Yield: Seems she just wasn't into you!

You took the words right out of my keypads babay. 1,000,002 likes.

Yield: Seems she just wasn't into you!

But she was into the chicken she was eating abi. Spare me. I don't knw ow someone can't make ordinary small talk. My assumption is that she is not intelligent.

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But she was into the chicken she was eating abi. Spare me. I don't knw ow someone can't make ordinary small talk. My assumption is that she is not intelligent.

See this guy ooo... Its possible now... She's not into you.. She wan chop the ”chicken laps“ clean mouth and bounce...

ikekings: See this guy ooo... Its possible now... She's not into you.. She wan chop the ”chicken laps“ clean mouth and bounce...

Looking at it from all directions that sounds so so wrong.

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If this wasn't NL for what I know it is. I swear I'll give u the number right now. So you can continue from where I left off. Me not interested again.

PM the number na.

ItsModella:
loool, who be dis guy?

Your brother from another mother, remember

val_dee:

PM the number na.

No be only number na bb pin.

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No be only number na bb pin.

O boy u selfish nobi small...u claim say u no want d gal again yet u no wan pm guys her number..nawaoh for u..no wonder d gal bounce u like dat..who wants to date a selfish boring guy like u..but u suffer nobi small..gal put earphone for ear when u dey talk to am...mehn dats d height..I suggest u give strong minded guys her number mk we tap dat b00ty on ur behalf.

N.B..hope say nobi student or corper sha..cos me don upgrade..I no dey do students or corpers again..na working class.

deshclones:

O boy u selfish nobi small...u claim say u no want d gal again yet u no wan pm guys her number..nawaoh for u..no wonder d gal bounce u like dat..who wants to date a selfish boring guy like u..but u suffer nobi small..gal put earphone for ear when u dey talk to am...mehn dats d height..I suggest u give strong minded guys her number mk we tap dat b00ty on ur behalf.

N.B..hope say nobi student or corper sha..cos me don upgrade..I no dey do students or corpers again..na working class.

ℓ☺ℓ... Why u no go open thread like the ones way full NL e.g " Mature guy looking for relationship" or " Sexy ladies drop ur pins here" if u dey find babe so desperately. Yeye boy.

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A restaurant maybe is appropriate (not an eatery). People display too much airs in eateries. A movie is so inappropriate to me. Cos u guys never get to talk. It isn't my responsibility to get the convo going. Convo is a two way street and both people involved in gisting should be involved in doing such. Ok I get it. You want to play the gender card then later scream for woman rights. Yes it is understood that someone has to break the ice but after the ice is broken don't you think things should natural flow?

what the difference between an eatery and resturant? Both involves food abeg

as for movie theater, I didnt say it was inappropriate, Im asking YOU what do you consider to be places that are appropriate for dates

sure convo is meant to be 2 sided..but normally until the girl gets to know you..she wont talk much. You're the one that went after her therefore, you're the one that should bring the charm and try to impress. If she';s checking her phone..means you're boring dude. What you should be doing ia asking advice on how not to be boring instead of bashing her on the internet

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No be only number na bb pin.

So na pretend you dey pretend. Busted

ThiefOfHearts:

what the difference between an eatery and resturant? Both involves food abeg

as for movie theater, I didnt say it was inappropriate, Im asking YOU what do you consider to be places that are appropriate for dates

sure convo is meant to be 2 sided..but normally until the girl gets to know you..she wont talk much. You're the one that went after her therefore, you're the one that should bring the charm and try to impress. If she';s checking her phone..means you're boring dude. What you should be doing ia asking advice on how not to be boring instead of bashing her on the internet

Gone are those days when I'll go on a date and try to be impressing one yeye babe. God forbid. Impress ko impress ni. I'm not a boring dude. If she's checking her fone and pinging without an excuse in the middle of a date no matter how boring, it just tells us one thing. SHE LACKS COURTESY. Can you imagine? At my age I should be looking to impress someone that is adding no value to me. PULEASE..

@ bolded is how many Naija babes think. Such a pity that y'all can't do a way with such low level thinking. RUBBISH.

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Yh right... Like the way u spank girls u're jst meeting

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Gone are those days when I'll go on a date and try to be impressing one yeye babe. God forbid. Impress ko impress ni. I'm not a boring dude. If she's checking her fone and pinging without an excuse in the middle of a date no matter how boring, it just tells us one thing. SHE LACKS COURTESY. Can you imagine? At my age I should be looking to impress someone that is adding no value to me. PULEASE..

@ bolded is how many Naija babes think. Such a pity that y'all can't do a way with such low level thinking. RUBBISH.

LOL and that's why you are so hurt that you made a thread.

I still think the both of you are at fault if you both can't at least find one thing to talk about

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ℓ☺ℓ... Why u no go open thread like the ones way full NL e.g " Mature guy looking for relationship" or " Sexy ladies drop ur pins here" if u dey find babe so desperately. Yeye boy.

N1ggah..am not in ur league man..in every ramification including woman wise..am centuries ahead of u in dat game man..nd in ma 13yrs of woman experience..woman never humiliate me d way u were humiliated by ur small gal of a date..come on..ow boring can a guy be to d extent that a gal he is having a romantic date will put her headphone on...bro dats d height..u suck both in real life and on the internet..I can even smell ur boring life from here..beter go work on urself man..and stop whinning like some 3yr old..imagine opening a thread to berate d gal when d fault is from u...ogbeni hide ur head in shame man.

deshclones:

N1ggah..am not in ur league man..in every ramification including woman wise..am centuries ahead of u in dat game man..nd in ma 13yrs of woman experience..woman never humiliate me d way u were humiliated by ur small gal of a date..come on..ow boring can a guy be to d extent that a gal he is having a romantic date will put her headphone on...bro dats d height..u suck both in real life and on the internet..I can even smell ur boring life from here..beter go work on urself man..and stop whinning like some 3yr old..imagine opening a thread to berate d gal when d fault is from u...ogbeni hide ur head in shame man.

Yet u come here begging me for a number. Puleasee!!! spare me. If your life is so as interesting as you say it is why don't u select frm one of ur interesting girlfriends instead of begging and pleading for a number. I also think you need some additional lessons in comprehension so u can get the general idea of a writing. My problem is not that the date was boring. My problem is that she made no attempts to living things up or be conversational despite my serious efforts. I guess nowadays dressing up and looking gorgeous is just adequate for them. I need a woman to be more than to be able to talk. Communicate ideas, understand, display interests, communicate interests, goals, dreams, aspiration. Her biggest goal is to make money. So then I asked how? No answer. Ok education, no answer. General topic, No good answer. Ok ooo, music and entertainment, no answer. Her work, nodding and smiling for the camera. That exactly was my problem. PS: that has not being my first boring date. We all have bad days but a date should not just be a chance for a girl to come and fill her tummy.

someone has already written it buh i just cant help re-writin it...DUDE, SHE'S NOT JUST INTO U!!! from all ur explanations...she's not interested in u or whatever u av 2 offer...or maybe she was expecting a rich dude who'll take her shopping rather than an eatery...she just came so as 2 fufil all righteousness...buh may i ask ow u met her in d 1st place??

chai.
desh, e don do...he's one of us. lol

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This is not by lefool lefool and this is not abt one of my pallies.. It actually happened to me. I took one girl out on a date so it was at an eatery. (By the way I dnt like eateries and I personally think they're not private enuff or appropriate for first dates and same for cinemas too). So the eatery thing was basically her idea. I could swear to u that the girl was a complete bore. It is one thing for there not to be a connection but this babe was pinging, staring out the window, receiving calls, and even can't make small intellectual or non intellectual conversation. In short she has nothing to say. Got me thinkin I was boring but luking at it I wouldn't ever want to go out with her again. This girl is SO BORING. I jst wasted 2hrs of my life and it's so sad. Only thing I cn give to her is are cute face and sexiness. Everything else na ZERO.

Nigerian girls are extremely boring and classless. Some of us have been saying it for sometime:

www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/5#11913579
www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/4#11912786
www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/4#11913085
www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/5#11913309

And don't listen to their shyt excuses "she was shy", "conversation is your responsibiity" etc. They are just not well-developed group of women. Poor quality, simples!

Majority of them are a waste of time to go out on a date with if you have an opportunity to date non-Nigerian girls. The non-Nigerian girls would be better value for money even without any sexual interaction. On average, much more fun personalities and superior in being classy. Take it as what businesses term "flight to quality".

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Gone are those days when I'll go on a date and try to be impressing one yeye babe. God forbid. Impress ko impress ni. I'm not a boring dude. If she's checking her fone and pinging without an excuse in the middle of a date no matter how boring, it just tells us one thing. SHE LACKS COURTESY. Can you imagine? At my age I should be looking to impress someone that is adding no value to me. PULEASE..

@ bolded is how many Naija babes think. Such a pity that y'all can't do a way with such low level thinking. RUBBISH.

I have already made a suggestion how the bolded should be handled.

https://www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/1#11883203

Let her sit there and enjoy herself. Find something useful to do with your time.

Anything more than 2 pings an hour (of an average less than 1 min on her phone), let her know she is a goner and not worth your time. Don't even give her the courtesy of explaining why you are leaving. Just drop your money and walk away. She gave you no courtesy, give her none. Treat a shythead like a shythead!

deshclones:

N1ggah..am not in ur league man..in every ramification including woman wise..am centuries ahead of u in dat game man..nd in ma 13yrs of woman experience..woman never humiliate me d way u were humiliated by ur small gal of a date..come on..ow boring can a guy be to d extent that a gal he is having a romantic date will put her headphone on...bro dats d height..u suck both in real life and on the internet..I can even smell ur boring life from here..beter go work on urself man..and stop whinning like some 3yr old..imagine opening a thread to berate d gal when d fault is from u...ogbeni hide ur head in shame man.

Moronic person having mouth online.

A cretin saying he is a babe-magnet. Since when did women start being attracted to dumbos? In which world?

Op,like most people have already said here...its either the girl just wasn't into you or she is like you said..boring!
The same way some girls can be so boring is the same way some guys can be frustratingly annoying.
I have met some boring men in my life...men who are only interested in telling you how they want to be your man and want just your answer and nothing more or men who have nothing to say to you but how much of a princess you are 24 hrs of the day if you have that much time to spare.
We cannot always come to post all our experiences online is the thing but the fact is we all sometimes meet/have relations with these "out of the equation" kind of people.
...and the fact that you haven't found a girl/girls who fit the profile of what you want doesn't mean they don't exist!

Before you went on a date, have you guys been chatting on the phone or you just plucked her on the road whammm to mr biggs?

wonlasewonimi: Before you went on a date, have you guys been chatting on the phone or you just plucked her on the road whammm to mr biggs?

my point exactly!!!

wonlasewonimi: Before you went on a date, have you guys been chatting on the phone or you just plucked her on the road whammm to mr biggs?

dlex21:
my point exactly!!!

And what significant DIFFERENCE does that make to the fact that she is boring and lacks courtesy?

Sagamite:



And what significant DIFFERENCE does that make to the fact that she is boring and lacks courtesy?

Cos you wouldn't bother to take it further after few phone convo..

wonlasewonimi:

Cos you wouldn't bother to take it further after few phone convo..

That still does not excuse the fact she is boring and lacks courtesy.

- There is hardly any way he would know she is obsessed about BB/FBking by chatting with her on the phone and would rudely even do it infront of a companion.

- If she was boring on the phone one can give her benefit of doubt that she would open up in real life.

Whether she speaks on the phone beforehand or was picked from the street to go to an eatery, when she agreed, she should know it is her onus to be a good conversant, especially as her arsse is most likely not picking up the bill. She should have developed her personality enough to be able to hold a conversation and to have some courtesy and respect for her date. If she did not want to be there, she should have not agreed to go out. It is all part of self-development. Unfortunately our Naija shytheads lack such developments.

This is a lesson for all the young boys out there. If a woman does not respect you, then don't respect her. Treat a shythead like a shythead.

https://www.nairaland.com/969496/men-it-love-acts#11176666

Sagamite:

That still does not excuse the fact she is boring and lacks courtesy.

- There is hardly any way he would know she is obsessed about BB/FBking by chatting with her on the phone and would rudely even do it infront of a companion.

- If she was boring on the phone one can give her benefit of doubt that she would open up in real life.

Whether she speaks on the phone beforehand or was picked from the street to go to an eatery, when she agreed, she should know it is her onus to be a good conversant, especially as her arsse is most likely not picking up the bill. She should have developed her personality enough to have be able to hold a conversation and to have some courtesy and respect for her date. If she did not want to be there, she should have not agreed to go out. It is all part of self-development. Unfortunately our Naija shytheads lack such developments.

Unfortunately it goes both ways! You can't blame it on the girl alone.

What open ended discussions was he putting forward. If you go out with a girl and you allow her to engage in BBM'ing and stoop to the level of wearing earplugs, then you are doing something wrong as a man.

Sagamite:

Moronic person having mouth online.

A cretin saying he is a babe-magnet. Since when did women start being attracted to dumbos? In which world?

N1ggah sup man..long tym no hear from u..seems u still can't stop wanking 0ff with ma name...no wahala bro..enjoy man..guess dats ma gift to m0r0nic imbeciles like u nd d op...buh seriously op sucks in everthing mehn just like u man...a gal puttin on her headphones in the middle of a date is something I am yet to understand..dts d height of disrespect..u self check am...u will only understand if ur IQ is higher dan the op's but I doubt mehn..cos u spew more rubbish dan a dustbingbagbo..hope u r good tho..