50calibre:

Yes that what parents do to their kids but it is not limited to just the parent - children scene if you get my point.

Nobody is above discipline, be it a 50 year old or a 10 year old. Bosses discipline their surbodinates, presidents discipline members of his cabinet, lecturers discipline his/her students.

Mrs.Chima:


A company is expected to fire an employee for breaking the company's policy or rule. A wife is NOT an employee and YOU DO NOT own her. Who discipline YOU in the relationship when you need corrections Exactly!

owanku: Chauvinism isn't restricted to males. Most feminists are chauvinists and either way it doesn't foster any kinda meaningful relationship.

owanku: Chauvinism isn't restricted to males. Most feminists are chauvinists and either way it doesn't foster any kinda meaningful relationship.

Mrs.Chima:


It was clear by me and others that chauvinism isn't exclusive to men just like feminism isn't exclusive to women. It was clarified more than once and reading the entire thread will clear up any confusion one may have!

50calibre:

It's very unlikely I will need correction but if I do then it's her duty to enforce the correction on me and I know I'm smart enough to know when I go wrong.

50calibre: Male chauvinism is healthy for any relationship. The woman should acknowlege a man's God given superiority and not try to rub shoulder with him and in return a man should respect his wife/girlfriend's weakness and always try to dominate.

CAMEROONPRIDE: IGNORANCE AT THE HIGHEST LEVEL ..THIS IS WHAT HAPPEN WHEN U ALLOW A BUSH WOMAN TO USE ANY KIND OF TECHNOLOGY..I LAUGH IN EWONDO.EWU CHIMA
...M OUT

Mynd_44: Now lemme put my head out there a lot of people will like to kill me for this but fûck this.
How can any sane person think the man is superior to the woman? It silly and I don't buy that bullshît. It might have worked in the past when physical strength is the biggest decided but the law of natural selection amongst humans have now need shifted from physical strength to mental one.

When is needed now is brain and how to use them which means that both the man and woman are equal.

Anyone who thinks the man has to be superior to the woman in a relationship is just being silly simple. Each of them has what they can and should bring to the table during dating and marriage. They should both work together to make it world and they are equal in suggestions and eventually decision making.

ril19:
Disagreed! It is both mentally, socially, marritally, naturally, divinely and scripturally wrong to say that a woman is "equal" to a man. Lemme tell u, even in mental capability, a woman does not "equal" a man (dats d natural formation). Dats a really flawed reasoning! It is divinely and originally established that d man is d head of the woman.

U-Get-Sense:
Questions 4 d females-
1) Could u hav d courage 2 approach & woo a man & suxesfuly kip him witout him seeing u as desperate?
2) Can u go against culture & pay a man's 'groom' price(if u claim 2b a modern day woman)?
3) Wud u feel so fulfilled if u'r d bread winner & d man is d kitchen keeper?
If ur answer is YES, then good luck while u try dem out.
Mentally, men r more daring.
Emotionally, men r stronger-willed.
Physically, men r built tough.
Biologically, men hav higher testosterone (man's greatest pusher).
Spiritually, men r not easily possessed (reason why d devil went 4 Eve instead of Adam).
I'm a respecter of women & I know dat as much as women advocate 4 equality, its not entirely feasible cos even d woman wud want d man 2 b d controller.

Nuzo':


For you to have replied my post immediately means you are a very fast reader and writer. I commend you for that.
However, for you to ask me the question of which I've provided answers to means you are either not good in comprehending things or you are just trying to be unnecessarily mischievous. You not seeing other factors aside from religion, and also bringing in homosexuality from nowhere baffles me. Do you understand the meaning of sexism?

Input:
WELL SAID!!!

@mrs chima,after reading your post I have the thought that you are intellectually sound.But however you clearly showed us that you copied and pasted what you typed there after failing to comprehend the analysis of Nuzo.[qu

U-Get-Sense:
Questions 4 d females-
1) Could u hav d courage 2 approach & woo a man & suxesfuly kip him witout him seeing u as desperate?
2) Can u go against culture & pay a man's 'groom' price(if u claim 2b a modern day woman)?
3) Wud u feel so fulfilled if u'r d bread winner & d man is d kitchen keeper?
If ur answer is YES, then good luck while u try dem out.
Mentally, men r more daring.
Emotionally, men r stronger-willed.
Physically, men r built tough.
Biologically, men hav higher testosterone (man's greatest pusher).
Spiritually, men r not easily possessed (reason why d devil went 4 Eve instead of Adam).
I'm a respecter of women & I know dat as much as women advocate 4 equality, its not entirely feasible cos even d woman wud want d man 2 b d controller.

Input: ^^^ keep on displaying your low comprehensive skill or would I say ignorance if atall.Don't think because you are an American you are automatically intelligent.

Sagewood: Lame topic/ post and analysis.

~Royal~:


You and Chima are still beefing?...

Damn...lol

Favorite Comment of the Thread...

ril19:
Disagreed! It is both mentally, socially, marritally, naturally, divinely and scripturally wrong to say that a woman is "equal" to a man. Lemme tell u, even in mental capability, a woman does not "equal" a man (dats d natural formation). Dats a really flawed reasoning! It is divinely and originally established that d man is d head of the woman.

Input: ^^^dammit,you are still lost in your own thread.#goandstudycomprehensionpassage.
Am out mama

Mrs.Chima:


You need to travel outside of Nigeria...the world isn't flat.

1. It is not that complicated to approach and woo a man. It is obviously reading some posts on Nairaland that women have approached men and they came online with tears.

2. Toto in exchange for two goats and Brazilian weave isn't nothing to brag about. It is not by force that you have to pay for a bride but if you do...enjoy! Google Women, India, and Groom Price. You are welcome.

3. News flash! Women are bread winners! Duh! What do you think women are outside of the home volunteering There are millions of women who work outside the home, come home to take care of the home, and spend time with their children and spouse. Can YOU DO IT? I think not.

Please miss me with that talking snake going for Eve bullshit. You know damn well that doesn't make sense...if a talking snake going for Eve was to get to Adam and according to you men are superior over women....WHY THE Bleep DID ADAM LISTENED TO EVE If I am superior over someone...why the Bleep would I listen to someone BELOW ME If someone that is weaker and dumber than me can make me DISOBEY MY CREATOR IS A BAD MOFO!

Next time you quote scriptures...make sure it work in your favor!

Last thing...what does a man controlling his house have to do with a woman getting equal pay for a day's work What does a man controlling his house have to do with a woman expressing her right to vote What does a man controlling his house have to do with women getting equal rights to her children after divorce in Nigeria? What does a man controlling his house have to do with a woman going to school and being all that she can even if it is not a woman's job What does a man controlling his house have to do with a woman expressing her rights to voice her opinion about life and society

The only thing you control is the people in YOUR HOUSE. I have seen how African men run their homes...they are no different than non-African men...no one is exempt from failed marriages/relationships.

U-Get-Sense:


Well ma'am, it seems that at the end of your long vibes you ended up agreeing that a man should CONTROL a woman somehow. I'm glad u finally understood/agreed 2 what I was trying to say. God bless you.

roymary: Someone hopes to have a piece of Mrs Chima's overused bum bum.