before I left Nigeria... I just worked hard to create the wealth I needed I wish I can tell you more, BUT wait for my next book titled "IF YOU ARE USEFUL, YOU ARE NOT POOR"... IT is Coming Soon. There will be opportunity to read it free of charge. Blessings !!! NB. If you like to read more eye-opening episodes like this, please CLICK the following link to join the KINGDOM CHAMPIONS GROUP where we rule and reign on earth by God's Wisdom: https://www./KingdomFocus1 1 Like |
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anthonyuncle:At least we know the fake ass bitch but who knows you? Fake nonentity son of a biatch ![]() |
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Of course,no young and pretty white woman would actually marry this hungry looking jobless kid. ![]() |
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freshboi88:They can never take Kanu's place in Kuje and they can countersue the court then we shall see who the real ode is. Ode ni e,ko kan mi. |
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freshboi88:You are the ones who are pained because your government is a failure and would always be. Nigeria is now a stupid joke thanks to your dullard of a president. He keeps falling for every trap set for him. If only you could advice him,but seems you all are the same. APC zombies. |
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freshboi88:Okay so your government proscribes a group as terrorist and the international community says they are not. Who is more stupid? You and your government who still go and borrow money from the international community are the biggest fools. |
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freshboi88:After saying I should shut my mouth,it doesn't stop the army from being sued in the ICC and ECOWAS courts. They must produce Nnamdi KANU or they would all pay for it. Simple and short! Justice must be served. |
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freshboi88:Its of no use arguing with you. Even a kid knows that if the army forcefully invades his home it is only with one mission in mind. Abduction or killing. So you still didn't prove anything. |
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Good woman! Make sure you disgrace them both. Hopefully he loses his job due to the whole affair and make sure you divorce his sorry ass. Take your own fair share of his remaining wealth in court and live your life or find a better man who can be faithful to you. Any dog who quotes me should better not bark as I don't do dogs but real men like my dad,brothers and hubby ![]() |
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freshboi88:Very funny! Videos and pictures of the invasion of his home by the army is all over the net. So what is there to prove? |
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She really looks like Falz. I hope they get married. ![]() Watch as frustrated and broke folks come here to rant about someone who doesn't even know they exist ![]() 2 Likes |
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Useless administration! If Ebola had happened under this administration, half of Nigerians would have been dead by now. ![]() 2 Likes |
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Won't still stop another man(a more adventurous man like Kanye) ![]() ![]() Before you quote me just know I Really don't care! ![]() 1 Like |
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Won't still stop another man(a more adventurous man like Kanye) ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
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