jennykadry:

Then stop wondering if I am doing things right. I haven't critiqued your own way of doing things so yes, stop critiquing mine

It's in your post I quoted. Stop wondering kobo

Kobojunkie:

I don't think I will stop wondering. I wonder if the way you are doing it is right . . . and I never stated that mine is right either. Why let that get to you?

MRbrownJAY:
these same friends should clearly understand that the day you got married, their secret information could be shared with your spouse, as you guys became ONE. if they continue sharing such information with you, then they must take full responsibility for that, NOT your wife.
also how could you still put your buddy over wifey AFTER MARRIAGE? are you saying that in the balance, the bond that you share with your wife is less important than what you share with your buddies?

....and jeopardize the bond/trust you guys share as a married couple?! kai, thats harsh!

pls, redirect your love and affection to your buddies.....or better yet, marry them, as i certainly dont understand why you would want to marry someone, and still keep some things from your life private to that said person. but hey, thats just me, i guess to each their own!

nothing that goes through a wife/husband's ears is off limit to their partner, NADA! unless it is something that has to do with secrecy at work etc.....but buddies stuff, HELL to the NO?!

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^the fact that you settled for the wrong person in the past, is not a reason to change your life. BLAME yourself for trusting someone that was untrustworthy! checking your future gf's sms because your past gf was a slut is a s crazy as a gal not trust you or give you coochie because her ex did something wrong to her.

afam4eva:
Maybe it's because you're shy but that's the way to go...btw, doesn't your husband see your anus when you're naked?

fittty:

Mrs..Chima:


Anus between my bootycheeks are different than my bootycheeks.

afam4eva:
So, you don't open your legs when you guys are at it? You also don't do it from behind?

OILOFGLADNESS:

THEN YOU HAVE 1001 THINGS TO HIDE, AS FOR ME, MY PHONE IS OPEN TO ALL, A WISE PERSON SHOLUD KNOW THE FILESM THAT ARE PRIVATE TO NAVIGATE TO , UNLESS UNDER PERMISSION.

AS FOR ME , IN MARRIAGE OR R/SHIP CERTAINLY THAT WILL LEAD TO MARRIAGE, I AS WHAT ARE YOU HIDDING, THERE IS NO TRANSPARENCY, THEN BOTH OF YOU ARE NOT ONE, YOU ARE NOT BETTER HALF, YOU ARE NOT COMPLETING EACH OTHER. EACH WERWE ALREADY COMPLTE BEFORE MARRIAGE AND SO INVARIABLY MARRIED WITH A DIFFERENT REASON FROM GOD'S PURPOSE FOR ORDAINING MARRIGE INSTITUTION,
INFACT , MARRIAGE ARE FOR MATURED MINDS NOT MATURE AGE.

Mrs..Chima:


Afam....even YOU don't look at the woman that you are screwing anus while doing doggy style.

Come on man!

Adikam: A bad girl wount allow that like wise a bad man.the day my wife or gf wil start hiding her phone from me wil be the day my love for her wil start fading.b4 she go giv me anoda man virus

byvan: Well!I can chant my hubby's text messages from the dinning room to the bathroom while he showers.I can equally just tell him the content without him bordering to see for himself.He can do same to mine.Hey!don't get upset,that's how we run our show.Did I mention we know every contact in each others phone?

afam4eva:
As it concerns your profession and it's ethics, i don't expect you to share those with your husband.

Siena: It's disrespectful, in every sense of the word. No if's or but's, privacy should be respected, even between married couples.

dayokanu: Many ppl send different kind of text messages to me which I wont want my spouse to read.

E.g My dad complaining about my mom or vice versa, My mom reporting my siblings to me, My friend telling me about his new girlfriend, My colleagues sharing an office joke etc

There are personal reason why I wont want my wife to know about whats going on in the scenarios above

When In school My dad pays fees, feeding and what he deems necesary, Its my mom we mostly go to meet for other stuffs like clothes , shoes, watches, phones

I wont want my dad reading a text intended for my mom about how I need to buy clothes and shoes. If my mom should hide such text, Does she mean she is cheating with me and my siblings?