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Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by cdamsel(f): 12:59pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Alpha males re used 4 territorial animals,y in heavens name wld I want an animal 4 a man? NL una no go kill me 1 Like |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by crackhaus: 1:12pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Girls in Nigeria you mean. DANILSA: GIRLS IN ABUJA PREFERS THE MONEY GUYS THAN THE TWO MENTIONED ABOVE |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by GentleNaaz(m): 1:12pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
k2039: I'm a nice guy by default.Nice guy is a reaffirmation of mumu guy. Tak note |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Yet another nice guy vs 'bad' guy thread. It's getting ridiculous. There's really no formula to these things. In any case, you can only succeed as a so-called "Alpha Male" (in the sense of being a selfish, apathetic jerk)when you have something significant going for you that makes you desirable whether you are nice or not (e.g. wealth, power, stardom, social position, dashing/desirable persona, etc.). If you think any girl would prefer a plain, ill-mannered, cold, unrefined, and broke azz brute like you to a well-to-do "nice guy" - simply because you act like a jerk, then you certainly have your head in the clouds. People prefer people that are preferable. In other words, being a supposed alpha male (in the sense defined here) is never enough without meaningful reinforcements that make you desirable. D'banj or Paddy Adenuga would always be desired by countless women - regardless of whether they evince the Alpha Male personality or the nice guy personality - simply because they are desirable for their stardom and wealth (and good looks) respectively. Indeed, their desirability might even necessarily cause them to behave like jerks - since they know that women are theirs for the taking and so they are forced to be indifferent and uncaring to several contenders for their attention. In this case, their desirability is NOT a consequence of their 'Alpha Male' behaviours, but rather an antecedent of it. The bottom-line is that women are material and emotional creatures. Whatever satisfies or appeals to their material and emotional cravings is what they would desire. I doubt that any woman would desire a man that acts like a jerk, simply because he acts like a jerk. It's more like she would desire a man she deems desirable - in spite of him being a jerk. In my experience, this nice-guy vs Alpha Male/jerk categorizations are very nebulous and have very little to do with what women want or how they respond to a man romantically and otherwise. 2 Likes |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by 2chains1(m): 1:20pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
DANILSA: GIRLS IN ABUJA PREFERS THE MONEY GUYS THAN THE TWO MENTIONED ABOVE So many S's. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by sundaybam(m): 1:20pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Am a nice guy before and I notice that it's not kinda kul . My girl(now my ex) even tell me that am too nice and gentle. So I blend myself up to an alpha dude and I see that it helps alot. ![]() Don't be too nice to a girl. I gat blood in my eyes now!! ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Bisjosh(f): 1:23pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
NICE GUY.................please lead me there cos they are scarce ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by lagerwhenindoubt(m): 1:24pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
simples.. alpha male when their market still fresh - nice guys when the product don expire. 3 Likes |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by nairabacks(f): 1:26pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
sundaybam: Am a nice guy before and I notice that it's not kinda kul . My girl(now my ex) even tell me that am too nice and gentle. So I blend myself up to an alpha dude and I see that it helps alot. Nope, in this environment (or any) it doesn't pay to be nice. I've experimented with the nice mode, and believe me its a waste of time. As a guy you should have your set of principles, so stick to them. Any woman who no like can hit the road. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by lagerwhenindoubt(m): 1:31pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Nice guy moves are well intended but poorly understood.. be a Badt Guy believe me Women will kill themselves to be with you.. i mean Nice guys Suck and offer no adventure or interests. try to exorcise the Nice Guy in you.. they might complain to nice guyz but when you try to pin the move on them y'll see how react and drop you like smelly socks |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by korres00(m): 1:58pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Ladies flirt wif d alpha guyz buh wen they marry....they marry d nice one.... |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Bisjosh: NICE GUY.................please lead me there cos they are scarceAm d nice guy u hav bin searching for...wat do u want me to do for u?? |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by baby124: 2:16pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
korres00: Ladies flirt wif d alpha guyz buh wen they marry....they marry d nice one.... Exactly right. It is only a foolish woman that will use boyfriend to do husband. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Yasmine(f): 2:18pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
DANILSA: WERE U GO SEE AM? Dem dey! Dem no plenty, but I've met 2 in my lifetime... Hoping to be 3rd time lucky :-)! {The first, serious tribal issues (the parents) no gree, the 2nd, na genotype wahala}, I'm chilling, waiting to be enthralled again ... Faith tingz ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by tintingz(m): 2:26pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
gree-die:which one be alpha nice male? |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by tintingz(m): 2:55pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Gentle Naaz: Nice guy is a reaffirmation of mumu guy. Tak notedefine a mumu-guy and a nice-guy? ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by philip001(m): 3:10pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
[/color][color=#000099] Alpa Males ends up with the Nice ladies. Y Nice guys gets the Alpa Females Ths is ow it works. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
baby_123: Nice guy. Who has time for games and puzzles? Everyone is busy and chasing money ojare. Alpha male is an immature man who fits an immature woman. I will take the nice guy any day. As long as he's ambitious and bed skills are on point. Best of all worlds imo. Life is about peace of mind. Alpha male can also be a nice guy, however, he's more than a nice guy... He's a go-getter, ambitious, hard-worker, highly intelligent, principled, and proactive... There's nothing better than an alpha male, believe that... |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Ladies here's the good news; I'm both. ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:34pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
phoenix33: Who Loves An Alpha Male? Thanks for the clarification. ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Yasmine: I find myself falling for the kind of guy ekt_bear describes .. The undercover nice guy ---> He roars in the crowd, dons the 'player' veneer with full swag, chases and hunts and is as elusive as the best Alpha male, gives me grief trying to get his attention, but when I (finally) get to know him, see that under all that braggadacio, he's really a well-brought up, kind, loving nice guy with a softside , who can stand up when necessary !What movie have you been watching lately?indian i guess. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Sagamite(m): 3:49pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
k2039: I'm a nice guy by default. Be careful. Be a nice guy and you are pretty much fcked. I have learnt that with experience. Every time you are too nice, you always certainly lose. If you are a nice guy, you are most likely to end up with: - A girl with average or below average looks. Or - An ATM (Anxious to Marry) who has wasted her prime with bad boys. Or - You wait eons and work very hard to get what she would give to a bad guy at the snap of the fingers. Basically, you are pretty much fcked in all ways as you are settling for second best. Women like a little bit of arsehole in you. Give it to them. Give them what they want and enjoy yourself. You did not make the rules and you can't change it. Follow it! |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Sagamite(m): 3:52pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Mannylex: The thing is ladies would always complain, and use every attitude as an excuse.... If u are too cool, they wont like it, they would say u are dull, try to be firm, they say u dont love them... Do what the fck you wanna do and see how they fall in line. Don't bother about what they have to say. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
pro01: Yet another nice guy vs 'bad' guy thread. It's getting ridiculous.1000000000000000000likes likes likes likes 1 Like |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by greedie1(f): 3:54pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
tintingz: which one be alpha nice male?an alpha male dat is nice and wont brk my hrt ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:54pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
The lecturer has arrived. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Sagamite: You need to be a little bit of both, however, there's no formula for chics... Just make sure you're in between - being too nice will make you look like a wimp, and being too standoffish will make you look arrogant.. Follow my lead, son... ![]() |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
some-girl: Concur.. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Sagamite(m): 4:00pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Bisjosh: NICE GUY.................please lead me there cos they are scarce They are plenty, you just don't notice them and ignore them when you see them. |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 4:03pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
Sagamite: Doesn't it come natural? |
Re: The Alpha Male Vs The Nice Guy – Which Do You Prefer? by Truckpusher(m): 4:03pm On Dec 10, 2012 |
I'm neither an alpha male nor a nice guy , I simply treat the girls the way they treat themselves. |
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