@ kenFlavour, you sure would find that lady

Well kenflavour am glad youve not let that experience change your mind about true love cause believe me its out there. Girls can be harsh some times, Iknow! We'll be here to congratulate you when you find HER!

i like the way you ladies are putting the whole thing down. kenny is a very lucky fella to have joined NL and the blessing of sweet ladies too. i hope my own blessing comes soon too!

@ Showlankie,HAHA,you wish!

SISTA ZEE,let him wish oh. dreams come true you know.

@ Alheri, I agree with you, I was KIDDING

alheri sebi I had earlier said it before in this house, that u are my sister. I quote Chika, you are just da BOMB.

Amen oo, I pray I find her very soon ooo, because I am not getting younger any longer. Tomorrow, I gat two of my friends wedding to attend, so I pray and hope to invite friends and Nairaland users to attend my wedding soon, by God's grace. May be in a year's time.

Aww,sweet Kenflavour , it's a pity I will not be able to attend your wedding though, that is "IF" I was invited in the first place.

Z4M4eva:

Aww,sweet Kenflavour , it's a pity I will not be able to attend your wedding though, that is "IF" I was invited in the first place.

Baby, na wa for u oo. I have not even found the lucky girl, u are talking about wedding invitation. Na wish I dey wish masef oooo

@ KenFlavour, HaHa ,Your wish would surely come true, by the Grace of God.

N then, you can invite me

for sure, u will be among the first invitees

Haha, now I'm happy

yes, am sad to say that i have hurt some guyz feelings

1st guy: i broke his heart like five times, i was very young by that time, i was 13 he was 17, . this guy loved me very much(my first love actually, or so i think)

2nd guy:: now this guy was the fellow that bought me expensive gift and all that stuff. i was 15, he was 19 i left him cuz he was not a good kisser, i wasnt really feeling him

3rd guy: ok, this guy is very much in love with me, as a matter of fact he still is. he bought me expensive gifts, took me on dates, infact made me feel special. i was 16, he asked me to be his girlfriend, i turned him down because he wasn't my "type".

i only told you all just a bit of the story, i dont wanna elaborate on them. am currently in a long term relationship i hope my past dont come haunting.

there's nothin wrong with your past. it's normal. you can't start a date from 13 and end up to marriage like that so why should you blame yourself for having experiences?

anyways, as for me, i never broke anybody's heart cos i won't ask you out if i can't stay with you and that's why almost all the girls i dated are the one to leave me mostly due to distance. the only person i told off was a hoe and i can't be bothered since i was sure she was a hoe.

hmmmm,I have broken 3 hearts and I am not breaking no more....
well,IMO,in this game called relationships,one person must get messed up,don't let it be you!!!

yeah i have, i told my boyfriend of 3 years i did not want to marry -that i wanted to concentrate on my career .......................then i married someone else 6 months later he was VERY upset.
i also once dumped a man by fax message because he was so needy i could not do it face to face.

welcome to nairaland weev!

thank you

yes dere ws dis guy i used 2 go out wit n al of a sudden i told him it ws over jst like dat
he begged he pleaded but stubborn Rhodalyn wldnt pay attention 2 him
funny tin ws,i still loved him i jst dnt knw wht got over me

ok we went out 4 3 mnths and i left him he kept askin me back for another 3 mnths i still din't go back
his friends were like i've messed him up, i din't really care. does dat count?

Yeah, just one and recently too,after 3 years. I did love this girl but sometimes love just ain't enuff. There were just too many issues- Family differences,Career objectives, health issues. She isn't a sickler but she's wont to fall ill every now and then, and her mum will just dispatch someone to come find me! That really used to tick me off, I mean it's not like we were engaged or anything yet. Bigtime warning signals, so my family kept on telling me, then my friends chipped in as well. We'd gone places with this girl, and most people assumed she was my intended. I wanted it to be so but you can only try so much really. I had no choice, I've been abit miserable since the split but life goes on. We still call every now and then and I know if circumstances change, we can still have a go at it.

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@nike
hi u can still b friends ok, me i v nver break any 1 hearts girls r special in evry way i love dem am still single now.

sounds like a gentle man

hey, does mine count?

sorrey but was there a genuine reason why u left?

u could have broken his heart, is he back on the horse?

Never broken a heart and don't think i could ever do that

i think so i left d country, we chat online but we don't discuss r/ships
but i feel inda guilty now cuz my grounds were flimsy u now

mhm, i feel ya! i left my first love too because i had to migrate! but hey, life goes on hun, we all find true loves at every stage of our lives

so ryt, thin i found one already just dat the one i'm with practically snatched me frm my ex lol
dunno i'm just hopin i don't regret later