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How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by bukason1(m): 12:28pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Let me ask you a few questions… Do you get nervous and start stuttering whenever you saw a beautiful lady and wanted to get her phone digits? Does your palm “sweats” whenever you saw that girl you always want get with but don’t know exactly what to say to her to get her number and get her to go out with you? Do you get “shot-down” Anytime you used the old-tired-line “why don’t you give your number and I will call you?” Or worse, have you finally given up on approaching women altogether because you afraid she might slap you or disgrace you in front of your friends, so you always makes up excuses every time you saw a woman by saying: “she is not my type?” or “she probably has a boyfriend?” Just give me a “silent nod” if one of those questions hit home for you… … Trust me, it’s nothing to be ashamed of… I have been exactly where you are, so I get it. Today’s letter is designed and armed to attack and handle this for you… and after reading this and you still couldn’t approach women and successfully get her number in a minimum record time… then you seriously need more help than I thought… So are you ready? Let’s go… I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago. If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I’m in a hurry). I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this, that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESN’T EQUAL SUCCESS. When you call a woman for the first time, she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It’s almost like she’s a different person than the one you met. I’ve found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It’s almost as if women appreciate it that you’ve taken the time to think about what you’re going to say when you write an email to them and they think of you more like someone they know. So without further ado… Here’s How to Get a Woman’s Number Fast: After I’ve talked to a woman for about 2 or 3 minutes, I’ll often say something like “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.” They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say “It was nice meeting you too… ”Then, just as I’m turning to walk away and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say “HEY! Do you have email?” The “HEY!” is a bit surprising and “Do you have email” is non-threatening. In fact, I’m technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she’ll GIVE IT TO ME. If she says “yes,” I take out a pen and paper and say “Great, write it down for me” and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE’S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say “Write your number down there too.” When you ask for an email, it’s very low risk for a woman, so she’ll think “Fine, I’ll do that.” Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can choose later to just not answer. The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they’re in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human behavior. She’s already mentally said “OK, I’ll give you my email address”… and she’s in the middle of writing it down. When you say “And just write your number down there too” it’s only NATURAL to just write it. I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding! In other words, it’s a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice. Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things. And I’ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I’ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or two – no kidding! Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fancy small industrial pen. Because women love small and classy things. (No pun intended, Lol) Source: http://www.woonaijawomen.com 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
NON SENSE! 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by xynerise: 12:47pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
ANTE LOPE! |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by abiL(f): 12:49pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
F[oo]lish nonsense. That crap you just wrote there (like a bloody thesis) won't work for me. Email ko, she-mail ni. KMT. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by MMM2(m): 1:03pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Romance section don suffer ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Mynd44: 1:15pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
What a pile of poo 1 Like |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
abegi this guy try. This may work for some but not all. if you wor-wor, nothing for you ooo. Besides, I don't need these tips.. I don't ask ladies' contacts uneccessarily.. |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Mynd44: 1:26pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Try for where? Abeg talk better thing jorh |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Try for where? Abeg talk better thing jorhsomething tells me it will work.. |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by ikechukz(m): 1:37pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
na wa ooo.it worked for me sha. @Op thumbs up. |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by bukason1(m): 1:48pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
ikechukz: na wa ooo.it worked for me sha. Thanks bro, Although I welcome the critics... I appreciate this more ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Mynd44: 1:55pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
acidosis™:That "something" is deceiving you |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 2:48pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
we have wannabe players in here ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Mynd44: 3:03pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
joeydozzy: we have wannabe players in hereEven the wannabes have wannabes |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by ludasam222(m): 3:04pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Menh dis works lyk a bomb.....chai gals don suffer 4 ma hand o |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by goofie: 3:11pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
am a lady and that wont work 4 me. i'l know that he is trying smart |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 3:44pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
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Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by savedbreak: 3:53pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
I think it will work,its jst simple psychology 1 Like |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by naturalwaves: 3:57pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Nice try OP but that won't work all the time.What leads to the request for the email addy in the first place? That's where a bulk of the work is. As for me, I don't ask for numbers or anything,they do the asking. How? According to research, the best opening line of all time is the word 'HI' and every other thing follows.The time frame one has to get the number will determine the type of approach. In some cases, u got to do so in 10 minutes or less. In some other cases, you have more time.I tell you something, irrespective of the time frame and the approach to be decided upon, the most important thing is to work on oneself first of all. It is very important to be an all round person or at least try to by being well grounded in Entertainment, Politics, Fashion, Feminine stuffs, Geography,Sports,Feminine stuffs, Philosophy,Psychology, Health etc just to mention a few. A surface reading of all these and more is usually okay. A good sense of humour is very important as well.When you combine the in-built knowledge with a good approach,you will have no problem. The type of approach to be used depends on a whole lot of factors from the environment to the atmosphere to the type of lady(the way she is dressed,walks,etc), the amount of time you have.There are several approaches which are just too numerous to mention and explain in this space (PM me for more info.lolz).There is a very important need to be highly OBSERVANT before the/ an approach style is used. Lest I forget,you must learn or practice how to use HANGERS(my personal name for a method).Hangers are very very important. What is a hanger? A hanger is an incomplete story or an incomplete information. Ladies are generally curious, they like to know the end of most things.Using several hangers while communicating will only increase their curiosity and when they start asking questions, the deed is done. Infact,you can then bring your knowledge on the subject matter to the fore again as well as a sense of humour.If you make use of the hanger effectively and you tell a lady that, "oh,sorry, I got to go now".I bet, she will request for your contact without you asking. You will hear something like "So, how do I .............?(A hanger gave birth to this question). Let me have your contacts so I can........". You give it to her, tell her to beep you, wait till your phone rings and tell her you got it. Shikena!!! Even if she doesn't call lateron and you do the calling, she would be very happy to hear from you and the rest follows. THE GOOD THING ABOUT THIS METHOD IS THAT, YOU MAKE HER FEEL SHE NEEDS YOU MORE THAN YOU DO TO HER.NEVER NEVER NEVER APPEAR DESPERATE. Note: It is not compulsory to end with a hanger all the time. You can ask for her number as well when you are ready to go once a good communication has been maintained. In all, A GOOD APPROACH opens the floor for a conversation. A GOOD GRASP AND COMMAND OF GENERAL KNOWLEDGE + A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR carries you through the conversation.Ability to make good use of HANGERS does the final magic. #Remember to dress well, speak well and do not forget the best opening line of all which is a simple and harmless "Hi"# Cheers!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by abiL(f): 3:58pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
naturalwaves: Nice try OP but that won't work all the time.What leads to the request for the email addy in the first place? That's where a bulk of the work is. As for me, I don't ask for numbers or anything,they do the asking. How? According to research, the best opening line of all time is the word 'HI' and every other thing follows.The time frame one has to get the number will determine the type of approach. In some cases, u got to do so in 10 minutes or less. In some other cases, you have more time.I tell you something, irrespective of the time frame and the approach to be decided upon, the most important thing is to work on oneself first of all. It is very important to be an all round person or at least try to by being well grounded in Entertainment, Politics, Fashion, Feminine stuffs, Geography,Sports,Feminine stuffs, Philosophy,Psychology, Health etc just to mention a few. A surface reading of all these and more is usually okay. A good sense of humour is very important as well.When you combine the in-built knowledge with a good approach,you will have no problem. CREATE YOUR OWN THREAD!! Must you write an essay?! 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
hehe.. |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 4:02pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
@naturalwaves spot on.... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by FarWatcher: 4:15pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
This is not the way to go BRO. Rest and come again! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by naturalwaves: 4:18pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
sanb: @naturalwavesTnx dear. |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by mumumugu(m): 4:58pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
I hav read dis online many tymes. Dis is copy and paste.copywrite is an ofence |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by abiL(f): 5:06pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
mumumugu: I hav read dis online many tymes. Dis is copy and paste.copywrite is an ofence Punishable by hanging?? |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 5:20pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
what if u later meet a nairaland member who hav read dis... Will it still work out?? |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Nobody: 5:30pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
R2bees: what if u later meet a nairaland member who hav read dis... Will it still work out?? ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Idowuogbo(f): 5:32pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
R2bees: what if u later meet a nairaland member who hav read dis... Will it still work out??Na u dey ur prof pic? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by abiL(f): 5:35pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Hahaha I was going to ask the guy the same question, but it's not his fault. He didn't ask to be made that way. |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by Idowuogbo(f): 5:37pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
abiL:U right! D pics funny tho! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email In 3minutes Or Less Anytime, Anyplace by abiL(f): 5:38pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Hahahha may God forgive you for making me laugh like a crazy woman. |
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