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Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by COOLDUN: 12:27pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
[quote author=hardbody] I am a christian (practical) and i believe in God. I however hate veneration of humans. Some preacher talks nonesense and you complain when people expose the stu.pidity in his reasoning. I do agree that the Bible says, 'marry only in the Lord', if your Adeboye is restricting marriage in the Lord to members of his congregation, has Christ then become divided? rather than see the folly of his argument, you are threatening people with him being a MOG, Man of God my yansh. Please ask him to curse me and let us see whether he has a faster access to God than I do and whether we do not both pass through the same channel namely Jesus Christ[/quote With this kind of statements, i now confirm that Adeboye prayers never go beyond his roof top, if he has that type of power, what has he done to the Boko Haram that are blowing up his business customers in the North? It pains me a lot when people praise these righteous niggers in the pulpit. This man should visit hospital. You are very right my dear, Bible is one and word of God is one. Any man that added or subtracted any single word of God is not of God. His prayers will never have any harm on you because you said the whole truth. Check majority of his supporters here, they are almost from his tribe. Marriage is supposed to be based on love and not on material things. Adeboye failed this one, if he made these statements. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by preshuspee: 12:33pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Lord Babs: can't you read? he said in a tv program. is that not enough a source? DID U WATCH THE PROGRAM?? AND HOW DOYOU KNOW THAT THIS POSTER IS NOT EVEN LYING OR MISHEARING WHAT HE WANTS. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by phrancy: 12:35pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
[quote author=MacDaddy01]Is Adeboye foolish? Dont marry outside the RCC? you want God's wrath to come down on u for using that word "foolish" on a man God has ordained |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by preshuspee: 12:37pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
[quote author=COOLDUN][/quote] IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN U WOULD KNOW TO LOOK FOR THE VIDEO AND WATCH FIRST BEFORE YOU BLAST A MAN OF GOD LIKE THIS. DO U THNK GOD WILL AMSWERR YOUR PRAYERS NOW FOR THIS AFTER U HAVE INSULTED A MAN OF GOD?? "TOUCH NOT MY ANOINTED". I do not know if he said this but even if he did it is an advise not complusory. Redeemed church is a very big church with millions of worshipers around the world. He is simply saying if you ant to pick a spouse there are plenty educated and promising people inthe church s a whole NOT in just one rbanch. Itw ould be good if you foud somene with the same beliefs as youso that there will be peace in ur home. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by preshuspee: 12:39pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
[quote author=COOLDUN][/quote] IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN U WOULD KNOW TO LOOK FOR THE VIDEO AND WATCH FIRST BEFORE YOU BLAST A MAN OF GOD LIKE THIS. DO U THNK GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS NOW FOR THIS AFTER U HAVE INSULTED A MAN OF GOD?? "TOUCH NOT MY ANOINTED". I do not know if he said this but even if he did it is an advise not complusory. Redeemed church is a very big church with millions of worshipers around the world. He is simply saying if you want to pick a spouse there are plenty educated and promising people in the church as a whole NOT in just one branch. It would be good if you foud someone with the same beliefs as you so that there will be peace in ur home. I am an ex-Redeemer buti will not have a mere person insult a whole anointed man of God over somethg someone said they watched him say and not what u heard yourself. A lot of other churches do not teach their congregation a lotof all the thngs redeemed does. so plssssss |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by dgreatest1: 12:47pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
InvertedHammer: The good things about the churches---the MOGs preach, the audience listens...At the end, it is listeners' discretion to stay. BRILLIANT...ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT....YOU DESERVE A THUMBS UP!!!!! |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by sharpiro1: 12:48pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
I have heard all sorts of believable and unbelievable sermones been preached by so called men of God from the alter. I do not know if this statement was actually made by the G.O but if he did, thats an unfortunate advise to give to youths. The most shocking I have heard is when a well known man of God from Ughelli South LGA of Delta state said anyone who sleeps with his wife in any sexual position except the missionary style commits a grave since. From that day on, I realized that running a church is just about the money. People are very gullible and will readily follow a man perceived to be smarter than them |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by preshuspee: 12:53pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
dgreatest1: EXACTLY!! IT IS HIS TO SAY AND YOURS TO TAKE THE ADVISE OR LEAVE IT NOT TELL HIM WHAT OR WHAT NOT TO SAY. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by dare4luv1(m): 12:59pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
MacDaddy01: Is Adeboye foolish?[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] mind hw 2 Man Of God |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by vislabraye(m): 1:01pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
I don't know whether Adeboye said this, but if he did I wouldn't absolutely agree with him. In some instances, there are really no absolute. If he says no Redeem member should marry a non Redeemer no matter what, then it is absolutely wrong. Are redeemers the only true Christians? Did God only die for redeemers? Or are you saying God cannot lead you to marry some1 outside your denomination? These are issues that should be explained. I have a pastor who was once a member of RCCG. But due to some politics are disagreement, he decided to leave the Church. What about that? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Gracious10: 1:30pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
basisop: Issue is that u found him doing something. The fact the he proved to be responsible shows that's he isn't just gonna fold his hands and count the stars. He will be out there combing the streets for a job. Better still he will invent one no matter how little. Or even do odd jobs. Such man has his head on his shoulders. Am sick of lazy men walking tru and fro the earth without motives or plan. Some will sit at home bc they haven't gotten a job in their area of study, men are known to be restless, make dem use that restlessness for something positive! |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by kreamstaff: 1:35pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
So the advice summary is this: 1. If you are a non redeemed church guy dating a redeemed church lady, dump her now! 2. If you were engaged to a man who later lost his job. Dump him now! Hear the divine words of the wise? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Bo-large:I get your point; But what happened to ONE FAITH, ONE LOVE, ONE BODY IN CHRIST? Doctrines were brought up by men, so couples attending different churches should be taught the same word of God! Though the word is new everyday but it should all point @ teaching,reproof,correction and training in righteousness. For unity and love, also for their children, married couples are to attend the same church! BTW; During few challenging times; a couple can find themselves in different churches; it happens. Afterwhich they continue in faith in whatever church they choose. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by LordBabs(m): 2:15pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
seriously, it is annoying when people say 'man of god this_man of god that'. some ppl are saying it is merely an advice, of course yes. but we are saying that it is a rather unfortunate and fo.olish advice bereft of a virtuous or true custodian of god-my-foot! so if i call adeboye a f.ool, then a dippy f.ool he is. take it or hang thereon! |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by LordBabs(m): 2:22pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
there are 2 premises to this statement. 1st premise is completely schismatic. i.e. it only fuels disunity and schism among fellow christians. is your god so parochial that he would instruct you to consider matrimonial racialism? What if the will of your god is for a particular member of RCCG to marry a deeper life member or even a muslim or a pagan or even an atheist like me? in a nutshell the biblicism of this argument is evidenced by Hosea's matrimonial experience. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by LordBabs(m): 2:23pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
in addition, if all churches should adopt this policy of intrabreeding/ marriage just to ease post- nuptial disagreement, then the interest of socio-cultural harmonious society (which should be our primary yearnings) is thereby threatened. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by LordBabs(m): 2:28pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
2nd premise, as seeming sensible as it appears, contains 2 fallacies. the argument that the woman should ensure the husband-to- be must have a job and a confirmed job for that matter, does not only frustrate the possibility of post-marriage jobbing for the man, but also place a high value on job/ materialism, as a chief criterion for marriage, other than love and understanding and happiness. also, what if the member marries a jobbed man and after 1month of marriage, he loses his job: should she now leave/divorce him, since he got more no job? if not, then why cant she initially marry a jobless man if the duo,given the prevailing circumstances, could cope with the post- conjugal consequences? what moral righteousness has a man_of_god indirectly inciting his sheep unto pursuing job at all cost before marriage, especially in a putrid country of ours, rife with unemployment? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by LordBabs(m): 2:32pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
in furtherance, the idea of wriggling the man in such cavernous dilemma of no-job-no-wife will be prejudicial and unfair, whereas the wife was not issued such stringent caveat, as though the financial onus of the family is not mutually shared by the duo. now, back to the 2nd fallacy of the 2nd premise: in the bid of substantiating his statement, the man_of_ god referenced adam as being jobbed by god b4 marrying eve. this is a very wrong analogy and also blasphemous. consider these: was jobbing adam considered by god a sinequanon for betrothing eve to him? if yes, then of what relative pursose? are we biblically told that there is any romance whatsoever between his gardener's job, as contained in gen 2:15 and his matrimony? what income was adam earning inorder to cater for eve? or was it adam who asked to be married to eve? and even inspite that he had a job, does it make the marriage last afterall? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by LordBabs(m): 2:34pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
now, some people may say that the man_of_ god merely advised his members, and that listeners' discretion is advised: but it is pivotal to also note that when there is an advice, there is an accountable source; if the source is unserious&untru sted, then the advice is taken unseriously: but when the source of the advice is considered a serious&trused authority to reckon with, then such advice is taken seriouly. ordinary senseless rumour about not wearing red cloth, erroneously from d same notable authority elicited mass compliance by same gullible community, who cannot think for themselves. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Frankbaro(m): 2:35pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
I love and respect Pastor Adeboye, But if truly he said this, then I totally disagree with him. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
@ Those doubting if he said it Yes he said that yesterday. A lady asked me if it was right and I told her NO VERY WRONG NOT FROM CHRIST. Even in the Corinthian church not all members were in Christ. In the seven churches of revelation many members were not in Christ. Hence the bible admonish Christians to only "marry in the Lord." I am not surprised by what Adeboye said. He once wrote in one of His open heaven book that the GO is the high priest and twisted the parable of the sower which is all about the heart of man and their acceptance of the word of God into offerings and tithes. Jesus knew all this. He already said " MANY shall say in your name we cast out ...... but I will say to them I KNEW YE NOT" Everyday the choice is getting clearer God or man. GO or GOD? 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 3:12pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
haha. I understand the part of having a job before marriage, but really as someone said....there are no absolutes in laws guiding humans on how to live their lives especially in difficult times like these. but the unmarried man should be focused and hardworking and trying to earn a living. I don't support marrying a lazy and an unfocused man...especially those who refuse to heed to advice on having a source of income. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 3:14pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
belabela: @ Those doubting if he said it brilliant! |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Mintayo(m): 3:16pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Dignitary: I love Nigerians... God bless you |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 3:20pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
adeboye is a false teacher...who is deceiving many. he is the true wolf in sheep's clothing. I remember very well the way he twisted the parable of the sower in his open heaven devotional...asking people to sow to their pastors and the g.o.....referring to himself as the high priest..that was utter manipulation of the parable..and the gullible congregation saw nothing wrong in that. Someone who can so manipulate scriptures doesn't deserve the audience of any sensible christian....He is typical of the false teachers christians were warned about in the new testament....eyes full of greed, whose god is their belly. I don't blame him sha. most nigerian christians are very superstitious people and give too much respect to anybody who claims he is a man of God....especially the ones who pull large crowds.....
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Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ziccoit: 3:56pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
acidosis™: Pasito Adegboye is learning from APPLE. This is what I called ecosystem in church business. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by afroxyz: 4:26pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Christ instead of our pastors, Bishops and GOs, all dis rubbish no go dey happen |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by afroxyz: 4:28pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Who would sow into the lives of the needy congregation then? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by PastorKun(m): 4:33pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
uhonmora: adeboye is a false teacher...who is deceiving many. he is the true wolf in sheep's clothing. It was this 100 fold return fraud that convinced me beyond all reasonable doubt that Adeboye is indeed a ravenous wolf in sheep's clothing. I just couldn't comprehend how a supposed man of God could so brazenly and shamelessly twist the very word of christ he claims to believe in. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by OILOFGLADNESS: 4:55pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
[quote author=acidosis™]These are his words.. live on DOVE TV. Don't marry outside this church! Unless you're blind (men), we have alot of good girls in this church. Reasons : if troubles come up later, we can easily call the family to order..but God help you if you marry a lady with another G.O .. He also said.. "Don't marry a man who has no job!. God gave Adam a job before he gave Eve. If he tells you he is a contractor, please ask for all evidence.. I AM NOT SURE YOU GOT HIM RIGHT, EVEN IF HE SAYS IT, I DONT THINK THAT, THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG, DEPENDING ON HOW YOU UNDERSTAND IT. IF HE ADVICES HIS CHURCH MEMBERS TO MARYY FROM THE CHURCH ,MY DEAR HE IS JUST TRYING TO LET THEM KNOW THAT THERE ARE SINGLE AND MATURED WONDERFUL SISTERS IN THE CHURCH, THAT THY CAN MARY, AGAIN BEFORE A MAN CAN STAERT THINKING OF MARRIAGE HE SHOLUD ATLEAST HAVE SOMETHING DOING, EVEN IF A SISTER DECIDES TO MARY A MAN THAT HAS NO JOB, IT IS STILL THE MAN THAT WILL COMPLAIN THE MORE, COS HE WILL THINK THAT HIS EGO IS BEIGN TOILED WITH, NO MATTER WAT THE WIFW DOES, HE MUST FIND FAULT WITH IT, SO TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK THAT IS WRONG WITH HIS ADVICE |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by OILOFGLADNESS: 5:02pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
IN SOME OCASSION, YOU WILL FIND OUT THAT SOME BROTHERS MIGHT HAS APROCHED ABOUT 3 TO 4 SISTERS IN THESAME CHURCH FOR MARRIAGE BUT TON NO AVAIL, THEY WILL NOW DECIDE TO LOOK OUT OF THE CHURCH, EVEN I HAD ONCE ASK A FRIEND OF MINE WHY HE LEFT ALL THJIS BEAUTIFUL SISTERS IN OUR FELLOWSHIP AND WENT OUTSIDE TO MARY , HE SAID HE HAS OBSERVED FEW OF THEM THAT ATRACTED HIM BUT THEY DIDNT PLEASE HIM AS SUCH LIKE THE PERSON HE MARRIED. SO IT SI AN OPEN STATEMENT! |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Reptyle(m): 5:08pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
ochukwuma15: Two issues are at stake here, While you are entitled to your opinion, I would just like to take you up on the highlighted part. Are you aware that Jesus and his disciples had a treasurer called Judas Iscariot? I you aware that it was stated that Judas used to steal from the common purse that was kept in his care? Do broke people have need of an accountant? I do not think so. Jesus and his disciples lived a communal life where what belonged to one belonged to the other. That was why they had a common purse. I do not think it is right to describe Jesus as broke. But of course he wasn't ostentatiously wealthy either. |
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