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Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by toluscott2000(m): 10:11am On Oct 05, 2012 |
[color=#000099][/color] na [b][/b] na true talk , na so we dey do 4 my church oh! n so not a strage news . is gud |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Dee60: 10:12am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Dignitary: I love Nigerians... Thank you so much. Someone is trying here to quote the man of God out of context. They should relay the entire message so you see the context in which he spoke. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 10:14am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Although it is advisable to marry within the church but restrictions should not be placed on what church after all denomination ends here.If a woman has a job that can sustain a family there is no law that says such should not get married if they so desired.Statements like this may be taken completely out of context.I love baba Adeboye,he exemplified life lost in Christ. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by SamAfrik(m): 10:17am On Oct 05, 2012 |
dammytosh: Do we comment for comment sake ? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 10:19am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Thank you yemotiroro |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by wisdomolusola: 10:23am On Oct 05, 2012 |
We have not even heard from the source and some of us here are beginning to abuse, criminalise and insult this man of God. The wrath of God is evident on you if you are one of them. Display some high level of intellectual decorum haba! |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Dipwater(m): 10:26am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Gracious10: U are absolutely ....and women shuld get a job too b4 marriage ,providing for the family shuldnt be a one sided thing , |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 10:33am On Oct 05, 2012 |
anyone supporting this crap must have his head totally messed up,that is totally,he is going against the scripture he proffesses ,he should go ahead and write his own bible..thank God i do not worship man only God,My bible is more than enough for me,for it is the total truth |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Kx: 10:35am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Everybody is entitled to their opinions however, our men of God should realize that the pulpit is meant to share God's word of love based on the scriptures not their own individual opinions. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Exponental(m): 10:36am On Oct 05, 2012 |
I think he is marketing 4 d unmarried girls. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by KDK(m): 10:43am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Yemotiroro: This generation amazes me. If you were a student under his tutelage when Dr Adeboye was a lecturer in UNILAG in 1973 (when a lot of NLers had not been born) would you have considered him an ignoramus. Is it that we are so uncultured that we have forgotten that the man in question (whether he truly said what is credited to him or not) is old enough to be our grand father. I could not have said it better. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Two issues are at stake here, first, don't marry outside RCCG so that when there is problem, it will be easy to resolve. Secondly, jobless men should not marry until they secure a job. In the first case, i will term it a political statement in the sense that if all the men in RCCG are allowed to marry outside the church, who will now marry the ladies in RCCG, including pastor Adegboye's daughters? The best advice pastor Adegboye should have given his youths is to marry someone you love dearly. If there is love in every family, the pastor will not have any reconcilliation to do because the family will be at peace and when the family is at peace, the society will also be at peace because the family is the smallest unit of the society. It's when love breaks down that irreconcilliable differences will start to resoface and the matter will be dragged to men of God, afterall, they are those that joined them together. On the issue that jobless men should not get married, that advice is wrong. Marriage has no formulae, and not forgetting that 1+1 is equal to 1, since the jobless man has been taking good care of himself before the lady comes into the picture, without asking for subvention from pastor Adegboye, he can equally take care of his wife. Adegboye and other men of God should join hands together to fight the high cost of marriage in our society and not asking jobless men to stay clear of marriage. In the western world, a lady can call her parents on the phone and say, 'mummy, daddy, i'm getting married today'. And her parents will shout, 'waoh, is he handsome, loving, caring, when are we meeting him, we wish you the best sweetheart, we trust you to make the right decisions, bye.' Thunder will fire you if you try that with a yeruba parent or an Igbo parent. You have to do first introduction, second introduction, iku aka, imalu be, first wine carrying, second wine carrying, traditional marriage. Before you get to white marriage, you're as poor and jobless as any thing you can think of. Again, it is a known fact that poor and jobless families are more at peace compaired to the rich families. If you're in doubt, look around you. Instead of calling that jobless men should stay clear of marriage, he should build industries and factories and employ RCCG men and women to work there, that will solve the joblessness issue and reduce poverty rate in nigeria. The money used in buying private jet should have been channeled to solving this problem. He remembered that adam had a job(taking care of garden of Eden) before God gave him a wife, but forget that Jesus did not have private jet or exotic cars. Jesus was so broke that he can't afford a horse or a carmel. Thank God, i'm not a member of RCCG, because very soon, it will be passed into law . 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by aku626(m): 10:51am On Oct 05, 2012 |
They are very many incencitive people amongst us, i have heard this statement before in my church RCCG YES! They never said if you bring another girl they wont wed you guys, they are only trying to say that they have youths looking for spouses in the church and it would be very welcomed if you start your search within. My girlfriend isnt from redeem. Please watch your words before speaking someone said the decision of Adeboye is foolish hmmm, to say that to any individual is demeaning talkless of an elder or a man of God becareful so you don't end your future before it begins, I don't think God takes it lightly when you insult his servants wether he is right or wrong, if you have a different judgement do it your way. if people decide to folloew what he has to say let them follow its not your business, i'm a member and would get married to whom God says i should get married to. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by AkinDavid2: 10:53am On Oct 05, 2012 |
I strongly disagree with this post/thread to have come from Pastor Adeboye..but if it is true then there must have been more than scores of thousand marital issues he has been handling based on that fact. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Nobody: 10:58am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Two issues are at stake here, first, don't marry outside RCCG so that when there is problem, it will be easy to resolve. Secondly, jobless men should not marry until they secure a job. In the first case, i will term it a political statement in the sense that if all the men in RCCG are allowed to marry outside the church, who will now marry the ladies in RCCG, including pastor Adegboye's daughters? The best advice pastor Adegboye should have given his youths is to marry someone you love dearly. If there is love in every family, the pastor will not have any reconcilliation to do because the family will be at peace and when the family is at peace, the society will also be at peace because the family is the smallest unit of the society. It's when love breaks down that irreconcilliable differences will start to resoface and the matter will be dragged to men of God, afterall, they are those that joined them together. On the issue that jobless men should not get married, that advice is wrong. Marriage has no formulae, and not forgetting that 1+1 is equal to 1, since the jobless man has been taking good care of himself before the lady comes into the picture, without asking for subvention from pastor Adegboye, he can equally take care of his wife. Adegboye and other men of God should join hands together to fight the high cost of marriage in our society and not asking jobless men to stay clear of marriage. In the western world, a lady can call her parents on the phone and say, 'mummy, daddy, i'm getting married today'. And her parents will shout, 'waoh, is he handsome, loving, caring, when are we meeting him, we wish you the best sweetheart, we trust you to make the right decisions, bye.' Thunder will fire you if you try that with a yeruba parent or an Igbo parent. You have to do first introduction, second introduction, iku aka, imalu be, first wine carrying, second wine carrying, traditional marriage. Before you get to white marriage, you're as poor and jobless as any thing you can think of. Again, it is a known fact that poor and jobless families are more at peace compaired to the rich families. If you're in doubt, look around you. Instead of calling that jobless men should stay clear of marriage, he should build industries and factories and employ RCCG men and women to work there, that will solve the joblessness issue and reduce poverty rate in nigeria. The money used in buying private jet should have been channeled to solving this problem. He remembered that adam had a job(taking care of garden of Eden) before God gave him a wife, but forget that Jesus did not have private jet or exotic cars. Jesus was so broke that he can't afford a horse or a carmel. Thank God, i'm not a member of RCCG, because very soon, it will be passed into law . |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by aku626(m): 10:59am On Oct 05, 2012 |
if you want to marry go ahead and marry job or no job that message was an advice. i dont want to increase the rate of poverty in nigeria if anyone dont have a job or means of sustainable income i wont indulge inactivities that would make my situation even worse, but if such person sees in the future it would get better (important to remain positive) he can go ahead. please lets use our number 6 before we jump into conclusions. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Dipwater(m): 11:04am On Oct 05, 2012 |
quote author=Bosky65]Baba is only encourage singles to marry in the church.if you marry outside the church, Pastors will still wed you they will not flog you.There are a lot of sisters in RCCG that are looking for husbands, just a way of encouraging the singles.[/quote] Girls looking for husbands? Wow ! The above sounds to me like husbands are scarce commodity like fuel |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Jamisco: 11:14am On Oct 05, 2012 |
acidosis™: i want to enlighten the members and you post it on public website? what my Bible tells me is that God is going to judge all our doings including what we say, think, do and even post on nairaland. may you reason and stop posting unreasonable things in Jesus name Amen |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ukotmi: 11:32am On Oct 05, 2012 |
He gave a general advice. Every church encourages members to marry within. Few make it a law to marry only members. Redeemed marry from outside also. It is not a law. My friend, a top worker in Redeemed married from Foursquare and they are living happily. So it is only an advice.I wonder why N/landers are always quick to rain insults on people without reading between the lines? For a man to marry, he ought to have a means of livelyhood. Even if the wife to be be is working or runs her business, the man should have a means of income also. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ABAKA72(m): 11:41am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:Ask Adeboye, he will give you the answer, though I doubt if he will have the answer. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ABAKA72(m): 11:46am On Oct 05, 2012 |
acidosis™:So Adebayo is now a god, it's now a sin to critisize him when he says something foolish. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by IYANGBALI: 11:48am On Oct 05, 2012 |
no problem,dem fit dey fok non members sha? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by basisop(m): 11:49am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Gracious10: And if the job is no more after marrying, please divorce the jobless man abi? 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by basisop(m): 11:54am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Jamisco: Sharrap! Do you know how many supposed happy union that this church things stop? Abeg, na you God go judge for keeping mute on wrong things. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by Akolawole(m): 11:54am On Oct 05, 2012 |
I believe GO was misquoted. Even a young Believer must NOT say that. Probably he said '' Do NOT marry an unbeleiver ''. That i can understand. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by jonyse: 12:00pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
I think we all should endeavour to read aloud through whatever we want to post to hear how it sounds before clicking submit button.It is totally uncalled for and rude for someone to call a fellow human being names. Pls let's watch our utterance, the fact that there is freedom of speech is not a licence to talk anyhow. Lets treat ourselves with some respect. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by COOLDUN: 12:01pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
If the girls in your church would not marry men with no jobs, then they have already chosen to be single for the rest of their lives. How many men are employed in Nigeria and your church? Many men come to your church for miracles which never come to the poor men. This lunatic was the man who was spiritual god father to OBJ, when he was punishing Nigerians on daily bases. It is never your fault, I blame the men you have brainwashed and dumped all in the name of born again. You are an anti Christ for making such comment. Nigeria is nearing her grave with people like you, who have diverted the attention of her citizens away from their fundamental rights as the citizens, while waiting for your fake miracles that never comes. You will marry all the girls you have destroyed their lives very soon. Fake man of God. You are a man of gods. Not my almighty God. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by ABAKA72(m): 12:03pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
IYA NGBALI: no problem,dem fit dey fok non members sha?You dey craz, Lol Lol IYA NGBALI: no problem,dem fit dey fok non members sha?You dey craz, Lol Lol :-D :-Dl |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by treasuredkid: 12:04pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by basisop(m): 12:08pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
bankylan: [ Don't cry for anybody rather cry for yourself. Are you God to judge the critics? |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by COOLDUN: 12:13pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
aku626: They are very many incencitive people amongst us, i have heard this statement before in my church RCCG YES! They never said if you bring another girl they wont wed you guys, they are only trying to say that they have youths looking for spouses in the church and it would be very welcomed if you start your search within. My girlfriend isnt from redeem. Please watch your words before speaking someone said the decision of Adeboye is foolish hmmm, to say that to any individual is demeaning talkless of an elder or a man of God becareful so you don't end your future before it begins, I don't think God takes it lightly when you insult his servants wether he is right or wrong, if you have a different judgement do it your way. if people decide to folloew what he has to say let them follow its not your business, i'm a member and would get married to whom God says i should get married to. Shut up if you don't have anything reasonable to say here. Men of your gods should know how to talk to the public. How a man who call himself a pastor make this kind of statements. Before his church many of those his captives were attending other churches if they were banned like that, will they be his members today? No man is happy to be jobless, family can be saved by the wife because both of them are the same flesh. Instead of him to preach real love between the couples he was there making this trash. If at all he said these things then he deserves to be insulted and called to other. Nothing will happen to anyone that insults him justifiably. If he can invest with the cash he has been lavishing on luxury lives, many of his church members would have been employed. He is supposed to be taken to the hospital, if he really made these nasty statements. |
Re: Pastor Adeboye: Don't Marry Outside The Redeemed Christian Church by hardbody: 12:14pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
slimdamatrix: Well, he's human. A man of God, yes! But he's still human. We re all bound not to be perfect always. Please don't say too much and bring curses on yourselves! Remember I said, he is a man of God!. *drops pen* I am a christian (practical) and i believe in God. I however hate veneration of humans. Some preacher talks nonesense and you complain when people expose the stu.pidity in his reasoning. I do agree that the Bible says, 'marry only in the Lord', if your Adeboye is restricting marriage in the Lord to members of his congregation, has Christ then become divided? rather than see the folly of his argument, you are threatening people with him being a MOG, Man of God my yansh. Please ask him to curse me and let us see whether he has a faster access to God than I do and whether we do not both pass through the same channel namely Jesus Christ 1 Like |
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