black_beau: Unfortunately,africans don't seem to realize that our temparament and behaviour is different ffom that of the americans. The same thing that would make an american cry would not really faze an african.so,when I see nigerians copy americans unnecessarily,its annoying. Flogging is one of the best ways to correct the nigerian child. For those of you saying communication and interaction works better,I'd like to ask you this question: was there ever a time when you did something wrong as a kid and your parents corrected you with a speech and later,you were faced with the same situation,pls can you tell us your reaction? I'm sure you said to yourself,let me do it afterall,all my parents will do is to talk. Anyway,I was caned as a kid and I'm happy because it has helped shape my life a lot. As for my kids,I will cane them to discipline them but the key is to know when to cane and when to hold back.

disney: I feel you oyin honey, Well as your Nigerian sistaz : let me help you out a little bit.

1) ask him which car he drives . that way you can start talking about cars.
2) Ask him how much he earns. that way issues of salaries can come up
3) Ask him where he leaves whether na aj city or na vg city or lekki. that way you can start talking about nigerian rich and poor neighbourhoods
4) Ask him whether he is the minister son's or shoemaker's son. that way you can start talking about education
5) Ask him whether he travels abroad or whether he travels to southafrica. that way you can find out if he is into business and issues of money matter go come up
6) Pretend to admire his shoes ( so that you can know wiht style if he is into designer stuffs). that way you can change ur discussion into shoes and taste.
7) Pretend that he smells good so that you can find out if he uses (expensive perfume ) that way you can start talking about the different kind of perfumes you use and the bobo de use


Girlfriend best of luck. 

By the time you ask him 7 of this questions, you would know whether the guy na real correct guy or whether na one yeye guy wey no get anything. You would know whether to dump him and move on or to continue with the relationship. cheers.

durobraham: @poster, the answer is simply this-NOBODY should marry someone they dont like/love!!

It doesnt matter whether you are a single parent, a divorcee, physically challenged, financially crippled etc, marrying someone out of desperation is signing urself to a lifetime of misery.
Dont listen to all those telling u what ur chances are of getting married they are not Jehovah they dont know ur future.
Just thank God that someone is interested in u already, ask Him to send u ur own husband& expect Him to come through for you.

However dont shortchange urself by thinking it has to be a single never been married man,(older men can be yummy, trust me) just expect someone u can love.
Cheers

wandeay: is he one of the Illuminati? Cos Whitney Houston died almost the same way, nd is said dat her contract wit illuminati had expired, mayb ....

namename: I am a married man of 32 years old man also blessed with a kid, Mistakenly my wife’s younger sister who happen to be living with us is currently 2 months pregnant for me, After advicing her to abort, she said: she cant take the risk, when i asked why! she said one of her elder sister has tried it before and lost her life during the process, pls am so confused right now, my wife is currently away from me for a business trip and she must not know about this. Am so confused, Pls i need an advice.

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timmy1999: Am not surprise..check out hollywoodilluminati website.on MJ,whitney etc..I think kanye west days are numbers.there is always a price for anything frm d devil...cos all dat happens in hollywood is not by chance...planting of kim in kanye life is for a reason....be observant niggars

2013:
That air hostess with Hat feeling like a gee... i wonder if she will be able to pose like that before God.

Nwa_Nimo: Relatives - Is the money divided amongst all the relatives?

Because if so I'm related to at least 6 people on that flight?

What is my estimated cut?

Haven12: I have a B.Ed from the University of Port-Harcourt, I really do not like teaching and I thought I should become an air hostess, I am 5' 3" and 50kg . I am a very organized person and I think I am going to enjoy this type of service Job.I also think I can do some secretarial jobs like I said I am very organized..Are there courses I need to take to become an air hostess? please kind advice me and any referral will be great. I am currently in Lagos.

ifyalways: ^LMAO.
@OP,She didnt ask you for a gift so if you decide on buying a "sensititive" like what u got for her then you should as well listen to her choices and get it right for her.In some cultures,some types of gifts are better given/appreciated when there is a very free and informal relationship btwthe giver and reciever.You've never met her(according to you) so a simple gift would have been better.

tpia@:
why are you noticing her pills and how she takes them? Are you a doctor?

americans tend not to notice [or maybe care about] body language which shows the recipient of their attention considers them intrusive.

if the lady is superstitious, she might wonder if you're hoping she'll keel over so you can get at her son.

just guessing here, of course. I could be wrong.

ADEBOSUN: @poster, maybe you should explain how you lost them.....or what that even means sef?
Are they dead? How did they die?
Or are they missing? How did they get missing?
Or were you disowned?....
It would be nice if you were clearer.

mama-gee:
I and my friends were in this debate about this issue, Why do Ladies find it difficult to attract handsome men?

SAFO: The problem here is that culture in America is different, even Nigerians in America are different. The pressure is coming from back home but there is no pressure over here to settle down so of course you're going to have difficulties finding a suitable companion that fits the criteria you're looking for.

The solution is that that you have to temper your expectations and adjust accordingly. It's a different sorry if you're in Nigeria but as the saying goes "When in Rome act like a Roman". Focus on your reasons for moving abroad in the first place and eventually you'll find a companion but don't expect it to happen overnight.