ednut1:
post your pictures lets see first. I'm not in anyway ugly hahahaha and that is a fact. From the way you chat we know who is the problem. Afterall guys regularly come home to marry girls they meet online. Just imagine you are broke and still proud kai

awwww. I really hurt your feelings ehn. Sorry. I might be broke but at least I'm not ugly and ashy even while living in the abroad. M0r0n
Try and buy that moisturizer, ok.

Rgade:
A Nigerian living abroad thinks he's better than everyone else. You should know this by now.

Swears. They look down on people still living in Nigeria. You're right.

ednut1:
You attract what you are. How about finding your way to the same abroad yourself to avoid all these see finish

ednut, have you found a moisturizer for your ashy skin yet? Your last picture on the aquarium thread wasn't too good
You can't be ugly in looks and personality at the same time.

Yes, it has happened to me twice now and I'm beginning to sense a pattern.

Every time I meet a Nigerian guy living abroad, he turns out to be a massive asshole. You get the vibe that they hate women or they think that every Nigerian woman that talks to them online is after their money.

They are rude, dismissive or just very arrogant.

Is it impossible to meet nice Nigerian men living abroad?



PS: Home based Nigerian guys, do keep your unoriginal "gold digger" comments to yourself. You guys marry transgender nurses and foreign grannies for paper, so you're in no position to judge me.

neuronalkaycee:
It's honestly difficult to presume you've resolved issues with a person you've caught lying on some occasions. Talking over issues sometimes leaves you with more doubts. You can't even trust her words.

Hello poster. I just want to say I love the way you write. It's so.....nice. Do you speak the way you write?

lebete3000:


Sexy baby...

Hello. I understand that your former monicker used to be themodernman. Am I correct in assuming this?
Please I'll like to talk to you about something. How can I reach you? Thanks

olabrinks:
men are the cause of their own problems. Can you not see this nairaland sef? Everyday Men writing story books on their miserable marriages/relationships, they always make stupid irrational decisions based on hearsay and generalisation. Then when it’s too late, after investing time and money their eyes will open. Don’t use the sense that God gave to you, nonsense.

olabrinks, I've been up since 12am reading your posts and I want to say that you're amazing.

You're just so positive and your posts are always so empathetic and encouraging. Reading your posts makes me really happy. If you're anything like your comments in real life, then I'll say your family is blessed to know someone like you.

Please don't ever change. I remain a big fan. Thank you.

I want to say a very big thank you to every volunteer that went out on social media and every other outlet to call out this woman for holding our stipends.

I appreciate your courage and doggedness. I pray God will continue to bless every one of you that fight for our collective interests as if it were your own. You will not lack good things and favour in your life.

I am also very thankful to TVC for their support. Thank you every one. Please, if I may leave this little note: It's obvious the npowerng guy is but a mouthpiece for the ministry of disaster and no longer has the volunteers' interest at heart.

Let's no longer pay attention to his lies but fight for our right just as we've done in this case. God bless everyone of us.
I'm so emotional right now. Imagine what we can achieve if we all unite with one common purpose.

Stay well.

electroTech:
I'm a handsome looking guy, graduate, working and comfortable. I'm 27.
Looking for a calm, intelligent, peace-loving and beautiful lady for a serious relationship.
If she isn't working, she must be industrious and enterprising.
She can be of any complexion, race, tribe or religion.
Age is just a number so long as you still look relatively young and vivacious.

You can pm. I will take it up from there

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electroTech:
Hi Harlequeen. It's not a big deal to get the man of your choice if you can go out to woo them. But the problem is most women sit and expect men to do the wooing. Most of these ambitious guys might be too busy with their lives to even start thinking of women.

I'll say I'm a guy version of you. But the only difference is I currently don't want to get married or have any kid.

In the past, I had the problem of meeting ladies that don't meet to my standard. Though I later met one of my taste but it didn't work out between us after she discovered I was irreligious.

So, for some reasons, the ambitious one might reject you too or you might discover some undesirable in the long run. Just work on yourself and take your mind off so you don't get disappointed.

On the other hand, your can also help narrow down your standards.

For instance, you can put more effort to work on your own relocation and solve the problem of finding a man who wants to relocate

Hi. Let's connect. How do I reach you?

Enwhen:



Youhave set a standard for yourself which is very good, but one thing u must know is that YOUR POWER ALONE CANNOT HELP YOU TO ACHIEVE IT , you need God supports , it's not just going to church or mosque but following the teachings... Playing religion will not give u your dream man( I mean just going to church or mosque because of what u want)... You said , YOU DONT BELIEVE IN RELIGION, and your standard for ur dream man I doubt it if u will get one believing on your efforts alone , and if u do, u wouldn't be the only wife, because there many girls outthere looking for such kinds of men, as such would even not mind a side chick to such kind of men, including married women will want to be a side chick to them...which implies , u can mainly get that from a God fearing man...it is good u know want you want and u need God to help u actualise it and it's not by just going to church or mosque but by following the teachings.. In Mathew 7: 7 , it said ask, knock and seek all will be given ... Go to God with open heart and clean hands u will get what I want , but with your efforts alone, u will just be a joker ... and may end up getting what u don't want... May God help u.

Tell God to help Nigeria first and leave the lady alone. All your God terrorists disgust me.

God, God, God yet the country is worse than hell fire. mtchewww.

TheSeeker777:
Very interesting I must admit.

Please don't let anyone deceive you not to set standards, you will get what you aspire you.

My only advice is to allow some flexibility, life isn't always so rigid.

This year I set some basic criteria of the woman I wanted to settle with

Must be a professional or business oriented
Must be goal driven and ambitious like me
Must be able to drag me and my kids to church (very important)
We should be compatible in other areas

That automatically ruled out 90% of all the girls I was rolling with.

It took time but thankfully I finally found someone who we fit each other

So give it time, be flexible and you will find that special one

Thanks man. Cool comment. Could you kindly connect me to men like yourself. Perhaps you have a twin brother that thinks just like you? Asking for my ehem...cousin

Harlequeen:
thanks for your input,could you clarify on this.

Please do not allow a stranger diagnose you online. Psychological blah blah blah. Have you asked yourself why a supposed humble millionaire like him is still single and unable to maintain a long term relationship?

Nobody holy pass my dear. You've set your standards. Keep improving yourself and open yourself to possibilities. You can never go wrong by setting a standard to avoid mistreatment and abuse.

All the super women breadwinners and build-a-man women, how market?
For some of them, after more than 20 years of marriage, the man is still in foundation stage because he refused to grow up.

It will be all right. I wish you well.

GeneralShepherd:
I am still waiting for those that said Nigeria is better than Canada and Australia to come to this thread .

Like I continue saying, if you can run away from this country ,please do

Take me with you GeneralShepherd.

GeneralShepherd:
Osondi Owendi

hi.

etrange:


When I remember what the Lord has done, I will dance! I will dance! I will dance like David danced!

Mamaroon, you are the TEF icon of resilience! A source of courage and motivation to others! Your determination is unprecedented here! You worked for it! Wow! This is amazing!

When I was marking your scripts, I actually knew I was only carving out my space in a success story.

This is so exciting. Now go get your IT, pick your PPR and come over to Quebec right away!

Congratulations once again.

etrange, you've got mail.

thorpido:
I'll disagree with calling her this.The Op consistently denied he was in a relationship (not to even say he was married),led her on and kept having sex with her.The girl has every right to go overboard and she did well without physically harming anyone.

Thank you for your sensible comment jare.

Badboibipo:


Too late. He had 27 years. I'm gone. Bye forever

dude, let's talk offline. I find you fascinating. send me a pm. I promise to help you find a good spot where you can display your madness for maximum effect.
I'm thinking government house or ring road roundabout

Let's hold them accountable please.

npowerng:


You are welcome sir.

npowerng, what is going on with our stipends? why is our pay taking so long? This is the 15th of a new month. What is going on with our pay?

iomoge2:
. Lol @ something comfort myself with
It’s a pained single bitch that needs that. Not someone who has everything going on well for her. Not someone who is happy where she is and building her family.

bitch? Look at how you refer to your fellow woman just because you want to prove to a faceless poster that you're over your ex. Pity.

Jobio1:
Mine the guy tells his mother everything, he can’t even buy boxers for himself without telling his mom,he is very stingy, he is kind of a sadest he loves to control me and when I stated having small change he became jealous of me he sees me as a competitor,when I was suffering them this guy never helped me.church zero for him.#AY

Omg!!! I can relate with this so much. He liked to see me in need so he could feel superior to me. When I started to come up a little, you could see the jealousy all over him. My God! We're no longer friends.

I'm glad you made it out of there. I'm rooting for you. Cheers.

hopefulLandlord:

I must've missed it, do it now, I'd respond

Ok

hopefulLandlord:

Send me a PM bro

I'm a sis. You do not respond to pms. I've tried.

hopefulLandlord:

are you no longer on WhatsApp?

hi. I'll like to speak to you offline. How can I reach you?

kidman96:

I'm not the cause of your misery... Seek help.

Look at this loser calling someone else miserable. Projecting much?

kidman96:
Why won't you feel depressed with low self esteem when your decision making is shit...


You had a fully publicised divorce because your husband accused you of sleeping with fellow artists, yet you actually went ahead to sleeping with one. Not just anyobe but one with different children from different ladies, one almost half your age. Soon you will be just another baby mama to him. Idiot.

I wonder how miserable your life must be for you to type such a comment about a stranger.
I feel sorry for you. Get help. There's no shame in it.

Dboy55:

Bro,try upper .I promised You,you won't regret it .houses there are also cheap

.

ok. thank you.

Hi. I recently moved to Edo state and I'm desperately in need of a house to rent
I've had an agent show me some places and to be honest, they are positively shitholes

I would like a place around Airport road, Ihama or Etete area in Benin city. Just any good self contained apartment or 1room in a clean, well maintained house that is easily accessible to ring road.

Thank you for your contributions.