Baby mama:

Rule of thumb
Check any woman telling you how she is all that and does not need any man blah blah blah,I am a superwoman blah
Most of the time they don't have a man

No be today persin begin see aboki with bow and arrow
That is just the cold na.ked truth
This subject has absolutely nothing to do with caging women
Any woman that has a man knows to run such a suggestion by her man and any man that loves that woman knows it is an inappropriate suggestion because he is thinking like a man and knows exactly what that other man is capable of doing
Safety from molestation entails being one step ahead of your possible attacker and that also involves preventing being found in vulnerable situations
The incidence of rape in Nigeria is now 84% according to a recent study and people are arguing about a woman taking precautions
I would rather err on the side of over reaction than being naive,you can't unbreak an egg.
It is a better place to be
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bjcole: when a woman is married, she is responsible to her husband, her desires are unto her husband & he rules over her, dats how God made it, in view of this, d husband is directly & indirectly responsible 4 d safety & security of his wife. He is d first person 2 ask if any wrong happens 2 his wife, if caging wil guarrantee d safety f his woman, why not? U r daughters of Eve, d world has nt recovered 4rm ur grandmother silly mistakes in d garden of eden.

Baby mama:
Rule of thumb
Check any woman telling you how she is all that and does not need any man blah blah blah,I am a superwoman blah
Most of the time they don't have a man

No be today persin begin see aboki with bow and arrow
That is just the cold na.ked truth
This subject has absolutely nothing to do with caging women
Any woman that has a man knows to run such a suggestion by her man and any man that loves that woman knows it is an inappropriate suggestion because he is thinking like a man and knows exactly what that other man is capable of doing
Safety from molestation entails being one step ahead of your possible attacker and that also involves preventing being found in vulnerable situations
The incidence of rape in Nigeria is now 84% according to a recent study and people are arguing about a woman taking precautions
I would rather err on the side of over reaction than being naive,you can't unbreak an egg.
It is a better place to be
.

Kobojunkie:

People like you make me laugh everyday, and it is mentality like yours that is reason why slowly and surely that country continues to fall in the hands of foreigners by the piece.

The same Nigeria has thousands of foreigners flocking in on a regular basis, to stay at these hotels that you are here screaming is too bad for you. The same Nigerian hotels house the Chinese, Indians, Italians, etc. that show up on a regular basis to snatch up jobs even in remote areas in that country. Rather than re-visit reality to be sure that outdated-picture of Nigeria you have still exists, you are quick hear to proclaim you know of Nigeria that has changes so much from the picture you continue to paint? What is wrong with you people? Are you IMMUNE to change or something?

ileobatojo:
Would you kindly show me where Chaircover said hotels are bad for you? Thanks.

BABE!:
Coogar you go hard! (Pun intended)

chaircover: You know something . . I dont care what anyone says, but I will be very offended and concerned if I was in this female bankers shoes and my husband who is supposed to be my protector and my alabaro just waves me a casual "see you later hon" goodbye when I go off to collect money from "uncle"

Sisi_Kill:
HOTEL = RAPE, KIDNAPPING and MURDER!

BABE!:

You're an agric chicken! Who ever said a hotel is synonymous to kidnapping and murder? You ok?

By typing out that highlighted nonsense, Aren't you also guilty of the "let us paint the other person's argument in the worst way possible" ?

Just quit making noise all over the thread already with your yeye soliloquy.

BABE!:


You're an agric chicken! Who ever said a hotel is synonymous to kidnapping and murder? You ok?

By typing out that highlighted nonsense, Aren't you also guilty of the "let us paint the other person's argument in the worst way possible" ?

Just quit making noise all over the thread already with your yeye soliloquy.

BABE!:


You're getting it wrong. It's not about cheating. Cheating is secondary in this matter (assuming the woman is faithful). The primary issue is her safety!

The possibility of her getting r-a-p-Ed or worst of all, killed while having lunch at 'Mama Cass' is incredibly lower than her being in a super seclusive environment such as a hotel room.

Most kidnappers and evil doers do their deeds in such environments. When there are other options available, hotel rooms should be scratched.

chaircover:

Ive heard you. Carry on blaming our mentality and backwardness on all issues/topics . . . . yet you dont do anything about it but to blow hot air while you are safely tucked up in your bed. Everything you dont know about or agree with is lies to you. You think I am am Internet Nigerian? The same Nigeria I visit 5-6 times every year!

I dont know if you are a man or a woman but please feel free to "uncage" your wife or refuse to be "caged" by your husband. Werrin concein me.

chaircover: Lodging in a hotel as a guest = going to see an "uncle" who considers himself as father Christmas?

I give up!!!

igaro: Is it proper for a guy to allow his wife, a God fearing woman, the leeway to go meet an uncle (not related o, just family friends) at a hotel he's lodged in, simply because he wants to assist her with a deposit into his account which will inturn reflect as a boost on her own target in the bank for that month?

uboma: If i were her husband, i wouldn't allow her go to the hotel alone. The best i can do is accompany her there if it becomes very necessary. And if ur wife is a God fearing woman like u portrayed her in ur post, she wouldn't even entertain the thought of going to the hotel in the 1st place.
Just my 2cents

freakcin: Some will argue she's a professional and knows where to draw the line( how I wish I can meet those peeps one on one in a dark alley! )
Its not proper, there's internet banking, she doesn't even need to go there he can conveniently transfer the funds, and incase he's not computer literate, simply have her come for the cheque in the office.

Siena: It's not right, on any count. No target's worth become a hooker.

Still, Nigeria's rotten to the core, so no surprises there really.

maclatunji:

How can the husband in question be calling the man "Uncle"? If he cannot hand it to her in an appropriate location then say bye-bye to him and his money. But wait! How desperate is the wife? Might she not go and be collecting this and other cheques without informing her husband just to meet "targets" in future?

Some of us cannot stand this kind of nonsense permutations O.

Osama10: Hmmmn, very very suspicious.

coogar:

you would have to explain why this uncle cannot simply transfer the money to your account or meet you somewhere else to complete the talks. nigerian women are the roots of their own problems. you live in a society that oppresses women and yet you people still get lured by the tricks of the evil men.

at least in the saner world, there's maximum protection for the women. should this woman get räped now, people like you would blame her for going to see a man in the hotel. police would not arrest the culprit as the burden of proof is on the woman to prove it wasn't consensual. any man that allows his wife to meet another man in any nigerian hotel is a rëtard!

chaircover: Lodging in a hotel as a paying guest with your own key, space etc etc = going as a guest to see an "uncle" who considers himself as father Christmas and is doing you a favour?

I give up!!!

Sisi_Kill:

Women, relax yourself!! Haba!

It's not like one needs to go far to figure out what is what naa.

Look I totally understand talking outta yours azz makes it easy to forget stuff but don't worry, that's why you have people like me here to help you remember your assynine words.

chaircover: Lodging in a hotel as a paying guest with your own key, space etc etc = going as a guest to see an "uncle" who considers himself as father Christmas and is doing you a favour?

I give up!!!

coogar:

you had me in stitches - jeeeeez

i mean, how idiotic can some people be?
whoever said going to hotel is bad? damn - seun should start measuring IQs before giving people NL membership. i would gladly drop my wife off at any hotel if she's meeting other women......going for a social event in a hotel.....attending a friend's birthday/wedding or blah blah blah....

but let her go to a hotel where she's meeting a crooked uncle?

BABE!:

Sisi kill is a twit! To her, going to a hotel alone (going about your business) is the same situation as going to meet someone you desperately need their help.

chaircover:
Just shut it right there. I have indulged you enough. I dont even think you know the meaning of sane with your stuupid arguments. What do you know sef? Your uncle this, your aunty that, your friend this . . . what exactly do you know? apart from third hand stories you hear and regurgitate all over the board.

I know you are well known for picking the opposite side just for the sake of it even if it doesn't make any sense to even you, but ive told you before and I am telling you again, you can fool some of the people some of the time but you cant fool all of the people all of the time. So stop it already, cos its gotten really boring.

Sisi_Kill: Girl, I gotta get home now but feel free to twist your fine self into a pretzel trying to make your azz coordinate with your brains, so you come come back with something mildly sensible.

Toodles!

BABE!:


...and yet the îdîôt keeps getting lost in her labyrinth of stupîdîty.

If what you understood my former post as is "going to a hotel means you're getting killed and kidnapped", then you need to donate your brain to neurosurgeons for their next "brain in a vac" experiment. You have a brain and you cannot use it! Christ! What a waste . . .

A knife is a tool used to cook, cut cakes and kill. A hotel a place where various events (good and bad) take place.

In this topic's context, the wife going to the hotel is not a good idea!!! That doesn't mean a hotel/hotel room is a "bad place". The hotel room is a good place for her "uncle" to unleash if he has anything up his sleeves. It's a seclusive place.

There's a large difference between going to a hotel and lodge alone AND going there to meet a so called uncle! The wife's situation is a classic for a typical Nigerian "uncle" to take advantage.

Geddit? Olodo somebody.

BABE!:


I wish you safe journey home. Quickly get your single-digit-IQ'd self here asap, and attempt to make an iota of sense. It's fun reading your nonsense.

Ileke-IdI:

maclatunji: What a classic thread!

Banker: (On phone) Uncle, I am here for your checque sir.
Uncle: Oh yes! Tell Mercy at the front desk you are hear to see Chief Uberlex.

*At Uncles Hotel Suite.

Uncle: Welcome my dear, you are looking good, your husband must be taking good care of you.
Banker: I thank God sir. He tries his best.

Uncle: What can I offer you? I have some fine wine in my fridge.
Banker: There is no need for that sir, I have to leave soon, I just came for the cheque sir.

Uncle: Oh that, you see my dear business has been hard and I don't trust most of these your new generation banks. I am giving you this cheque because I don't want a pretty girl like you to be running helter-skelter chasing targets.

Chief gets up from his chair and sits beside Banker on the Sofa, she looks at him nervously.

Chief: Relax my dear, you are safe with me.
Banker: I have known you since I was a child.

Chief: But you are now a grown woman and an attractive one at that. I feel like kissing you right now. It is not about writing you the cheque, that will be done as long as my interest in you is guaranteed.
Banker: Err... how do you mean sir?

Chief: I know you are married but just let me kiss and handle you, no one has to know. I promise to stop if you don't like it, I love you so much and you are not a child.
Banker: Please Chief I can't do that, let me have your checque, I have to go now.

Chief grabs her left arm and plants a kiss on her lips before she can avoid his. They are now involved in a struggle- Banker is trying to free herself of Chief's hold whilst Chief seeks to force himself on her.

Question: Why would any decent, self-respecting woman put herself in such a vulnerable position?

Sisi_Kill:
Lmao! Not as much fun as I had reading yours, My dear.

....oh no, not another large-font-using troll. Mercy, Mercy.

Why are you convulsing and vibrating all over like a 2nd hand generator about to shut off? Dem swear for you? Why the large font? Se ori e pe? Fûking Imbécîlé.

Why not save yourself the misery of overworking the little neural connections in your brain and bury your head in a bowl of concentrated hydrochloric acid. You put the "T" in trolling. No wonder you argue like a fôôl. When they have nothing tangible to say, they start to scream and screech.

A hotel is where various events (good and bad) take place. PS- if you do not highlight and increase the font of that last sentence, an asteroid will surely collide with the hut you reside.

We've both agreed that good and bad happen in hotels, like any other place, but that does not mean we should throw caution to the wind?

There's a snake in the bush and one does not know if it's a mamba or a non poisonous snake , should i then send my partner (assuming I'm the man) to that bush all because she can get bitten by a snake anywhere?

You're hopeless.

BABE!:


....oh no, not another large-font-using troll. Mercy, Mercy.

Why are you convulsing and vibrating all over like a 2nd hand generator about to shut off? Dem swear for you? Why the large font? Se ori e pe? Fûking Imbécîlé.

Why not save yourself the misery of overworking the little neural connections in your brain and bury your head in a bowl of concentrated hydrochloric acid. You put the "T" in trolling. No wonder you argue like a fôôl. When they have nothing tangible to say, they start to scream and screech.

A hotel is where various events (good and bad) take place. PS- if you do not highlight and increase the font of that last sentence, an asteroid will surely collide with the hut you reside.

We've both agreed that good and bad happen in hotels, like any other place, but that does not mean we should throw caution to the wind?

There's a snake in the bush and one does not know if it's a mamba or a non poisonous snake , should i then send my partner (assuming I'm the man) to that bush all because she can get bitten by a snake anywhere?

You're hopeless.