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Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 4:34pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
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Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by baby124: 4:52pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Peterwins: I have been in the banking sector and this is a piece of cake. Gbam o! You described naija in its totality. Who will you arrest? The big man trying to feed you? You may even get locked up for false accusation upon all the rape and beating. Abeg, let us leave story. Nigeria is a very crazy society, bereft of morals. And na dem dey attend church pass. Our female lawyers and members of the national assembly need to do better for the female child in Nigeria. It is too bad. In fact, i must enter that national assembly. |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by maclatunji: 6:24pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
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Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Boss13: 6:57pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
armyofone: Aren't you being double standard eh? Here is a woman who is in need of money and someone is offering her the money-OP didn't say she will be collecting the money in the 'hotel bedroom' or at midnight. For real and you are still fighting for equality! Since you want equality, share the financial burden too. Nonsense |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
I intended to ignore coogar and his myopic views but then I have to comment again . . . for those saying he had a hidden agenda for asking her to meet him in a hotel . . . Did he actually request the meeting be held in his room? What if he had the intention of meeting her at the lobby or bar or restaurant ![]() I wonder why it's so easy for people to jump to baseless conclusions! ![]() For those saying she could be molested, wouldn't that solve the problem if she went in the company of her colleagues or even husband ![]() What exactly is this 7-page argument about ![]() |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
chaircover: You are making the assumption that he's requesting they meet in the room. The poster NEVER said that. So if you are out of town and lodged in a hotel, you wont ask your AO to meet you there if you can't make it to the bank ![]() Na wah oh . . . It's convenient for you to accept the scenarios you agree with and ignore the ones you don't! |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by coogar: 7:41pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Ujujoan: I intended to ignore coogar and his myopic views but then I have to comment again . . . you don't need to comment..... my opinion still stands - it's insulting for any man to ask a married woman to meet him in a hotel. if you have been asked to do such, you have been insulted!
yes - meet her where her drinks could be spiked. she would then become unconscious and the fool would take her upstairs and the rest is history - while a mumu husband stays at home waiting for his "hardworking" wife.
because prevention is better than cure.....
wouldn't the problem be solved if she avoids the situation completely? can you not read peterwin's comments? husband going there or not makes no difference. she cannot go in with someone who has no business with the bank. its not professional so she must go alone or go with her colleagues......and i can bet if she goes in with her colleagues, the deal would be called off. nor be naija men? |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 7:51pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
coogar: Peterwins gave one scenario out of hundreds of cases which he decided to ignore! Is he seriously saying that in all his years as a banker, he has NEVER seen a situation where AOs met customers in hotels/homes and didn't end up being molested ![]() |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 7:51pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
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Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by SisiKill1: 7:58pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
That's the part I couldn't get past. . .when did hotel become room? That's why I kukuma stayed away from the entire debate. If we can't establish an itty bitty detail like that. . .what's the point? ![]() ![]() I'm laughing at people bringing poor Cynthia's case up as an example for why women shouldn't go to hotels. For Everyone one Cynthia, there have been a million non-Cynthias, so what does that prove? Besides, Cynthia met strangers, In OP's case this is someone his wife knows. . .how's he gonna kill, rape and kidnap her? Me. . . I still have faith in men oh! Call me naive or Caucasian or Selena Gomez but I still have faith that there are men out there who aren't ruled by their libido, men who will only go as far as a woman is gonna let them (I know that can be a hard concept to grasp especially after reading this thread, I tell ya one is almost inclined to believe men don't have self control and will jump anything with a heartbeat and it is always money for hand, back for ground with them. Even if that ends up being the case. . .that uncle wants a little sum'n sum'n does OP not trust his wife to look the man up and down, spit in his face and walk away? If he doesn't then they obviously have bigger issues to address than hotel or no hotel. Finally to all the "Safety Inspectors", I wanna ask, are you telling us there has never been stories of men killed and kidnapped in the cause of doing business? I is jest aksing oh because the way y'all are going on and on and on and on about kidnapping, raaaping, killing. . .one is once again inclined to believe it is ONLY women who get the wrong end of that stick (Okay that didn't come out right, there is obviously no right end of that stick. Abeg jare, It's friday and I am too tired to think of another idiom or whachumacallit. Y'all get what I mean. . . ![]() |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 7:59pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
chaircover: Actually, I know no such thing. Could be his intention was to meet her at the hotel lobby and hand the cheque over to her . . . You really shouldn't conclude otherwise! This things happen everyday and true, people get molested that way, but not in a lot of cases! I'm talking from experience . . . I've had meetings in hotels, sometimes in the rooms. I wouldn't be so stup1d to meet a man who's likely to molest me in his room. But when it's people I work with, I can confidently do my work without fear of being molested! |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by coogar: 8:01pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Ujujoan: why should i take such risks? if there's a 1% chance my wife could be molested in a hotel i would rather avoid the situation completely. how do i explain myself if she gets molested in a hotel? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 8:03pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: That's the part I couldn't get past. . .when did hotel become room? The thing tire me my sister. . . So because the man wants to sleep with her, mumu OP's wife will lie down and open her legs ![]() ![]() How sure are they that the man wants to meet in a room ![]() What if he's lodged in a suite and wants the meeting held in the palour ![]() I get that Nigerians are getting paranoid, but comparing this issue to cynthia's case (God rest her soul), is a desperate attempt to give credence to a meaningless argument! |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
coogar: Do women only get molested in hotels ![]() There's always at least 1% chance that a woman may get molested. We've heard cases of women getting raped in churches during vigil, special prayers e.t.c. Goodluck caging your wife! |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 8:11pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
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Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by coogar: 8:11pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Ujujoan: so because hotels are not the only place a woman can be molested, i should then push her there where a useless hörny billy-goat is waiting for her with his evil plans? i am sure you skipped logic classes in school!
the chances are far slimmer, my friend! on this occasion, a man would be waiting for her in a hotel(a venue very secluded with alcohol and drugs easily accessible) plus a bed! only an idiotic husband would then send his wife to a lion's den. cynthia's killers were waiting for her just like this crooked uncle would be waiting for this married woman - what should one not be worried about?
she's not complained to you she's being caged, has she? |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by dayokanu(m): 8:15pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
coogar: Theres a 1% chance your wife can have an accident driving a car, So stop her from driving, Theres a 1% chance her brothers or father can rappee her, So she shouldnt visit her brothers and family Theres a chance her Boss, pastor, driver etc can drug her and rapppee her. So she shouldnt go out. Theres a 1% chance Boko haram might visit her church next Sunday so she shouldnt go to church. Just sit at home all day. Heck theres a 1% chance a trailer might lose control and even come and kill her inside the house so where she go stay now? maybe on the tree. tree sef might faill i taya oo |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 8:24pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
lol |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by coogar: 8:25pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
dayokanu: auto-accident is not rapë!
unlike you, i did not marry into a family of lunatics.....
so where would my wife and all these people meet up and get drugged? are you a goat?
boko haram bombing is not räpe!
tree falling to kill my wife is not räpe! you see, all your examples are grossly irrelevant! let me repeat in case you are suffering from a pink eye - if there's a 1% chance my wife could be räped, i would rather avoid the situation. i will give you one more chance to redeem yourself from your acute stupidity.... |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by BABE3: 9:07pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Ujujoan: If "caging" is what you call my husband reasoning, warning and protecting me from pot-bellied uncles, then I'm happy being caged. Tenks. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Ok it is in a hotel but can the wife go with her husband to pickup the check? If the answer is no,then forget it. Thanks Coogar,babe and chaircover for being reasonable in this conversation |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by SisiKill1: 9:40pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
dayokanu: ROTFLMAO!!!! Why do I suddenly see a lot of wives wrapped in bubbles? ![]() Ain't nothin' can touch her now!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Don't know anyone who will say the husband can't go with her. . .why it isn't even the thing do in the first place especially since the both seem to know him, is beyond me. Y'all keep shifting goal post and calling it reasonable conversation. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by coogar: 9:57pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Baby mama: Ok it is in a hotel but can the wife go with her husband to pickup the check? i don't even think that option should be considered..... according to peterwins...even if the husband waits outside, these men would still attempt to molest the gullible female bankers.... BABE!: ![]() |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by maclatunji: 10:01pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
BABE!: Hehehehe... thank you, you have been terrific on this thread! Freedom ko Freetown ni. #Nonsense |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by SisiKill1: 10:09pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Lmao! Oooh! I like the sneaky slip in of word there. . .Of course anyone who is GULLIBLE is gonna get taken advantage of where they may be but OP hasn't said his wife is gullible now has he? Or y'all automatically think she is because. . .she is not cowering in fear somewhere, afraid of her own shadow because it is a big bad world out there?? Oy Veh!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by BABE3: 10:13pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Baby mama: Ok it is in a hotel but can the wife go with her husband to pickup the check? Welcome. maclatunji: It amuses me that some Nigerian women have been so westernized, they're insensible. I'm happy to be led my husband. If I don't trust his decisions, then why are we even married ? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by coogar: 10:17pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: Lmao! Oooh! I like the sneaky slip in of word there. . .Of course anyone who is GULLIBLE is gonna get taken advantage of where they may be but OP hasn't said his wife is gullible now has he? Or y'all automatically think she is because. . .she is not cowering in fear somewhere, afraid of her own shadow because it is a big bad world out there?? simply put - you are naive! these pot-bellied naija men have a different mentality to what obtains in the west. give an average naija man a smile and he would assume you are down for sex. the moment this woman arrives at the hotel - her gullibility status becomes confirmed. the crooked uncle would instantly assume she's down for whatever he offers her. you cannot blame the uncle though - some other morally bankrupt women in the past have serviced his loins so they tend to believe all women are dogs.... BABE!: ![]() |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Boss13: 10:18pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
Ujujoan: I intended to ignore coogar and his myopic views but then I have to comment again . . . I so badly wish you are the OPs wife and I pray you fall in a similar situation. It is so easy to comment but how would your perspective be when it is you. |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
BABE!: Rule of thumb Check any woman telling you how she is all that and does not need any man blah blah blah,I am a superwoman blah Most of the time they don't have a man No be today persin begin see aboki with bow and arrow ![]() That is just the cold na.ked truth This subject has absolutely nothing to do with caging women Any woman that has a man knows to run such a suggestion by her man and any man that loves that woman knows it is an inappropriate suggestion because he is thinking like a man and knows exactly what that other man is capable of doing Safety from molestation entails being one step ahead of your possible attacker and that also involves preventing being found in vulnerable situations The incidence of rape in Nigeria is now 84% according to a recent study and people are arguing about a woman taking precautions I would rather err on the side of over reaction than being naive,you can't unbreak an egg. It is a better place to be . 1 Like |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Kobojunkie: 10:25pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
chaircover: People like you make me laugh everyday, and it is mentality like yours that is reason why slowly and surely that country continues to fall in the hands of foreigners by the piece. The same Nigeria has thousands of foreigners flocking in on a regular basis, to stay at these hotels that you are here screaming is too bad for you. The same Nigerian hotels house the Chinese, Indians, Italians, etc. that show up on a regular basis to snatch up jobs even in remote areas in that country. Rather than re-visit reality to be sure that outdated-picture of Nigeria you have still exists, you are quick hear to proclaim you know of Nigeria that has changes so much from the picture you continue to paint? What is wrong with you people? Are you IMMUNE to change or something? |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by Kobojunkie: 10:27pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
I stay in hotels when I am in Nigeria. My siblings do too. My own mother stays in a hotel whenever she is in town . . . rather than go stay in the home in the village. Rather than open your eyes to the changes that have occured, you all are still here spewing lies, with no evidence by the way, just so you can posture yourselves as people who know of Nigeria in some way? Isn't that not INSANITY?? |
Re: Wife Wants To Meet An Uncle In A Hotel For Cheque To Meet Her Deposit Target by bjcole(m): 10:32pm On Dec 07, 2012 |
when a woman is married, she is responsible to her husband, her desires are unto her husband & he rules over her, dats how God made it, in view of this, d husband is directly & indirectly responsible 4 d safety & security of his wife. He is d first person 2 ask if any wrong happens 2 his wife, if caging wil guarrantee d safety f his woman, why not? U r daughters of Eve, d world has nt recovered 4rm ur grandmother silly mistakes in d garden of eden. |
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