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| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by dammytosh: 7:15am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Do we comment for comment sake ? He said his opinion and gave reasons. Every church expresses and lean towards this same opinion that it is highly advisable that you marry within the folk cos of the place of doctrinal issues and teaching back ground in your marriage (Christ Embassy even have this in their marriage guideline. I can't hear "GOD SAYS or DADDY Says " IN HIS STATEMENT. And If you don't understand , Imagine a Winners Member marrying a C&S member ? Even Apostle paul gave a lot of advices in the bible that he clearly stated that God did not say that but he felt it is d best. Secondly, is there any lady or guy on Nairaland challenging the fact that a GUY must have a job before marrying ? That is the dumbest thing i have ever heard in recent times. No wonder marriages crash per second and spouse kill one another, when the basic things are not followed. Even the bible says that a man who does not work deserves no food. Not to talk of marriage. All those launching unnecessary attacks should think. That you hate a man does not mean he is wrong and must be hated at all times. - My Opinion. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 7:21am On Oct 05, 2012 |
I only listen to the voice of Christ who gave his life for the church. Pastor adeboye is speaking his mind and not the mind of Christ |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by peckers: 7:23am On Oct 05, 2012 |
bros adeboye so what you are telling me now is that if i see a well learned, home training, decent and God fearing girl, as a member i should not marry her? so i should go outside and look for someone that i'm not sure if shes for real or pretending, well one thing i pick out from what you said that i really like most is a word "ADVISE" if i like i can stick with it if not i won't "Shikena" 1 Like |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by getukudo(m): 7:24am On Oct 05, 2012 |
If only people would worship GOD more than the pastors! But the reverse is the case. |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by busoye19: 7:27am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Oh Lord, pull down every denominational stronghold and unite the body of Christ. |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by peckers: 7:27am On Oct 05, 2012 |
dammytosh: Do we comment for comment sake ?did you think everything that come out from man of God is good, some are rubbish |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by peckers: 7:34am On Oct 05, 2012 |
acidosis™:imagine!!! pls i need a good prove from this word "God gave Adam a job before he gave Eve. If he tells you he is a contractor, please ask for all evidence" sorry what i heard between them is fruit, or uncle adeboye is trying to tell us that God paid adam for some contract to be done and adam refuse which lead God anger God or what contract is between them? pls I need prove for that word CONTRACTOR |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by bendazum: 7:37am On Oct 05, 2012 |
k2039: [size=13pt]HE GOT IT WRONG HERE,I DISAGREE TOTALLY. He may have reasons. |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Benny95(m): 7:40am On Oct 05, 2012 |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by dammytosh: 7:40am On Oct 05, 2012 |
peckers: I am a realist and never said everything that comes out of any body is always good or always bad. What i said on this case is that He only gave advice and the advice makes perfect sense to me. A devoted deeper life member and a devoted Winners member will see serving God from 2 different perspectives and this will cause tension in their marriage eventually. Secondly when a guy without a job ? I don't even want to talk about this cos it is like explaining how 1 + 1 = 2 to a graduate of mathematics. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by bendazum: 7:40am On Oct 05, 2012 |
dammytosh: Do we comment for comment sake ? |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Ellashow: 7:40am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Just **trolling** smh |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by dammytosh: 7:50am On Oct 05, 2012 |
peckers: The bible is more complex than the 'text book' version you pick up and read. God said it is not good for man to be alone and he wants to create a HELP MATE for him. Do you need help mate when you are not doing anything ? Secondly Adam had a purpose before God introduced Eve. Pick up your bible and read. Adam had a purpose and work to do in the garden : Genesis 2: 15 And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it. His reward for the work : 16 And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: Adam had food before Eve came....... 18: And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 1 Like |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Jaywon242(m): 7:53am On Oct 05, 2012 |
I dont really subscribe to d idea dat u re adviced to marry a member of ur church. I attend a pentecostal church and will be getting married nxt year to a member of C&S. I dnt think there's anything wrong in dat as long as there's love and u re both Christians. I even ve a friend who is a member of Trumpeters Church whose doctrine is dat u must not marry outside d denomination. He has stuck firmly to dat instruction dat he'll not marry outside his church. I asked him what happens if u dnt find sm1 u really love or who really loves u in ur church. He said he will surely find.hmmm...but I will be d last person to insult Pastor Adeboye even if I dnt agree with what he is purported to ve said. Love covereth all sins!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by stagger: 7:55am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Jaywon242: I dont really subscribe to d idea dat u re adviced to marry a member of ur church. I attend a pentecostal church and will be getting married nxt year to a member of C&S. I dnt think there's anything wrong in dat as long as there's love and u re both Christians. I even ve a friend who is a member of Trumpeters Church whose doctrine is dat u must not marry outside d denomination. He has stuck firmly to dat instruction dat he'll not marry outside his church. I asked him what happens if u dnt find sm1 u really love or who really loves u in ur church. He said he will surely find.hmmm...but I will be d last person to insult Pastor Adeboye even if I dnt agree with what he is purported to ve said. Love covereth all sins!!! SO when you are married, you and your wife will be attending different churches right? |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by dammytosh: 7:57am On Oct 05, 2012 |
stagger:Ask him again He is lucky if this does not become an issue because some ladies are so strong hearted that they can not leave their church and you are probably rooted in yours too. So what happens ? 1 Like |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by peckers: 8:08am On Oct 05, 2012 |
dammytosh:Now let put this into practical and let stop putting it in theory way, if i put you in a big house like 4 bedroom flat and i ask you to be sleeping there and clean it as well, i'm sure at lease you will need to clean it with water, mobbing stick, broom and some other things, without this nothing can be clean in the house, now tell me what God gave to Adam to use in clean the garden, no shovel, no packer, no rake and cutlass. i beg leave level nothing like contract joor |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by iseeyou(f): 8:12am On Oct 05, 2012 |
FATHERLY ADVICE TO THE UNSTOPPABLE YOUTHS By PASTOR E. A. ADEBOYE FATHERLY ADVICE TO THE UNSTOPPABLE YOUTHS There is a difference between enthusiasm and unruliness. As unstoppable youths we need to be enthusiastic but not unruly. Out of all the instruments mentioned in the bible for praising the whistle wasn't mentioned! The whistle isn't allowed in church, leave it for the football field! MARRIAGE advice for the Ladies It is better to remain single than to marry than to marry the wrong person! Marrying the wrong person is like living in hell on earth and divorce isn't an option! Don't ever think you can marry somebody and change the fellow, if the person doesn't change before you get married it is a settled case! If you marry just because a guy is rich, tall and handsome but he not a true child of God, you are heading for trouble! Goliath was Tall, king saul was lanky but he lost his crown. Don't marry a fool. If a guy is following you to church just to get you , you will know! some guys are in church just to deceive you but the bible says by their fruits you'll know them. Bible didn't say by their words you'll know them , some guys have sweet mouth! Don't marry a sweet talking demon, watch their fruits! If you marry someone who doesn't believe in holiness, you are the one who dug your own grave yourself cos you'll only be wife NO 1, many others are likely follow! Romans 8:31 The reason RCCG weds with the bible instead of a ring is because the bible can never change, the word of God stands forever but a ring can be removed at anytime! Those who will reach the top must be peculiar! There is always room at the top but only few will get there. Don't marry a man who has no job! Before God gave Adam a wife, he gave him a job! If he says he is a contractor, ask him for evidence of his previous contracts because you might just be the contract he is on about! MARRIAGE advice for the GENTs Don't marry a Delilah! Don't marry for beauty . Proverbs 31:30 says beauty is vain. Don't ever marry outside the church and you have no reason to marry outside RCCG. The reason is that If you are both from the same church even when trouble comes it is easier for the pastors to handle it! Don't marry a girl simply because she can sing! In the choir there are some people that can sing but they are falling angels! Marry a prayer warrior! If a girl cannot pray for 1 hour, don't marry her. Don't marry a girl who is lazy! Don't marry a girl who cannot cook, she needs to know how to do cores and cook because you cannot afford to be eating out all the time. Don't marry a girl who is worldly! If you do, you have carried what you'll worship for the rest of your life! Advice on MUSIC. Music is not music unless it is organised. It must have rhyme, rhythm and repetition. While the right kind of music keeps the devil away, the wrong music can invite demons. The number one reason why God chose David to be king was because he was a musician singing the right songs! It is possible to have wonderful music, music that will refresh you and bring God down without making noise. When the bible talks about making a joyful noise to the Lord, it was talking about shouts of Halleluyah. In your gatherings, check the lyrics, rhyme and rhythms of your songs you use in worshipping God. As much as youths might not want to sing hymns all day, make sure the songs you sing are really glorifying God not just noise. Advice on EVANGELISM As youths, take evangelism seriously! Use your youthful strength for God and be proud to proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ. Ecclesiastes 12:1 It takes only a few people to cause a riot the universities, why can't a few unstoppable youths get up and start a riot to the kingdom of darkness? RCCG is in many nations all over the world today because your parents worked hard in their youths. When the founder, Pa Akindayomi, died, RCCG was only in Nigeria and I was only 38 when the church was handed over to me. Other youths and I took evangelism seriously! We worked hard to bring the church to where it is now, today RCCG is in many nations of the world! IT IS YOUR TURN to take the church forward. Joshua 1:1-9, Deuteronomy 34:9 We are to build on the foundation that has been laid for us by our fathers. The elders are the foundation, the youths are the flowers! It's a dangerous thing to be a flower, people pluck flowers but hardly do people touch the roots!If you stay connected to your roots, you'll not dry up. The one who is UNSTOPPABLE is the one who wouldn't allow sin to come in because our God is a Holy God! If you will worship God with good music not just noise , if you'll witness without compromising, if you will be different and ready to stand out for Christ, if you are willing to pray with ceasing then you'll be UNSTOPPABLE. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Ryabcool(m): 8:13am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Billyonaire: AdeBoye; Always a Businessman, There is always a Bible verse to support his Selfish Aims.yet your president went to him for prayers. Mr, YOU ARE BRAINLESS! Don't bother replying cos I'm gonna ignore you |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by saniby: 8:16am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Hmmn, Pastor! I beleive it is your opinion you are expressing! But dont you people ever make claim of others being discriminatory. I dont know whether to call this a demonstration of tolerance or discrimination. .. and some of you expect muslim women to marry christians when from them when among the christians yourselves you are discriminating against each other. |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by philipstanley(m): 8:19am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Daddy GO just gave an advice if u like listen and if u like dont, i wonder y some pple dont understand a simple sentance An ADVICE IS NT LAW OK!. Dont begin 2 post rubbish againt ANY man of God 1 Like |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 05, 2012 |
[quote author=sammy102] If the man of God really said all that...well I guess he is just giving an advise to the youth so they won't end up being deceived by some useless liars out there. The op just want people to insult Pastor Adeboye, even if he said so will he be able to monitor all his member if they marry each others or not. Which girl will want to marry a jobless man ? |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by chucky234(m): 8:21am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:A wanderer I think LWKMD |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by peckers: 8:23am On Oct 05, 2012 |
philip stanley: Daddy GO just gave an advice if u like listen and if u like dont, i wonder y some pple dont understand a simple sentance An ADVICE IS NT LAW OK!. Dont begin 2 post rubbish againt ANY man of Godna your type dem dey brain wash, even if you see 2million naira he can brain wash you to put 1.5 million to God house, now tell me shey God dey spend money ni? |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by matrix789: 8:25am On Oct 05, 2012 |
HI all Daddy is talking from Experience,Besides he did not say that God told him. Again any man who is seriously thinking of making heaven will not engage himself with things that will draw him back. Adam had a job,business etc b4 Eve came.He lost it due to disobedience. From my Personal experience marry from the same flock as it will go a long way,in helping issues. |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Dahbutter(m): 8:25am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Miranchai(f): Do they allow g@y relationships too  |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by philipstanley(m): 8:26am On Oct 05, 2012 |
let some body shout HALLELUYAH! 1 Like |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ignis: 8:27am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:God made him a caretaker.... to take care of the garden. |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by peckers: 8:27am On Oct 05, 2012 |
who is hiding my comment now i think its a free world now to speak your mind |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ignis: 8:29am On Oct 05, 2012 |
peckers: did you think everything that come out from man of God is good, some are rubbishMay God 4give you |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by philipstanley(m): 8:31am On Oct 05, 2012 |
ask google |
| Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Dahbutter(m): 8:37am On Oct 05, 2012 |
pastors are soooo confusing at times, the other day a redeemed pastor was saying u must wait for God's will concerning marriage; God's will as ur spouse may be from another church, tribe or nation but would be brought to u by God's ochestration, now another doctrine here forcing u to limit God's will to your congregation. No wonder redeemed choirs are full of Overaged unmarried spinsters just because a pastor prefers an easier situation for mediating in the couples' lives? I wonder who makes these difficult laws for people today God or Men? |
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