misssPepper: I'm separated headed for a divorce soon, I've never been happier, I now know the true meaning of peace! Something I never had wen I was still with my husband. It took some time for me to make the decision tho.. wen I knew I had no business with him was when he actually said I have to take the beating and not tell anyone for d sake of d marriage was when I knew I married a a psycho.. i'm @ peace, I have a daughter and everyday I appreciate life, no more thoughts of suicide, no more severe depression, no more crying daily.. u'll feel better when you get settled into your new life.. i'm still settling and I already feel this good. Appreciate life!

. Dats d spirit.d moment women learn to stand on deir own feet witout d fear. Of wot who wud say,how do I survive?who else wil marry me wit a kid or 2,?dat very day,shes got a new life.d world is greener out here.Marriage isn't meant for evry1.#fact.stay Alive

forgotusername: @rolling fella
Thankyou so much for a quick response. Let us just say that we are way past the stage for reconciliation advice and trying to save a marriage. It is a marriage that should never have taken place, and i have made peace with it but for the sake of my beautiful kids divorce is the only option. The deceit and infidelity make it very difficult to negotiate staying any further.

So no offence I would really like to hear from those who have experienced what i am going through.

. My dear,its well with u.with some men u r far beta alone.i got divorced somwhr in Feb although iin ma case ders no kid involved and d marriage only lasted A year 6months.it all started wen Ex started seing himself as d most handsome nd player on earth. His girlfriend wud call nd insulted me even threatened me her annoyance been dat he left ha to marry nd dey found deir way bak togeda.den he started keeping late nights nd neva found anytin gud in woteva I did,den Beating.he started d battering since d 3rd month after d so called marriage which I endured till he almost took my life.i even posted here about d issue bak den.divorce is saddening nd scary though but once u r d faithful one God will always clear ur ways for u afterwards. It was like d world was waiting for me to come out.immediatly I came out,i landed myself a job nd a shop.of which while I was married he neva allowed me to work.even with my own money saved den,he was giving me xcuses not to open a shop.nd imagine I quit my job for d marriage bak den cos. I was leavin in a diff city frm him nd had to relocate.my dear,i won't advise u to leav or stay,its ur shoes nd u sure knw ao much it hurts or comforting.wish u luck!!

[quote author=sambisa5][/quote] My dear wot u c is wot u get.shud I educate u abit?once a woman decided to get married even if she's d queen of internet,i bet she locked dwn totally on som unreasonable apps!even contact nd d one she can't lock dwn on she limit it simply to get up to date -i.e d facebook tin.we av all being der.come out real.if men lik u r nt on ol dos sites u mentioned ao com u knw much about it.its men lik u who adds evry tom dick. Nd harry up nd den ask ur wifey's sisters nd frends out on a sex date.som niggur jus don't have good reputation nd it all not so fresh cos it's an inheritance...we v seen. niggur commuting fraaud in d bank nd got sacked.niggur s a liar a beast,a cheat nd a frauster.like to be coded,com on with it...however,d fact dat I left a man who doesn't value me nor. d marriage doesn't mean ma life has got to pause,Neva!!Niggur nids to grow up nd seek d face of God!#stop hating. Nd get a new job

Don't even tink of it,itneva gonna last.i used to be in one.i agreed with dis consoling statement that says,Ten yrs is not enuf to knw som1 bsyds, most of our Parents neva got to court,forgetting dat ladies/guys of nowadays r totally diff from dem.well,u don't want to knw wot followed after few months into d marriage. I eventually left wen I cudnt manage him anymor after a year six months.Mind u,im not ruling out d success of an arranged marriage totally cos wot works for mr A may b a failure for mr B.im nt in suport sha.

Neva knew ao much of Nairaland Addict I was till I cudnt read a ting frm here.yet I kept trying nd trying.i even deleted all my browser history when I was receiving that Error app.Glad we r bak!!Great Nairalanders!!!

Hmmm Nice points.i actually got tired of Fbook nd decided to deactivate my account on the 24th of Dec.Nairaland,LIB nd Stella is ok for me.expecially for som of us who r temperamental,Fbook isn't gudd enuf cos of privacy...

shortgun: *Chat between lovers
*The chat took place in d morning
*It was a phone chat

. Yes.exactly my answer.But d chat started nd Ended how I pasted it which means previous chats have bin deleted.Btw,my frend herre said it cud b a normal frendly chat and I sighted the names calling.thanks Shortgun

I was given a piece to solve yesterday and honestly I don't knw if I gave a satisfactory Answer.It came inform of a baseless chat actually and it goes as thus:Ajilo 2.: Are u home .
sure girl: Yea dear
sure girl: Yes dear
Ajilo 2.: Gm swety.
Ajilo 2.: Hw was ur 9te.
Ajilo 2.: Off to wrk.
sure girl: Gm love
sure girl: Ok dear
Ajilo 2.: Ok dear. Talk to u ltr. So,i was asked Wot I think of the chat?I said it was a chat between lovers nd dat part of it was deleted.pls Nairalanders,if u come across such a short and baseless Messaage,What can u deduct from it?

sharqur99: Start poisoning his food slightly until d murdafuc.ker dies a slow death.

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Korect!na u sure pass!#smiles#

Happy Birthday To ME too!!! Dis feels ryt...I may be the next PRESIDENT since GOODLUCK is ma bday mate.good feelings.Wish me luck

My own experience was bak then in Kogi State Uni.there was a period we didn't have a means of communication in the sch,so we had to travel to a nearby village called Dekina.so on dis fateful day a neighbour nd a frend named Tolu came to my room nd begged me to borrow ha ma lovely Samsung flip fone.so I gave in.funny enough I forget she even borrowed ma fone cos I didn't get to see her for someday and no netwrk in the sch to even rmind me I needed it.hmmmn ma pple the day I needed it so I asked Tolu whr is ma fone.the babe said haba!Zainab,I have given u the fone,ii even brought it to ur room.shooo!i believed ha like mayb I forgot so I went to scatter ma room in search.after lots of search I gave up bt in ma mind I was doubting she eva brought it.the day she cleared ma doubt was wen she did d same tin to ma Course Mate nd d lady insisted she didn't giv ha so she claimed to have bought anoda fone for the gir not knowing d girl was smatter by writing ha name under ha battery.na so Asiri tuuu ooo.eva since den,i hated Tolu lik shit

[quote author=Agiemars]Yes,i slept off in a bus while cmin 2 abk fr ib in july,i got hme 2 realise dey don hijack d phone fr me while sleepin,it waznt funny @ll cause anytym i ova slept @hme during dat period my dad will jst say "orun to sun ninu bus ti won fi ji phone lo wo e ni osi sun yen".

Toh!!u sef too sleep nah!nd I knw how much yoruba parents can use daat ting against one ehen,u wl just feel lik goin crazy.u gat me laffing sha!jonah oloorun,o sun eja gbelo

#inmagrandma's voice,Politics tings....u guys shud tak several bak seats.doz guys no send una

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arcbabe: Where is the Op na,abi sorry done finish? God will punish those robbers that stole my gen and dvd in kogi state university,it shall never be well with their miserable life...

ahahhah! Welcom to my shoes!my gen was stolen without even cutting or breaking my Net.it was raised from d bottom.very funny nd suprising.i graduated from KSU 2008.

Goin through tthe same.infact as I type dis iv bin bedridden for 3days....its a very bad situattion.most tyms I get on drips nd injections nd pple. wonder if there's more to my period.YES!theres more to it bt most pple. R IGNORANT of this fact.its a kind of situation I dnt pray to c anybody in.MAY GOD heals evryone affected

Waooo!Glad to be here.i graduated in 2008,studied Banking and Finance.my first lodge was MQ the very first room on d self contained block bfore moving to somewhere in pine Quaters.used to be one very sily girl tho.miss ma school and all the activities...

in lieu of these facts I would like to know the local name of this wild yam and also its preparation.
It is called "Esuru"

Eyah!
Its oloomi oni temi by Tosin
I wan to make up ryt now by Akon cant rmbr d track title
Nd one psqare song dat goes thus oyi e eeee no one lik u.up til date I dare nt listen to any of diz songs. I wil alwsys rmbr him:Iyiola oyewumi

Lol! Memory lane...I used to bully d girls in ma class.during breaktym I wud tel dem to bring ol deir food under a particular tree whr we used to sit, it was a griup of about 8 girls which I was d chairleader, any1 who refused to comply wil receiv d beatings of her life.
I remembr I used to force dem to dig for kuluso an insect beleived in yoruba to mak female bossom com out big nd rub it on deir tiny innocent tits.nd dey dare nt tell deir parents.i was registered to go nd com to sch wit d bus bt I wud prefer to treck so I cud bully dem on d way.there was dis day I didnt go to sch nd dey all planed to deal wit me, so d next day I got to sch I realised I was alk alone nd dey all were hitin ma head ryt frm lesson period in class.i cried ehhh so I started runnin frm sch nd wen dey asked me y I kied dat I lost ma grandma.....lol it was pathetic! Now we al laugh it off.

Hmmm very much tru...i rembr somtymz 2010 Feb 10 precisely,i was in Kolkatta India nd was busy searchin for whr to buy indian natural hair to buy.lo nd bhold d guy dat was takin. Me around took me to one guy who handed me Raw natural hair with diff colors,grey,black nd brown it looked so dirty nd W̶̲̥̅hen i held it,i felt strange nd asked d guy whrhe. Got it frm nd Wђγ̲̣̣̥ it looked dat way?he said D̅ε̲̣y just brought it for him frm d shrine.WTF!i smiled nd called my stylist in nigeria nd asked him is der anywhr i cud process d hair in Abj he said No because d hair was in its natural form,freshly cut.d guy insisted i got it he even asked me to com bak d next day dat he wud av taken it to saloon,dyed it nd wash it den straighten it.mehn W̶̲̥̅hen i got home,i imediatly decided neva to fix india hair.pls if U av it....dispose it.

@Ojerinde...pls can U do me A very big favour by helpin to confirm if d man can help with tuber blockage as well? M̶̲̥̅γ sis has bin married for 2yrs nd dats s d problem she's avin.pls i wil aprecia8 dis so much.we wudnt minmd going to look for the man

WOT IS OUR SO CALL BANKS TURNIN TO IN NIGERIA?IMAGINE, SINCE ON MONDAY PEOPLE HAVE NOT BIN ABLE TO HAVE ACCESS TO THEIR MONEY IN OCEANIC BANK,IN THE WHOLE OF KADUNA.THERE HAS BIN NO WITHDRAWAL.THE EXCUSE HAS BIN,"NO NETWORK"MEANWHILE OTHER BANKS ARE GOIN ON WITH THEIR DEPOSIT AND WITHDRAWAL ACTIVIES.I WONDER WHERE THEY GETS THEIR OWN NETWORK FROM.PLS OCEANIC BANK SHOULD STOP DECEIVIN PEOPLE ND COME OUT STR8 THAT THEY HAV GONE BANKRUPT, GBAM!!!!!!!!!YEYE BANK.COM AND C PEOPLE STRANDED ND SOME WOMEN CRYIN.RUBBISH. [b][

pls nairalanders,av being wondering if somone cud help mi out.where did the word,''up nepa'' originated from?,

Well,if only u r not from the yoruba speaking part of this country.but i must say its a tradition and one of the things i so look forward to on ma wedding day is the feeding aspect of it.morever,its just for dat moment not as if u will continue doing same afterward.again,its a way of entertaining the invited guests nd it teaches moral nd a sign of respect which is required from a woman to her husband.

hey pple,can u put mi in real lyt as per wots goin on btween our man,9c aka,alapomeji nd rugged man.who is to blame the wife or his frend?
will 9c rather watch his home splite nd leav the btrayer frend of his to walk away freely?
wot a 9c guy