k2039:

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[size=13pt]I beleive when you date a girl you leading her on and to me thats not fair(I maybe wrong but thats what I think)
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plappville: @thread, i found Christ some years after i got married so i didnt have same experience as you. But as a Christian, if you and ur partner are true believers, you will definately abstain. Kissing can be very tempting, if you do not trust it. Its better to avoid it. But nothing is wrong in holding hands. You will need God to help you through this period.seek him more. I do not see why people say its hard to abstain.
I believe Its just a thing of the mind. Apart from been a Christian. Its safer and proper to Abstain.

Do not be decieved with the "Impotent" issue, if you have doubt and want to be sure you can asked for medical reports. This is how Brothers in the churuc decieve sisters. I want to be sure you are not a baren !! Before you know it, secret abortion is done. Under the eyes of God. So rampant out there !!

obowunmi:

All women having sex should practice safe sex. You have abortion when you don't practice safe sex. Pls stop being ancient.

Not all doctors don't detect impotency issues -

k2039:

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[size=13pt]I beleive when you date a girl you leading her on and to me thats not fair(I maybe wrong but thats what I think)
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HumbledbYGrace: Safe sex off nie safe sex before marriage is a sin!!

obowunmi:

That's merely your opinion and nothing wrong with that.

obowunmi:

All women having sex should practice safe sex. You have abortion when you don't practice safe sex. Pls stop being ancient.

Not all doctors don't detect impotency issues -

obowunmi:

That's merely your opinion and nothing wrong with that.

mkmyers45: There's something y'all are forgotten..Once you or your partner desire each other you've already done it.

k2039:

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As long as lust is involved,fornication is committed,I agree,that was clearly what Jesus taught us
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mkmyers45: and do you know that once you say 'Kai this lady is very beautiful' You've done it?

k2039:

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As a matter of fact I told my aunt she was beautiful yesterday.
I disagree,I have seen pretty girls that I have told them they are pretty and it wasnt like I had a crush on them.
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mkmyers45: There's something y'all are forgotten..Once you or your partner desire each other you've already done it.

obowunmi:

Done what?

obowunmi:

Ok - I was shocked when you were asking about impotent men and impotency.

Anyways my tactic is this: I won't go into a relationship until I see or hear from God about the person. I'm unwilling to waste the little time that I have left. If I close my eyes to pray in the first two weeks while we are dating and I don't see or hear from God. You will be dumped. Simple. Not wasting time and not seeking temptation. I wan marry.

Might not be the right approach but its better to be safe than sorry. I've heard stories of people getting se,xually transmitted diseases before they find "the one." I'm not looking for wahala.

HumbledbYGrace: Safe sex off nie safe sex before marriage is a sin!!

obowunmi:

Dear Chris, I recently started working on my spirituality after years of not caring. God speaks to people in various ways. For me especially, thru dreams. For you, it might be different. Everyone has a different interpretation of who or what God is.

To hear from him, you must be willing to hear
When you hear, listen and be attentive
It depends - for various people its different how God choose to speak with them.
If you don't pray, you may not hear. Prayer is key.

ifeness:

"TO HEAR FROM HIM" Are you implying God is a male figure?

obowunmi: Age range of people on this thread: 13 - 20 pls focus on school.

HumbledbYGrace: [b]Before I accepted Christ Lord knows I was crazy,[/b]I would date guys who I thought good for me then a lady who was older than me,who had expirienced life before and was a christian wrote a letter to a guy friend of mine,it was only addressed "" but the guy never read it,the sister wanted to lead the guy to Christ but the guy wanted a relationship.That's when the sister wrote the letter,I stumbled upon it by mistake and stole it,I wanted to meet her because her letter was my history,she had told the guy how she grew up and how it was before she accepted Christ.

I got saved after talking to her,she set me down and I poured my heart out.She prayed we went to church together and one thing she told me was that "you know,you don't need a millionaire for a husband,you don't need a man in suits for a husband but what you need is a man Who is a born again Christian,with that his status don't matter.your safe if you choose one of those kind."

I never looked back,I lost my worldly friends,even the guy stopped contacting me,it wasn't easy but I made through by his grace so I guess being this far with God,trials awaits but I have to keep the faith.

obowunmi:

All women having sex should practice safe sex. You have abortion when you don't practice safe sex. Pls stop being ancient.

Not all doctors don't detect impotency issues -

chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls

plappville:

Thats why you re called today, God call sinners to repentance, but not all are privillaged to have this grace, Only those called.
Alot of people have heard the Gospel uncountable times, yet would give deaf ears to it, its because they are under the curse of Satan:

2 Corinthians 4:4 The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God

plappville:


Thats why you re called today, God call sinners to repentance, but not all are privillaged to have this grace, Only those called.
Alot of people have heard the Gospel uncountable times, yet would give deaf ears to it, its because they are under the curse of Satan:

2 Corinthians 4:4 The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God

And Christ made it plain that convertion is not by our own power, So It is God who decides to show mercy. We can neither choose it nor work for it.

For no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them to me, and at the last day I will raise them up. -John 6:44

For God said to Moses, "I will show mercy to anyone I choose, and I will show compassion to anyone I choose." for it. -Romans 9:15,16
For you have been given not only the privilege of trusting in Christ but also the privilege of suffering for him.- Philippians 1:29

I pray you continue in loving God.

And Christ made it plain that convertion is not by our own power, So It is God who decides to show mercy. We can neither choose it nor work for it.

For no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them to me, and at the last day I will raise them up. -John 6:44

For God said to Moses, "I will show mercy to anyone I choose, and I will show compassion to anyone I choose." for it. -Romans 9:15,16
For you have been given not only the privilege of trusting in Christ but also the privilege of suffering for him.- Philippians 1:29

I pray you continue in loving God.

k2039:

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k2039:
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Is it proper to address God as ''it"
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ifeness:

"TO HEAR FROM HIM" Are you implying God is a male figure?

obowunmi: Age range of people on this thread: 13 - 20 pls focus on school.

plappville:

The OP is a christian, so how do you want her to practice safe s.ex?

VolvoS60:
"Waiting" is the way to go. It really is.

You don't have to worry about unwanted pregnancy, STIs, etc.

And then there's the emotional cost (particularly for females) of a failed relationship. A broken (non-sexual) relationship can be incredibly hard to get over, not to talk of an sexual one.

If you wait, you'll save yourself a lot of heartache.

obowunmi: How do you expect to detect impotency if you don't have sex?

It won't happen thru magic.

HumbledbYGrace: well love is not based on sex you know

obowunmi:

How old are you 12?