Nigerian men againnn!!!!!!

Yes, if you don't sharpen them, they'll remain blunt forever. Are we not helping them?

HottFunmi:


Yes, if you don't sharpen them, they'll remain blunt forever. Are we not helping them?

lol

HottFunmi:


Yes, if you don't sharpen them, they'll remain blunt forever. Are we not helping them?

he he he he he

You are too funny!  But true word.  Mine is still undegoing sharpening.  Some bluntness cannot be sharpened.

And U nko, no sharpening @ ur end abi.

D-reloaded:

yet you cry about women generalising. Osisi and AJ are married yet they too somewhat agree [/b]with the topic so what is your point? Your logic just blew up in your face.

Somewhat agree They are happy with the men they have married and like I said b4 , that is the only men they can rightfully pass judgement on in terms of marriage.
Apart from Leilah, most [b]married women here have expressed satisfaction with what they got. Latest in addition is yvsk.

We do not have pencils to sharpen.  We only have sharpeners!

Yes, most have expressed satisfaction with what they got because we do not have a choice but to be satisfied.   What do you want us to tell you?   That we made a mistake?

BTW, we do not have to be in the bedroom with others to know what is going on.  We can observe from long range.  We have brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles and so on who are Nigerians living around us. We also have "other" races married to Nigerian men to make enough of a qualitative analysis.

You do not tell a deaf man that there is war in town!

Hahahahahahahaha. Now I know u are kidding. From ur posts, I kind of gather that u wont leave ur man for anyone else. Now U and Osisi have to help disabuse the minds of our single ladies. U are always gonna have problems in marriage (be it a black, white or green man), all U have to do is to work thru ur problems instead of crying wolf all the time.

U too are not perfect, u know and ur husband still dey hang around. So?

Oh boy, make you stick to the topic.

Why do Nigerian men treat other women from "other races" differently? Are you denying it? That you have not been guilty of such!

They recieve equal treatment. Anyway, as far as I know.

Uche2nna:


They recieve equal treatment. Anyway, as far as I know.

Okay! Who are we to dispute? I guess most men will say that--but women receive different vibes. I guess subject to interpretation. I wish we could conduct interview on "the" various subjects.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm!

almondjoy:

I guess subject to interpretation.

Right!!! Cos even the white women always ask same questions. "If I were of the same nationality with him , would he treat me like this" or something in that nature.


Mind games, huh?

Hmmmmmmmmm! Never saw it like that.

Well let them trade places with us then and see the other side.

Mindgames? Depends on who is doing the playin'!

We know who that is likely to be.

. . . . . . And where is "hotty" and the 5th coming?

Uche2nna:

Somewhat agree They are happy with the men they have married and like I said before , that is the only men they can rightfully pass judgement on in terms of marriage.
Apart from Leilah, most married women here have expressed satisfaction with what they got. Latest in addition is yvsk.

Do you expect regular users of Nairaland to come here and say,". . . . . .Nna,make I tell you the truth,my husband is sh*t!"

If Nigerian men are "bad",compared to who? For those living in America,would they switch with AA women and have AA male partners as husbands instead?Do they want Latino or Caucasian husbands?

Leilah did it

4 Play:



Do you expect regular users of Nairaland to come here and say,". . . . . .Nna,make I tell you the truth,my husband is sh*t!"

If Nigerian men are "bad",compared to who? For those living in America,would they switch with AA women and have[b] AA male partners[/b] as husbands instead?Do they want Latino or Caucasian husbands?

Thats fair enough.

By 4Play,
Do you expect regular users of Nairaland to come here and say,". . . . . .Nna,make I tell you the truth,my husband is sh*t!"   

If Nigerian men are "bad",compared to who? For those living in America,would they switch with AA women and have AA male partners as husbands instead?Do they want Latino or Caucasian husbands?
 

Instead of you guys correcting your evil ways, you rather dare your women to look elsewhere. So, many  Nigerian men treat their women like thrash because they feel that nobody else will want them or because they feel Naija women do not have the guts to look elsewhere? 21st century came with a lot of things you know and before you know it, you guys may be history. Update your game else,

By Uche2nna,
Right!!! Cos even the white women always ask same questions. "If I were of the same nationality with him , would he treat me like this" or something in that nature.


Mind games, huh?

Na waaaah, you must be a total bumplaya if both parties complain about you.

4 Play:



Do you expect regular users of Nairaland to come here and say,". . . . . .Nna,make I tell you the truth,my husband is sh*t!"

If Nigerian men are "bad",compared to who? For those living in America,would they switch with AA women and have AA male partners as husbands instead?Do they want Latino or Caucasian husbands?

Of course not.  We dare not come out and give you the shitty details. There is a lot of shit alright.   But hey, you learn to flush it. I personally can never switch places with any race. I have never dated a AA or a white dude--never plan to.  They really have nothing to offer me and I have nothing to offer them, sorry!  I do not think most Nigerian women will do that.  AA women want a change too.  I have not seen many "true born and bred" Nigerian females with AA dudes.  All the ones I know that were married to the AA dudes are ALL divorced!  Go figure!

----Like a said, you do not need to experience certain things for yourself--you can gain experience from others--no need to get the details. Nigerian men can do bad all by themselves and need no comparison, for the make enough case studies to warrant no basis of comparison--AT ALL!!! Just look around you, and you will understand perfectly well what they are all about. There is some comfort with sticking to your own kind. The same reason [b]MOST,[/b]if not ALL Nigerian men still go back home in their "twilight" years to settle down with "the authentic" Nigerian babe.  I have many uncles who have done that.

Most Nigerian men just need to get their acts together that's all and treat Nigerian women better that's all we are saying.  Their cultural and religious hangups just make it impossible to relate to them as boyfriends and spouses, most of the time. . . . . Period!

HottFunmi:

Na waaaah, you must be a total bumplaya if both parties complain about you.

It is called culture shock! A phase most go through. Especially if you are dating someone from another race or culture!

HottFunmi:

Na waaaah, you must be a total bumplaya if both parties complain about you.

Or maybe it is difficult to keep a woman happy, no matter what race. They always have shit to complain about.



And I am wondering why You are personalising the issue. Abeg replace that you with men

4 Play:



Do you expect regular users of Nairaland to come here and say,". . . . . .Nna,make I tell you the truth,my husband is sh*t!"

If Nigerian men are "bad",compared to who? For those living in America,would they switch with AA women and have AA male partners as husbands instead?Do they want Latino or Caucasian husbands?

If there's no guarantee that a marriage with a Nigerian man will last, then a naija girl might as well marry a non-Nigerian, imo.

When it even comes to naija girls anyway, a lot of naija men get unneccesarily picky, but on the other hand, they're not too particular when dating other nationalities. For their countrywomen most times, they'll want to perform exhaustive investigation and trace her lineage as far back as possible. Not to mention get hiccups at her sexual history. No such nitpicking when they marry a foreigner for either love or green card.

Not saying its a bad thing, but I just don't believe naija guys should have a monopoly on extra-cultural dating/marriage.

tpia:

If there's no guarantee that a marriage with a Nigerian man will last, then a naija girl might as well marry a non-Nigerian, imo.

When it even comes to naija girls anyway, a lot of naija men get unneccesarily picky, but on the other hand, they're not too particular when dating other nationalities. For their countrywomen most times, they'll want to perform exhaustive investigation and trace her lineage as far back as possible. Not to mention get hiccups at her sexual history. No such nitpicking when they marry a foreigner for either love or green card.

Not saying its a bad thing, but I just don't believe naija guys should have a monopoly on extra-cultural dating/marriage.

Is it only Nigerian women that that have hiccups in their sexual histories?   Nothing compared to the portholes in the Naija dudes chequered sexual histories either, child support payments with at least 2 different women.   And who are they having sex with if a may ask?  Not these same Nigerian dudes in the recycling plants whereever they live in?

I don't know about others, nothing really interests me in inter-cultural dating.  I don't think men naija guys have a monopoly on extra-cultural dating.  It is just that most Naija girls are just not interested/adventurous enough to dabble into such experiences.  I am not.  Can you blame them?  The success rates of marriages between naija babes and extra-cultural entities are dismal compared to those between the Naija dudes and their counterparts.  Only because, naija dudes are more resilient to that kind of whether.  And they must survive---you know what I mean?

almondjoy:

Is it only a Nigerian woman that as hiccups in their sexual histories? Nothing compared to the portholes in the Naija dudes chequered sexual histories either, child support payments with at least 2 different women. And who are they having sex with if a may ask? Not these same Nigerian dudes in the recycling plants whereever they live in?

And they must survive---you know what I mean?

****coughs******

@ almondjoy

Is it only a Nigerian woman that as hiccups in their sexual histories?    Nothing compared to the portholes in the Naija dudes chequered sexual histories either, child support payments with at least 2 different women

I wonder o.

but some of them mind so much when the woman is naija.

If she's not naija, all is forgiven in the spirit of love or green card.

I'm sure all the ones broadcasting their encounters with various types of females and female anatomy, will insist on finding a fresh young innocent soul when they want to marry.  Maybe the guys will even pretend they are virgins sef.

Uche2nna:

****coughs******

You know warrrrrrrrrrra mean?

tpia:

@ almondjoy

I wonder o.

but some of them mind so much when the woman is naija.

If she's not naija, all is forgiven in the spirit of love or green card.

I'm sure all the ones broadcasting their encounters with various types of females and female anatomy, will insist on finding a fresh young innocent soul when they want to marry. Maybe the guys will even pretend they are virgins sef.

Please don't mention that word "virgin". I am seriously allergic to it. I break out in hives.

_Sneezes!

Like 2 Naija dudes I know of personally over here both have been married 2ice with four kids from 2 different women under ages 14 respectively.

One has gone to Nigeria to "pay" bride price for one unsuspecting victim of a female over there. Little does she know she is coming over to have her income tax checks garnished every year for child support payments.

May God continue to help Naija single ladies!---------------------Amen!

Well, anyways, the naija girls are not as innocent as U are painting them to be.

Uche2nna:


Well, anyways, the naija girls are not as innocent

you no know b4? we're the sugar in your garri and the (-) in your bank accounts. what more could you guys want?

Uche2nna:




Well, anyways, the naija girls are not as innocent as You are painting them to be.

not saying they're innocent most times, but are they worse, is the question.

tpia:

not saying they're innocent most times, but are they worse, is the question.

Exactly. A Nigerian lady will never get away with 1/100th of what most Naija dudes get away with anywhere in this world and thanks to the all the members of the '"female" races who place them on such pedestals only to be treated like "poop"! All I can say is thank God I have escaped this mayhem of Naija relationships. You never know what you are going to end up with. It only gets worse. I can see a lot of Nigerians--both male and female remaining single for a very long time. Just too much psychological and emotional baggage!


_{Thank you father I say!}

I think we should have a school for naija guys where they'll learn the etiquette of how to treat women (Nigerian Queens ). As in, the way some of them treat their girlfriends ehnnnnn! It makes one wonder how they take such crap.

I'm crossing over to the other side as in becoming a nun if one more naija dude gives me unnecessary wahala.

If U cant stand Naija men, there are veritable alternatives.

Caucasians, Hispanics, AA, Asians , Jamaicans etc. Just take ur pick.

almondjoy:

Exactly. A Nigerian lady will never get away with 1/100th of what most Naija dudes get away with anywhere in this world and thanks to the all the members of the '"female" races who place them on such pedestals only to be treated like "poop"! All I can say is thank God I have escaped this mayhem of Naija relationships. You never know what you are going to end up with. It only gets worse. I can see a lot of Nigerians--both male and female remaining single for a very long time. Just too much psychological and emotional baggage!


_{Thank you father I say!}

I can see that you're not into naija man relationship. How do you feel about non naija treatment sister?