There may be likely hood that many may decide to travel enmasse to their various states of origin(region)during the 2023 elections especially during the presidential election due to an anticipated heightened tension and crisis.

While it is understandable that you can only use your PVC and vote in your registered polling unit for Governorship,Senate, house of representatives etc. Is same applies to the presidential elections? and if not, it means it will definitely affect the chances of some presidential candidates due to the mass exodus of people from a region they registered for a PVC to a region they will not vote with their PVC.Alot of people are interested in voting for Presidential elections by queuing under the sun not knowing if this is the case, the PVC they are clamouring to get and vote for their candidate may end up not being used and will affect their candidate.

Even Tinubu and his paid naira land online urchins and all selfish confusing APC leaders and supporters know that it's true that among the three top contenders, it's only Obi that can restore back this country, but because of their greed and corrupt personal interest they insist on presenting and supporting an old corrupt certificate/age scammer selfish and greedy drug baron called Yekini Amoda (real name) , of fake name - Tinubu.

She has used jazz and glued Prik with her kpekus just to have you and have peace in her marriage.No other woman can come near it or you near any other kpekus. Run and go anywhere,at the end you must come back,look and service the kpekus. It is real. I have forgotten the name they call such jazz in my side.

I think from three days. Ask your wife, then wait or you marurbate to relieve yourself

Ok. Noted.

For years that we got married,it has been fantastic on the bed sleeping together in one bed as husband and wife which any of the parties feel each other sexually, can initiates sex, face and hold each other on bed with good communication.

Years back,there was a misunderstanding that lead to a temporary separation of like five months but we later reunited,though she confessed of having an affair to like two or three men during this separation period giving a reason for her action that she thought we won't come back together again.

Coming back after the separation seems like it affected our sex life for I could remember from then anytime we want to make love, she will be reluctant and uninterested and when we do, she will be complaining and mentioning such words as "this your small boys love making sef". I was shocked the first time she said that and when she repeated it next time, I caution her seriously never to repeat such words, and whether she is comparing me with those men she did something with during the separation. Since then she stopped saying such words.

Again since the coming back together till date, she had never being the first to initiate sex or feels me sexually ,and will always turn face the other side whenever we are sleeping. I am always the one that feels her sexually,begs for sex and initiates sex first with her since several years after the incidence till date and in some cases she turn it down and within me I feel a sense of rejection. I have called her and sat her down severally to address this issue because this is not how it was when we married till the time of temporary separation but to no avail. I have thought severally whether it's a mistake I made accepting that we reunited because I reason the incidence has adversely affected the marriage.

Presently I am thinking is there need sleeping together in one bed since she doesn't show in anyway that she feels me sexually let alone being the one to first initiate sex. Is it not better sleeping in separate room because sleeping with her together makes me get more sexual feelings than if I am alone sleeping in another room. I don't want to be subjected to sidechick even though this kind of act can push one to such. Please advise.

Please I want to know.

I have been a lover of Chubby massive big ass/boobs fat ladies until I finally swim into the ocean and find it very nuseauting rather than enjoyable.

Before now anytime I came across such ladies I will be lusting for them and having sexual feelings. I hardly control myself on sighting them.Behold the very day I finally swim into one of them, I find it difficult to locate the exact spot of the hole to insert my pipe.When I later locate it, once I insert it,it was indeed a big stress as I can't even penetrate, everywhere is filled up, no matter the position u adopted let alone the kind odour emanating from the hole pissed me off. I begin to regret what is then special about this set of people that normal average ladies is far much better than them. Please I am not trying to insult just that such experience upset me that now I can hardly see a chubby big ass fat ladies and be attracted to them anymore unlike before.

Please what makes some men to be attracted and sexually lust for them. Or is that because I have not tasted different types of them before I can conclude?

StreetFight:


Don't mind the lazy husband. Obviously he is not paying high school fees and high house rent that is why it is sex he is always thinking about

Is there anything wrong that one is seeking an advice. So all those that pay high school fees and high house rent which you assume that I am not one of them don't think of sex or how to satisfy their wify

debbydams:
your performance is not okay sir,how u wan make 1 round do person..try to improve

Please what is solution for improvement.

I think married women comments/advice is highly needed as their experience also matters.

Lostchild:
zangodangolo

One round is too short to satisfy her. Try to use drug "anafranil" 25 mg. If she is the type that doesnt cum easily after two rounds, then masturbate her to make sure she cum.

One round will not release her sexual needs

I am not a fan of taking drug or man power before performing a task. Have not done so and did not intend doing so. Scared of it and considering different kinds of news one used to hear about what happened to men on top of women due to taking drug to enhance their performance.

I just want to know if my performance is okay. All women are not the same,some can consume higher than others

Atimes I begin to reason may be I don't satisfy my wify in bed but she may out of shy not open up and tell me and this is making me fee low self esteem as far as sex is concerned as if I am not doing my work well.

Since we married I can't recall any day during love making she ever told me, hubby abeg I don't want anymore, please stop na, you wan scatter me, I beg you I am satisfied,stop na, Abi you want me to collapse etc. Such words from your partner can increase a man's ego and stamina and being confidence that he is good at bed and doing his work well and not "a one minute man". I am also the one that stops once I ejaculate and can hardly go next round and her body language always signifies that she need more and more and need more satisfaction and I come stop but she won't tell me.

Please kindly advise for I know there are some couples that also witness this kind of scenario in their marriage and how do they handle it?. Even if I ask her whether I do satisfy her in bed or not ,but I know if I ask her such,she will still say yes just to cover up . Advise please.

Presently no enough money to assist him and pay for accommodation and he don't have money as well to do so.

You stay in a three bedroom flat and you allow your 36 year old close friend who had accommodation challenges to stay with you pending when he raise money and find an accommodation.
Now your company has transfered you to another city far distance state that will entail that your coming back to visit your family atleast for now may be once in a month or more probably on weekends or during holiday until you know how far the transfer will go as you can't relocate your family and your wife works in a company.You have three kids,not yet grown up

What will you do as you are about to leave for the new state regarding your family with your male friend. Is it advisable to leave him with your family or to tell him to pack and go. Can you be comfortable allowing him stay together with your wife in your absence?. It's not that you don't trust your wife but is it advisable to leave them stay together without you in the house. Please sincere advise is needed

babakb:


Raising kids is a fulltime job, harder than some jobs out there.

Who would want to combine that with another fulltime job again except a suffer head person.

Please men should stop being hypocritical, you can't have it all, the rule is simple, men pay all the bills and women raise the kids and do the house chores.

I like as the OP's wife is standing her ground, besides all the kids are bearing the father's name so why should the women labour to death.

Dear women, don't allow men to deceive and manipulate you, there is no shame in being a fulltime housewife, raise the kids and do the house chores, let him pay all the bills.

I guess you fall into this group of lazy reliability set of women that have nothing to offer to the husband other than that thing in between the two legs which millions of ladies are looking who will service them free yet add value to the man and you are making a childish lazy statement to cover up your inadequacies may be your hubby is also passing through this devilish induced attitude.

I don't think you read meaning behind the OPs post that the marriage has been for years and this attitude continues and from my understanding in the write up that it's not really that she doesn't contribute,but NONCHALANT about any single thing regarding running the family. What I understand from this is that the Wife didn't add any value atall ,but the one that is the worst scenario is that despite she don't add value,she don't CARE about how things are run in the family even when the hubby is facing financial challenges,job challenges etc,no encouraging words,feel of concern etc from her. Is it not a devilish act from kingdom of Satan?

Will you advise your brother to marry or continue with such a demonic attitude and you are talking of raising a child. She will continue raising a child for years ,for its every year she give birth to babies?and if no money to even take care of the child won't she care or find a means to support than having a mindset that it is the husband responsibility and hers is to give him "toto" that full everywhere free of charge. Let's always read a meaning behind every post before making a coment.Dont support evil because you fall into the category of lazy,chronic dependent vissionlees set of women that believe all they can offer to any man is the thing in between their legs that millions of ladies with good career,supportive mindset also have and are willing to find a man to build life together.

A friend of mine has been telling me about payment of certain amount of money and become a Director in Telpecon Non Governmental fund grant assistance,and that they will soon start disbursement of money to the beneficiaries. I have no issue paying the money even considering what they say that will pay me. My only challenge is how real are they or are they scammers. Please somebody should enlighten me.

Sanwo-olu is taking the glory of 500 BRT buses bought by Ambode before they denied him second term and the BRT spots Ambode built.This world sef. Some people may think its Sanwo-olu that did the project,please its not.Credit is to Ambode for those that dont know.

Advice noted.

Whenever I and my partner make love,i noticed i hardly go more than one round.Once i cum,i dont have the urge of going the next round , my manhood will just fall down and that is the end of the love making and i know that even she is not satisfied let alone reaching orgasm. I do try to romance her further after the first round,but that is not enough to trigger my "Engine" to start the next round.I know she need more but dont know how to tell me and will claim as if she is satisfied when she is not.Again,once i released,i will feel as if the sex encounter neasuatiates me .

I am very faithful to her and have never make love with another person.I dont flirt. However,recently i fell into one lady when my partner traveled and spent some months where she traveled to . I know what i did is wrong and feel guilty over the act but I dont just know how it happened. The love making with this lady opened alot of things that presently and sincerely speaking i now think of this lady,feel the urge more to her and prefer making love to this lady more than my partner.
I noticed that as i cum the day we met,after few minutes,the lady started touching me,kissing me,grab my dk,massage it,roll it inside her mouth, and before i could know whats going on,my dk was as strong as a rod waiting and hungry for the action that i was moaning and begging her to please insert it. In fact i ended up going three memorable rounds that keep ringing in my mind till date that i feel like staying with her all the time.
I dont even have sexual feeling to my partner again let alone remembering her but its now all about this lady.Honestly speaking i have not gotten this kind of sexual satisfaction before.

My partner lacks all these pre-intimacy qualities even when i try my best to put her through,yet she finds it difficult to adapt and she has not suck my dk or make me to be so Hot to demand for more despite all efforts i made. Its was after my encounter with this lady that i realized that i am okay but that some of the cause of my every time "manageable one round" is also contributed by my partner.
Please should i tell her that it is her responsibility to make me go many rounds and enjoy love making by ensuring that she did the required pre-intimacy as experienced with the lady,because truly if she can do anything close to what i experienced with this lady(i am not saying she must be or do exactly like her},it can go a long way. Please advise.

I am only here to watch and see what my Yoruba brethren that are supporting a renowned Tyrant called President of Nigeria from evil and wicked party will say. I am waiting for their comments. Thank you

Its not easy especially in Naija. My advice is while you are still looking for other things,let your partner by all means find something doing to support you. If Support is coming from her irrespective of the amount,you will have a relief as in financial freedom,and have finance to establish another source of income or investment. Nothing affects a man that you are not financially balanced and your partner is not supportive while expenses keep increasing day by day. Believe me,if you are spending five naira to take care of the family when you got married,i am sure by now it will reach like fifteen naira,yet your monthly income is still the same if not declining.

Useless,Coward and shameless CP Okon dancing to the tune of his Almajaris. Shame on you for having power over your brothers but can never confront the mess in the North. Idiotic Okon. Show us you are man enough by confronting the North. May you never know peace.

It is a "hidden truth" whether you believe it or not, but dont expect them to publicize it.I have encountered a lady suffering from "excessive konji "whose husband is abroad, she tried all means to lure me into sex but I refused until she open up and tell me pointblank to make love with her that " she be human being and can't bear it as the husband is outside the country and many other instances.Same applies to men.

Solsix:

Liverpool will win the league based on divine Providence and not based on the listed reason. Mancity is a big club that can easily win any club in EPL. They lost two matches not because they were not good, but because they
were destined to lose those matches

The fear is that Man City is yet to play Arsenal, Chelsea, Man United, Leicester city which are top on the league table and Liverpool has already played all these top club and still ahead of City by 6points. I think this is a major reason that Liverpool will win the league.

Having played 11 matches for the 2019/2020 English Premier League,critical analysis shows that Liverpool has already won the 2019/20 EPL with reasons:

1. They have played 11 matches with 31 points against their closest rival Man City with 25 points. This is 6 clear points above.
2. They have won all the 10 matches and only draw 1.
3. Liverpool have already played all the major top clubs including Chelsea, Arsenal, Spurs, Man united and Leicester City,yet they win all of them with just one draw with Man United while as Man City who is their close rival has never played any of the top clubs of Chelsea ,Arsenal,Man united,Leicester City yet they are 6 points behind Liverpool. It is very difficult for Man city to win all the top clubs and maintain close points with Liverpool,
4. Liverpool defense is the best and their three foward of Firmino- Mane- Salah are very ruthless and one of the best if not the best so far in EPL
5. Liverpool forwards are not injury prone and its not possible for them to drop point

In all,No 3 above is the major reason Liverpool is no doubt already a winner of 2019/20 EPL. Do you agree? . Please share your view.

Most of us especially those whose parents did not go to school and also grew up in a village where and when education,development and civilization were very far from the villagers that their parents did not take the record of the date and year they were born.

Against this backdrop,how do you choose or celebrate birthday if you fall into this category. I happen to be in this category and what i did was just to choose a particular date myself and take it to represent my birthday and i don't know whether what i did was wrong,but the fact is that my parents did not keep the record of the date and definitely as a grown up, and in this era i need to say my birthday for i cant tell anybody that i don't know my birthday

I am sure most people fall into this category,hence,what do you do if you don't know the actual date and year you were born. Mature advice please. T

I hate it when somebody will not be confidently pick and answer a call in my presence but will chose to secretly cut off the call while holding the phone,or will be shouting "hello", hello" oh poor network ,bla bla when it is obvious you are hearing the caller. This is is the case of our House help whom we just employed 5 weeks ago.

She will always put her phone on silent mode and always on call (receiving) even more than we.She a times picks it in my presence if my wife is not around ,i dont understand what they will be discussing as i dont understand her language,its only my wife that understands her language and she hardly pick calls if my wife is around and her phone is vibrating .She takes care of the children and it sounds as if such a frequent calls do scares me especially the way she used to hide it.She has never pick any calls in my presence where she speaks English language but always her tribal language which i dont understand.

My question is do i need to ask her anything?,is it normal,do you think anything is wrong with it?should i just ignore it?,does such act sound abnormal or pose any security threat and otherwise?

Shocker on Festus kayemo. So Attorney General and Minister of Justice was not given to him. This country sef. So many square peg in a round hole

Andhominem:
I am happy with what Joe Igbokwe got...

hahahahah

I thought they want to give Joe Igbokwe commissioner. probably for Information.So having realized that he is not a Yoruba ,they changed their mind and give him Special adviser on Drainage and water resources

All comments are well appreciated