Idowuogbo:
P!ss off! Get lost!!!

ur madness is just starting. dont worry, i hv cure 4 it

free2ryhme:

guy we dey quarrel

No big bros. just leave me and that idiot.

realking: No big bros. just leave me and that idiot.

guy i no tie u before .. abi dem don chain you

free2ryhme:

guy i no tie u before .. abi dem don chain you

bros nawa 4 u. how u come dey talk like this?

realking: bros nawa 4 u. how u come dey talk like this?

no vex ooo

u can carry go ... jor ooooo

@ quarrel, e de do me nolstagia bt make una take am on a down low

passionate88: @ quarrel, e de do me nolstagia bt make una take am on a down low

u dey learn to talk

2sexy.net:
I have a friend who lost five years as well.... He had planned to marry. that was when she started her 'madness' and he spent thousands on this girl... he got her admission as well. I lost 2 years as well...


When you show so much care, that is when you get tossed away.

yeah bro, we have all lost years trying to maintain relationships built on nothing, i guess, we have all learnt our lesson and thus we should strive to be better individuals and gentlemen. So that these does not occur again.

passionate88: hiv positive

hiv cure positive

temi4fash:

I wish u luck ooo....

I hope she appreciate it ooo and she is not giving swit lie oo cos it culd be devastating....

she might appreciate it then she might not. You see, at the end of the day, i dont care anymore because have since moved on. But what is galling me is those 9 yrs and the vast opportunities thrown away,even the risks i took all for her because of faithfullness. How much can you buy 9yrs?

pretim: Am so hrt broken ryt nw am even shading tears,
wat have i done wrong dat i loved a guy, he hardly call me, i call him always, text him but no reply, he traveled without telling me wen he came bk he dnt wana see me

before dis guy became something i suffered wit him, i gave him my 6months salary to start a business, look @ hw he is paying me bk, he never buy anything for me, am so tired i need to brk up because i can't take it anymore God why me, or is it a crime dat am a gurl in love?

*Cries*

Hi Pretim
A big warm fuzzy hug for you.
Your plight is pitiful as you laid it out. But as we all know, there's never been a smooth ride from start to finish, you just got burnt and urs was a car crash.
There might have been signs at the start whc u may have chosen to ignore. ℓ̊ don't have all the details of the relationship to tell you dis is whr u got it wrong or sumtin.
You May have been destined as his destiny helper and he may not have been destined to be yours.
ℓ̊'ll advice that if you can get to talk to him, sit him down and cry your heart out to him, if he's destined for you sumtin may touch his heart. Bt if he feels and acts like you are disturbing his peace. Jst step outside, pick your two 'slippers' and dust away all of him frm yourself and move on.
Trust God, he has sumtin better for you in store.

Big Hug.
Welcome home.

What's with all these derailing

Must you carry your disagreement from other threads into this

@real king, must you now became the front man in the battle and drew anoda battle line. If you can't stick to your own advice, then better don't give it.cos you are a man doesn't mean you have to run ur mouth as well. Whosoever's tank is over full shud keep running her mouth like a broken tap. At a point, it will run dry.

@Carmelion pls do what you can to clean up this thread, we are beginning to have some unscrupulous elements or personalities derailing this thread. It totally uncalled for. Pls do sumtin, if it's to get them banned (best) it will be a good development.

free2ryhme:

u dey learn to talk

i dey learn to sing

jhydebaba: hiv cure positive

na new word b this o

ichidodo: she might appreciate it then she might not. You see, at the end of the day, i dont care anymore because have since moved on. But what is galling me is those 9 yrs and the vast opportunities thrown away,even the risks i took all for her because of faithfullness. How much can you buy 9yrs?

oh sowi.. tot u guys were still together..

EEya shit happens nau...

Just try open ur heart for luv again but these time take ur brain along..

Wish u luck bro.. she wont av been a wonderful wife if u had married her anyway, and its mostly she comes back begging....

Law of Karma....

passionate88: i dey learn to sing

oya nah blow whistle

@pretim,sorry to hear about how your man treated you even though,you did not tell us much about you guys.Everyone here has said it all,ichidodo and temi4fash.And as you can see this,whole investment issue is a two way traffic.Even the guys have had a bitter experience.

Well I believe you have learnt your lessons ,cos once bitten twice shy.

Am not against ladies helping their man but I want all the dolls here to know that their is a great disparity between a husband and a boyfriend/fiancee.
Especially the ladies who are financially ok.

Am sorry to say this ,but some men feed on women. Its a big disgrace to the male folks. You need to see them,very lazy set of dudes. Its a different case if the guy was struggling and then things fell apart.

I mean you can give him a helping hand,it can happen to anyone .

But no!,some men just don't want to work. Them full Abuja here,lol.
All they do is dress well,you won't suspect a thing ,and yes they have cars,obviously a trophy they got from their past relationship .They tour the whole town on daily basis looking for who to devour. Kai! you need to see the way these guys groom themselves. hmmm.....babes can't help but fall.You meet them today,thinking you met a human being,the next month he will execute his plan.They usually start from money to buy ticket to travel for bussiness or money to clear goods from the walf,Lmao!.They behave stranded and you know as a 'their woman',u gas help.


Its is a very big lie,all na wash!,just give him that money,2,3,4months,nothing has changed.He has spent that money and you dare not ask him about it ,or he will call it quit.Out of fake annoyance!,hahahhaaha.Babe ,you gas open this eyes

Before you assist that your boyfriend fianacially(in a huge way I mean),ask yourself these questions

1.How long have you guys dated?I mean you can't meet me today and tomorrow,you are requesting for money.What shorter way of convincing me ,you did not come for the money in the first place?

2.How has he assisted you financially in the past?

3.How deep have you guys gone?as in does any of his close friends or at least a family member know you?

4.What efforts is he making towards getting the money or is he relying solely on you?Is there proof of what kind of bussiness he was into before he became 'stranded'.

5.How often do you guys communicate before this money issue came up?If your relationship was healthy in terms of communication,he would not have travelled without letting you know.

If I ask myself these questions and stiil not feel comfortable with myself,then am sorry,I won't give that money. Unless my intention is not to get it back or at least expect his solidarity.

Pretim,I don't know how much you gave him but don't worry,more will come from where ever the money came in the first place. You shall not lack.

To the single ladies here,When it comes to relationships,whether you are in Lagos or not,Shine ya eyes wella.Use your head,I learnt mine the hard way.

The word'I love you'has so many sides.

^^^^
Most times there are always Cracks on the wall we just choice to ignore it..

deceiving ourselves no matter how perfect a pretender is dere are always the give a way signs if we carefully observe...


its gud to fall in love

its gud to b in a Right relationship..

But no matter wat u do Neva Forget to take ur Brain along with u...

Enjoy ur sunday dolls n teddy's

To the guys here,am really sorry about the kind of stories,I hear.@ Ichidodo,9 yrs?2sexy.net,5yrs?now this is serious.

Now I want to also tell the guys here,girlfriend and wife no be the same thing,lie lie.

I also want to let you into one secret. Some girls don't like DATING a man for so long.and yes if am to say the truth,I belong to that category.

Freaking 9yrs?,am so out. I mean why not make it official? Did you propose to those girls and they said no?Now I know you will say,you don't have money to get married but you can do the little you can,then you guys can discuss and hold on with kids. When things normalise a little ,you can turn to a family.

In my own opinion,guys should also ask themselves those questions I listed out for the ladies. It might help.

I know some guys wants someone that would toil with them but I have learnt that it is better to enter a relationship when you are ready,with someone who is also ready. Now ,you can't be ready and still wait 5-9 yrs.That a huge waste of time.

Besides I have learnt not to question some life events.In a relationship,men are the drivers,you are in control of the wheel.The direction of the relationship depends on you.Remember you are the one to propose?

However,If its not meant to be,its not meant to be. Que sera sera


Happy Sunday everyone,please be happy!

temi4fash:

oh sowi.. tot u guys were still together..

EEya shit happens nau...

Just try open ur heart for luv again but these time take ur brain along..

Wish u luck bro.. she wont av been a wonderful wife if u had married her anyway, and its mostly she comes back begging....

Law of Karma....

its in the past. What is in the past, stays there. I bear no grudges, hakuna matata.. Good Morning.

passionate88: na nw u knw wia im head dey? I bn try tel u bt u no wan hear. Na so sm gals dey do 4 real life dm go cm enta nl begin complain. U get luck say im no handle u

wetin i do you? The only thing you sabi na just to dey vex me

Idowuogbo:
U still screening? Na wa for u! U no some babes no get time for long thing, ease up!

Idowu, my kind is rare... I can assure u that. But Girls dont appreciate my kind. I no wizkid, swag-like guy oo. I am just as straight forward as I can be... you know my story Idowu abii u don forget ni? Shey na d 1 wey I do wey she come c me as mumu and ATM machine... But I thank God say life don better.

If I didnt control myself and thoughts, I would have had BP at a very young age. Did the guy she went out with marry her? she has been dumped a lot of times. She even told me she does not regret what she did with anyone, but she regret what she did to me.

I know my weak point, so dont blame me if I choose not to show too much affection.

I am not the selfish kind or one who claim what he is not. when someone ask for my help, I dont hesistate to give them but that girl really made me realise that being nice to girls in this country is the worse thing that can happen to most guys. Dont blame guys who are bad to girls. Experiences like mine is the reason for most action but I chose not to belong but rather prefer not to be cheap.

Not only to this girl; I also had similar experience with other girls. They are just lucky that I dont know how to decieve people or lie cos my conscience wouldnt let me.

2sexy.net, ur lastmessage caught my attention. In life, anytin can happen but d way we let tins affect us or change us is in our hands. Though I don't know wat lead to dis message buh I just hope to make u understand a point: it's not dat gurls ar wicked/heartless buh pipu r (both male or female). If naturally u r a philanthropist, den nobody shud change dat abt u. We all av bin tru hard times, I work wit d 90/10 rule wc says u r in charge of 90% of wat hapns to u in life, I try my best not to allow pipu affect me though it's hard. My point again: pls try continue to b exactly whu u wer bfor u met d gurl, she was just a bad experience to make u cautious of bad pipu. That doesnt mean u shud change, God bless.

Idowuogbo:
Keep sniffing d blackest part of my anuz u hia? Azz muncher!

@Idowuogbo

LAter, this one starts crying and complaining she cant find a husband, see the way she spits fire from her mouth. This is very unwomanly. Smh#

mobuch:

@Idowuogbo

LAter, this one starts crying and complaining she cant find a husband, see the way she spits fire from her mouth. This is very unwomanly. Smh#

Wots dis one saying?

Idowuogbo:
Wots dis one saying?

All am saying is you need to attend the school of etiquettes where they can teach you what to say and what not to say in public. Its a major criteria in getting a good husband.

virgin ice: 2sexy.net, ur lastmessage caught my attention. In life, anytin can happen but d way we let tins affect us or change us is in our hands. Though I don't know wat lead to dis message buh I just hope to make u understand a point: it's not dat gurls ar wicked/heartless buh pipu r (both male or female). If naturally u r a philanthropist, den nobody shud change dat abt u. We all av bin tru hard times, I work wit d 90/10 rule wc says u r in charge of 90% of wat hapns to u in life, I try my best not to allow pipu affect me though it's hard. My point again: pls try continue to b exactly whu u wer bfor u met d gurl, she was just a bad experience to make u cautious of bad pipu. That doesnt mean u shud change, God bless.

On point mama! Well said###


@2bobo

U hia wetin virgin-ice talk? Don't worry so much about what you eating, u focus more on what's eating you...

mobuch:

All am saying is you need to attend the school of etiquettes where they can teach you what to say and what not to say in public. Its a major criteria in getting a good husband.

I ain't single... So save it.

Btwn, Happy Sunday!!

Thanks... Its not as if I have changed, but just learnt to hide that part of me...

Trust me; when you are too nice to girls, they dont appreciate it. If you doubt me, I am willing to unearth series of threads where guys have been rubbished because they were too nice to their girls.

The complain is more from guys than girls...

I have not changed who I am just that I have learnt to be more sensitive...

As for my ex, she tried coming back, used every tactitcs available including se.x and e no work. At least that will make her no not all guys a s.ex crazy.

I do feel for her ooh cos her kind has no choice...

I am one person who love to give. I am not the type who will give a girl money because I am dating and also want se.x in return. Cos that is what I see people do. Funny enough, my ex felt its my Obligation to give her money SINCE we are dating... She never knew I was giving to help at that was why I could give without demanding se.x.

But life has taught her that my kind is very rare and hardly would she find someone that will give her money and not demand for se.x in return. She is currently paying the price...

They will deny it but ladies like you when u put them on suspence, when u dont give them attention, when hardly call...

Compared to when u call often, give attention, text, etc.

They will deny this and I expect such anyway. And if you doubt me, I will unearth a thread where they all sampled their opinions and the general view in that thread was they dont want a guy who is too nice to them or like brother.

It was when I didnt know my worth that I wanted to kill myself... But NOW, any girl who cant accept my kind can go to HELL.

They wont tell you but if you read their signs, you will know.

As for my ex, I will frustrate her psychologically and that is my only reason for keeping in touch...
When she has her daughter, she will learn to pass a good advice to her.

I call her witch for a reason cos I have never seen a girl as heartless as her.

virgin ice: 2sexy.net, ur lastmessage caught my attention. In life, anytin can happen but d way we let tins affect us or change us is in our hands. Though I don't know wat lead to dis message buh I just hope to make u understand a point: it's not dat gurls ar wicked/heartless buh pipu r (both male or female). If naturally u r a philanthropist, den nobody shud change dat abt u. We all av bin tru hard times, I work wit d 90/10 rule wc says u r in charge of 90% of wat hapns to u in life, I try my best not to allow pipu affect me though it's hard. My point again: pls try continue to b exactly whu u wer bfor u met d gurl, she was just a bad experience to make u cautious of bad pipu. That doesnt mean u shud change, God bless.

2sexy.net:
Thanks... Its not as if I have changed, but just learnt to hide that part of me...

Trust me; when you are too nice to girls, they dont appreciate it. If you doubt me, I am willing to unearth series of threads where guys have been rubbished because they were too nice to their girls.

The complain is more from guys than girls...

I have not changed who I am just that I have learnt to be more sensitive...

As for my ex, she tried coming back, used every tactitcs available including se.x and e no work. At least that will make her no not all guys a s.ex crazy.

I do feel for her ooh cos her kind has no choice...

I am one person who love to give. I am not the type who will give a girl money because I am dating and also want se.x in return. Cos that is what I see people do. Funny enough, my ex felt its my Obligation to give her money SINCE we are dating... She never knew I was giving to help at that was why I could give without demanding se.x.

But life has taught her that my kind is very rare and hardly would she find someone that will give her money and not demand for se.x in return. She is currently paying the price...

They will deny it but ladies like you when u put them on suspence, when u dont give them attention, when hardly call...

Compared to when u call often, give attention, text, etc.

They will deny this and I expect such anyway. And if you doubt me, I will unearth a thread where they all sampled their opinions and the general view in that thread was they dont want a guy who is too nice to them or like brother.

It was when I didnt know my worth that I wanted to kill myself... But NOW, any girl who cant accept my kind can go to HELL.

They wont tell you but if you read their signs, you will know.

As for my ex, I will frustrate her psychologically and that is my only reason for keeping in touch...
When she has her daughter, she will learn to pass a good advice to her.

I call her witch for a reason cos I have never seen a girl as heartless as her.

But y? If such frustration leads to suicide, will you seat dere and whisper d words "mission accomplished" to yourself? Enough already young man! Let it go! Let what is past flow away downstream.Let her b! Hian!!

mobuch:

@Idowuogbo

LAter, this one starts crying and complaining she cant find a husband, see the way she spits fire from her mouth. This is very unwomanly. Smh#

Shame.