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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by alezzy13: 7:25pm On Apr 15 |
meobizy: And you know this how? The scenario he painted is not unusual in most organisations, sadly. 2 Likes |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Holluwhakemmy(f): 7:28pm On Apr 15 |
Hassanmaye:his own might be small |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Goalnaldo(m): 7:30pm On Apr 15 |
If there's one thing I hate is losing the respect of people. That is why I always resist the urge to woo girls who greet or respect me a lot. I value respect more than the cravings of my dick. 1 Like |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Stayingalive: 7:30pm On Apr 15 |
ifinger:Omo na how everybody dey carry themselves o. I have bleeped my colleague like this. Everything died and we both are working 1 Like |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by edunaragold(f): 7:34pm On Apr 15 |
What do you expect,that a woman for u,for her mind she has brought u down ,u better wake her up by checking and don't take nonsense from her |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by labake1(f): 7:35pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth: As an Ambassador against men that cheats on their wives, guy just go and apologize to your wife and run all necessary tests to confirm that you are safe. No go give innocent person pikin infection. She don see you finish abi you expect her to dey roll for ground? There is nothing you can do about it unless you sit her down and ask her what she wants |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by NairalandGOAT1: 7:36pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth: You're just so unbelievably shameless!! You had an extramarital affair and you still have the guts to rub it on our faces?? I pray your wife catches you in the act next time! If only you have not even contracted STI to go and infect the innocent wife!! Rubbish!! I hate cheating men!!!!! They are all Compound F👀ls |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Emdebby2: 7:37pm On Apr 15 |
Oga manager you deserve it. Since you don't know what work ethics means. You crossed the boundary so what do you expect. You want her to bow down and worship you after exposing your unclothedness to her while both of you are still in the same organization. I only pity the woman you married. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by ugwumichael(m): 7:37pm On Apr 15 |
Bushmeat don catch hunter |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by piriton: 7:38pm On Apr 15 |
She will soon report to your wife |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by crossbreedwears(m): 7:38pm On Apr 15 |
Omo you dey very blunt oh Yugoslavia247: |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by crossbreedwears(m): 7:39pm On Apr 15 |
Lol lol lol NEUDUDE: |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by samwash(m): 7:39pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth: Guy man !!! Na there you f""k up. How you go tell her such thing the very next day, you go loss your respect na. You for lock up, she for lock up, everything go die naturally since you nor want the relationship. He get the way Dem dey play this kind parole. 3 Likes |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by crossbreedwears(m): 7:40pm On Apr 15 |
For work environment baba she go disrespect you DiskJokeyManic: |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Kingzjayzee: 7:40pm On Apr 15 |
Mystery9:mysterious answer |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Goalnaldo(m): 7:41pm On Apr 15 |
iLegendd:you write so well, reminds me of nwaamaikpe. Okay I remember, you are a writer |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by sweetTai(m): 7:44pm On Apr 15 |
Sleep with her again. And if she continues to disrespect you, continue to sleep with her. She go get tired and move on. 1 Like |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Sirchiboy: 7:47pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth: |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Goalnaldo(m): 7:47pm On Apr 15 |
Yugoslavia247 I doff my hat for you. Respect. You have said it all. Most ladies think because they have a vagina, they can do anyhow. Well I blame men like the op that allows their dicks do the thinking for them. My girlfriend has visited me twice. We did everything but Bleep. She was literally begging me to knack her I refused. Because I know once I do that she will use it to manipulate me especially as she claimed she's a virgin. I told her before that I want her to continue being a virgin that it's the best gift she can give to her future husband even if we don't end up together |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by phorget(m): 7:48pm On Apr 15 |
cococandy: How do you mean? Two adults having a consensual agreement shouldn't be anything to worry about,the only thing is when one now uses it as a yardstick to disrespect the other one. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Stayingalive: 7:48pm On Apr 15 |
Villa12:Naso una dey think too far. Evidence where? And if so, you think say she go dey go around dey go show am? Na make baba just apologize for the foolish talk I’m don go talk 1 Like |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by adabaraabdul: 7:51pm On Apr 15 |
you already crossed the line. Sack her. the disrespect wouldn't stop. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by jaxxy(m): 7:52pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth: She never respected u just wanted to use u and she has, u also showed ur weakness to her so sex or o sex she has seen u finish or so she thinks. 2ndly u seem like a very poor judge in character or else I should have seen the signs and prepared urself for them well ahead. 3nd she also knows u are married and maybe thinks cos she were scared or remorseful about the sex and wany to keep it a secret she has some power over u. Lol The question now is how do u take the beast u created overnight... I don't support marital infidelity but if u must atleast do it with sense. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by AfDapone: 7:53pm On Apr 15 |
Yugoslavia247: Oga, this advice and confidence you instill deserve reward. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by ukaface(f): 7:55pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth: See am? You ain’t even remorse over cheating on your wife, but worried over being disrespected. Where that guy that said men don’t cheat? |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by MasterTeeUSA: 8:00pm On Apr 15 |
Tough situation - If you fire her, she might go crazy and report you to your wife and Boss...beware of a woman's scorn. If you keep her on the job, she will continue to disrespect you. Possible solution - Ask her out again and discuss this issue. If she rejects being asked out or if she does and does not change....then she always wanted to disrespect you... Now, you will have to do the harder task...talk to your Boss about what transpired that you are wrong for betraying the trust in you and Pastor, so he can call a meeting between you and wife to break the issues down...and seek forgiveness...then fire her. That way, you are already proactive against what she will do in advance. If you don't care for your marriage, then just fire her. When she goes crazy, you won't care cos crazy she will. quote author=Freshtruth post=129452449]I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone. Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well. The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue. Pls advise me what to do pls. [/quote] |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Tunde835(m): 8:01pm On Apr 15 |
Your supervisor don give you answer sack am. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by saveman91(m): 8:04pm On Apr 15 |
You're married but u come slept with ur coworker
see as u disappoint urself |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Jefferyhi86(m): 8:05pm On Apr 15 |
Wat a big mistake, dat y rather employ not good looking girl, as a manager in an hotel, its a big mistake if u av anything to sexual to do with ur staggt, na big see finish. Dats why wen de act funny i give it to them hot n tell me u av no right to disrespect me cos i ni de fuccck u |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by WorldRichest: 8:08pm On Apr 15 |
Sack her Mama, make she go dey do her full time Olosho work. You self, you be male Olosho |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by alizma: 8:10pm On Apr 15 |
Freshtruth:Two things went wrong according to your write up. You said she satisfied you when the reverse was supposed to be the case, clearly you didn't do your other room assignment properly, I am serious on this Secondly, you called her out to a hotel, made love to her and you woke her up the next day to say this won't happened again and you expect her to clap for you. Maybe you should have also tell her that she is a harlot because that was exactly what you mean by your arrangement( sleeping with her and telling her to walk away as if nothing happened). Unfortunately for you, you don't know that she now thinks this is something you had been doing it others and telling them it is over after the first round. If you are not careful, you will soon see yourself thrown out of that hotel because she will do everything to bring you down. |
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by lacasera14(m): 8:15pm On Apr 15 |
Then continue sleeping with her and enjoying your disrespect. |
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