Please don't go ahead with the wedding cos your marriage will be full of struggles and regrets. I advise you move on with your life as sincerely as you can. As per the shame and all that, this life is full if people who messed up, accepted their mistakes, learnt from them, stood up with their heads high, and moved on to become better people. Nothing you have done is new under the sun. Your eventual rising up and success will someday be the encouragement someone might need in the future.

GYB is to me the only visionary and determined leader Kogi State has ever produced. I listened to his anniversary speech today and my perception and support for him just increased the more. Let us come together and join this man on his mission to create the Kogi that our children will enjoy in the nearest future. There is so much the Governor has to offer, let's support him.

Happy children's day to my lovely girls, enjoy your day as you march on to greatness. Dad and Mum love you.

The biggest mistake you will make is to talk about coming back to secure a job. I will honestly advise you go for the Masters degree because once you start working especially in a bank, excuses start setting in and you might eventually lose focus. Follow your vision for life, go for the advance degree, distinguish yourself, establish relationships with other like minds over there, and create a network of visionary professionals who want to be solution providers to the world, and not a banker who just does monotonous job everyday. The world is looking for solution providers not just employees. The choice is still yours to make in the end.

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Hello guys, please if a banker is summarily dismissed for gross misconduct, what hope is there for him to secure another gainful employment? Candid advise needed please.

Thanks.