Almost every relationship starts with one or both parties saying “I want to take things slowly”. It sounds perfect and ideal but for most people, it is nothing more than wishful thinking. This is because at the start of a relationship, at least one party (often the male) is committed to finding what tickles the other party’s fancy and the slow-approach-advocate (often the female) can only take things as slowly as it takes the male party to find that key button that is required to sweep her off her feet and before you know what’s happening, the same person(s) who promised to take it slowly find themselves lost and enslaved to each other. Now, one may ask;

Is it bad to over-commit in a relationship?

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I have thought of writing this letter for a long time now, but for different reasons, I have always held back. At first, I held back because I am not a fan of involving external bodies in my marital affairs but you are hardly an external body anymore since we now share the same man. I am guessing he shares our secrets with you, does he? I also held back because I didn’t want to give you the sense that you were winning the race for 'our' man but you must know that by now since he spends more of his free time in your arms than in our home. I have accepted the defeat and all that is left is to swallow my shame and congratulate you on your victory. However, just before I do that, it would be my honour to offer a friendly advice, albeit an unsolicited one to a fellow woman.
If you have been paying attention, you would have noticed that I have used the word “fellow” twice already in this letter. That is because while we may be on opposing sides in this contest, we have more in common than we would like to admit and whatever I am passing through right now, trust me, you’d be a fool to think you will be treated differently. For context, let me tell you a bit about Sazzer.

https://relationshipzones.com/heartfelt-letter-to-the-other-woman-2/

If only I knew what I know now, my life wouldn't have been this miserable and directionless. I hope my story inspires many ladies out there to take charge of their lives and pursue happiness even if it mean sacrificing your pride for the moment.

Click on the link below to read my short story and get inspired. Feel free to share it.


https://medium.com/@relationshipzone101/my-life-in-a-single-story-how-i-moved-from-being-a-lovebird-to-being-lonely-and-bored-1806acb5eb11

I watched helplessly as men walked out of my life with the same speed as they came. Being a fine girl, I found myself wondering why this could be happening to me. I of course knew it had nothing to do with village people but I was also honest enough to know that it all wasn't coincidence, Well, I did a little research and inquest into my life and the life of my friends (online and offline) and I came up with a some simple answers which have bettered my relationship. I am certain they will help you too.

Click on the link below to read of my most recent failing and learn from it

https://relationshipzones.com/7-strong-reasons-relationships-never-last/

Every now and then, you walk into a bar and find a man drowning his deepest sorrows in the ears of that one friend who he is sure can never get tired of listening; that one friend who never nags nor gives him the heat he gets from his woman at home. That friend of course is alcohol. But why is it so? Why do women seem to be impossible to cohabit with peacefully? How are the ones living happily doing it?

Click on the link below to understand all there is to living with women; how to manage their inanities and eccentricities without needing to involve a third party.

https://relationshipzones.com/why-is-my-wife-crazy-top-answers/

why are baby mamas complex?
Is it safe to marry a baby mama?
What to do when you find out the woman you have been dating is a baby mama
signs that your girlfriend is a baby mama and how to handle her


read all there is to know about baby mamas by clicking on the link below

https://relationshipzones.com/dealing-with-a-baby-mama-5-things-to-know/

With the way our world is shaped today, it is becoming increasingly difficult to tell when you are are with a lover or a leach.

This article is well crafted to show you whether your partner is truly in love with you or just hanging with you for the sake of what comes out of you.

Click on the link below to take the test and evaluate your partner.

https://relationshipzones.com/10-powerful-signs-she-wants-only-your-money/

In relationships, most men see women who beg as weak and wholly dependent on them. Additionally, begging for attention from your boyfriend can make him even respect you less than he already does and as a result of that, your value before him drops. This is what many ladies go through and in the end, this could open up the door for different forms of abuses.

To avoid all these and learn how to control your man, click on the link below.

https://relationshipzones.com/dont-beg-for-attention-5-magic-things-to-do/

Relationships are becoming increasingly toxic but what if I told you that you could create your own sunshine amid all the challenges your relationship could possible face?

click below to read practical steps to redefine your relationship.

https://relationshipzones.com/create-your-own-sunshine-7-power-steps-to-take/

What a man can do, a woman can do it better.

What about what a woman can do? It appears the men are trying to take something from the women. But why twerking?

Read more below...

https://relationshipzones.com/men-twerking-all-there-is-to-know/

Just before you blame yourself about always falling in the hands of the wrong guys, read another woman's story to see what you can do differently.

Click on the link below...

https://relationshipzones.com/why-do-i-attract-broken-guys-love-story-1/

It can be frustrating to be dating a man who seems unready to take the relationship to the next level. You don't have to worry further. Click on the link below for actionable steps to take when he isn't willing to commit.

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https://relationshipzones.com/7-strong-reasons-why-he-wont-commit/

Have you ever been in a situation where you are so close to a person but you don't want just that anymore. You want to turn that close friend into a lover but you don't know how?

Click on the link below to find the full steps on how to turn your bestie or crush into your lover...

https://relationshipzones.com/dating-your-best-friend-in-7-sure-steps/

Read Nana's encounter with "spirit husbands" to know they are not real.

Click Below To Read The Full Story...

https://relationshipzones.com/spirit-husband-5-serious-proofs-they-are-not/

What Is Inclusive Relationship?

To put in the simplest form, it is a relationship arrangement where one partner or both come together and agree to seek sexual or physical intimacy by going outside the boundaries of their immediate relationship. This can only work when certain ground rules have been laid and followed.

Find out more on the link below.

https://relationshipzones.com/inclusive-relationship-5-best-ways-to-enjoy/

People always say relationship causes pain but the truth is that there are people out there who are enjoying their relationships. The simple reasons why they enjoy theirs is because of a few things they do which are carefully listed and explained in the link below.

Click below to see 5 things YOU MUST NOT DO if you want to enjoy your relationship.

https://relationshipzones.com/create-your-own-sunshine-7-action-steps-for/

A new form of relationship has just come to the fore. It is called FLR which stands for Female Led Relationship. What are we to expect when a woman is at the driving seat of the relationship?

What does it mean when a woman is the boss.

Find out more by clicking on the link below

https://relationshipzones.com/what-is-female-led-relationship-5-features/

How do you react when you've just found out your best friend slept with your spouse?

I went through it and here is what I did.

Click below for full story

https://relationshipzones.com/dont-beg-for-attention-a-short-story/

You can hurt a woman in any way you please but make sure your joystick doesn't fail on your wedding night.

Read Adanna's experience here.

https://relationshipzones.com/sex-therapy-forum-all-you-need-to-know/

What do you do when your partner gives you the silent treatment? what does it mean when the sounds of silence become so loud in your home?

https://relationshipzones.com/page/2/

Age presents a very dicey situation in relationships and often times, people wonder what is the best age gap in a relationship. This article aims to to answer all questions in relationships including Factors Affecting Age Preferences; The Best Age Gap In Relationships; Why Age-Gap Relationships Don't Work; Advantages Of Marrying an Older Woman; Disadvantages Of Marrying an Older Woman; Advantages Of Marrying an Older Man; Disadvantages Of Marrying an Older Man



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You: Things have been going on well between us for long

Inner voice: I agree

You: I enjoy what we share

Inner voice: who wouldn’t?

You: thing is, I want to take it up a notch

Inner voice: excuse me?

You: I want us to be lovers. We have the chemistry

Inner voice: is it just about the chemistry?

You: what are you talking about?

Inner voice: I am saying I understand how you feel but does he/she feel the same way?

You: there’s only one way to find out

Inner voice: there’s also only way to spoil everything you two have built over the years

You: so what are you suggesting? That I sit and die in silence?

Inner voice: no, I am saying it’s better to hold on to what one has than attempt to get more only to lose it all.

You: I’ll tell him/her that I love him/her. We need to become lovers. We have to

Inner voice: wrong move. He/she might see you as a pervert trying to take advantage of a vulnerability.

And so on…

And so on…

And so on…

Does the dialogue above sound familiar? No need to be ashamed. Almost every one of us has been in that situation where we share something magical with someone; in that situation where we believe we have tarried on this mountain long enough and should launch out for the promised land; in that situation where everything seems perfect to everyone else but deep down, you are an Oliver Twist -wanting more. The shitty thing is that sometimes, you are too ashamed to tell people about your plight and you are left to deal with this alone because for some reasons, people think of dating a bestie to be a weird, horrible thing. Some even liken it to turning your beloved pet dog into steak, it isn’t.

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