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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by mosicola(m): 8:17pm On Apr 15
If I say make thunder fire you, they will say I am wicked. You sucked boobs, you didn't seek for advice. You remove pants, you didn't seek for our advice. The one that pains me most is that you inserted your prick, thrusted and you cum, no seeking of advice. Waka

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by newoffer: 8:17pm On Apr 15
Lick her plate for perfect respect. Your Boss will not tell you this.
Samesame247:
Op, so after you chop her finish, you come realise sey e no good and una no go dey kpansh again?!

Dey play you hear.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by SweetDipBenny(m): 8:17pm On Apr 15
Did you say you're married? Bro you better sack that girl immediately. You don already cast.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by 752hub: 8:19pm On Apr 15
That means you no do am well...she is disappointed
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by InvertedHammer: 8:26pm On Apr 15
Freshtruth:
My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

/
Sack her!

Or the least, reprimand and inform her that her employment is in jeopardy if the disrespect continues. You owe no allegiance to her. Choose between her and you who will leave the employment.

Two of you can no longer work together. It can only get worse. Unless there is a misappropriation of funds, I don't think the owner of the hotel cares.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Father4all: 8:27pm On Apr 15
Before. Unko
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Zinosky10: 8:30pm On Apr 15
iLegendd:
I know this post will soon hit front page and feminists will abuse you. They'll say you took advantage of her instead of she being the one who took advantage of you.

You wasted money buying barbecue 10k-20k, Hollandia 1.5k, paying for hotel, 20-25k, and her TP 5k. That is a total of 37-40k or more.

That is about $38. Let's just call it $40. Yes, it's small, but if you buy a meme crypto coin with that $40, in 2025, you may end up withdrawing more than a million Naira.

You missed this opportunity and still lost respect. If your wife finds out, you'll still lose your marriage. If the CEO of the hotel finds out, you may still lose your job. She didn't even give you a Mouth Action, but she don blow your spirit.

People will still blame you for not acting like Joseph.

She's a bad girl and you're an unfaithful husband. The only men that are meant to cheat are billionaires and multimillionaires.

My dear, if you sack her, she'll expose you and still find your wife and tell her.

If you had banged her well, she would've been worshipping you by now, but no, you laid on the bed and she did 80% of the work.

Most times, women respect a man based on how good he is in bed and how he can provide.

If any of them is missing, don't expect total respect.

The only option is for you to act like she doesn't exist, or continue having sex with her, but this time, deliver like a man or quit the job or sack her and lose your marriage.

The end.

Please sir, can you xplain how meme crypto coin work. I'd like to know more about it.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Zinosky10: 8:32pm On Apr 15
iLegendd:
I know this post will soon hit front page and feminists will abuse you. They'll say you took advantage of her instead of she being the one who took advantage of you.

You wasted money buying barbecue 10k-20k, Hollandia 1.5k, paying for hotel, 20-25k, and her TP 5k. That is a total of 37-40k or more.

That is about $38. Let's just call it $40. Yes, it's small, but if you buy a meme crypto coin with that $40, in 2025, you may end up withdrawing more than a million Naira.

You missed this opportunity and still lost respect. If your wife finds out, you'll still lose your marriage. If the CEO of the hotel finds out, you may still lose your job. She didn't even give you a Mouth Action, but she don blow your spirit.

People will still blame you for not acting like Joseph.

She's a bad girl and you're an unfaithful husband. The only men that are meant to cheat are billionaires and multimillionaires.

My dear, if you sack her, she'll expose you and still find your wife and tell her.

If you had banged her well, she would've been worshipping you by now, but no, you laid on the bed and she did 80% of the work.

Most times, women respect a man based on how good he is in bed and how he can provide.

If any of them is missing, don't expect total respect.

The only option is for you to act like she doesn't exist, or continue having sex with her, but this time, deliver like a man or quit the job or sack her and lose your marriage.

The end.
Pls sir, can you xplain more about meme crypto coin? I'd like to know more about it.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by nedekid: 8:35pm On Apr 15
She will continue disrespecting you so just continue enjoying the snacks, play along with her because if you turn it to quarrel, she will spread the gist you slept with her. One the long run, she will likely loose her job and free you or yourself will move on to other work.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by olibeans: 8:37pm On Apr 15
You make the mistake of banging her and ending the relationship almost immediately. You hurt her.

That's the backlash. You think she didn't know you were married in the first place, but you discarded her like trash and that's the best way to pay back.

If you didn't end the relationship almost immediately, this wouldn't have happened. Just let her go
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by isacolukay(m): 8:44pm On Apr 15
thesicilian:

Wow.
What's her crime?
Some of you will be worse than Idi Amin, Abacha and Hitler combined if given the opportunity to be in power

And you go by the moniker "thesicilian"!
Sicilians don't get emotional like you just did with your statement.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Dragonsword: 8:44pm On Apr 15
You can't eat your cake and have it.... before she starts to de disrespect you that means even ur oga at the top fit don chop as well..
Trade with caution my advice!

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by elonize(m): 8:45pm On Apr 15
She's angry u said no more...ntin else

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by nkemjacob2(m): 8:47pm On Apr 15
If it was to be a Strict and standard organization, U would have been fired
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by pacificom: 8:47pm On Apr 15
Next time don't mix business with pleasure.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Adayi1(m): 8:51pm On Apr 15
U suddenly realized u re married after testing her cocktail and then dump her.... The lady feel used hence the disrespect. Mend fence with her b4 she sleep with the owner and get you sacked.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Adayi1(m): 8:52pm On Apr 15
U suddenly realized u re married after testing her cocktail and then dump her.... The lady feel used hence the disrespect. Mend fence with her b4 she sl**p with the owner and get you sacked.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by mozona(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15
you should not have told her that it wont happen again.

still on still deny everything that happen between both of you.

this kind matter no dey long, nobody die.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Niom(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15
iLegendd:
I know this post will soon hit front page and feminists will abuse you. They'll say you took advantage of her instead of she being the one who took advantage of you.

You wasted money buying barbecue 10k-20k, Hollandia 1.5k, paying for hotel, 20-25k, and her TP 5k. That is a total of 37-40k or more.

That is about $38. Let's just call it $40. Yes, it's small, but if you buy a meme crypto coin with that $40, in 2025, you may end up withdrawing more than a million Naira.

You missed this opportunity and still lost respect. If your wife finds out, you'll still lose your marriage. If the CEO of the hotel finds out, you may still lose your job. She didn't even give you a Mouth Action, but she don blow your spirit.

People will still blame you for not acting like Joseph.

She's a bad girl and you're an unfaithful husband. The only men that are meant to cheat are billionaires and multimillionaires.

My dear, if you sack her, she'll expose you and still find your wife and tell her.

If you had banged her well, she would've been worshipping you by now, but no, you laid on the bed and she did 80% of the work.

Most times, women respect a man based on how good he is in bed and how he can provide.

If any of them is missing, don't expect total respect.

The only option is for you to act like she doesn't exist, or continue having sex with her, but this time, deliver like a man or quit the job or sack her and lose your marriage.

The end.



I've followed you to the point that, I know your writing style. The moment I glanced through the first paragraph of this comment, I knew it was you. Immediately, I went straight to the monicker and I was right...

I love you bro...

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by johbara: 9:03pm On Apr 15
zed7:
Always avoid women who know your office or house if you don't intend to be serious with her. Every man should know this.

Baba you are a legend.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 9:03pm On Apr 15
Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool

Isolation
Isolate her from the group
Anyone found with her gossiping
1 week suspension straight.
They will avoid her like plague
Her power is in the group
Now no one will want to be a part of her plans or whatever she wants to share.
She will know you mean business.

Finally avoid your workers pussy

All this long post ..

If she get better lawyer turn am to rape case, management go sack you first before investigations commence.

You don't sleep with your subordinate.
It would be assumed you took advantage of her because of your position.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Goalnaldo(m): 9:08pm On Apr 15
So I've come to the end of this thread ☺️ I read every comment
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Yugoslavia247(m): 9:09pm On Apr 15
DIVINEEVIDENCE:


All this long post ..

If she get better lawyer turn am to rape case, management go sack you first before investigations commence.

You don't sleep with your subordinate.
It would be assumed you took advantage of her because of your position.

Naso una dey talk until them tie rape case for your neck or family member neck
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by extol1(m): 9:10pm On Apr 15
DiskJokeyManic:
How do u pple do dis? How do u people complain about losing ur respect afta sleeping wit a lady?

Can Neva be me!!! My respect dey always stay intact ooo no matter what
So you dey knack your worker
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Fearyourcreator: 9:24pm On Apr 15
thesicilian:

Wow.
What's her crime?
Some of you will be worse than Idi Amin, Abacha and Hitler combined if given the opportunity to be in power
Why disrespectful the man in the first place ...if na me ma sack straight
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Fearyourcreator: 9:25pm On Apr 15
phorget:



Her crime is that she stepped out of line.
Simple
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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Besuccesful(m): 9:25pm On Apr 15
As a recruiter who attend to ladies everyday I can tell you that it's never easy. Some of this ladies would even tell you to sleep with them just to give them the job.

But me I usually control the devil in me. It's tempting honestly. But it's nothing but the road to self destruction. I have learn from some other male recruiters who did that and they regret as these ladies went about destroying their company name. I struggle from scratch to build my company I will never let 20 minutes fun scatter everything for me. Never.

Rule number one of business: Never mix business with pleasure. I can never forget this words in my head. The moment you mix it just know that you are gone. Women would do anything to fight back especially when they know you want to leave them after having sex with them.

This is exactly what happened to OP. The lady felt used when you told her you won't do this with her again. Meanwhile, she felt sleeping with you would boost her position in the hotel.

Op, There is no other thing you can do now that to fire the staff. Else she will influence every other staff and you know what that means; Sack letter for you.

OP, Incase you need a staff in your hotel, lounge, restaurant, please do Whatsapp MDRecruit Agency on 09131056779. I recruit for most hotel in Lagos island and mainland.

Only Whatsapp pls.

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Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by KayCee92(m): 9:25pm On Apr 15
iLegendd:
I know this post will soon hit front page and feminists will abuse you. They'll say you took advantage of her instead of she being the one who took advantage of you.

You wasted money buying barbecue 10k-20k, Hollandia 1.5k, paying for hotel, 20-25k, and her TP 5k. That is a total of 37-40k or more.

That is about $38. Let's just call it $40. Yes, it's small, but if you buy a meme crypto coin with that $40, in 2025, you may end up withdrawing more than a million Naira.

You missed this opportunity and still lost respect. If your wife finds out, you'll still lose your marriage. If the CEO of the hotel finds out, you may still lose your job. She didn't even give you a Mouth Action, but she don blow your spirit.

People will still blame you for not acting like Joseph.

She's a bad girl and you're an unfaithful husband. The only men that are meant to cheat are billionaires and multimillionaires.

My dear, if you sack her, she'll expose you and still find your wife and tell her.

If you had banged her well, she would've been worshipping you by now, but no, you laid on the bed and she did 80% of the work.

Most times, women respect a man based on how good he is in bed and how he can provide.

If any of them is missing, don't expect total respect.

The only option is for you to act like she doesn't exist, or continue having sex with her, but this time, deliver like a man or quit the job or sack her and lose your marriage.

The end.


Boss, which memes are on your radar. I don't mind whether they perform or not. I have money I can afford to lose and have equal lost on crypto in the past. Just share with me.
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by Icezak(m): 9:29pm On Apr 15
Its as simple as you just say,
More over the knaking was not office related, you were both off duties.
Anything wer wan happen make e happen make d guy man up and show her some displine.



The worst that c
The worst that will happen is gossip you to her colleagues and anyone that use that gossip as yastic to disobey office ethicswill fall under the fate of displine with her.
Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool

Isolation
Isolate her from the group
Anyone found with her gossiping
1 week suspension straight.
They will avoid her like plague
Her power is in the group
Now no one will want to be a part of her plans or whatever she wants to share.
She will know you mean business.

Finally avoid your workers pussy
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by kalu01(m): 9:32pm On Apr 15
Don't start wetin you no go finish oo
Re: Since I Slept With My Staff She No Longer Respects Me Pls Advise Me by lukency(m): 9:39pm On Apr 15
This must be one of those fictitious stories and if it happened to be true, just know that you have traded respect for pussy.

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