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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by NairalandGOAT1: 6:46pm On Apr 15
AqualinaXYZ:
Them serve you respect or TOTO




You chose TOTO




You can’t have the two at once




Carry Fanta go River and have a bath of shame




To Fvck coworker and have peace of mind you’ll need connection because it doesn’t end well

God bless you for hitting the nail right in the middle of the head!!

End of thread!
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by NNicewitchh: 6:46pm On Apr 15
Mystery9:
Did you seek my advice before sleeping with her shocked shocked shocked shocked
bros the answer to your question should be his utmost priority should this article is anything to write home about.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Solofresh2: 6:48pm On Apr 15
orohbiro:
don't mind all most all the men here have mental problem trust me
Including your biological father. Good
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Untube: 6:49pm On Apr 15
Mystery9:
Did you seek my advice before sleeping with her shocked shocked shocked shocked

God bless you😂😂😂
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Paramount01(m): 6:51pm On Apr 15
Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.


Wait, did you pay her after the sex or is just consensual sex? If you pay her, I can tell you what to do
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by kmaster007: 6:55pm On Apr 15
Some girls Ehn.... Call her in order first bfor you will decide what next.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by peterboro: 6:58pm On Apr 15
You shot yourself a bullet on your leg🤣🤣

A worse mistake that can never be reversed.
UNTIL EITHER OF YOU QUIT THE JOB.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Ebubu2: 6:59pm On Apr 15
Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool
You be bad guy
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by tubolancer(m): 6:59pm On Apr 15
Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.
You can't eat your cake and still have it, you better be digging the toto regularly, ma your respect be that bro.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by meobizy(f): 7:05pm On Apr 15
Fake story aimed at making people post. Lol. Trolls go use their ten accounts post different opinions, even fight themselves join over the matter.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by FireUpNow(m): 7:05pm On Apr 15
Na free and easy kpekus cause am. Maybe you did not kick the girl well so she is pissed off with you. You have learnt your lesson not to ever staff a coworker again

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Mygoodnessx(f): 7:06pm On Apr 15
I manage a hotel and it's like the staff are waiting for you to fvck up so they can rub it in your face...you have done that na so deal with it...how you go sleep with your staff? As a manager toto is the cheapest thing you can get around but no, na staff own u want...u don see am nah...better finish what you started

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by efec(m): 7:08pm On Apr 15
okoroemeka:
it is not an issue of seen everything,he rejected the woman after fucking her which is not a wise move because you cannot predict the reaction of a woman scorned,if he played his cards right he has broken her only power by knacking her pussy and could have used such advantage to control her not discard her,he could even turn the lady to his mole and she will be feeding him info on what is going on,he should be very careful how this is handled


Bro it never ends well, office romance, neighbour romance, etc. What if his boss has eyes for her too, no be sack e go result in?. Ive seen this thing play over and over again, it never ends well

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Olichoke: 7:08pm On Apr 15
By having sex with her, you disrespected your wife and your marital vows. You're reaping what you sowed.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by TheWinterBird: 7:09pm On Apr 15
You're a married man? Unfortunately, your don't deserve any ounce of respect. The fact that you have the audacity to be asking her for respect is baffling. Respect ko, raisins and shrimps ni.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by thesicilian: 7:10pm On Apr 15
yewit37486:


Unfortunately, he is a married man and he only told the girl AFTERWARDS.
He hasn't conducted himself as someone deserving of respect so he shouldn't be surprised at the disrespect he is receiving.
He's not a responsible person. And it's people like that who are most annoyed at perceived disrespect from their subordinates

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by thesicilian: 7:10pm On Apr 15
Abemy:


In your last paragraph, you forgot you were speaking to an African, who can never resign, no matter what, he better be shown the way out than resign.
That's true.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by ayo2008: 7:11pm On Apr 15
Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

You never knew you were married before sleeping with her? Men and their high level of infidelity.

Sin brings shame . The best way to handle the issue is to confess to your wife of your infidelity cos you gave desecrated your marital vow. HEB 13vs 4

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by thesicilian: 7:11pm On Apr 15
mobileboy:


are you kidding me? is insubordination no longer an official crime? to the extent that her boss' boss is noticing it

What caused the insubordination? Your superiors will ask you. Be prepared for an acceptable answer

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by thesicilian: 7:12pm On Apr 15
Offpoint1:

The guy is married grin
So he deserves the disrespect

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Akinpresident: 7:13pm On Apr 15
AqualinaXYZ:
Them serve you respect or TOTO




You chose TOTO




You can’t have the two at once




Carry Fanta go River and have a bath of shame




To Fvck coworker and have peace of mind you’ll need connection because it doesn’t end well

Wetin be this savagery 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by thesicilian: 7:14pm On Apr 15
DeepSight:


A Sicilian speaking like Christ of Nazareth.
A Sicilian that doesn't disrespect his family grin

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by stevups(m): 7:16pm On Apr 15
You don't need her respect. Teach her a lesson by sacking a supervisor that disrespect you
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Kcdojoto(m): 7:20pm On Apr 15
Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool
You are absolutely correct, nothing more nothing less
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by jaszplus12(m): 7:20pm On Apr 15
Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.


Pls advise me what to do pls.
Advice
Rather I'll advertize your f.oolishness and incredible reckless adventure!
Guy, she's just wrapped you around her little finger! She knew exactly what to do to fell you...and you gullibly toed the line...
Goodbye to your freedom in that organization...goodbye to your work, welcome to unemployment and constantly looking over your shoulders...
Goodbye sanity...
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by cococandy(f): 7:21pm On Apr 15
phorget:



Her crime is that she stepped out of line.



This is why a lot of you don’t thrive in regulated environments

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Faposky95: 7:21pm On Apr 15
If you have to choose TOTO..why not go for the Queens and Royalty....
Na bar girl respect and toto you condescend for so.....
Shame on you
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Vulcan24(m): 7:22pm On Apr 15
Villa12:
you're running your mouth like tap. That lady definitely had evidence and proof of their sex excapade. The manager will most likely lose his job and she might make it get to his wife table. You think she was disrespecting him for nothing?

So they sack colleagues for consenting sex?
Do u work in paid employment?

If u disrespect your superior in an organisation u get sacked unless u can prove sexual harassment!
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by alezzy13: 7:23pm On Apr 15
Mystery9:
Did you seek my advice before sleeping with her shocked shocked shocked shocked

Characters for this thread eh 😭😭😁😁😁😁
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Vulcan24(m): 7:24pm On Apr 15
Junior staff/Girls that u not normally joke with will disrespect u eventually not to mention when u sleep with them

But I don't see it quite often, that the ones u slept with disrespect u openly. Most misbehave behind close doors or become recalcitrant!

This one is just a fool and probably don't av an idea the world dosent revolve around her
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by DOM7: 7:24pm On Apr 15
Why will she respect you after you choose to throw your respect to the dustbin. You've lost it man, you can't eat your cake and have it.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Stayingalive: 7:25pm On Apr 15
Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.
Why did you have to tell her you won’t do it again and you’re a married man?

It wasn’t necessary, you come dey feel like say na you wise pass.

Right now try to call her and settle things, she most likely feeling cheated, but it depends on how deep her wounds is and if she is planning to heal.

If she no gree behave then ready to do the needful and face your consequences. When she see you’re not afraid to be responsible for your actions. She will bow

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