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Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by coogar: 3:22pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
freecocoa: afam is a typical nigerian - he carries 9 phones with him at the same time. mgbeke oaf! |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Cityguy: 3:24pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
afam4eva: [size=14pt]Is it Disrespectful for your spouse to barge in when you're stark N*aked?[/size]yes |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:25pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Cityguy: |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Afam4eva(m): 3:25pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
freecocoa: Okay now you are sounding like you don't know what else to say.What will you be doing with your office phone at home except you want to commit fraud. There's time for everything. Time to work and time to be at home. Btw, most business phones are not mobile. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by freecocoa(f): 3:28pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:Walahi Kobo you are shifting from what is being discussed here. A phone and diary are quite different in many ways, in this era someone who has lots of businesses or whatever to handle with his phone will not need a remainder or wife snooping through his phone to make sure he has everything up to date, he will definitely see\hear when an sms comes in and will thus read it to know what's up. You don't have to snoop through someone's phone to be up to date on their life, simple. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by coogar: 3:30pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: you are chatting nonsense as usual.......i don't need to have a business secret before i attach importance to my phone. if my associates wish i keep their messages secret, it shall be kept secret.... you don't have to agree with me but when people move posts in a debate such as this, it makes them look weak-minded! kobojunkie, you are weakminded! |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Exponental(m): 3:30pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
It is not. But I think she wants to kill herself if she does dat. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:32pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
freecocoa: Walahi Kobo you are shifting from what is being discussed here. Anywho, I think I have more than made my point clear here. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by freecocoa(f): 3:32pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
afam4eva:Chei Afam you dey fall hands o. So people don't handle some office stuffs from home sometimes? I don't need to tell you how many times my dad gives directives on office issues from the house. Ever heard of emergency cases especially in the medical line before? |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by coogar: 3:35pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
afam4eva: logic evades this boy - you lack exposure, you need to be out more and learn not everyone carries 3 phones at a time! a professional with a single phone would take calls anywhere and at anytime. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by freecocoa(f): 3:36pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:Before nko how phone and diary take be exactly the same thing? Hian. My sister no be must say we go agree . |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Afam4eva(m): 3:37pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
coogar:You're coogar that lives inside the forest so i don't expect you to understand these things... |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by alons: 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
when the trust is their, i dont think any thing is wrong with it |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
freecocoa: Before nko how phone and diary take be exactly the same thing? Hian. I am not your sister. I never said anywhere you had to agree with me. For me, the cell phone you have today replaces diaries from the past where many also believed it was disrespectful for others to read it. If you do not think that way of them, that is OK by me. All I have done is make my point in all this. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by freecocoa(f): 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
afam4eva:Leave talk joor, na you no understand the thing |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
coogar: My on call number is my mobile phone, my hubby uses his as well for business. I said this before coogar, that some clients we meet everyday are close friends or friends of friends directed to us. Have you not associated with a friends friend before? People don't get it, some people we meet in our daily lives were either referred to us by someone very close to us or are people we have known all our lives. I use my phone for everything, I will not carry more than one phone. It never has been my kind of thing |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by freecocoa(f): 3:41pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:Junkie junkie no be quarrel na, calling you my sister doesn't translate to mean that na my mama born you and i'm sure you know that so pipe low abeg I also made my point clear, its that simple. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Cityguy: 3:42pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:i'm nt married to police or fbi |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by coogar: 3:44pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
jennykadry: of course, i understand how this works and I am sure afam understands too but he's deliberately being obtuse to save face! most people can't carry more than a phone at a time - only nigerians like afam can muster such nonsense! |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:45pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
jennykadry: People don't get it, some people we meet in our daily lives were either referred to us by someone very close to us or are people we have known all our lives. I use my phone for everything, I will not carry more than one phone. It never has been my kind of thing I don't think it is the case that we don't get it, as you claim there. I for one wonder if you are doing it right. When I am onsite(working from the office), I have a separate phone that clients call me on. I can opt for a separate mobile but I prefer keeping work at work so I can have my life outside of the office for things that have little or nothing to do with work. Now I understand that sometimes my boss could call me on my private phone or send me a text for me to come in or do some work on the weekend. That is fine however that person understands that since he/she is calling my private line, the office rules don't apply on my private phone. If a partner finds out about the text, I can simply explain that it is work related without needing to go into so much detail. Now, again, this is my way of dealing with about the same issues. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
coogar: too many private stuff from mates and friends - they wouldn't want their private life exposed to a 3rd party! we all swore an oath of secrecy to protect what's being sent on our devices diligently! these same friends should clearly understand that the day you got married, their secret information could be shared with your spouse, as you guys became ONE. if they continue sharing such information with you, then they must take full responsibility for that, NOT your wife. also how could you still put your buddy over wifey AFTER MARRIAGE? are you saying that in the balance, the bond that you share with your wife is less important than what you share with your buddies? that's exactly my point - ....and jeopardize the bond/trust you guys share as a married couple?! kai, thats harsh! there are many facets to a man's life! overall, my wife would still know me more than anyone else. however, there are few things my friends know about me that my wife can never know..... pls, redirect your love and affection to your buddies.....or better yet, marry them, as i certainly dont understand why you would want to marry someone, and still keep some things from your life private to that said person. but hey, thats just me, i guess to each their own! nothing that goes through a wife/husband's ears is off limit to their partner, NADA! unless it is something that has to do with secrecy at work etc.....but buddies stuff, HELL to the NO?! |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:46pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Cityguy: Good for you, but should the police, and FBI, know more about you, than the person YOU ARE supposedly one with? I don't know of you, but that would bother me. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 3:48pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Mrs..Chima:once upon atime I was dating a lady. I gave a 100% trust. 1 day, I just decided 2 check her messages & I was shocked 2 discover dat she's cheating. I asked her & she confessed. If I v not done this act, how ll I know dat she was about 2 give me virus. If I had kept on trusting & trusting & feeling secured, na so she go just arrange for my money or give me a STD. U just have 2 check ur spouse's msg atimes. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Keep wondering if I am doing it right, doesn't change the price of garrrrri in the market. I repeat, our work are completely different, things you do aren't always the right things to relax and stop judging others, you are not perfect yourself. Maybe you choose not to get it or you REALLY DON'T GET IT. My work is the type of work that even if i decide to get a work phone, it cannot be left behind in the office, everything comes back with me. When emergency situations arise, I need to have it with me, when I am needed I need to have it with me, so yes I can not bloody leave my phone behind like you do |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by tracyxx: 3:52pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Well its nt disrespectful if d couple are free with dem selves n trust exis between them. Talking about insecurity,this exist when there is distrust and reading your spouse SMS with dis attitude will be disrespectful because he/she will be uncomfortable |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Okiki_Oluwa: ^^^^the fact that you settled for the wrong person in the past, is not a reason to change your life. BLAME yourself for trusting someone that was untrustworthy! checking your future gf's sms because your past gf was a slut is a s crazy as a gal not trust you or give you coochie because her ex did something wrong to her. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:53pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
jennykadry: Like I said, Kobojunkie: |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
tracyxx: Well its nt disrespectful if d couple are free with dem selves n trust exis between them. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Exactly, it doesn't make it better than others and please consider other people's profession when making some statements. |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Kobojunkie: 3:55pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
jennykadry: Again , that is what I said . . . . Kobojunkie:Nowhere in all that did I posit that my way is the right way . |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by freecocoa(f): 3:57pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
This is getting ridiculous(what does that word mean sef) Kwa kwa kwa |
Re: Is It Disrespectful To Read Your Spouse's SMS? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Then stop wondering if I am doing things right. I haven't critiqued your own way of doing things so yes, stop critiquing mine It's in your post I quoted. Stop wondering kobo |
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